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Beyond Blind Blaming
Author: Kevin D St.Clergy
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What if the biggest thing holding you back... is something you can’t even see? Beyond Blind Blaming with Kevin D. St.Clergy dives into the hidden mindset blocks and patterns that keep high-achievers stuck. Each week, Kevin—author, mentor, and former Audiology Mastery host—talks with experts who’ve broken free and found purpose, power, and lasting success. If you're ready to stop blaming and start leading, this podcast is for you.
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What if the key to entrepreneurial breakthroughs isn’t working harder, but building a business and a life that actually work for your brain? Most of us chase productivity hacks, but what if we’re solving the wrong problem?Stephanie Scheller, known as the "ADHD event alchemist," is the founder of Grow Disrupt and internationally known for translating brain science into real-world support for entrepreneurs. A bestselling author, violinist, and creative producer, Stephanie has dedicated her career to reimagining business success for people who think differently.In this episode, Stephanie and Kevin St. Clergy unpack the traps of blind blaming, the power of neurodiversity, and how purposeful structure and self-awareness can help business owners thrive, without losing themselves in the grind.In this episode, Kevin and Stephanie will discuss:(03:47) How an ADHD event happened by accident(08:12) Why coaching isn’t Stephanie’s happy place(10:34) ADHD misconceptions in entrepreneurship(13:55) The hidden impact of hormones on ADHD(16:30) Improving your team communication strategy(20:24) Be your own number one fan(23:51) Breakthrough plus structure equals healthy growth(26:40) Disruptive marketing that actually connects(32:43) Why burnout recovery needs stillness(34:06) Commitment grows through real investment(37:54) Investing in meaningful connections(42:37) From overwhelm to order sprint(44:43) Do what actually works for youStephanie Scheller, “ADHD event alchemist”, is the founder of Grow Disrupt, a marketing and growth strategy firm helping businesses break through plateaus with data-driven insights and bold experimentation. She empowers leaders to challenge conventional thinking, align strategy with execution, and drive sustainable, scalable growth in competitive markets.Connect with Stephanie:Grow Disrupt: https://www.growdisrupt.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephaniescheller/ Resources Mentioned:Marketing That Works by Stephanie Scheller: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CQRWX1PG/ Purple Cow by Seth Godin: https://www.amazon.com/dp/014101640XTo Find a Nameless Fae by AJ Lancaster: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GNN25C3GFind Your Yellow Tux by Jesse Cole: https://www.amazon.com/dp/161961846X/ Essentialism by Greg McKeown: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0804137404/ From Stuck to Breakthrough:Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge.This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships.Sign up today at blindblaming.com.
What if your mind’s greatest obstacles aren’t real threats, but runaway thoughts you never chose? And what if reclaiming your focus could rewire your life?Neuroscientist and entrepreneur Ariel Garten has spent decades translating the mysteries of the brain into practical tools for calm, focus, and well-being. As co-founder of Muse, the pioneering brain-sensing headband, she’s at the intersection of neuroscience, mindfulness, and technology, helping hundreds of thousands train their minds, rather than be controlled by them.Ariel joins Kevin St. Clergy to unpack why meditation works, how real-time neurofeedback demystifies calm, and practical ways to stop blind blaming and start training your brain for resilience and peace.In this episode, Kevin and Ariel will discuss:(00:00) Introduction(03:40) Creating Muse for meditation(07:58) Sleep tips, caffeine and mindfulness(10:12) Amygdala scanning for real or imaginary danger(14:18) How phone-free nights improve sleep(19:23) Meditation breakthroughs with Muse(25:48) Meditation meets wearable technology(27:52) Prioritize what matters(33:05) Shifting from a fixed mindset(33:45) Embracing change and adaptability(37:57) Electrical signals in the bodyAriel Garten is a neuroscientist, psychotherapist, and tech entrepreneur best known as the co-founder of Muse, the brain-sensing headband that brings real-time meditation feedback to millions. Blending science, design, and mindfulness, she helps people train their brains, improve focus, and build healthier relationships with stress and performance.Connect with Ariel:Muse: https://choosemuse.com/Ariel’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ariels_musings/ Resources Mentioned:Atomic Habits by James Clear: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0735211299How to Change by Katy Milkman: https://www.amazon.com/dp/059308375X/The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg: https://www.amazon.com/dp/081298160X From Stuck to Breakthrough:Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge.This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships.Sign up today at blindblaming.com.
