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Have you tried everything, but you still can’t make sobriety stick? Or maybe you are sober, but you feel like there should be something more to your new sober life? There are many paths to getting sober, but whatever path you choose, quitting drinking is only the beginning. Tim has over a decade of sobriety and has gone through the journey from rehab to 12-step programs, to finally discovering his own path to recovery and happiness. He has transformed from the daily battle of trying to stay sober to learning to love himself and his life so much that he no longer needs to drink. In the Sober and Happy Podcast, you will learn how to discover yourself and blaze your own path, methods to help you along your journey to recovery, and motivation to help live a sober and happy life.
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When you stop drinking, it’s easy to expect a clean upward curve—sleep gets better, moods improve, life gets easier. But what really happens in those first 30 days often surprises people. It’s not about failure or doing it wrong. It’s about understanding what your body and mind are going through. In this episode, I walk through the first month of sobriety, week by week. We talk about the physical and emotional changes that can show up—from restless nights and sugar cravings to random anxiety...
Dry January is often framed as a test of willpower or a thirty-one-day challenge to get through. But for a lot of people, the hardest part is not avoiding alcohol. It is sitting with what shows up when alcohol is no longer there to do its usual job. In this episode, I talk about a different way to approach Dry January, not as a detox, a countdown, or something to endure until February, but as a simple and honest experiment. We explore why focusing on when the month ends often prevents real in...
As the year comes to a close, a lot of people in sobriety don’t know what to do with it. Part of you might feel proud of how far you’ve come. Another part might feel disappointed, stuck, or unsure if you’re doing this “right.” And for a lot of people, the easiest option is either to avoid looking back altogether or to beat yourself up for everything that didn’t go as planned. In this episode, I walk through a more honest and realistic way to review your year in sobriety. We talk about how to ...
Relapsing can make it feel like everything you worked for just disappeared. The progress, the confidence, the belief that this time was different — all of it can feel gone in an instant. But starting over doesn’t actually mean starting from zero. In this episode, I talk about what’s really going on when someone relapses, why it feels so discouraging, and how to move forward without repeating the same cycle again. We look at relapse not as a personal failure, but as information — something tha...
Healing the relationships we damaged during addiction is one of the hardest — and most important — parts of sobriety. In this episode, we break down what it really looks like to repair trust, make meaningful apologies, set healthy boundaries, and accept that not every relationship is meant to come with us into this new chapter. You’ll learn how to apologize without losing yourself, why some people still won’t trust the “new you” right away, how to protect your growth without becoming controll...
Why does getting sober feel so overwhelming—even before you take the first step? In this episode, we break down the hidden reasons your brain panics when you try to make a change. From the fear of losing a coping mechanism, to the identity you’ve carried for years, to the mental fatigue of suddenly having to rethink everything in your daily routine… there are real, understandable reasons the beginning feels so hard. We’ll talk about the “overwhelm trap,” identity lag, decision fatigue, and th...
Sobriety isn’t supposed to feel boring — but for a lot of people, it does. In this episode, we talk about why the spark disappears after you quit drinking, why that doesn’t mean anything is wrong, and how to start building real joy again in simple, honest ways. If you’re sober and life feels a little flat right now, this episode will help you get unstuck.
Heading into your first sober holiday season can feel overwhelming — loud rooms, old traditions, pushy relatives, and moments that catch you off guard. In this episode, we break down a simple plan to help you get through the holidays without drinking… and without feeling like you’re missing out on everything. You’ll learn how to prepare for tricky situations, respond confidently when someone offers you a drink, avoid unnecessary pressure, handle the emotional moments that come out of nowhere,...
In this episode, we dig into one of the most frustrating parts of early sobriety: when you’re doing everything right but still don’t feel better. If you’ve ever wondered whether your progress “counts” because you don’t feel different yet, this conversation is for you. You’ll learn why early recovery often makes emotions feel stronger — not because you’re failing, but because your brain and body are finally waking back up. We talk about why life can still feel messy without alcohol, why you so...
