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Author: Linda VanValkenburg and Ron Gore

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Lifechanging Coparenting

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Let us hear from you! Are you preparing for family law mediation? In this video, Ron Gore, family law attorney and mediator, breaks down the three biggest mistakes he sees parents make after conducting more than 100 mediations per year. Many people enter mediation with the wrong mindset or without the necessary preparation, leading to expensive delays and added stress. In this video, you will learn: The Wrong Focus: Why seeking validation, payback, or total closure is a mistake.Misunder...
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Let us hear from you! Going to divorce or custody mediation? Don't go in unprepared. Drawing on experience from more than 100 mediations per year, attorney and Coparent Academy co-founder Ron Gore explains exactly how to set yourself up for success. We cover: (1) Understanding what mediation is, (2) How to frame your negotiating positions, and (3) The critical importance of gathering all facts before you start. Plus, understand why even family law attorneys prefer to settle their own cases. T...
Let us hear from you! You paid for the deposition, now make it count! The deposition transcript is one of the most expensive and important documents in your family law case. Attorney Ron Gore explains how you, the client, can maximize its value by assisting your attorney in a highly organized way. This video outlines how to: Read the transcript strategically (twice!).Organize notes by specific litigation issues.Identify three key categories: admissions, provable lies/mistakes, and negative fa...
Let us hear from you! Make your coparent's deposition worth every penny. This expert guide from family law attorney Ron Gore details how clients can become their legal team's best asset. Stop the frustrating cycle of repeating yourself and help your lawyer connect the facts to the law with a highly organized system. We cover: Full Disclosure: Why even your "bad" texts matter.Organization: Using the "Day in the Life" method.Tech Strategy: Utilizing technology before and during the deposition.D...
Let us hear from you! Your deposition in a family law case is one of the most important moments in the litigation process. Are you prepared? In this episode, we break down how to perform well at your deposition, save time/money, and increase the likelihood of a reasonable outcome. In this crucial, you will learn: The absolute necessity of telling your attorney everything (even the embarrassing parts).How your attorney uses "issue spotting" to prepare you for the topics you’ll face.Why having ...
Let us hear from you! Written discovery is slow, filtered, and easily obstructed. Learn why a deposition—a face-to-face, real-time interview under oath—is the most important tool in preparing for a custody trial. Discover the strategic value of essentially unlimited follow-up questions, reasons why you may want a videographer, and the attorney's ethical duty to uncover all facts, both good and bad, about both parents to help the court determine what's in the child's best interest.
Let us hear from you! Watch this episode on YouTube. Struggling to manage your child's extracurricular activities with a high conflict coparent? This video provides a detailed 12-step strategy to move from hoping for cooperation to planning for its absence. Learn how to make your ex's cooperation irrelevant and ensure your child doesn't miss out. In this guide from Coparenting Academy, we cover: How to review your court order (sole vs. joint custody)How to propose a new activityWhy pare...
Let us hear from you! Watch this episode on YouTube. When we get emotionally dysregulated, our ability to make simple, rational decisions can disappear. This is especially true in high-stakes coparenting conversations where past issues can surface without warning. Learn why we sometimes make things harder than they need to be and how to start doing better next time. If you've ever had a moment like this, let me know in the comments. Let's learn from each other. Get more coparenting strateg...
Let us hear from you! Watch the video for this episode on YouTube. Does it feel like your coparent is always making you the "bad guy" when it comes to extracurriculars? Getting your child excited about an expensive travel team or a demanding activity before you've even had a chance to discuss it is a common high-conflict tactic. In this video, we expose the manipulative strategies some parents use—from creating false urgency to undermining your authority. More importantly, we'll give y...
Let us hear from you! Watch this episode on YouTube. Extracurriculars are meant to be fun, but they can be a source of tension for coparents. In this video, we provide practical advice to help you and your coparent make decisions smoothly. We cover everything from the importance of trial periods for new activities to setting boundaries for mutual respect, both on the sidelines and online. By working as a team, you can give your child the gift of a positive experience, preventing them from bei...
Let us hear from you! Watch this episode on YouTube. A child's education is a critical part of their well-being, but for coparents a parent-teacher conference can quickly become an arena for conflict. This guide helps you put your child's needs first by equipping you with the professional-grade tools to navigate any difficult situation with grace. This video gives you a tactical roadmap to: • A clear, 3-step plan for before, during, and after the conference. • Ensure your chil...
Let us hear from you! Watch this episode on YouTube. Long-distance visitation and supervised visitation present huge challenges for coparents. The calls can become stale, the connection can fade, and the costs can be overwhelming. This video provides a tactical solve that most courts and lawyers don't even know about: Video Game Visitation. We cover the exact "why" and "how-to": * Why maintaining a relationship with your child is so important, both for them and for your. * Choosi...
Let us hear from you! Watch this episode on YouTube! If your coparent’s inconsistent rules are undermining your efforts and creating chaos for your child, this video is your step-by-step action plan. Stop fighting the "my house, my rules" battle. Instead, implement a proven strategy to provide your child with the stability they desperately need—with or without your coparent's cooperation. YOUR 3-STEP PLAYBOOK FROM THIS VIDEO: DIAGNOSE THE PROBLEM: Pinpoint exactly how inconsistent environm...
Let us hear from you! Watch this episode on YouTube. You and your coparent have the same child... but you're raising two different kids. It's a maddening reality for millions of divorced parents, leading to blame and conflict. But what if the cause wasn't your coparent's "leniency" or your "rigidity"? What if it was a powerful psychological force ignited by the separation itself? Once you see it, you can't unsee it. This video reveals the subconscious reasons your child adapts their personali...
Let us hear from you! Watch this episode on YouTube Are you winning parenting time but losing your child's heart? Many co-parents fall into the "Scoreboard Mentality"—fighting for what's "fair" instead of what builds a lasting relationship. In this video, we reveal the 3 most common traps (The Schedule Trap, The "It's My Time" Fallacy, and Weaponizing Your Right of First Refusal) that can damage your connection with your kids. Learn the one simple question to ask yourself—The Tomorrow Test—t...
Let us hear from you! Watch this episode on YouTube. A popular coparenting Instagram creator has given parents a script for when their child complains about the other parent. It’s a common problem, but is their advice the whole story? In this episode, family law attorney Ron Gore and therapist Connie LeBlanc watch the video and provide their expert reaction. They agree with some points but add crucial context that could save you from creating a bigger conflict. You will learn: How to valid...
Let us hear from you! Watch this episode on YouTube. Forced to have supervised visits with your kids? You're facing a choice: use a friend/family member for free, or pay a professional. The answer isn't as obvious as you think. In this video, we talk about the pros and cons of each so you can make the right decision for your family and your wallet.
Let us hear from you! Watch this episode on YouTube. Are your coparenting conversations endless, draining, and unproductive? You're not alone. In this video, discover the "FACTS Only" communication tool – a simple, efficient way to streamline your discussions and focus on what truly matters: your child's needs. Learn how this powerful strategy, focusing on Feedback, Activities, Concerns, Transportation, and Supplies, can transform high-conflict exchanges into clear, actionable updates. We'll ...
Let us hear from you! Watch this episode on Youtube. Are you a parent navigating different religious beliefs in your household, or worried about your child's exposure to a coparent's faith? This episode is for you. In this re-edited version of Episode 5 of Coparent Academy, you'll hear the story of a child who found common ground between Southern Baptist and Muslim parents (it involves bacon!), and we'll break down a compelling Reddit post about a dad's fear of 'indoctrination.' Drawin...
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