Erik Huberman learned firsthand that blaming external forces can blind leaders to the truth, and sometimes sink a company for good.As founder and CEO of Hawke Media, Erik has built one of America’s fastest-growing marketing consultancies, scaling thousands of brands and pioneering data-driven strategies for lasting growth. He’s also the author of The HAWK Method, with insights featured in Forbes and Entrepreneur.In this episode, Erik joins Kevin St. Clergy to reveal how uncovering hidden challenges, taking ownership, and making bold decisions drive real-world results. Expect hard lessons, practical frameworks, and a refreshingly honest take on what separates companies that thrive from those that fail.In this episode, Kevin and Erik will discuss:(00:00) Introduction(04:00) Marketing struggles and agency failures(06:56) Distilling marketing into public speaking(11:42) Facebook ads performance decline(15:58) Building employee confidence(16:46) Emotional AI monitoring clients(21:12) Gen Z work ethic and balance(25:54) Resilience in business adversity(27:59) Leadership and financial resilience(31:32) Transforming workplace culture(34:24) Building a high-performance culture(37:01) Environment shapes community dynamics(40:31) Mental performance and therapy insightsErik Huberman is the founder and CEO of Hawke Media, a leading US marketing consultancy that’s helped thousands of brands scale with strategic, data-driven solutions. A serial entrepreneur, bestselling author of The Hawke Method and sought-after speaker, he’s been recognised on Forbes 30 Under 30 and shaped modern digital marketing practices.Connect with Erik:Erik’s Website: https://erikhuberman.com/ Erik’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/erikhuberman/Erik’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/erikhuberman/ Resources Mentioned:The Hawke Method by Erik Huberman: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1631957015From Stuck to Breakthrough:Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge.This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships.Sign up today at blindblaming.com.
What if you could build a powerful brand not by chasing big media hits, but by consistently lighting “a lot of little fires”?Karen Leland, branding and marketing strategist, author, and CEO of Sterling Marketing Group, is Kevin St. Clergy’s guest this week. With over 15 years of guiding Fortune 500 companies and entrepreneurs, her work bridges the gap between business systems and authentic brand presence.Together, they unpack how branding has shifted from quick sprints to enduring marathons, where targeted messaging, ongoing self-audit, and overcoming blind spots – not drunk marketing or ego – are key to staying relevant and impactful.In this episode, Kevin and Karen will discuss:(00:00) Introduction(03:43) Journey to branding and marketing(08:37) Starting many fires persistently(10:58) Targeted marketing beats broad exposure(15:10) Personal branding beyond the self(19:09) Stop reactive drunk marketing(22:20) Thought leadership requires substance(25:56) Revitalizing a construction brand(28:02) Navigating branding challenges today(30:46) Why the problem is your culture(37:47) Key branding and marketing insightsKaren Leland is president of Sterling Consulting Group, a branding and customer service expert with over 25 years of experience helping leaders and teams excel. She’s the Brand Mapping Strategy, and a respected keynote speaker and consultant on business communication and service culture.Connect with Karen:Karen’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karentiberleland/Sterling Consulting Group: https://sterlingmarketinggroup.com/Resources Mentioned:The Brand Mapping Strategy by Karen Leland: https://www.amazon.com/dp/159918589XJoel Barker’s Paradigm Paralysis: https://jeffshore.com/2010/01/paradigm-paralysis/From Stuck to Breakthrough:Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge.This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships.Sign up today at blindblaming.com.
Armando Pantoja, known as the Tall Guy Tycoon, reveals why persistence, not perfection, is the secret ingredient tech entrepreneurs and investors often overlook.With a deep background at the cutting edge of fintech, blockchain, and artificial intelligence, Armando blends street-level financial wisdom with futuristic insights. He’s a multi-company founder and celebrated voice who’s not afraid to disrupt business-as-usual thinking, guiding both individuals and enterprises toward long-term success in modern finance.In this episode, Armando joins Kevin St. Clergy to bust myths about cryptocurrency, demystify the realities of AI and blockchain, and reveal the real blind spots that hold people back – from compounding returns to the dangers of unchecked ego.In this episode, Kevin and Armando will discuss:(00:00) Introduction(06:35) Persistence over talent(07:57) Redefining failure as learning(10:34) Power of compounding explained(16:08) Ego greed and financial collapse(20:23) Quantum computing for food logistics(21:25) Quantum computers revolutionize predictions(23:48) Wrap-up and contact informationArmando Pantoja is a US-based tech entrepreneur, fintech expert, and bestselling author of The Strategic Millionaire. Known as “Tall Guy Tycoon,” he blends software engineering, blockchain and financial education to help audiences build strategic wealth. A TEDx speaker and recognized innovator, he inspires through insights on crypto, investing and financial literacy.Connect with Armando:Armando’s Website: https://www.whoistallguytycoon.com/index.html Armando’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tallguytycoon/Armando’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tallguytycoon/ Resources Mentioned:The Strategic Millionaire by Armando Pantoja: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BZJY36V2 From Stuck to Breakthrough:Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge.This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships.Sign up today at blindblaming.com.
