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We discuss how to use strategy in Family Court to get the results you want. A family law professional with twenty years of experience in the field will share with you what really matters in Family Court.
Whether you are going through divorce or custody, if you are representing yourself you need to know the tactics that will end the torment you have been enduring up until this point.
We will share tips, tricks, techniques, and everything else that your lawyer will never divulge. If you have been getting disappointment from lawyers, the judge, or the overall process, tune in to get help on plotting your next move.
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862.800.7850 Can You Keep the House? | Family Court Strategy In this episode of Self-Represented in Family Court, Tracey Bee addresses one of the most emotionally motivated (and often misunderstood) questions in divorce and custody cases: “Can I keep the house?” In this episode, Tracey walks through the strategic considerations behind keeping the marital home, including why wanting the house and being able to afford it are two very different things. If you’re trying to decide whether to keep...
862.800.7850 In this episode of Self-Represented in Family Court, Tracey Bee dives into one of the most overlooked elements of family court strategy: timing. Most litigants focus on what to file, what evidence to present, or what arguments to make. But the truth is, when you make your move can be just as important as what move you make. Timing influences leverage. If you’ve ever wondered whether you should file now, wait, or push harder at a different stage of your case, this episode will he...
862.800.7850 In this episode of “Self-Represented in Family Court,” Tracey Bee breaks down a reality most litigants don’t realize until it’s too late: Family Court is overloaded, overworked and overwhelmed…no matter where the court is. Judges just don’t have the time to give the necessary attention to every case so they have to employ “systems” to help them. Judges often tend to classify or label litigants as a way to help them process their case efficiently. They rely on patterns, beh...
862.800.7850 You are not prepared for Family Court. You might be ready, but you are NOT prepared, at least most of you aren’t. You might have gathered all the proof you can, gotten familiar with the laws, might have even hired the best lawyer for the job. But NONE of these things actually prepare you the way you need to be prepared for the bewildering experience of Family Court. Well, It's time to change that because you don’t have another month of the duress, or more mental capacity for the...
862.800.7850 In this episode of “Self-Represented in Family Court”, Tracey Bee breaks down a common (and frustrating) reality: your case can lose traction even when you have “strong evidence.” Why? Because in Family Court, outcomes often hinge less on how much you have, and more on how you position and present your case, how you manage timing, and whether your narrative matches what the court can actually act on. This is a practical episode focused on helping you stop guessing, stop reacting...
862.800.7850 This time of year I usually take a break to decompress. So right now I am working on clearing my mind while at the same time gearing up for 2026. I am still working though so if you need to schedule a strategy session, need help preparing for court or want me to assist with trial preparation, feel free to reach out to me at www.TheDivorceSolutionist.com. Happy Holidays Take care, Support the show Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can...
862.800.7850 Most people think the more evidence you bring to court, the better. But in family court? That approach can destroy your credibility. In this episode, Tracey explains why judges ignore evidence, how opposing counsel gets it thrown out, and how to present your case strategically so your key proof actually gets seen. A must-listen for anyone gathering screenshots, texts, videos, or emails for court. 💡 What You’ll Learn: Why over-documenting can sabotage your caseHow opposing ...
862.800.7850 Ever walked out of a courtroom thinking, “What just happened in there?” You told the truth. You stayed calm. You presented your evidence — and somehow, the judge still didn’t get it. If that sounds like you, this episode is your reality check — and your roadmap out. In this episode, Tracey Bee, breaks down one of her most important strategies: reframing. Because in family court, it’s not just what you say — it’s how you say it, how you think about it, and how you present it tha...
862.800.7850 Most litigants lose in Family Court for reasons they never even see coming. In this episode, I’m breaking down the hidden blind spots that can quietly sabotage your case—even when you think it’s airtight. Whether you’re representing yourself, stuck between attorneys, or even working with that so-called “bulldog” lawyer, these blind spots show up. We’re going to talk about tunnel vision, overconfidence, misunderstanding procedure, misjudging your specific judge, underestimating o...
