Parenting With Psychology

✨ Ready to transform chaos into calm through the power of consistency? Join my FREE Parenting Reset Workshop → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/reset Feeling like you're constantly repeating yourself, battling bedtime, and stuck in power struggles? You're not alone—and it's not your fault. Inconsistent routines create anxious, testing kids. But when you master the 5 pillars of consistency, everything changes. In this episode, I show you the complete framework that transforms family dynamics: unconditional positive regard as your foundation, daily rhythms that reduce meltdowns, consistent sleep that changes everything, clear family values that end the broken record, and consequences that actually teach. You'll discover why connection leads to cooperation, how to work with your child's biology instead of against it, the bedtime ranges that shock most parents, my favorite Family Mantra strategy, and the 80/20 rule for picking your battles. This isn't about perfection—it's about creating the security and predictability your child needs to thrive. #consistencychallenge #PositiveParenting #ParentingStrategies #BetterBehavior #CalmParenting ✨ Consistency changes everything and it only takes 5 days to begin. Get the free guide → https://drlindsayemmerson.com/consistency New to my podcast?  I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies  00:00 – 01:31: Day 1 - Unconditional Positive Regard   01:31 – 04:30: Day 2 - Your Quick Win Strategy   04:30 – 07:38: Day 3 - The Game-Changer   07:38 – 10:25: Day 4 - Clear Expectations Through Family Values   10:25 – 13:04: Day 5 - Consistent Consequences That Teach   13:04 – 18:33: Grand Payoff

✨ Start parenting with the entire 5 C's parenting framework → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/club   Exhausted from repeating yourself? You're not alone—and it's not your fault. The way most of us communicate with our children accidentally teaches them they don't have to listen. In this episode, I show you the simple three-word shift that transforms how children respond to your requests. You'll discover why "Can you please..." is sabotaging you, the three words that get kids listening the first time, the crucial follow-through that makes it stick, why your tone matters as much as your words, and what to do when they still don't listen. This isn't about being mean or aggressive—it's about calm, clear communication that sets both you and your child up for success.   #GetKidsToListen #ParentingCommunication #PositiveDiscipline #CalmParenting #ParentingTips New to my podcast?  I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. 00:00 – 01:48: Why "Can You Please" Is Sabotaging You   01:48 – 02:59: The Three Words That Change Everything   02:59 – 04:16: The Follow-Through That Makes It Stick   04:16 – 05:44: Why Your Tone Matters as Much as Your Words   05:44 – 08:16: What to Do When They Still Don't Listen

✨  Ready to transform from reactive chaos to intentional confidence? Join my FREE Parenting Reset Workshop → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop Feeling like you're constantly reacting to your child's behavior instead of preventing it? You're not alone—and it's not your fault. There's a neurological reason your brain keeps you stuck in reactive mode, and in this video, I show you exactly how to shift into intentional, confident parenting. You'll discover what reactive parenting actually looks like (and why it's not bad parenting), the hidden neurological cost of chronic reactivity on you and your child, why inconsistent responses create anxiety in children, the exact 5 C's framework that transforms chaos into calm confidence, how to plan your responses during calm moments instead of crisis moments, and the one practice that retrains your brain to default to intention instead of reaction. This isn't about being perfect—it's about being purposeful. When you parent with intention instead of desperation, your child gets the best version of you. #IntentionalParenting #ParentingPsychology #5Cs #CalmParenting #parentingconfidence  New to my podcast?  I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. 00:00 – 01:06: What Reactive Parenting Actually Looks Like   01:06 – 03:03: The Hidden Cost of Reactive Parenting   03:03 – 04:12: The Shift That Changes Everything   04:12 – 08:12: Building Your Intentional Parenting Practice

✨ Stop searching for answers in the comment section—get the complete system inside The Amazing Parents Club → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/club In this episode, I show you a fathering approach backed by 60 years of psychology research that teaches respect without fear. I explain why the old authoritarian model fails, how fear-based discipline damages confidence and emotional health, and what it really means to be a strong, connected leader in your family. You'll learn how your physical presence, tone, and reactions shape your child's nervous system, and I'll teach you a powerful teaching strategy—try again—that corrects behavior while preserving connection. This episode will help you break generational cycles, parent with calm authority, and become the kind of father your kids trust, respect, and want a relationship with for life. Keep up your parenting progress with my free workshop: https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/reset New to my podcast?  I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies  00:00 – 01:34: Introduction   01:34 – 03:24: Why the Old Model Doesn't Work   03:24 – 05:02: What Amazing Fathering Looks Like   05:02 – 07:17: Your Physical Presence Matters   07:17 – 11:19: Try Again – The Teaching Consequence

