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#196 Shy Girl Seeks Love In A Big World (Part 2): I Do...Or Do I?

2026-02-0429:15

Sima travels to Iran with just one goal: To figure out if the man she's only met twice is going to be her husband or not. (No pressure, right?!) The once long-distance connection quickly turns into family meetings, cultural traditions, gold coin negotiations, and a wedding timeline that moves faster than you can say "wedding dress". Listen as our girl navigates first kisses, quiet doubts, unmet expectations and what can happen when you haven't quite found your voice yet 🧡 If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together! HOW TO CONNECT: Find us on INSTAGRAM! BigLashPodcast Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com IN THIS EPISODE: -Crazy love story -Navigating love amidst cultural expectations -Finding love online -Iranian customs and traditions -Family stories

#195 Shy Girl Seeks Love In A Big World (Part 1): Switching Positions

2026-01-2827:27

Part 1 of a story that will unravel into something you won't be able to stop thinking about. In this episode, Jayna introduces a woman very close to her heart — a trusted member of her makeup team and a friend who, like so many of us, wanted love badly enough she silenced her own intuition. What begins as a romantic, hopeful meeting with a man who feels like "the one" quickly becomes the opening chapter of a much bigger, darker, and more complicated journey. This episode is the calm before the storm — the butterflies, the chemistry, the moments that feel fated… and the tiny red flags that are easy to dismiss when you're in too deep. It lays the emotional groundwork for a multi-part series that will unfold into betrayal, endurance, and the devastating cost of abandoning yourself for love. By the end, you'll be asking one question: is this the man she marries… or the man who changes her forever? Buckle up, because what's coming next will have you on the edge of your seat. 🧡 If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together! HOW TO CONNECT: Find us on INSTAGRAM! BigLashPodcast Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com

#194 Totally UNHINGED Girl Talk: Poo It For The Plot! 💩

2026-01-2125:31

WARNING: ADULT CONTENT! Two girls, one mic, ZERO dignity. Good luck NOT laughing at this outrageous late night confessional that will have you feeling like you just stayed up past curfew, giggling till your tummy hurts! Just wait till you hear Rikki and Jayna's most embarrassing stories. Your host and her best friend are tucked into a hotel bed in Mexico, whisper-laughing, oversharing, and reliving their most mortifying moments — including two separate "I might not make it to the bathroom" near-tragedies and the time Jayna genuinely believed she had collected every STI like they were Pokémon cards. If your life is lacking in laughter, then make sure to press play. This might possibly be the funniest episode of BLE to date! 🧡 If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together! HOW TO CONNECT: Find us on INSTAGRAM! BigLashPodcast Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com

#193 My Date With 50 Cent (Part 2): GO GET YOUR MAN!

2026-01-1434:31

In this episode, Jayna tells the slightly unhinged, laugh-out-loud story of flying to Vegas to meet her longtime celebrity crush, 50 Cent — powered by pure delusion, main-character energy, and the part of her that still believes anything is possible. From the hype squad cheering her on, to the butterflies, to the "is this actually real life?" moment, this is a rom-com-meets-manifestation tale fueled by big dreams and audacity. It's playful, flirty, and full of "why not me?" energy, reminding you what happens when you stop being sensible for five minutes and let your younger, bolder, wildly optimistic self lead the way. Because sometimes the best stories come from following your heart, trusting the universe, and saying yes before your adult brain can talk you out of it. This is one you do not want to miss! 🧡 If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together! HOW TO CONNECT: Find us on INSTAGRAM! BigLashPodcast Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com

#192 My Date With 50 Cent (Part 1): Soooo You're Saying There's A Chance?!

2026-01-0726:20

Talk about THE AUDACITY...Just wait until you hear all about Jayna's trip to meet her long-time celebrity crush, 50 Cent. This episode is the perfect example of doing it for the story — dreaming big, leaning into curiosity, and choosing bold experiences over playing it safe. This isn't about guarantees or expectations. It's about giving yourself permission to be delulu, to chase something that feels exciting, and to let life surprise you. Because sometimes the best moments come from saying "why not me?" and YES to the thing that scares you. This is the build up to next week. The back story, the imaginary relationship, the prep for the trip and all the hype she needed. Featuring special appearances by: Sharlene (@glossynails), Elsa @jewelietteshop), Jaynas Mom, Dad, AND Arzo too! 🧡 If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together! HOW TO CONNECT: Find us on INSTAGRAM! BigLashPodcast Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com

