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Helping parents talk to their kids about sex
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Screens are part of life, which means we need to be intentional about the boundaries we set at home. Andrew and Amelia discuss how they manage screen time in their families, what they recommend, and what they've learned through trial and error. Technology will only keep growing—so let's figure out how to live with it in a healthy, balanced way.
Seiji, director of High Noon Highschool, joins School of Love, diving into meaningful questions like: Why don't teens want to talk? Why do they avoid the topic of sex? How do they feel seen and heard? Join us in this conversation of what teens are going through so we can discover how we can bond and thrive in our parental role.
In this episode, I share about my recent experience of childbirth—my sixth birth and fifth child. This time, I approached it with a clear intention: to make the birthing experience my own creation. I'll share which parts of that vision came to life, what I had to let go of, and the lessons that unfolded along the way. I also touch upon why it's so important to bring childbirth out of the shadows and into the light of family conversations—where it belongs.
In this heartfelt conversation, Yun-A and I explore what it means to pass on our faith to our little legacies — our children. We share practical tips for nurturing faith in daily life — from cultivating emotional resilience to practicing unconditional love in parenting. Along the way, we touch on the powerful role of Nature in spiritual growth and reflect on the essence of faith and connection with God. Tune in, be inspired, and take a moment to ask yourself: What's the most important thing in my faith I want to pass on? And the School of Love question for us all: How can I have great conversations with my child about God's creation of sex?
What could be the linchpin of adolescence, transitioning into a healthy, whole, loving adult? A linchpin is a small but essential part that holds things together. In this episode, Andrew talks about rites of passage, and I see how this could be a linchpin every child needs when growing up and facing puberty. Creating a support system, cementing a security of being present for our kids. We all need connection, especially in this age where true connection is drowning deeper and deeper under in the superficial disguise of phones and social media. In the past, tribes found ways to create rites of passage to show a child a special time of growth and responsibility, welcoming them into the elder circle. How can we mark this time, create connection, and why is that so important?
We all need connection, but often don't feel connected enough or at all. What is the glass between us that makes that connection even more out of reach? Jason Frost shares all about the many ways social media, pornography and general time usage behind a screen -especially amongst youth- has detrimental effects to our kids' childhood and for us all. Founder of Wired Human and author of the book, The Glass Between Us along with his wife, Lisa Frost, Jason shares the wake up call for us to be aware of what is taking the essence out of our kids' lives, and what we as parents can do about it! Check out resources for parents and kids on his website: https://wiredhuman.org/
How do you feel about sex, and where did that influence come from? William Haines, a teacher, lecturer, pastor and much more, explains the religious history around sexuality. We dive into who influenced the Christian perspective of sex, as well as different perspectives held by Judaism. We also examine the story of the Fall of Man, and how that may be influencing us still today. The important take away - let's start choosing God's perspective of sex, and let that be the inheritance for our children.
What's God's fashion advice? How can we mix our creativity in how we dress along with respect for our bodies? How do we have conversations at home about dressing in a way that truly values ourselves? Kristen Miele, a Christian sex educator with over 15 years of experience, shares her knowledge on biblical insight as well as her own experience. We hope this episode helps you to find ways to have great conversations about this topic at home!
Sandra Lowen shares heartfelt insights on parenting in today's increasingly unsafe and hypersexualized world. We explore how to truly support our children through complex challenges like low self-esteem, exposure to pornography, and questions around masturbation—topics often difficult to address, especially within a faith-based context. Sandra speaks about the disappointments and struggles many parents face, offering both compassion and practical guidance. She emphasizes the importance of physical affection, understanding, and forgiveness—not just during childhood, but as a lifelong foundation that carries into the teen years and beyond! Whether you're a parent seeking guidance, comfort, or tools for deeper connection, this episode offers wisdom, encouragement, and real-world strategies rooted in love and faith.
In this episode we take a look at what's normal and how it can become a dangerous trap to slip into. Human beings have a natural instinct to fit in, and if we aren't mindful about the influence of our environment, we can end up fitting into something that isn't even good for us. This affects parents and children alike. Here we take a look at the culture in this world, specifically around sex, and how that may be influencing us as parents as well as our children. There are a lot of norms to break. So let's exemplify a true culture for our kids, support them in the challenges in standing up for their true selves, and let's build a community and culture that lifts each other up to an enriching standard, rather than a destructive one.
