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RSVP Thanks
Author: Lindsey Heatherington & Kameron Brown
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RSVP Thanks is the wedding podcast for brides who’ve had it, vendors who’ve seen it all, and anyone who needs a laugh with their event planning.
We’re talking real stories, real chaos, and actually helpful tips from the pros. Dress disasters? MIL meltdowns? Vendors who ghost? Yep, we’ve got receipts.
New episodes drop every Wednesday.
Have a story that’s too good not to share? Call our hotline: 320-558-RSVP — and maybe your drama will make the next episode.
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Planning a wedding sounds fun… until you realize it can take 450+ hours to do it right. In this episode, we’re joined by Camila of Spellbound Events, a Charleston-based wedding planner with over a decade of experience designing and executing weddings across the country. From West Coast beginnings to Lowcountry celebrations, Camilla breaks down what wedding planners actually do, why hiring one early can save you time, money, and stress + the biggest mistakes a couple can make before they...
Wedding planning is stressful enough... then you add daylight savings, family drama, etiquette confusion, and unsolicited opinions. In this episode, we’re answering real listener-submitted hotline questions and giving our unfiltered take on wedding etiquette, timelines, and boundaries. We kick things off by breaking down why fall and winter wedding timelines matter more than you think, how daylight savings can ruin your photos, and why the sun is the one thing you can’t negotiate with. Then w...
Pack your bags and BUCKLE up! Kam and Lindsey take the show on the road this week for a wedding in the South Carolina upstate! We're recapping a weekend that had it all: a ridiculously fun couple, a surprise fire ant attack, and a reception so good we ended up crashing the after-party. We also get real about trends we're seeing in the industry, like brides booking way later than they used to. Plus, we dive into the ongoing struggle of navigating overbearing planners who sometimes do more bloc...
Think wedding flowers are “just bouquets”? Think again. In this episode, Lindsey sits down with florist Hannah of Flora by Hannah to spill the secrets behind stunning wedding florals. From Pinterest expectations vs. reality, to why flowers cost what they do, when you should actually book, and the trends you’ll want... and the ones to skip. This convo will save you stress, money, and headaches while giving you major inspo for your big day. Instagram: @florabyhannah 00:00 – Welcome &...
This week on RSVP Thanks, we kick things off with our very first hotline caller and then dive headfirst into Reddit’s wildest wedding stories. From a fake camo proposal and bouquet toss gone wrong to drunk guests, bridesmaid brawls, and even our own personal wedding experience! No story is too outrageous. We also spill on our proposal stories, share lessons learned, and remind you why some traditions (and cold sparklers) should stay far away from the big day. 00:00 – Intro 00:48 – Bri...
Dreaming of saying “I do” somewhere magical? This week we’re joined by Ashley Pate Newkirk of Ash Events, a destination wedding planner with experience in Pawleys Island, Charleston, Jamaica, Italy, and beyond. Ashley shares how she got started in the industry, the unique challenges of planning weddings abroad, and the tips every couple needs to know before booking their dream destination. From passports and packing lists to wild wedding stories (yes, police arrests and champagne explosions i...
In this episode we discuss the various aspects of wedding planning, focusing on managing stress, organization, budgeting, and the importance of delegating tasks. We share personal experiences and practical tips to help brides navigate the complexities of planning their weddings, emphasizing the need for checklists, emotional preparation, and the significance of prioritizing what truly matters on the big day. 00:00 Navigating Wedding Stress 02:14 Organization Tips for DIY Weddings 03:31 Budget...
In this episode we discuss the intricacies of wedding planning, focusing on the critical decision of selecting a venue. We explore various factors that influence this choice, including access, timing, coordination, budgeting, catering options, and logistics. The conversation emphasizes the importance of thorough planning and consideration of all aspects to ensure a smooth and enjoyable wedding experience. 00:00 Introduction to Wedding Planning Stress 01:18 Choosing the Right Venue 02:53 Acc...
Planning or attending a summer wedding? This episode is your no-fluff guide to making it through the heat and the chaos. We’re sharing must-know tips for warm weather weddings, why your rain plan needs a serious upgrade, and how to build a wedding timeline that actually works. Plus, we’re calling out the stuff that needs to stop: guests arriving too early, yoga pants on the dance floor, and bridesmaids being used as filler. We also dive into ceremony flow, vendor etiquette, and why rehearsals...