#191 Best & Worst of 2025: Life Hacks And Trends To Bring Into 2026

2025-12-3129:45

Roasting the trends we should leave behind + calling dibs on the ones we're bring with us into 2026. In this episode, Jayna shares her "Best Of's" from the past 365 days: Best Purchase, Best Treat, Best Hair + Makeup Trends as well as the Years Hunkiest Man...just to name a few! Click for a laugh and a fun trip down memory lane! 🥂Cheers to an AMAZING 2026 from BLE! 🧡 📝 MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Brown Noise Oura Ring Green Machine Walking Pad Water Flosser 🎁 If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together! HOW TO CONNECT: Find us on INSTAGRAM! BigLashPodcast Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com

#190 A Holiday Grinch List: 10 Things I HATE About Christmas!

2025-12-2431:12

The holidays are supposed to be magical… so why do they feel like a full-time job no one applied for? In this unapologetically grinchy episode, Jayna drops her Holiday Grinch List and counts down the 10 things she HATES about Christmas This isn't about poo poo-ing festive fun — it's about calling out how wildly complicated we've made the holidays, especially for women. Expect laughs, truth bombs, relatable rants, and a reminder that the real magic isn't in the gifts, décor, or perfectly curated moments — it's in presence, connection, and chilling the f*ck out. If you've ever felt overwhelmed, overstimulated, or secretly wanted to cancel Christmas (but dont want to be considered a grinch), this episode gives you a safe space to admit, it can be HARD WORK pulling all the strings behind the scenes. 🎁 If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together! HOW TO CONNECT: Find us on INSTAGRAM! BigLashPodcast Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com

#189 Do They Hate Me? And Other Thoughts That Drive Me Crazy

2025-12-1719:21

Are you a sucker for taking things personally? Have you ever walked away from an interaction assuming, "Oh… they definitely hate me". Same. In this playful, feel-good episode, Jayna talks about how wildly wrong we can be about people when we assume their tone, mood, or energy is personal. Through funny misunderstandings, awkward moments, and very relatable scenarios, she explores what's really going on beneath the surface. This episode is a reminder (served with humor and heart) that not every weird vibe is about you, not every silence is rejection, and not every reaction deserves a spiral. Especially during the holidays, when emotions are high and patience is low, Jayna shows you how to laugh it off, protect your peace, and confidently remind yourself: that's not a me problem, babe! ✨ 🎁 If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together! HOW TO CONNECT: Find us on INSTAGRAM! BigLashPodcast Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com

#188 You'll Never BELIEVE What Happened On Our Family Vacation!!

2025-12-1027:07

What was SUPPOSED to be a beautiful family vacation turned out to be a week straight out of a reality tv disaster reel. This episode is funny, unhinged, and full of all the chaos Jayna DIDN'T post on Instagram. (We're talking some serious "are you kidding me?!" moments) Our host had every reason to lose her mind, but somewhere between the stress and the unmet expectations, she learned that sometimes connection happens in the messy, unfiltered, totally imperfect moments. If you've ever planned the "perfect trip" only to end up crying, stressed, and bonding through absolute nonsense… this one is for you! Also...did you know Jayna's an international drug smuggler??...it's true!

#187 Is Squirting Pee? + How Porn Affects What's Expected of You & Me

2025-12-0322:44

WARNING: ADULT CONTENT This week, Jayna's breaking down the most over-hyped and misunderstood trend in the bedroom. She clarifies what squirting really is, how the female body actually works, and why the porn industry has completely distorted our understanding of it with camera tricks, bladder hacks, and pressure-filled expectations that don't belong in real bedrooms. Most importantly, this episode is here to calm nerves, clear myths, and remind every woman that her body isn't "broken" if she hasn't squirted — it simply means she's a normal human being and not a paid performer with a gallon of Fiji water backstage. This one's fierce, informative, and full of "OHHH now that makes sense" moments. If you've ever wondered what's fact, what's fantasy, and what's pure internet delusion… Jayna's here to hand you the truth on a silver (waterproof) platter. Expect: 💦 Real science, not porn plotlines 💦 The #1 factor that determines whether someone squirts 💦 Why porn-trained men desperately need a re-education 💦 A rant about how ridiculous squirting expectations have become 💦 Permission to explore your pleasure without pressur If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together! HOW TO CONNECT: Find us on INSTAGRAM! BigLashPodcast Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com

#186 A Singles Night With Drugs, A Werewolf and Sexy Seniors?!...OH MY!