✨ Invest in your family relationships—not just another parenting course. Join The Amazing Parents Club for the complete 5 C's framework + community → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/club In this video, I teach you a simple, science-backed strategy that can help you lose your cool less often and let go of the guilt that follows. I explain why calm parenting isn't about never feeling angry, but about what you do in the moments when emotions spike, and I show you how two powerful words, try again can change the way you regulate yourself under pressure. You'll learn the psychology behind self-compassion, how rupture and repair actually strengthen your bond with your child, and a practical calm-parent reset you can use in under 10 seconds. This video will help you respond instead of react, model emotional regulation for your kids, and build the kind of calm, resilient parenting legacy you want to be remembered for. Keep up your parenting progress with my free workshop: https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/reset ✨ Ready to master balanced parenting in under 12 weeks? Go here: https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/blueprint New to my podcast?  I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies  00:00 – 01:33: Introduction   01:33 – 03:30: Why "Try Again" Works for Parents Too   03:30 – 06:06: The Three-Step In-the-Moment Process   06:06 – 09:33: Building Your Calm Parent Toolkit   09:33 – 11:25: The Science of Self-Compassion

✨  Transform holiday chaos into calm! Free workshop: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/calm   Is your child acting wild after weeks of holiday excitement, sugar, and disrupted routines? In this episode, I'll show you my proven 72-hour framework for getting your child back to normal after the holiday chaos. By the end of this week, your home can feel calm again. New to my podcast?  I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies  00:00 – 2:07: Why Kids Go Completely Haywire After Holidays   2:07 – 3:06: The 72-Hour Framework Overview   3:06 – 4:54: Day 1—The Critical Sleep Reset   4:54 – 6:33: Day 2—Routine and Nutrition Stabilization   6:33 – 9:21: Day 3—Regulation and Reset

✨ Start 2026 with clear boundaries! Free workshop: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop   The holidays are over, and it's time for a fresh start! In this video, I'll show you exactly how to reset boundaries that may have slipped during the holiday chaos—without feeling like the "mean parent." I'll walk you through 5 key boundary areas to reset this week using psychology-backed strategies. Invest in your family relationships—not just another parenting course. Join The Amazing Parents Club for the complete 5 C's framework + community → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/club New to my podcast?  I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies  00:00 – 1:56: Why Boundaries Slip During the Holidays (And Why That's Okay)   1:56 – 3:55: The Psychology Behind Why Kids Actually Need This Reset   3:55 – 5:33: The 5 Boundary Areas to Reset This Week   5:33 – 6:51: How to Communicate the Reset Without Being the Bad Guy   6:51 – 8:30: What to Do When They Push Back (Because They Will)

✨ Ready to stop the guesswork? Join The Amazing Parents Club for psychology-based strategies, live support, and a judgment-free community → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/club In this episode, I explain the critical parenting mistake between ages 12–18 that determines whether teens grow into capable, independent adults or struggle to launch in their 20s. I'll walk you through the research showing why autonomy restriction during the teen years backfires, and why your teen's push for independence is actually a healthy sign of brain development. You'll learn what supporting autonomy really looks like in everyday situations, how to guide without controlling, and how helping teens practice decision-making now builds confidence, resilience, and the skills they need to thrive as adults. New to my podcast?  I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies  00:00 – 0:39: Introduction   0:39 – 1:14: The Developmental Shift   1:14 – 1:50: What Support Looks Like in Practice   1:50 – 2:21: The Long‑Term Outcome