Ever wondered why your toughest negotiations often start long before you enter the room? What if the real battle isn’t with others, but the stories you tell yourself?Alex Carter is a world-renowned negotiation expert, clinical professor at Columbia Law School, and bestselling author of "Ask for More." Her work with the United Nations, global leaders, and Fortune 500 companies has shaped how thousands approach both business and everyday conversations, showing negotiation is a daily practice rooted in self-awareness and advocacy.In this episode, Alex breaks down the hidden traps of blame, the role of self-reflection, and how asking better questions – of yourself and others – can transform conflict into partnership and unlock real change.In this episode, Kevin and Aex will discuss:(00:00) Negotiation and knowing your value(03:23) Empowering others through integrity(06:40) Asking better questions without blame(12:43) Asking what instead of why(14:39) Preventing conflict with negotiation(18:59) Rethinking how sales really works(22:06) Shifting from blame to collaboration(26:20) Winning beyond the finish line(27:13) Building success through partnership(30:41) Sales as problem solving through connection(34:42) Walking through life’s challengesAlex Carter is a Columbia Law School professor and director of its Mediation Clinic, and the Wall Street Journal bestselling author of “Ask For More”. A leading negotiation expert, she trains organisations worldwide, advises public institutions, and speaks widely on negotiation, equity, and leadership. Her TEDx talk has reached hundreds of thousands globally.Connect with Alex:Alex’s Website: https://alexcarterasks.com/ Alex’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrabcarter/ Alex’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexandrabcarter Resources Mentioned:Ask For More by Alex Carter: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1982130482 From Stuck to Breakthrough:Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge.This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships.Sign up today at blindblaming.com.
Will AI help your business grow or quietly undermine your culture? In this episode, visionary entrepreneur David DeWolf reveals why leaders can’t afford to sit back and “let AI happen.” As companies rush to automate, the real competitive advantage isn’t just better technology – it’s stronger leadership, clearer communication, and a culture built for change.David is the Founder and CEO of Knownwell, an AI-powered CRM helping organizations build smarter, more human-centred relationships. With decades of experience in digital transformation, leadership, and scaling high-performance teams, David brings a rare blend of technical insight and real-world business wisdom.Together, David and Kevin St. Clergy explore how to avoid the trap of “blind blaming,” why extreme ownership is the fastest path to growth, and how intentional culture turns disruption into opportunity.If you’re a founder, executive, or team leader navigating AI, leadership, and the future of work, this conversation will change how you think about building a business that lasts.In this episode, Kevin and David will discuss:(04:11) Elevating work through AI(07:41) Scaling leadership through reinvention(10:25) Reflecting on leadership accountability(15:16) Leadership reflection and accountability(20:03) Dignity in leadership decisions(22:58) Prioritise team investment strategy(26:30) Morning routine shapes mindset(31:39) Keys to effective leadership(35:09) Empathy unlocks leadership potential(36:11) Proactive performance review framework(44:10) The value of mentorshipDavid DeWolf is a veteran entrepreneur, bestselling author, and founder of Knownwell, an AI-powered CRM redefining how relationships drive growth. With decades of leadership across software, investing, and ministry, David helps purpose-driven leaders build businesses that scale with clarity, trust, and long-term impact.Connect with David:Knownwell: https://knownwell.com/ David’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ddewolf/ David’s Website: https://daviddewolf.com/ Resources Mentioned:The Five Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0787960756 AI Knowhow Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/4umjv0k2QPRUibC2zwzPjW The Leadership Secrets of Santa Claus by Eric Harvey: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1492632694 From Stuck to Breakthrough:Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge.This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships.Sign up today at blindblaming.com.