2025-11-2630:15

Its officially boyfriend sweater season, so your girl Jayna is venturing out into the world of in-person dating events- all in the name of research! If you're thinking of cuffing up before the temperature drops, but aren't sure where all the good men are hiding — this is your episode. Slip into something snuggly, and let Jayna be your boots-on-the-ground dating correspondent. You'll be coming along with her for all the unexpected twists and turns...and you dont even have to leave your house! To hear the story of when she went speed dating, check out Episode 159 If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together! HOW TO CONNECT: Find us on INSTAGRAM! BigLashPodcast Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com

#185 Letting Go: Could YOU Forgive The Ones Who've Hurt You The Most?

2025-11-1933:14

A must-listen for anyone living with the effects of childhood trauma, heartbreak, hurt, or resentment from the past. In this inspiring and deeply personal episode, Jayna opens up about the three most traumatic experiences of her life — the hurt she's carried with her and how she finally broke free from the pain. Our host doesn't just talk about healing… she shows you what it looks like, then walks you through the four very real steps she took (and still takes!) to stay TRULY unbothered. This episode is sure to give you a new perspective as well as inspiration to leave your sh*t in the past. Why forgive someone who hasn't apologized? How do you know when you're finally healed? What does leaving the past behind REALLY look like? This is a message straight from the heart — honest, vulnerable, and full of hope for anyone ready to lighten their load and finally level up. If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together! HOW TO CONNECT: Find us on INSTAGRAM! BigLashPodcast Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com IN THIS EPISODE: -Healing after childhood abuse -How to handle losing a friend -What is forgiveness anyways? -The benefits of letting go -How to recover after a broken heart

#184 Is He Serving Hot + Cold Energy? Listen BEFORE You Ask "What Are We?"

2025-11-1221:36

Can't tell if he's REALLY into you? Want to ask "what are we?" but afraid of what he'll say next? ...EWE! In this episode, our host breaks down the mind games behind mixed signals and teaches you how to stop wasting energy on men who are just...not...it. From breadcrumbing to "busy" energy, we're decoding it all. You'll learn how to tell who's REALLY into you, what to do with the guys who keep circling but never go all in, as well as how to respond with calm, confident detachment. It's a must-listen for anyone with a roster OR anyone constantly stuck in situationships. Take notes! After all, we're not interested in low-effort men who make all kinds of excuses...we want someone who'd obsessed with you, sis! If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together! HOW TO CONNECT: Find us on INSTAGRAM! BigLashPodcast Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com

#183 Love Is NOT Blind...and What Is "The Kiss Test"?

2025-11-0521:35

Do you think looks matter? Could you fall in love with someone you weren't attracted to? (Jayna tried one time and just wait till you hear what happened!) Whether or not you watched Love is Blind, we want you to chime in! In this episode, our host breaks down her argument as to why physical attraction does matter in relationships and that making it a priority doesn't make you shallow or superficial...it makes you human! Before you go worrying that you're not tall / thin/ pretty or sexy enough to find love... press play! There's good news for all of us! (sorry...not giving any spoilers in the show description, or what would be the fun in giving it a listen?!) Get ready for some truth, laughter, science, sass, and a little reality-TV shade. Let's talk beauty, biology, confidence, and why you should never apologize for wanting the full-body "ooOOoooohhh yes!!" If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together! HOW TO CONNECT: Find us on INSTAGRAM! BigLashPodcast Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com

#182 R.I.P. To The Old Me 💀

2025-10-2914:08

👻 In this haunting episode, our host finds herself wandering through a moonlit graveyard — only to realize she recognizes the names on all the tombstones! (Spooky, right?!) Just wait till you hear what happens...it's BLE branded goosebumps....with meaning behind it! A scary reminder that sometimes, in order to really be alive, some parts of us have to die. (insert evil laugh here) If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together! HOW TO CONNECT: Find us on INSTAGRAM! BigLashPodcast Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com

#181 The Messiest, Stressiest Week + THREE Signal Awards?! 😲 OMG!