✨ Invest in your family relationships—not just another parenting course. Join The Amazing Parents Club for the complete 5 C's framework + community → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/club  In this video, I explain the critical mistake parents often make between ages 6–11 that determines whether their child hides struggles or turns to them for support during the teen years. Drawing on decades of research and my work with families, I show how tying love to performance creates anxiety and perfectionism, while unconditional positive regard builds trust, resilience, and open communication. You'll learn what unconditional acceptance looks like in everyday moments during failures, disappointments, and successes—and why becoming your child's safe place now shapes the relationship you'll have with them for life. New to my podcast?  I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies  00:00 – 0:42: Introduction   0:42 – 1:12: The Core Problem   1:12 – 1:56: What This Looks Like in Real Life   1:56 – 2:34: The Long‑Term Impact

✨ Tired of reacting instead of responding? Get the Better Behavior Blueprint + ongoing support in The Amazing Parents Club → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/club In this episode, I explain the critical shift between ages 1–5 that shapes whether your child grows into a cooperative teen or years of power struggles follow. Drawing on my work as a clinical psychologist, I break down what it means to move from being a comforter to a loving authority, establishing leadership, explaining the "why" behind rules, and holding firm to three non-negotiables: safety, respect, and responsibility. You'll learn how clear, consistent boundaries in the toddler years build cooperation, trust, and self-discipline that lasts well beyond childhood. New to my podcast?  I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies  

✨ Download your Workshop Workbook here: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Rrg1evj0Q2fIP6dv2-kaHXYhR9o66Lv1/view In this video, I welcome you to the From Chaos to Calm Workshop and walk you through five actionable strategies you can start using tonight to bring more peace into your home. You'll learn how to rate your current chaos level, download the free workbook to guide your notes, and stay tuned for a special bonus resource at the end. I also share a bit about my background as a clinical psychologist and mom of four, and explain how these strategies, drawn from my 5 C's parenting framework help parents move from daily overwhelm to real, measurable calm. ✨ You don't have to figure this out alone! Join The Amazing Parents Club for the 5 C's framework, live Q&As with Dr. Lindsay, and a supportive community → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/club New to my podcast?  I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ✨ Here's the link to your Dining Out guide: https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/dining ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies  00:00 – 00:27: Introduction 00:27 – 02:26: Topic Overview 02:26 – 03:29: Relevance 03:29 – 04:21: Transformation Promise 04:21 – 07:32: Why Most Parents Get the Balance Wrong 07:32 – 09:41: Supporting Points 09:41 – 27:45: The 5 Strategies from Chaos to Calm

✨ Want to become a confident parent in 12 weeks or less? Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop-pod In this episode, you'll learn about the critical 0–9 month window that most new parents overlook and why secure attachment, not sleep schedules or fancy gear, is what truly shapes your baby's brain. I'll walk you through the research behind early bonding, including the powerful lessons from Romanian orphanage studies, and show you exactly how simple, consistent responsiveness builds lifelong emotional health. You'll learn what secure attachment looks like in everyday moments, why clinginess is actually a sign you're doing it right, and how those first months lay the foundation for your child's resilience, relationships, and future success. New to my podcast?  I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies 00:00 – 0:48: Why the First 9 Months Matter Most   0:48 – 1:28: What Secure Attachment Really Looks Like   1:28 – 2:15: Long-Term Impact & What Success Actually Means

✨ Want to become a confident parent in 12 weeks or less? Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop-pod In this episode, you'll learn the simple Thanksgiving tradition that takes under five minutes but can transform your family's well-being for years to come. I'll explain the psychology behind why gratitude boosts mental health, strengthens family bonds, and supports children's development - plus three easy ways to turn Thanksgiving gratitude into a meaningful, year-round family practice. New to my podcast?  I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies  00:00 - 1:43: Intro   1:43 - 3:09: Thankful Thursdays   3:09 - 4:36: Rose Bud Thorn   4:36 - 6:28: Model Gratitude Daily

✨  Want to become a confident parent in 12 weeks or less? Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/calm In this episode, we'll talk about how to handle parenting disagreements with your partner without constant conflict or confusion for your kids. You'll learn what research says about parenting differences, why you don't need to be perfectly aligned to raise thriving children, and eight practical strategies to communicate, compromise, and stay united as a parenting team. New to my podcast?  I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies  00:00 – 0:35: Introduction 0:35 – 1:31: Why Parents Disagree   1:31 – 2:53: The Good News from Research   2:53 – 5:33: The Real Issue   5:33 – 10:00: How to Navigate Differences   10:00 – 12:46: When One Parent Is Disengaged