Weddings are magical, but chasing down RSVPs? Not so much. In this episode, we’re diving into the world of wedding invitations: how to get guests to actually respond (on time), who really gets a plus one, and what makes a wedding website actually useful. We’re also spilling a few invitation hacks and tips on creating stress-free seating charts. Whether you're planning your big day or just love the drama of guest list etiquette, this 25-minute episode is packed with helpful info and a few laug...
Pour a drink and cue the playlist, because this week we’re talking all things wedding entertainment with the one and only DJ Jilly Beatz — a Charleston-based DJ with over a decade of experience turning receptions into unforgettable parties. In this episode, we dive into how to actually create a wedding vibe that reflects you — from picking a DJ who knows how to read the room to navigating the DJ vs. live band debate, understanding pricing, booking timelines, and handling last-minute chaos (lo...
Pour a glass and pull up your Pinterest board because this week, we’re talking all things color analysis with the fabulous Katie Heatherington of House of Color. In this episode, we dive into how finding your wow colors can totally transform your bridal style—from picking the perfect shade of white for your dress to choosing bridesmaid colors that don’t make your girls look like they’re auditioning for a pastel horror movie. Katie walks us through what really happens during a color analysis (...
Welcome to the very first episode of RSVP Thanks! Lindsey and Kam kick things off with real-talk advice for anyone just starting their wedding planning journey — including timeline tips, budget breakdowns, and the truth about why vendors don’t always list their pricing. They also answer some of your hotline questions (like whether you should do a first look) and wrap up with some rapid-fire hot takes — from bouquet toss debates to garter removal, videographer vs. content creator, and ...
Planning a wedding? This episode is a must listen. We kick things off talking about New Year’s intentions, vision boards, and long-term growth, then shift into the parts of wedding planning no one sees on Instagram. From plus-ones who turn into unexpected wedding participants, to family members who believe they own venues, dates, and entire wedding months, we break down the real-life situations planners and couples are constantly navigating behind the scenes. In this episode, we cover: Guest ...
This week, we are joined by the one and only Garrett Heatherington to help us flip the script and bringing you a groom's POV on wedding day. From planning roles to wedding day emotions, he shares what was fun, what was stressful, and the moments that hit him the hardest. We talk involvement, expectations, communication, and yes… the “happy wife, happy life” mindset that shows up more than most couples admit - even when choosing suits! Whether you’re a bride trying to decode your fiancé or a g...
We brought in venue owner Sasha Gregory of 108 West Main and Complete Weddings and Events Charleston to help us untangle some of the wildest wedding-day challenges we’ve seen. Together, we walk through the moments that venues catch before anyone notices, the situations that make a wedding fall apart, and the small details that matter more than couples realize. Sasha’s perspective brings a whole new layer to the vendor conversation. A view that is real, refreshing, and hilarious in some moment...
Wedding season has us blessed and exhausted! We’re answering your questions about avoiding burnout, sharing the trends we’re loving, and pulling jaw-dropping stories from Reddit: last-minute guest additions, political-themed ceremonies, “extra plate” invoices, videographers parked in the aisle, and the most chaotic date-change email you’ve ever heard. If you’re planning right now, this pep talk’s for you: remember the "why", protect your energy, and lean on pros who save you time (and m...
What even is a wedding content creator—and how do they fit into your vendor team? Charleston's O.G. wedding content creator, Kate Conway, (Conway Everlasting) joins us to unpack how this role has evolved, what separates professionals from “a friend with an iPhone,” and how fast-turnaround BTS actually gets done. We talk creative burnout, respectful collaboration with photographers and videographers, what’s in our gear bags (FOUR IPHONES?!), and the trends we love (and loathe). Interested...
For the Bride with a champagne taste, but a Cricut budget. In this episode, Lindsey and Kam spill the secrets every bride needs to know about saving money without sacrificing style. From crafty hacks that wow guests to the splurges actually worth it. We’re breaking down the real budget wins (and fails) we’ve seen firsthand. If you’re a bride on a budget or just want to spend smarter, this one’s for you! 0:00 – Weddings are $$$ 0:24 – Save vs. splurge intro 1:04 – Time is money 1:23 – Invita...
This week on RSVP Thanks, we sit down with Alex from Bella Bridesmaids, who shares everything you need to know about shopping for both wedding gowns and bridesmaid dresses. From timelines and alterations to sizing realities, regrets, and trends, Alex gives practical advice to make dress shopping less stressful and way more fun. We also dive into Bella Bridesmaids’ sister store, Madison Row South, a Charleston bridal boutique where brides find their dream gowns. If you’re preparing to shop for...