Carla Howard spent years navigating corporate change, and now she’s leading others through the maze of self-doubt, tough negotiations, and career transitions on her own terms.As a mentor, strategic change leader, and confidence-builder, Carla empowers speakers to ditch limiting beliefs, build an unshakable foundation, and advocate for themselves in the marketplace. Her toolkit: clarity, bold action, and mindset shifts.In this episode, Carla joins Kevin St. Clergy to unpack the hidden traps speakers face – from overcoming imposter syndrome and blind blaming, to mastering the art of negotiation, niching down for impact, and becoming truly indispensable on any stage.In this episode, Kevin and Carla will discuss:(01:12) Introducing Carla Howard(03:47) How speakers really get paid(08:06) Turning speaking into a profession(10:00) Overcoming nerves on stage(14:31) Finding the right conferences for your niche(17:14) Negotiating fees and adding more value(20:23) How to get paid from the stage(23:21) Focusing on what the audience actually needs(27:35) Habits of proactive event speakers(30:26) Promoting events before and after they run(33:00) Simple ways to keep an audience engaged(37:46) Why mistakes fuel real growthCarla Howard is a sought-after speaker, coach, and communication strategist who helps leaders and entrepreneurs get paid for their expertise. With decades of experience on stages and in boardrooms, she teaches how to own your voice, deliver real value, and turn speaking into a profitable, impact-driven career.Connect with Carla:The Speakers Connection: https://thespeakersconnection.com/Carla’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/changestrategist/ From Stuck to Breakthrough:Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge.This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships.Sign up today at blindblaming.com.
What if the biggest obstacle to wealth isn’t external, but the story you tell yourself? Sunil Tulsiani was once a Toronto police detective who doubted he could write a single paragraph. Now he’s a seven-time bestselling author, high-profile real estate investor, and business mentor.Founder of the Private Investment Club, Canada’s largest real estate investment group, Sunil has empowered thousands to rewrite their futures, building wealth and confidence through strategic deals and a no-excuses mindset. His journey from working at gas stations to partnering with legends like Tony Robbins and Robert Kiyosaki inspires people to go beyond self-imposed limitations.Kevin St. Clergy and Sunil dig into the vital role of mindset, and practical steps for anyone, regardless of background, to unlock financial independence.In this episode, Kevin and Sunil will discuss:(04:07) How mindset drives action(09:19) Why you need a mentor(12:48) Building a real estate business(15:52) Journey from struggle to privilege(18:58) Overcoming challenges and setbacks(21:43) Lessons in growth and accountability(24:08) Real estate wealth from no money(27:30) Benefits of real estate wholesaling(32:22) Property investment and partnerships(35:44) Importance of having a mentor(39:22) Proximity, coaching, growth strategies(42:52) Russell brunson's strangest secretSunil Tulsiani is a global leadership coach, bestselling author, and founder of the Private Wealth Mastery Program. Known as “The Wealthy Life Mentor,” he helps entrepreneurs and executives align purpose, prosperity, and performance – guiding high achievers to build wealth, legacy, and a deeply fulfilling life.Connect with Sunil:Professional Investors Club: https://professionalinvestorsclub.com/ Sunil’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/suniltulsianiSunil’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/suniltulsianiofficial/ Sunil’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/suniltulsiani/ Resources Mentioned:ACHIEVE by Sunil Tulsiani and Robert Allen: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1628651385 Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B001WYVB7O/ Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07QPQ8WBL/ Cash Flow Quadrant by Robert Kiyosaki: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B009PSK0RG Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000XJNDVQ/The Strangest Secret by Earl Nightingale: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00OH7DRT8/ From Stuck to Breakthrough:Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge.This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships.Sign up today at blindblaming.com.
For singer-songwriter Mandy Harvey, losing her hearing at 18 could have meant an ending – but instead, it became the start of her most powerful story.An acclaimed musician, author, and motivational speaker, Mandy has inspired millions through her performances and her resilience, including her unforgettable run on America's Got Talent. With a unique journey marked by setbacks, reinvention, and grit, she shows what’s possible when adversity is met with unwavering hope.In this episode, Mandy unpacks separating dreams from self-worth, overcoming “dream thieves,” embracing risk, and discovering strength in vulnerability.In this episode, Kevin and Mandy will discuss:(03:15) Finding identity through music(07:18) Growth beyond cancel culture(12:24) Pursuing dreams through resilience(13:35) Embracing growth through challenges(19:11) Isolation and the deaf experience(21:54) Dealing with cyberbullying insights(25:57) No barriers inspire songwriting(28:12) Overcoming fear to create(31:26) Pursuing dreams embraces change(34:35) Overcoming fear through performance(37:49) Creating music fuels my soul(43:31) Gratitude for caring audiologists(46:07) Overcoming doubt and fearMandy Harvey is a deaf singer-songwriter, speaker, and finalist on America’s Got Talent. After losing her hearing, she rebuilt her relationship with music through vibration and muscle memory. Today, she inspires audiences worldwide with her resilience, creativity, and message that limitations don’t define potential.Connect with Mandy:Mandy’s Website: https://mandyharveymusic.com/Mandy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mandyharvey/Mandy’s Music: https://open.spotify.com/artist/15BFYS3S38ABXsEs8AVrXL?si=bLrHJwXNQ4ukllZX1OITow&nd=1&dlsi=799c1e5b3ebe47ad Resources Mentioned:‘Sensing the Rhythm’ by Mandy Harvey: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1501172255From Stuck to Breakthrough:Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge.This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships.Sign up today at blindblaming.com.