862.800.7850 Welcome back to Self-Represented in Family Court! In this Season 3 opener, Tracey Bee (your host, former family law attorney, mediator, and strategist) sets the stage for the most empowering season yet. After a summer of building new tools, connecting with advocates, and expanding her nonprofit, Tracey is ready to dive into fresh conversations on empowerment, strategy, technology, and advocacy for self-represented litigants. What You’ll Hear in This Episode: Why empowermen...
862.800.7850 In this insightful episode your host, Tracey Bee, founder of The Divorce Solutionist, former family law attorney, and your go-to pro se strategist — pulls back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood tools in the family court system: mediation. Though often seen as a peaceful alternative to litigation, mediation is not a guaranteed fix especially for self-represented litigants. With her trademark candor and deep legal insight, Tracey shares why strategy must be at the...
862.800.7850 The family court battlefield can feel overwhelming, but in this episode, Tracey Bee is arming you with a secret weapon: workarounds. Designed for pro se litigants and anyone looking to take charge of their case, we’re unpacking clever, strategic alternatives to navigate the system without breaking the bank or losing your sanity. Fresh off last week’s deep dive into divorce professionals, Tracy shifts gears to show you how to sidestep—or supplement—those costly services with prac...
862.800.7850 In this compelling episode of Self-Represented in Family Court, host Tracey Bee —the only pro se family court strategist — dives into a transformative topic: Artificial Intelligence and its potential in the hands of self-represented litigants. Tracey breaks down how AI is being used across legal professions, but more importantly, how you, the pro se litigant, can ethically and effectively leverage AI to empower your case. From drafting motions to organizing evidence and strategi...
862.800.7850 If you've just been served, don’t panic—know what to look for. In this episode, Tracey B breaks down the essential elements to examine when you receive a legal document, motion, or petition in a family court case. Whether you're the petitioner or respondent, it's critical to understand the procedural, factual, and substantive grounds on which motions are built. Tracey walks you through the top things to watch out for to protect your rights and respond effectively—especiall...
862.800.7850 Are you a business owner, freelancer, or 1099 contractor navigating divorce without a lawyer? In this episode of Self-Represented in Family Court, Tracey B. dives into the unique challenges—and real opportunities—for self-employed individuals handling their own divorce or custody cases. Whether you're running an LLC, consulting on the side, or juggling multiple streams of income, this conversation is for YOU. Tracey breaks down how your financial structure impacts your di...
862.800.7850 The way divorce services are delivered is evolving, and in this episode, we’re diving into the major shifts happening in the industry. From legal professionals and paralegals to divorce coaches and financial organizers, we explore the different types of support available and how they can help you navigate your divorce more effectively. We’ll discuss: ✅ The role of attorneys and when to seek legal consultation ✅ How financial professionals, like bookkeepers, can help you stay o...
862.800.7850 Have you ever wondered if representing yourself in family court is the right move for you, your family or your goals ? In this episode, I dive into the complexities of self-representation in family court cases. Using my experience as a former family law attorney and mediator, I’ll share my insights on when it makes sense to handle your case on your own and when it’s best to seek professional legal help. What You'll Learn: Understanding Self-Representation: Explore wh...
862.800.7850 Is Your Lawyer Crossing the Line? Ethical or Unethical Practices in Family Court Do you trust your lawyer's motivations and methods? It's time to take a deeper look. In today’s episode, we dissect the fine line between ethical and unethical practices by lawyers in family courts, especially when emotions and tensions run high. This episode dives into a contentious issue many overlook or misunderstand: how lawyers maneuver within family court settings. I invite you to explore the ...
862.800.7850 In this episode of Self Represented in Family Court, I’m diving deep into the power of strategy in family court proceedings. Whether you're representing yourself or working with legal counsel, having a solid strategy—and the right support—is key to navigating this complex system successfully. Family court isn't something you should go through alone. In this episode, I’ll break down the different types of support—emotional, financial, and beyond—that help you stay focused and obj...
862.800.7850 Navigating family court can deplete you of every ounce of energy, every sense of sanity and every dime you have, especially when you're representing yourself. In my latest episode of Self Represented in Family Court, I spend time going into details about the realities of managing legal costs and share practical workaround tactics to minimize or avoid some of these costs. Having a clear understanding of the legal costs associated with your Family Court case should be an integral ...
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