Don't miss this episode, an interview with the brilliant duo, Mary Flo and Megan, two lovely ladies who partnered to create Birds & Bees, which revolutionizes "The Talk" about sex into something so much easier - approachable, everyday conversations that build up over time. Here we talk about finding our voice in this important topic, and making that awkward leap into the conversation a much more natural and simpler step. I loved getting to know these ladies and truly support their message! If you're interested in doing their course for parents on talking to your kids about sex, visit https://birds-bees.com/ and get 20% off with the code I share at the end of the episode. ;)
In this episode we piece through how both Daria and Sebastian learned about sex, how it was going through puberty and where they are today. Going through puberty is generally a challenge for everyone. Daria and Sebastian share open and honestly about their experiences. Then we get to, how can we make it better? What kind of support helped them get to where they are today? That's where us parents come in. We can support our kids through puberty. Every child needs that continuous love, grace and connection. So listen in to gain insight as to how we can make our child's journey richer and smoother. Check out HN Couples here: https://highnoon.org/hn-couples Here you can do their survey and sign up for their newsletter: https://bit.ly/HNCouples-Survey
Soyung Pak, a children's book author and mom of 3, decided to change the way to talk in their family about sex, by answering her children's questions instead of running away from them. Then she shared that with the world in her book, "Welcome, Baby!" In this episode we talk about how this book is a great foundation and conversation starter for children of any age, and parents at any comfort level. We also touch upon how this conversation can keep going, and how important it is to show our kids they're not alone in processing the very sexualized information this world throws at us. How would you start or improve conversations with your kids about sex?
Listen in to this episode with Kristen Miele, a remarkable Christian mom and sexual education expert, who has devoted 15 years to empowering children, parents and faith communities. Discover how she has integrated God's revelation into her sex education. She offers practical advice, scientific information, as well as encouragement for kids and parents to understand God's design, shedding light on topics that have far too often been only explained in darkness. Check out her website here: https://www.sexedreclaimed.com/ And don't miss this episode!
Rashida Shakir, a loving mom of three and a dedicated blogger on awareness on child sexual abuse and parenting, shares how she started her journey. She explains how she speaks with her kids on topics like puberty, safe touch, pornography, all of which do cross a line of cultural norms, but at the same time thousands of parents resonate with her message and appreciate her guidance. Sometimes we have to be brave in order to protect our kids, and Rashida has led the way for many! Ultimately, this episode is about protecting our kids through open conversation, and keeping a bond of trust so they always feel they can come to us. Please listen in for insight on how Rashida ingrains this into her relationship with her kids. Also, please check out her blog on instagram: @my.blissful.parenting.life
How do you keep growing as an individual when you've got a family to take care of? And how do you get your family on board with a goal you're passionate about? Rafael Guignard shares the insight he's harvested - from his experience as a life coach as well as his own quest in growth while raising a family. One big takeaway? When you align your personal growth with your family's well-being, the benefits multiply—for you and them. Rafael shares the small steps you can start with, and the big impact they can have over time. Want to work with Rafael? You can reach him here: rafael.guignard.coach@gmail.com
Is the word accountability a word of joy or burden for you? In this podcast, Benjy and I talk about being accountable and getting accountability. Both are so important in our parenting life. Being accountable for our children builds the trust we need to have a deep relationship and to be there to support them in life. Whether it's just being present with them, giving God's love, or being a reliable confidant in their experience and questions on sexuality. Getting accountability can be the best action step you can take to truly grow in the direction you're aiming for. Don't miss the insight as well as the heartfelt and fun parenting stories Benjy shares! Feel free to contact us: Amelia - amelia@schooloflove.org Benjy - benjy@highnoon.org
Chris McKenna, founder of Protect Young Eyes, shares novel and needed ideas in how to protect our kids when they connect to the internet. In this episode he shares about open communication with our kids about trust, the countless dangers that internet gives them access to, and how present we need to be in their internet world. He also shares the inspiring story behind his journey, turning his passion for internet safety into a mission to empower parents through Protect Young Eyes. His website, https://www.protectyoungeyes.com/, has thorough information and resources such as device guides, app reviews, and up-to-date info on tech trends for families. Please check it out! :)
Honesty - another one of the 5 Core Virtues, and we're bringing it into the heart of parenting. How much do you love honesty? Most of us agree it's a cornerstone of a meaningful life—but how does it truly shape our parenting? In this episode, Justin reflects on his personal journey with honesty, and together, we explore why this virtue is essential for raising children, especially if it's what we want from our kids. What helps you to be honest? How can we make honesty feel safe? What can we do to encourage our children to open up about their thoughts and feelings? Listen to this episode to discover how this virtue is a crucial piece to having meaningful conversations with your kids, as well as guiding them to understand their God-given sexuality.
Immersing myself in School of Love has brought us a few leaps closer to the culture I truly wish for my family. In this podcast I share how this past year, even when starting at 0, it's possible to take several steps towards your goals for your family. I had a few impactful realizations this year. One big realization was: family is the ideal place for conversations on the topic of sexuality. Taking action after this realization has been so liberating in my relationship with my kids. Here I share that with you along with what kind of action steps we've taken. I wish you a wonderful close to the year! Tune into your aspirations for 2025!
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