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Prepare for a fusion of knowledge and exhilaration, where education and excitement collide. Taking you on an adventure that expands your mind and speaks to your spirit. Follow along the journey of Master Nick and Lady Dee as we talk about our life and experiences in the BDSM community.
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Send a text What happens when ancient healing meets modern kink? Welcome back to The Dom Life Podcast, where Master Nick and Lady Dee blend education, experience, and real-life power exchange into conversations that are honest, playful, and practical. This week, a relaxed Valentine’s Day house party sparks an in-depth exploration of cupping—an ancient therapeutic practice that’s finding new life in BDSM sensation play. From its roots in Egyptian and Macedonian medicine over 5,000 years ago to...
Send us a text What happens when curiosity, kink, and real-world commitment collide? Welcome back to The Dom Life Podcast, where Master Nick and Lady Dee pull back the curtain on power exchange, intimacy, and the realities of alternative relationships—without filters and without fantasy fluff. In this episode, the conversation turns toward polyamory, BDSM, and the ever-mystifying idea of “unicorn hunting.” From personal experiences to hard-earned lessons, they explore what it really means to ...
Send us a text One night. One community. One powerful reminder of why connection matters. In this episode of The Dom Life Podcast, Master Nick and Lady Dee reflect on a milestone birthday celebration at their home club—and the moment it crystalized what community truly means. From laughter, Jell-O shot tasks, playful bratting, and unforgettable birthday traditions to deeper reflections on healing, support, and chosen family, this conversation blends fun, vulnerability, and hard-earned insight...
Send us a text What happens to a power exchange when real life hits hard? In this deeply honest and thought-provoking episode of The Dom Life, Master Nick and Lady D continue their discussion into the often-unspoken intersection of BDSM dynamics, mental health, and emotional resilience. Blending lived experience with practical insight, they explore how depression—whether experienced by a submissive or a dominant—can impact trust, consistency, consent, and connection. From maintaining a safe s...
Send us a text When strength meets vulnerability, real power is revealed. In this episode of The DOM Life Podcast, Master Nick and Lady Dee tackle a deeply real and often unspoken topic: depression within D/s and TPE dynamics. Sparked by a listener’s email and grounded in their own lived experiences, they explore how emotional struggles—inside and outside the lifestyle—can impact connection, structure, and intimacy. Through honest conversation, they discuss practical ways Dominants can ...
Send us a text What if your deepest desires aren’t something to hide—but something worth exploring, communicating, and honoring? In this powerful episode of The DOM Life Podcast, Master Nick and Lady Dee dive deep into the realities of introducing kink, power exchange, and BDSM dynamics into a relationship—especially when one partner is coming from a more “vanilla” place. This is not about shock value or labels; it’s about communication, consent, patience, and growth. Through real-life experi...
Send us a text What happens when your desires no longer fit inside a vanilla relationship—and you don’t know how to say it out loud? In Episode 101 of The DOM Life Podcast, Master Nick and Lady Dee respond to a listener question by unpacking how a submissive can introduce a D/s dynamic into an existing vanilla relationship. They discuss the importance of open communication, identifying wants before labeling needs, and recognizing natural dominant traits like leadership, protection, and decisi...
Send us a text The DOM Life Podcast is at 100 episodes!!! After Master Nick found a writing online that resonated with him, he decided one more episode on Being a Good Dom was needed. With the help of Lady Dee, they discussed more on this topic from a different perspective. Master Nick feels that even a lifetime of researching is not enough. The writing held some hard truths about being a Dom hoping to open the eyes of those interested in pursuing a D/s dynamic. Support the show
Send us a text Lady Dee and Master Nick start the episode talking about communication needed between a Dom and submissive while navigating changes to a D/s dynamic to include poly relationships, adding new aspects to the D/s dynamic and working with a new submissive. They discuss how a good Dom builds a toolbox of skills to be used in a dynamic. Master Nick explains that being a Dom is also dependent on having a submissive who willingly gives up that control. Lady Dee opens up about a persona...
Send us a text Lady Dee starts with a quick update on her health and treatment. Then Master Nick dives into a listener’s requested topic on how to be a better DOM using recent discussions with friends to guide the episode. The discussion is how to be a good DOM in situations related to new relationships, poly relationship and existing relationships that are starting to include other aspects of BDSM. New relationships are exciting, chaotic and can lead to pitfalls that a DOM has to navigate wh...