Legendary road manager turned marketing maverick Craig Duswalt knows firsthand that playing it safe can leave you invisible – even if you’re brilliant.After touring with Guns N’ Roses and Air Supply, Craig Duswalt infused his backstage wisdom into the world of entrepreneurship, helping business owners and speakers break free from bland branding. His Rockstar approach has made him a sought-after coach and event leader.In this episode, Craig Duswalt joins Kevin St. Clergy to explore what it really takes to stand out, the myths that keep entrepreneurs stuck, and why making daring decisions is the ultimate power move.In this episode, Kevin and Craig will discuss:(00:00) From touring to rock-star marketing(05:51) Interactive branding through performance(09:23) Rock stars and keynote icons(13:00) Accepting the worst-case scenario(13:53) Patience and perseverance pay off(19:21) Decisions define leadership(21:46) Decision-making and mastermind success(24:53) Maximizing coaching and mastermind value(27:46) Storytelling enhances marketing impact(31:25) Personalizing AI content creation(39:42) Breaking into the music industry(46:37) Mindset shapes success(47:40) Wrestling with self-esteem issues(50:33) The fly swatter success storyCraig Duswalt is a keynote speaker, leadership coach, and former tour manager for Guns N’ Roses. Drawing on decades of real-world experience, he helps leaders and teams build discipline, accountability, and high-performance habits through practical, no-nonsense lessons that translate directly into results.Connect with Craig:Craig on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/craigduswaltCraig’s Website: https://www.craigduswalt.com/Rockstar Marketing Speaker Website: https://rockstarmarketingspeaker.com/ From Stuck to Breakthrough:Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge.This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships.Sign up today at blindblaming.com.
Too often, the story you’re telling yourself is the very thing holding you back.Personal brand strategist and Built to Impact CEO Maya Elious empowers high-achieving women to get radically clear on their core values, uncover their “why,” and turn expertise into meaningful, profitable work. Featured on stages nationwide, she’s a force for clarity, confidence, and alignment.In this episode, Maya Elious joins Kevin St. Clergy to share actionable frameworks for building your brand, breaking mental blocks, and charging your worth… so you can finally step into influence without apology.In this episode, Kevin and Maya will discuss:(05:54) Personal branding clarified and simplified(08:25) Passion as a blend of what you love and what you hate(12:09) Stop solving the wrong problem(19:22) Align offers with client desires(23:24) Identity and foundational values(24:23) Decisions guided by core values(29:31) Transformative success through value recognition(31:57) Crafting authentic personal stories(36:13) Investing in growth and learning(37:45) Learning from successMaya Elious is a brand strategist and messaging expert who helps founders and businesses turn clarity into commercial growth. She specialises in positioning, audience psychology, and building brands that convert attention into revenue – without gimmicks or fluff.Connect with Maya:Maya on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mayaelious/Maya’s Website: https://www.mayaelious.com/ Resources Mentioned:‘The Mountain Is You’ by Brianna Wiest: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1949759229From Stuck to Breakthrough:Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge.This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships.Sign up today at blindblaming.com.
What really holds entrepreneurs back, and how some turn setbacks into massive success? The secret isn’t hustling harder, but learning to say no and pivot with purpose.Meet Feras Alhlou, a seasoned entrepreneur, author, and co-founder of Epsilon Technologies, who’s mastered the art of strategic focus. From an unexpected layoff to leading groundbreaking data strategies and selling his company, Feras now dedicates his time to mentoring founders and sharing practical frameworks for building sustainable businesses.Feras joins host Kevin St. Clergy to reveal lessons on overcoming blind spots, harnessing the power of analytics, and why true growth happens when you stop blind blaming.In this episode, Kevin and Feras will discuss:(05:39) How marketing strategies really evolve(09:01) Why focus matters more than revenue(11:49) Leadership means giving credit and reflecting(14:22) The real best time to start a business(17:46) Why market research is non-negotiable(20:18) Rethinking expectations and blame(26:08) Why entrepreneurship takes time and commitment(29:35) Taking care of your people(32:01) A transparent profit-sharing strategy(35:03) How transparency shapes better business decisions(39:12) Balancing skills while building your network(41:14) The lifelong journey of learning and masteryFeras Alhlou has built and sold companies in Silicon Valley and globally, generating $65M in sales and an eight-figure exit. Now a mentor and advisor, he helps entrepreneurs make informed decisions at every stage, from idea to exit, while supporting nonprofits, youth development, and conflict-resilient leadership.Connect with Feras:Start Up With Feras on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StartUpWithFerasStart Up With Feras Website: https://www.startupwithferas.com/ Start Up With Feras Newsletter: https://www.startupwithferas.com/black-belt-startup-newsletter/ Feras on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ferasalhlou/ Resources Mentioned:‘Google Analytics Breakthrough’ by Feras Alhlou: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1119144019‘Good to Great’ by Jim Collins: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0066620996/ ‘New Happy’ by Stephanie Harrison: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0593541383/ From Stuck to Breakthrough:Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge.This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships.Sign up today at blindblaming.com.