2025-10-2234:51

Is it possible to have your best and worst week simultaniously? Press play to find out why Jayna was crying herself to sleep one night and popping bottles the next! In this seriously relatable episode, our host opens up about the chaos behind the confetti — the exhaustion, the heartbreak, and the pressure of holding it together while your world is seemingly falling apart. It's a raw rollercoaster ride of emotions because sometimes, the biggest wins come when your life's on fire. This is a candid look at the week Jayna publicly took home three podcasting trophies while privately falling apart. F*ck a highlight reel — it's the honest, hilarious, human side of success that no one talks about. Check out the wins for yourself! 2025 SIGNAL AWARD WINNERS🥇 BEST WRITING (Comedy) (Gold!) BEST SELF HELP/ SELF IMPROVEMENT PODCAST (Gold!) MOST INSPIRATIONAL PODCAST (Silver!) If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together! HOW TO CONNECT: Find us on INSTAGRAM! BigLashPodcast Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com IN THIS EPISODE self-growth, authenticity, emotional resilience, behind the scenes, success stories, keeping it together, work-life balance, Signal Award Winner, Signal Awards Winner Stories, Underdog Story

#180 Afraid They'll Hate What You Create?…Do It ANYWAYS!

2025-10-1524:36

This is your permission slip to stop waiting for everyone's approval and start creating anyway. Whether you're chasing a dream, launching a project, or just scared of what "they'll think," this episode will light the fire under your creative booty and remind you that every masterpiece was once misunderstood. ✨ It's not about being liked—it's about being bold enough to build it anyway. IN THIS EPISODE -how to handle bad reviews -advice on running your own business -advice for creators -backstory of the Eiffel tower

#179 When YOU'RE The Snack: How To Keep Your Taco Tasty! 🌮 (Tips For A Healthy Vagina!)

2025-10-0823:45

In this cheeky, confidence-boosting episode, our host shares all the spicy secrets to keeping your vagina fresh, fabulous, and oh-so-flavorful. The big sis advice we've all needed at some point- Jayna's answering the questions you might have been to shy to ask. (just wait till you hear what's wrong with all the feminine hygiene products you see at the supermarket!) From probiotics to pH balance, hydration to hygiene, we're dishing out the real talk your health class definitely skipped. So take a shot of tequila, then slide into your comfiest panties (organic cotton only, please), and get ready to laugh, learn, and love your taco a little more. 🌮✨ Follow this advice and your kitty will be living her best life...proud, pretty and fiesta ready! wink! MORE INFO: Here's what to look for in your probiotic! Lactobacillus rhamnosus GR-1 and Lactobacillus reuteri RC-14 MORE FUN: If you liked this episode, check out our other taco day celebration where Jayna discusses all things penis size! (Episode 74!) If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together! HOW TO CONNECT: Find us on INSTAGRAM! BigLashPodcast Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com IN THIS EPISODE: -Vaginal health -Womens Health issues -How to make sure your vagina tastes good -How to be more confident naked -Self Confidence -How Probiotics help with vaginal health -The importance of cotton panties -Why scented feminine hygeine products are harmful to us

#178 Clubbing with Mom Gone Terribly WRONG!

2025-10-0133:33

Talk about an unconventional family! This one's Perfect for anyone who's aspired to be "the cool mom" or the girlies who wished they had one! In this episode, Jayna shares what happened when she was in highschool and forced to tell her mom she'd been lying about partying in nightclubs. Years later, her moms reaction inspired an 18th birthday celebration idea for Arzo that would have been perfect except the universe had a different plan. Listen to find out what went so terribly wrong, why Arzo almost lost her cool and what the ladies learned from it all. Tune in for laughs and the messy truth about what could really happen when you party with your mom! If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together! HOW TO CONNECT: Find us on INSTAGRAM! BigLashPodcast Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com IN THIS EPISODE: -The struggle of trying to be a "cool mom" -The ups and downs of raising a teenager -Funny family stories -Living life to its fullest -Giving experiences over things

#177 Bridal Bloopers: My Messiest Wedding Moments Of The Year!

2025-09-2430:06

While most wedding pros keep their mishaps hush hush, Jayna's out here sharing her busy seasons biggest f*ck ups! Get ready for funny, stressful and oh-so-relatable moments that went totally sideways. You'll laugh...you'll cringe....and you might even feel a little relieved knowing that even the seasoned professionals have their "oops" moments on the job! If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together! HOW TO CONNECT: Find us on INSTAGRAM! BigLashPodcast Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com IN THIS EPISODE: -Crazy wedding stories -Working as a Makeup Artist -Bridal nightmare stories -Wedding bloopers

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