✨ Ready to master balanced parenting in under 12 weeks? Go here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop-pod In this episode, you'll learn the four most common communication mistakes that make kids ignore you and the simple, science-backed fixes that actually work. These quick shifts in how you phrase requests, give directions, and connect with your child can transform daily power struggles into calm cooperation so your child listens the first time, not the 17th. New to my podcast?  I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies  00:00 – 1:46: Communication Mistake #1   1:46 – 3:27: Communication Mistake #2   3:27 – 4:57: Communication Mistake #3   4:57 – 7:00: Communication Mistake #4

✨  Want to become a confident parent in 12 weeks or less? Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop-pod In this video, you'll learn what to do when your child hits, kicks, or throws things during a meltdown and why punishment makes it worse. I'll show you a research-backed approach that protects everyone's safety, teaches emotional regulation, and strengthens connection. You'll discover how calm, consistent boundaries help your child build true self-control and lasting respect. New to my podcast?  I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies  00:01 – 1:55 | The Research‑Backed Approach   1:55 – 2:26 | Your Parental Role

✨  Want to become a confident parent in 12 weeks or less? Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop-pod In this video, we'll unpack the viral "F* Around and Find Out" (FAFO) parenting trend — what it really means, what research says about it, and how it compares to authoritative parenting. You'll learn the difference between consequences that build resilience and those that harm connection, plus how to balance structure, empathy, and real-world learning to raise confident, emotionally intelligent kids. New to my podcast?  I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies  00:00 – 1:55: What is FAFO Parenting?   1:55 – 3:18: The Research‑Backed Strengths   3:18 – 5:02: The Research‑Based Concerns   5:02 – 6:57: An Alternative Approach   6:57 – 7:59: The Real Solution

✨ Ready to master balanced parenting in under 12 weeks? Go here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop-pod In this episode, I share the one simple safety skill that saved my son one Halloween night and how you can teach it to your child before trick-or-treating. You'll also learn two bonus, psychology-based tips: when to buy your child's costume to avoid stress and how to tailor Halloween plans for introverted or extroverted kids so the night is fun, safe, and meltdown-free. New to my podcast?  I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies  00:00 – 1:40: Important Safety Skill   1:40 – 3:19: Money‑Saving Tip   3:19 – 5:26: How to Keep Halloween Happy

✨ Want to feel more in control with your parenting in just 1 day? Join my Confident Parenting Workshop on October 9th and learn 5 quick strategies you can use immediately: https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/liveworkshop In this episode, we'll explore pendulum parenting—what happens when you swing from a permissive childhood to overly strict parenting. You'll learn how to set healthy boundaries without guilt, provide structure with warmth, and balance firmness with kindness. I'll also show you how to stop second-guessing yourself and parent with confidence while breaking generational cycles. New to my podcast?  I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies  00:00 – 2:26: Recognizing the Overcorrection   2:26 – 3:53: What Balanced Structure Looks Like   3:53 – 5:49: Finding Your Balance   5:49 – 7:17: Timeline and Results

✨ Want to feel more in control with your parenting in just 1 day? Join my Confident Parenting Workshop on October 9th and learn 5 quick strategies you can use immediately: https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/liveworkshop In this video, we'll cover the critical parenting shift every child between ages 1 and 5 needs—establishing yourself as their loving authority. You'll learn how to set consistent boundaries, explain the "why" behind your rules, and focus on safety, respect, and responsibility. These strategies reduce power struggles, build cooperation, and set the stage for a lifelong respectful relationship. New to my podcast?  I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies  00:00 – 00:46 Why Ages 1–5 Are a Critical Parenting Window   00:46 – 02:28 Principle #1: Establishing Yourself as the Loving Authority   02:28 – 03:32 How to Use Calm Leadership in Daily Battles   03:32 – 05:19 Principle #2: Explaining "Why" Behind Household Rules   05:19 – 06:48 Principle #3: Focusing on Safety, Respect, and Responsibility   06:48 – 08:41 Teaching Skills Instead of Punishing Behavior   08:41 – 09:15 Building Cooperation and Mutual Respect for the Long Term