Is your inbox a graveyard of unwanted messages, or the secret weapon your business has been ignoring? What if mastering email was the missing link between stagnation and breakthrough sales?Liz Willits, a top email marketing strategist, copywriter, and entrepreneur, has helped everyone from scrappy startups to multi-billion-dollar enterprises turn overlooked emails into powerful engagement and revenue drivers. Her career spans scaling teams at AWeber and consulting industry leaders on building brand loyalty through words that actually convert.In this episode, Liz Willits breaks down blind spots holding businesses back: myths about deliverability, the art of list-cleaning, why buying email lists is a losing game, and actionable steps for turning subscribers into lifelong customers.In this episode, Kevin and Liz will discuss:(04:48) Customer connection versus corporate growth(08:40) Hidden challenges in email deliverability(11:55) Why unsubscribing helps emails(13:52) Typos and unexpected reactions(16:22) A B testing to minimise risk(19:33) Optimise email lists for engagement(24:27) Trust the experts in marketing(28:33) Buying email lists fails(29:27) Why purchasing email lists backfires(32:51) Effective email frequency strategy(37:05) Podcast resources and farewellLiz Willits is a marketing strategist and email expert known for helping brands build trust, boost engagement, and convert through smarter messaging. With decades of experience across digital marketing, list growth, and customer psychology, she helps businesses create email strategies that connect and perform.Connect with Liz:Liz’s Website: https://lizwillits.com/Liz’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/liz-willits/Liz’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lizwillits Liz’s Email: me@lizwillits.comResources Mentioned:Liz’s Free Guide – How to Get Benchmark-Busting Email Open Rates: https://lizwillits.com/open-rate-guide/ From Stuck to Breakthrough:Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge.This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships.Sign up today at blindblaming.com.
Most entrepreneurs spend years trapped by hidden beliefs, only to discover their biggest blind spots are right under their noses.For Evan Charmichael, best-selling author, global speaker, and YouTube pioneer, inspiring belief isn’t a slogan; it’s a mission forged in the fires of real struggle. From selling his first biotech startup at age 22 to building one of the world’s largest entrepreneur communities, he’s lived the cycles of doubt and reinvention.On this episode, Evan Charmichael sits down with Kevin St. Clergy to reveal how blind blaming keeps us from serving others, why growth is impossible without outside perspective, and the practical steps to break out of old patterns to step into meaningful impact.In this episode, Kevin and Evan will discuss:(02:39) Evan’s background(06:56) Charge more, clarify offerings (10:42) Finding purpose beyond success (14:13) Embrace growth through imperfection (17:26) Purpose comes from pain (21:51) Expanding perspectives through coaching (24:15) Advice on belief and asking (25:29) Closing thoughts and resourcesEvan Carmichael is an entrepreneur, author and keynote speaker who spends his life helping entrepreneurs succeed. At 19, he co-founded and later sold a biotech software company, and by 22, he was raising venture capital for startups. Since then, he’s built a popular personal-growth and business brand, running a widely followed YouTube channel, writing books, and speaking globally, all rooted in his mission to make self-belief “automatic.”Connect with Evan:Evan’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EvanCarmichael Evan’s Website: https://believe.evancarmichael.com/homepage Resources Mentioned:Built To Serve by Evan Charmichael: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1642934917From Stuck to Breakthrough:Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge.This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships.Sign up today at blindblaming.com.