Sometimes in recovery, it feels like nothing’s changing. You’re doing the work — staying sober, showing up, trying to grow — but it still feels like you’re stuck in the same place. If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you. We’ll talk about why growth doesn’t always feel good while it’s happening, how to recognize the quiet progress you’ve been missing, and why the moments that feel hardest are often proof that you’re becoming stronger. You’ll also learn simple ways to see your own pro...
In sobriety, we spend so much time trying to stay humble that we forget the importance of feeling proud of who we’re becoming. In this episode, Tim explores how healthy pride — the kind built on honesty, consistency, and integrity — can help heal guilt, rebuild self-trust, and give real meaning to recovery. He shares personal stories about losing himself to false pride during addiction, and how quiet moments of growth in sobriety helped him finally rebuild respect for himself. Because recover...
One of the hardest parts about getting sober isn’t putting down the drink — it’s learning how to believe in yourself again. In this episode, Tim shares a raw and honest look at what it really means to rebuild self-trust in sobriety. From a story about going all-in on fitness while in rehab to recognizing the quiet ways we keep breaking promises to ourselves, this conversation digs deep into how trust is lost — and how we get it back. You’ll learn why motivation fades, why big goals often fail...
You quit drinking — you did the hard thing — but life still doesn’t feel the way you thought it would. Why does peace feel so uncomfortable? Why does it seem like, even in sobriety, you’re still trying to escape something? In this episode, Tim digs into one of the hardest — and most important — lessons in recovery: learning how to build a life that actually feels worth staying for. He shares how even years into sobriety, he found himself trapped in a new kind of cage — surrounded by people, y...
In this episode, I unpack a hard truth: you can’t solve a problem you don’t understand. We look beneath the surface of drinking to the real drivers—pain, fear, loneliness, and the beliefs we quietly adopt like “alcohol gives me confidence” or “I’m boring sober.” I share the story of my first real attempt to quit at twenty (and why I relapsed 30 days later), break down the “breadcrumb trail” that leads to relapse long before the first sip, and show how understanding—not willpower—c...
I’m back! After taking some time off from the podcast, I want to share openly about where I’ve been, what I learned, and what you can expect going forward. First off — no, I didn’t relapse. That’s often the first question when someone in recovery goes quiet, but alcohol hasn’t been part of my life for a long time now. What actually happened was burnout — so much stress that my body started showing symptoms that looked like a stroke. In this episode, I talk about: Why my body reacted so ...
After months of very hard reflection, I have made the tough decision that I need to take a break to breathe and refocus. This wasn't an easy decision—I've poured my heart into creating content that helps others navigate sobriety while discovering joy in everyday moments. But sometimes, we need to follow our own advice about balance and self-care. Thank you for being part of this journey and for understanding this break isn't necessarily goodbye, as I hope I can return with r...
Does the idea of "never drinking again" feel overwhelming or even terrifying? In this episode, we unpack why thinking about sobriety as a "forever" commitment creates anxiety, perfectionism, and fear—and how reframing your mindset can set you free. Learn practical techniques like time-chunking, shifting your language, and focusing on today rather than forever. You'll walk away feeling empowered, not trapped, and ready to embrace sobriety one manageable step at a time. ...
Are you focused only on how many days you've been sober? There's so much more to celebrate in recovery! In this episode, we explore why counting days is just the beginning of measuring your growth. Learn about the meaningful milestones that don't come with chips or coins – from rebuilding relationships to finding inner peace. Discover how celebrating these "invisible victories" can strengthen your recovery journey and help you recognize just how far you've truly come. Listen now to redefine w...
In this episode, we’re diving deep into the power of identity and how the way you see yourself shapes your recovery. We’ll talk about why continuing to call yourself an alcoholic may be reinforcing the very struggles you’re trying to escape. I’ll share insights from my own journey, including a life-changing realization I had at a Tony Robbins event, and why shifting your identity from "I am an alcoholic" to "I am someone who does not drink" can completely transform your sobriety. ...
Ever feel like you're white-knuckling your way through sobriety? In this powerful episode, we explore how mindfulness can transform your recovery journey from a daily struggle into a sustainable path forward. You'll discover why fighting cravings often backfires, how mindfulness actually rewires your brain to support recovery, and practical techniques you can start using today - even if meditation isn't your thing. Whether you're newly sober or years into recovery, this epis...
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