The Happiest Lives Podcast

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E169: Why Does Disappointment Shake Me So Much?

2026-10-0916:48

Why does disappointment affect me so deeply when life doesn’t go the way I hoped? Sometimes the hardest part of disappointment isn’t simply what happened. It’s the gap between the life you’re living and the picture you carried of how you thought things would be. Your marriage was supposed to feel different by now. Retirement was supposed to be more enjoyable. Your health, family, friendships, or future didn’t unfold quite the way you imagined. In this episode of the Why Don’t I Feel Secure? s...

E168: Who Gets to Tell Me Who I Am?

2026-10-0220:40

Why do other people’s opinions affect me so much when I know my identity is in Christ? You know God loves you. You know your identity is in Christ. But then your husband is frustrated, your adult child questions a decision, or someone you care about seems disappointed in you—and suddenly you’re questioning yourself. In the first episode of the Why Don’t I Feel Secure? series, Jill explores why there can be such a gap between what we know about our identity in Christ and what we experience in ...

E167: The Want Match

2026-09-2523:17

Have you ever wondered if you and your husband actually want the same thing, but you’re just going about it in completely different ways? In this final episode of When Love Comes With a Manual, Jill introduces something she calls a want match — the idea that two people can want completely different things on the surface and still be after the exact same fruit underneath. You want him to plan the date. He wants time together without the pressure of getting it right. You want a deep conversatio...

E166: When Desire Turns Into Demand

2026-09-1825:04

What do you do when you want something from your husband, but it starts to feel like you need it before you can be okay? In this episode of The Happiest Lives Podcast, Jill talks about the subtle shift that happens when a good desire turns into a demand. Desire is not the problem. It is human to want closeness, help, repair, affection, spiritual connection, and emotional safety in marriage. But when we start gripping those desires so tightly that our peace depends on our husband’s response, s...

E165: The Scorecard

2026-09-1120:17

Do you keep a mental list of everything you do that your husband doesn’t? This week we’re talking about something most of us do without even realizing it — keeping score. Not out loud. Not on paper. But silently, in the back of our minds, tracking who did what, who noticed what, and who’s carrying more. A scorecard usually starts with something small. A load of laundry. A forgotten appointment. A toilet paper roll that never gets replaced. But small things add up, and pretty soon you’re not j...

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