What if the biggest obstacle in your life isn’t what you think it is? Sometimes, the fears and “hidden truths” holding us back are tucked deep inside, only revealed when we’re willing to look beyond our inner monologue.Elizabeth McCormick knows this firsthand. A former US Army Black Hawk helicopter pilot turned bestselling author and keynote speaker, she’s spent years translating high-stakes lessons from military command to everyday leadership and resilience.Elizabeth joins Kevin St. Clergy to trace the surprising power of awareness – how blind spots stall growth, why fear (of success or failure) quietly rules our lives, and the practical, no-nonsense ways to reclaim your story and truly lead from within.In this episode, Kevin and Elizabeth will discuss:(04:40) “My helicopter, my command”(08:50) Overcoming fear to find purpose(10:48) Fear of success vs failure(15:07) Corporate leadership vs military training(16:31) Personal leadership and awareness(21:02) Testing content like comedians(23:37) Soft selling at events(28:41) Testing stories through speaking(30:45) Ethical publishing for new authors(32:45) Empowerment through audience feedback(36:17) Engaging the audience with key phrasesElizabeth McCormick is a former U.S. Army Black Hawk helicopter pilot turned award-winning leadership speaker and author. Drawing on high-pressure military experience, she teaches leaders how to perform under pressure, communicate clearly and build strong teams. A sought-after keynote speaker, she is known for translating aviation lessons into practical strategies for business and personal success.Connect with Elizabeth:Elizabeth’s Website: https://yourinspirationalspeaker.com/Elizabeth’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pilotspeaker/ Resources Mentioned:The P.I.L.O.T. Method by Elizabeth McCormick: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1629030082Bookability Factor by Elizabeth McCormick:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07D2M5H3VFrom Stuck to Breakthrough:Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge.This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships.Sign up today at blindblaming.com.
What if chasing traditional success is actually holding you back from real fulfillment? Elyse Archer hit all the markers: top sales, a dream house, a picture-perfect life, yet found herself anxious, empty, and stuck. It took hitting a personal crossroads to realize that true transformation starts with rewriting your own story.As a sought-after sales and business mindset coach, Elyse Archer guides entrepreneurs and high performers to master their inner game, build authentic brands, and shift their relationship with money. She’s the founder of Supersize Life and a dynamic voice in the growth space.In this episode, Elyse Archer joins Kevin St. Clergy for a candid conversation about breaking free from self-imposed limitations, selling from wholeness, and the pivotal power of living a life true to yourself – not one defined by others’ expectations.In this episode, Kevin and Elyse will discuss:(04:21) Embracing change and growth(09:18) Redefining success and fulfillment(10:55) Aligning mindset for wealth(16:00) Transformational power of inner work(19:25) Breaking barriers and embracing success(21:07) Trust intuition over opinions(25:55) Soul's calling and transformation(29:50) Awareness and embracing growth(33:05) Transforming through positive identity(36:54) Inner child work transformation(38:49) Own your success confidently(42:30) How Elyse 10X’d her growth in six weeksElyse Archer is the founder of Superhuman Selling and She Sells, helping entrepreneurs and sales professionals rethink how they sell and grow their income. A Salesforce Top Influencer featured in Forbes and Inc, she teaches clients to sell using their natural strengths while building wealth. Elyse is an international keynote speaker and host of She Sells Radio, sharing insights from high-performing female entrepreneurs and sales leaders.Connect with Elyse:Elyse’s Website: https://elysearcher.com/ Elyse’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elysearcherSuper Human Selling Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/34yp0GfjX1ERkUhKyR8zClShe Sells: https://shesellsremote.com/Superhuman Selling: Resources Mentioned:The Top Five Regrets of the Dying by Bronnie Ware: https://www.amazon.com/dp/140194065X Amberly Lago: https://amberlylago.com/ From Stuck to Breakthrough:Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge.This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships.Sign up today at blindblaming.com.
Derek Sivers once believed success meant scaling bigger and moving faster. Then he built CD Baby, sold it, and gave the proceeds away – not because he had to, but because he realised enough was already enough.As a writer, entrepreneur and modern business philosopher, Derek has spent years stripping life and business down to their essentials. What remains when you remove ego, growth for growth’s sake, and societal expectation? Clarity. Freedom. The space to choose.In this conversation, Derek joins Kevin St. Clergy to explore why redefining success starts with questioning the stories we've been told. They uncover the cost of distraction, the power of radical focus, and how letting go (not adding more) can lead to bigger breakthroughs.In this episode, Kevin and Derek will discuss:(03:17) Accidental entrepreneurial journey(07:27) Odometer metaphor and purpose(11:31) Turning blame into empowerment(13:36) Control what you can(17:24) Making musicians happy as success(20:38) Card table vs glamorous booths(26:03) Prioritise focus over distraction(27:15) Start with why for happiness(31:20) Stop over-quoting and say it simply(34:26) What truly makes you happy(38:36) Think long-term for longevity(40:01) Broaden identity and embrace growthDerek Sivers is an entrepreneur, writer, and former musician best known for founding CD Baby and donating its multimillion-dollar proceeds to charity. A modern business thinker, he challenges conventional wisdom and advocates for simplicity, intentional living, and purpose-driven work through his bestselling books and global talks.Connect with Derek:Derek’s Website: https://sive.rs/ Resources Mentioned:Can Negotiate Anything by Herb Cohen: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0553281097 Grit by Angela Duckworth: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1501111116/ How To Change by Angela Duckworth: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08LQZDDDS/ New Happy by Stephanie Harrison: https://www.amazon.com/dp/139872212XStumbling on Happiness by Daniel Gilbert: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1400077427/Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0735211736/Outlive by Peter Attia: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0593236599 Anything You Want by Derek Sivers: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1991153317/ From Stuck to Breakthrough:Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge.This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships.Sign up today at blindblaming.com.
