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Totally Absolutely Engaged is your behind-the-scenes look at the modern wedding industry - packed with expert insights, hilarious stories, and honest advice for couples planning their big day.
Hosted by Isla and Paul, CEO of one of the UK’s top event rental suppliers, each episode features candid conversations with wedding professionals - from planners and florists to photographers and venue stylists. Together, they share their biggest wedding tips, industry secrets, and even their ultimate wedding icks.
Listeners also get to hear real wedding dilemmas sent in by brides and grooms - from seating chart dramas to last-minute vendor chaos - as Isla and Paul unpack the best (and funniest) ways to handle them.
Whether you’re planning your own wedding, working in the wedding industry, or just love hearing about love, Totally Absolutely Engaged brings valuable wedding planning advice, insider knowledge, and a healthy dose of humour to help you plan smarter and laugh harder.
🎙️ Tune in weekly for expert wedding tips, relatable stories, and entertaining discussions that make wedding planning a little easier and a lot more fun!
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Send us a text Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with your hosts Isla and Paul. On this week’s episode, the duo are joined by the incredible Amy, founder of Petal & Portrait, a live wedding illustration company bringing one of the fastest-growing wedding trends to life. Live illustrating is becoming an increasingly popular way to add a unique, personal touch to a wedding day - and Amy dives into exactly why it’s such a special experience for couples and guests...
Send us a text Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with Isla and Paul! This week, they’re joined by professional wedding content creator Lisa, who’s here to tackle one of the biggest questions couples ask: “Can’t my guests just record the wedding on their phones?” Lisa shares insider knowledge on why guest phone videos often miss the magic, plus the must-know benefits of having a dedicated content creator on your big day. From capturing the candid moments you’ll treasure...
Send us a text Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with hosts Isla and Paul. In this week’s episode, the pair are joined by Vicky, owner of bridal boutique Swan Brides, for an honest and insightful conversation about what really goes into saying yes to the dress. While many brides dream of the perfect dress moment, this episode lifts the curtain on the full reality - from the initial appointment and choosing the one, to alterations, timelines, and those all-too-com...
Send us a text Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with hosts Isla and Paul. In this short, snappy episode, the duo share details of their exciting giveaway. To enter, simply watch last week’s 12 Days of Christmas episode, head to the pinned Instagram giveaway post, and comment with the piece of advice you loved most. Like, follow, and share for a bonus entry. They also dive into their recent TikTok virality - and the controversy it’s sparked in the comments. Love it...
Send us a text Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with your hosts Isla and Paul. In this festive CHRISTMAS SPECIAL, the duo brings you their twist on the 12 Days of Christmas - sharing 12 essential wedding tips every couple needs to hear before their big day. This episode is overflowing with expert wedding planning hacks and exclusive advice designed to simplify your journey from “Yes” to “I do.” From smart budgeting strategies to navigating best man speeches, man...
Send us a text Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with your hosts Isla and Paul. This week, the duo are joined by the incredible DJ Chris G, an expert wedding DJ who brings far more than just great music. Chris shares his biggest piece of advice for brides and grooms, along with insider tips on how to keep the dancefloor packed from the first song to the final send-off. From choosing the perfect first-dance track to transitioning into high-energy party anthems, pl...
Send us a text Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with your hosts Isla and Paul. This week, they’re joined by Sophie from Sophie Brown Makeup, a professional makeup artist with years of experience in the bridal beauty industry. Sophie shares her signature timeless bridal makeup style and explains why classic looks age far better than short-lived trends when you're looking back at your wedding photos. She also reveals her biggest makeup hacks to ensure your glam st...
Send us a text Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with your hosts Isla and Paul! This week, we’re brushing up on all things bridal beauty with the fabulous Toni, owner of Hair by Toni - a pro wedding hairstylist who knows exactly how to make every bride feel like a million dollars on their big day. ✨ From achieving the perfect curl to handling those fussy bridesmaids with grace, Toni shares expert insights, tried-and-true techniques, and behind-the-scenes stories from years in the ...
Send us a text Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with hosts Isla and Paul! This week, they’re joined by Rhian, the creative force behind Bake-a-Licious, to talk all things wedding cakes - from design inspiration to delicious disasters. Rhian takes us behind the scenes of her meticulous cake-making process, revealing the artistry, planning, and precision that goes into creating the perfect centrepiece for a couple’s big day. She also shares the latest wedding cake trends, what’s cu...