Send us a text The DOM Life sets up at Kinktasia 2025 to talk to people in attendance, and they did not disappoint! Master Nick and Lady Dee were very happy to meet everyone and learn more about them. Poor Lady Dee had to leave early due to her injuries, but Master Nick was still there asking all the questions. Take notice in all the similarities people say when they are asked to give advice to you, our listeners. This is the type of community that loves meeting people, whether they are inter...
Send us a text In the second part of Kinktasia 2025, Master Nick leads the discussion on all things Day 2 at the event. He revisits Day 1 to explain how Eve Riot did an amazing but cringe-worthy performance using legos as a base for many of their interactions while on stage. Cringe-worthy due to the imagined pain they HAD to have felt. Sadly, due to Lady Dee’s accident Master Nick and Lady Dee did not attend any of the educational opportunities on Saturday but were surprised at the sele...
Send us a text In the beginning of this episode, Lady Dee gives an update on her health before Master Nick takes a moment to wish all the listeners a Happy Thanksgiving. This is the long awaited Kinktasia 2025 breakdown of events. Master Nick mentions the resignation of a key figure in the event before focusing on Day 1 where he discusses being a vendor, a breakdown of products available by other vendors, along with the performances on stage during the night. Lady Dee provides her minimal inp...
Send us a text Master Nick and Lady Dee continue to discuss some unusual and obscure fetishes and practices recognizing they are barely scratching the surface of this topic. Master Nick clarifies at the beginning of this episode that he had all the various body fluids on him based on his history as a Firefighter/EMT. When it comes to bodily fluids, there are some kinks they both can relate to, but some that are a little outside their comfort zone. It is important to get consent prior to...
Send us a text Master Nick & Lady Dee express their condolences to those impacted by the UPS tragedy which occurred in their community. Lady Dee provides a quick update on her health and healing. Then they remind listeners to come to Kinktasia and visit their vendor booth where there will be some Dom Life products as well as podcast equipment on Friday (11/14). Listen in as they discuss obscure and unusual fetishes and practices related to BDSM activities. A few like trampling, macrophili...
Send us a text Master Nick and Lady Dee continue their discussion on why submissive submit. Part II focuses on structure, tasks and rejecting tasks from a submissives perspective. Then looks at topping from the bottom, why it may be necessary, how Master Nick appreciated this at the beginning of their relationship and why as a Dom sometimes paying attention to this will allow you to be a better dominant to that submissive. As always, in a D/s dynamic, open lines of communication is a requirem...
Send a text In this episode Lady Dee and Master Nick explore the reasons submissives submit or, in some cases, choose not to submit. What both situations can tell you about the submissive and why Dom’s should pay attention when a task is not completed as it could have a greater implication than just forgetfulness. Master Nick questions why submissives might choose to not use a safe word even when justified or expected. Lady Dee then asks question everyone has been wondering about – did you do...
Send us a text Master Nick and Lady Dee discuss their attendance at the Indiana Leather and Kink weekend in Indianapolis. Covering information on what Leather Clubs are, what classes and education they attended during the weekend, the vendors and products available at the event, as well as the dungeon play. Lady Dee and Master Nick explain how the class on clothespins and clamps led to an eye-opening purchase and experience for Lady Dee. They were both so thankful for the opportun...
Send us a text Master Nick and Lady Dee had a very traumatic three weeks following an automobile wreck that injured Lady Dee with a variety of fractured bones (ribs, knee, pelvis, and vertebrae). Taking this opportunity, they recorded an episode on when outside forces impact your D/s Dynamic. Lady Dee is back in her chair for The DOM Life podcast where she talks about what happened during the wreck as well as the aftermath including details about her injuries and recovery. Master Nick a...
Send us a text Get Ready for Kinktasia 2025 - Master Nick takes complete control over The DOM Life as Lady Dee was in time out due to health issues during the time sensitive interview with Sparkle Moonbeam, aka Shannon, from LiNK, Inc. discussing Kinktasia 2025. Shannon tells all, okay almost all, to The DOM Life on the plans in the works for Kinktasia in Louisville, KY and how it expanded to a 2-day event located at 2 different venues. She details out the Carnival night on Friday at Ar...
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