We don’t get stuck because we lack skill; we get stuck because we silence ourselves. Elaine Lin Hering once believed staying quiet kept the peace. But silence has a cost: it shapes who gets heard and who gets overlooked.While studying power and influence at Harvard Law School and Triad Consulting Group, Elaine realised silence isn’t passive, it’s learned and reinforced. Understanding that gives us the choice to speak with intention.In this conversation, Elaine joins Kevin to explore how silence derails tough conversations and why reframing “imposter syndrome” as “imposter treatment” changes how we show up.In this episode, Kevin and Elain will discuss:(04:27) Leadership, teams and impact(08:17) It’s okay not to be okay(10:36) Breaking the silence to communicate clearly(14:34) How to break out of blame loops(17:36) Unlearning silence in organisations(22:41) What do I think and need?(24:05) Rethinking imposter syndrome(27:06) Why miscommunication really happens(33:29) Feedback that fuels growth(36:26) Communicating across differences(39:31) Assessments that set you up for success(41:55) How to structure healthy conversations(45:33) Best books for self-directed learning(47:27) How silence affects relationshipsElaine Lin Hering is a facilitator, speaker, and author who helps people communicate clearly, navigate conflict, and speak up with confidence. She has worked across six continents with organisations such as Google, Nike, American Express, Pixar, and the Red Cross. Previously, she served as Managing Partner at Triad Consulting Group and taught negotiation.Connect with Elain:Elain’s Website: https://elainelinhering.com/Elain’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elainelinhering/ Resources Mentioned:Unlearning Silence by Elaine Lin Hering: https://www.amazon.com/Unlearning-Silence-Speak-Unleash-Talent/dp/0593653602Verbal Judo by George Thompson: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Verbal-Judo-Second-Gentle-Persuasion/dp/0062107704 HBR – Stop Telling Women They Have Imposter Syndrome: https://hbr.org/2021/02/stop-telling-women-they-have-imposter-syndrome From Stuck to Breakthrough:Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge.This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships.Sign up today at blindblaming.com.
Most creatives don’t struggle because they lack talent – they struggle because they’re held back by limiting beliefs. Chris Do used to rely on creativity alone, assuming the right clients would just find him. Everything changed when he learned how to engage clients, uncover their real problems, and articulate value. The result? Opportunities that tripled his income.In this conversation, Chris joins Kevin to break down the mindset shifts that drive a successful creative business – how to market without feeling salesy, price with confidence, and build genuine trust with clients.In this episode, Kevin and Chris will discuss:(03:59) Teaching over selling on YouTube(08:26) Building success through skills and mindset(11:06) Lesson on understanding clients(13:53) Breaking free from limiting beliefs(18:37) Value depends on perspective(20:59) Ethical sales and problem solving(23:08) Defining the right fit(27:17) Make an effing decision(29:54) Respectful decision making and building alliances(32:16) Building trust through authenticity(37:53) The value of honesty(39:56) Masterclass in therapy and parenting(42:09) Language and connecting minds through timeChris Do is an Emmy Award-winning designer, educator, and entrepreneur with over two decades of experience in brand strategy and creative business. As the founder and CEO of The Futur, he has built a global education platform that empowers creatives to monetize their skills and build sustainable businesses. Chris has worked with top brands like Microsoft, Sony, Nike, and Starbucks, and generated over $1 million in digital product sales. Through his work, he’s helped thousands of professionals thrive in today’s creative economy.Connect with Chris:Chris’s Website: thefutur.comChris’s LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/thechrisdo Chris’s Instagram: instagram.com/thechrisdo Resources Mentioned:Selling with Noble Purpose: How to Drive Revenue and Do Work That Makes You Proudby Lisa Earle McLeod: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1118408098 Action Selling: How to Sell Like a Professional, Even If You Think You Are One by Duane Sparks: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0975356909 The Mountain Is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage Into Self-Mastery by Brianna Wiest: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1949759229 From Stuck to Breakthrough:Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge.This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships.Sign up today at blindblaming.com
























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