Send us a text Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with your hosts Isla and Paul! This week, the pair are joined by the incredibly talented Alison from Lasting Memories Wedding and Event Styling for a fun and inspiring chat all about luxury wedding venue styling. From expert venue dressing tips and design ideas to clever ways to repurpose ceremony décor for your evening reception, Alison shares how to make every wedding space look stunning and cohesive. You’ll also hear her best adv...
Send us a text Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with your hosts Isla and Paul! This week, we’re turning up the volume with special guest Harry from HM Sounds, a professional wedding DJ who knows exactly how to keep the dancefloor packed and the vibes immaculate. Harry drops the beat and the knowledge as he unpacks what couples should (and definitely shouldn’t) do when it comes to their wedding music, DJ setup, and reception playlist. From wedding failures to crowd-pleasing ...
Send us a text In this episode of The Added Extra Unpacked, hosts Isla and Paul sit down with Laura from Vision Wave, an award-winning wedding videographer, to unpack the wild, funny, and sometimes shocking world of wedding videography. They dive deep into wedding day dos and don’ts, the most common mistakes guests make that ruin wedding videos, and essential wedding planning tips every couple should know before saying “I do.” Laura also reveals her biggest piece of advice for couples, her to...
Send us a text Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with Isla and Paul! This week, they’re joined by professional wedding content creator Lisa, who’s here to tackle one of the biggest questions couples ask: “Can’t my guests just record the wedding on their phones?” Lisa shares insider knowledge on why guest phone videos often miss the magic, plus the must-know benefits of having a dedicated content creator on your big day. From capturing the candid moments you’ll treasure...
Send us a text Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with hosts Isla and Paul! This week, they’re joined by Liam from the stunning wedding venue Lion & Swan. Liam reveals an exclusive new package designed especially for grooms, plus insider venue secrets every couple needs to know before the big day. From handling drunk guests and navigating family feuds to switching up your venue layout for maximum impact, Liam shares invaluable tips and behind-the-scenes advice straight fr...
Send us a text Welcome to a brand-new series of Unpacked with hosts Isla and Paul! In this week’s episode, they sit down with expert wedding coordinator Joella to dive deep into the world of wedding planning. Joella shares insider secrets about her role in guiding couples through the wedding process, the most common mistakes to avoid, and the must-know tips that can help your big day run smoothly and stress-free. From hilarious (and slightly harrowing) real-life client dilemmas to pra...
Send us a text Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with your hosts Elenarda, Paul, and Isla! 🎙️ In this fun and honest chat, we dive into all things wedding — from unexpected icks (yes, sunglasses at the altar made the list) to essential tips you’ll actually use on your big day. Whether you're planning your dream wedding or just love the drama of bridal blunders, this episode is for you. 💍 Hear our personal wedding do's and don'ts 🍾 Laugh along with stories of drunken brides and awk...
Send us a text Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked! This week, we’re joined on the sofa by a very special guest—Jen from the award-nominated Peony Rose Florist. Jen shares her expert wedding planning tips, common floral mistakes couples make, and insider advice every bride and groom should hear. Whether you're newly engaged or deep in wedding prep, this is one episode you do not want to miss! Check out our range of led letters, selfie mirrors and more on our website theaddedextra.co....
Send us a text Welcome back to Unpacked with your hosts Elenarda, Paul, and Isla. In this week’s episode, we explore our most popular wedding entertainment options that keep guests of all ages entertained. From the crowd-favorite wedding arcade machine to outdoor garden games and indoor soft play areas for kids, we’re sharing the best ways to elevate your big day. Whether you're planning a rustic outdoor wedding, a modern celebration, or a family-friendly reception, these fun and interactiv...
Send us a text County Brides Awards Recap | Celebrating Our Special Touches Win & Elenarda’s Unforgettable Night Join Elenarda, Paul, and Isla as they relive the glitz and glamour of the County Brides Awards Ceremony, where they proudly took home the Special Touches Award! 🎉 In this episode, the team reflects on the incredible support from their brides and grooms whose votes made the win possible – thank you from the bottom of our hearts! 💍 Expect plenty of laughs as they share behind-the...
Send us a text Are some wedding traditions just... outdated? In this episode, Elenarda, Paul and Isla dive into the customs that couples (and our audience) think should finally be left in the past. From bouquet tosses to garter rituals, we’re breaking down what no longer fits modern weddings — and why. Plus, as one of the industry’s leading event companies, we share our expert advice on what to do instead. Whether you're planning your big day or just love all things wedding-related, you won’t...
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