Unholy Feminists

When you get radicalized, there's no veil. You see the dirtiest bits in habits, people and systems and it can get overwhelming sometimes. We unpack;  1. When we realized we were radicalized?  2. What has being politically aware given us?  3. Has it affected us negatively? 4. How we navigate burnout from knowing and seeing so much that many people wilfully ignore?  Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Dressing for the male gaze goes beyond revealing clothes. In this episode, we talk about;  1. what dressing for the male gaze is 2. Define male gaze 3. What are the drawbacks to dressing for the male gaze? How can women walk the line between dressing for ourselves and staying safe? Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Are liberals taking sex positivity too far? When does the line get blurred? In this conversation, we unpack;  1. What is sex positivity and how does it relate to feminism? 2. When does it stop serving women? 3. Can your sexual desires feel good personally and still uphold harmful systems?  4. What would the ideal sex-positivity feminism look like for women while ensuring their safety?  Don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE, LIKE and turn on NOTIFICATIONS for weekly conversations on feminism, dating, self-care, body and sex positivity and pleasure with your hosts, Cath and Gail.  Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

The men complaining about the male loneliness epidemic probably deserve to be lonely because of their deep-seated disgust for women. On this episode, we talk about the trending usage of Grok and other AI models in image-based abuse of women on the internet. We;  1. Give context on how men have been undressing women using AI on Twitter 2. Why is this problem happening? 3.How will AI exascerbate this problem? 4. How can these men be held accountable? 5. What can we do about it? 6. Thoughts on the future of AI and how it can lead to more sexual violence Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

We wrap up the year by sharing lessons we learned in 2025. Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

In this episode we take a look at the nativity story with all the buzz around Christmas and it's significance.  We delve into;  1. A quick recount of the birth of Jesus in the Bible.  2. What are the predominant themes in the story? (purity, self-sacrifice, obedience)  3. What would the story read like if Mary had consent and autonomy?  4. How does religious conditioning shape how most families police women's choices? 5. Practical ways to claim your sense of self and autonomy and not be a "Holy Mother" this Christmas and festive season. Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

If you get triggered by "All men", go sit in the corner and thing about why that phrase makes you so defensive.  In this episode, we unpack why "not all men" is BS and delve into;  1. Why is it harmful? 2. Are all men really bad? 3. What can men do? Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

What were you wearing? What did you go there? Boys will be boys. He bullies you because he likes you. These sentences that enable victim blaming and rape culture has been normalized and we delve into the harm it causes in this episode.  1. What is rape culture? 2. In what ways does society reinforces, normalize and excuse rape culture? 3. How do power, gender, class and race play a role in who is blamed and who is believed? (victim blaming, public perception etc) 4. What will a culture that centres consent and accountability look like? (the role of men, the media and feminists) Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Ever heard the phrase, "Men will embarass you!" because they sure will!  Sit with us as we dissect the viral vogue articles and share our opinion on if and why having a boyfriend is embarrassing. Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

What happens when feminism meets the boyfriend in modern dating? The 50/50 conversations, the emotional labor trap. Let's get into how patriarchy thrives on romance and what equality looks like between and beyond the sheets. In this episode, we talk about; 1. What does soft life even mean and who gets to live it? We can localize it... 2. Can you be a feminist and still want a provider partner? Or are you reinforcing patriarchal ideals by wanting it? 3. How do women unlearn the idea that struggle equals strength?  4. Are modern relationship only aesthetically feminist? How does finances look for you in your relationships? 5. How can we redefine comfort, care, and partnership in ways that don’t depend on patriarchy? Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Is every choice inherently feminist? As much as sex workers deserve to have rights and the industry needs legalization, can we say it is an empowering choice? Why can't it just be a job?  In this episode, we delve into;  1. What is sex work? 2. The debate amongst SWERFs about sex work 3. Purity culture and its damnation of sex work 4. Is sex work exploitation or empowerment? 5. White feminism and how it ignores the context of sex work in lower-income countries 6. How do we make sex work safer for sex workers? Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Existential crisis? Don’t worry, we’ve all been there!  This is a yapping session, no structure, no wise words, just women talking about how weird men are and why we are saddled with periods.  Don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE, LIKE and turn on NOTIFICATIONS for weekly conversations on pleasure, the big O, sex positivity and body positivity as a feminist with your hosts, Cath and Gail.  Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

How many people have you slept with? Don’t worry, we don’t actually want your answer. But isn’t it funny how that number, your so-called ‘body count’ has become society’s favorite scoreboard? If it’s too low, you’re a prude. High, a slut. In this episode, we dive into;  What is body count culture and who's counting? The slut/prude trap (being called a prude when you're not sexually active and a slut when you are) How does sex shame affects desires? Discuss performative sex, the pressure to be good at sex influencing hoe phases, slut era etc How does one claim their sexual agency without drowning in all these misogynistic ideals? Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Girlhood, friendships and platonic soulmates.... In this episode, we get into beauty standards, navigating body image with support people; 1. What were some of the first comments you remember getting about your body as a child or teen?  2. What beauty standards did you internalize growing up? 3. Tell each other what stands out when we look at the other person, could be physical, emotional etc and ask the other if they agree with it. 4. What are some ways in which we hide, shrink or perform confidence around people?  5. Has the other person done or said anything that helped shift your body-perception? Share  6. How can we reframe bad body days? Share tips Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Virginity is a social construct used to control women like so many things. Purity culture was born out of the need for men to feel like they fully own a woman. In this episode, we explore: 1. What is purity culture? 2. How did purity culture come to be and how does it serve patriarchy? 3. How does purity culture harm women? 4. What can we do to fight purity culture?     Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Men as romantic partners is a great concept but in reality, you always need to watch your back and your front. We explore the nitty gritties of dating men as a feminist and talk about;  1. How patriarchy shows up in relationships?  2. What are some red flags feminists and women in general can look out for when dating to avoid these men? 3. In your ideal world as a feminist, what will dating look like? 4. Things to do to avoid losing your sense of self while dating                Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Will the way people perceive sex change if it's looked at through a feminist lens? In this episode we delve into;  1. Bell Hooks - The will to change; men, masculinity, and love 2. How are boys and men taught about sex? 3. Sex and male domination 4. How the word "fuck" is used in a violent way, giving ways to violence in sex 5. How do we deconstruct all that Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Every girl/woman knows a pick-me. In this episode, we talk about pick me culture and give some pointers on how to beat the system and choose yourself. We delve into;  1. What exactly is a pick me? 2. Share personal experiences and how  internalized misogyny pit women against each other for male attention. 3. Ways in which pop-culture, media, class, race, politics and upbringing influences pick-me tendencies  4. Can feminists have pick-me tendencies?    5. Healing, unpacking shame and what choosing yourself and other women looks like.     Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

How dark does your sexual fantasies get? Do you ever wonder if you're crossing a line? Does it terrify you? In this episode we delve into this topic and why your fantasies can be problematic. We talk about;  1. Cybrothel in Germany 2. What are dark sexual fantasies? 3. When is it okay and when does it cross the line into real-life danger? 4. What's the difference between women and men having dark fantasies? Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

As girls, we are told to be likable to society. As women, we are told to be pretty but not too sexy and treated as ornaments for men and society at large. In this episode, we talk about: 1. What does good girl conditioning look like? 2. Sexual shame, Patriarchy and religion 3. Impact of sexual suppression due to shame 4. Ways to unlearn good girl conditioning and reclaim your sexuality. Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.