Stop Caring Too Much: From Doing Everything To Being Loved For Who You Are

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Are You Chasing in Your Relationship Without Realizing It?

2026-03-0907:22

Do you ever feel like you're the one holding your relationship together? Texting first. Fixing problems. Keeping the connection alive. Many smart, capable women don't realize they've slowly stepped into the role of carrying the relationship — trying harder, giving more, and doing everything to keep the connection close. But the more you try to create closeness… the more exhausted and unseen you can start to feel. In this episode, Sabrina Phoenix breaks down how chasing shows up in relationships — even when you don't realize you're doing it — and the shift that allows connection to become mutual again. You'll learn: • The subtle signs you might be chasing in your relationship • Why trying harder often creates pressure instead of closeness • How overgiving quietly trains the relationship to run on your effort • The shift that allows someone to meet you instead of you carrying the connection Healthy love doesn't require you to do everything, fix everything, or hold the relationship together alone. There's a version of love where you feel calm, chosen, supported, and deeply connected. If you're realizing you've been overgiving or doing more than your share in relationships, you're not alone — and this pattern can shift. Work With Sabrina If you want help identifying the exact pattern happening in your relationships and shifting how you show up, you can apply for 1-on-1 coaching here: 👉 SabrinaPhoenix.com Subscribe Follow the podcast so you don't miss upcoming episodes on: • relationship dynamics • overgiving and people-pleasing • feminine energy and attraction • creating secure, deeply connected relationships RESOURCES ✨ Take the FREE "What's Your Relationship Pattern?" Quiz → https://campsite.bio/coachphoenix 🎥 Watch the free training: Stop Chasing, Start Choosing → https://campsite.bio/coachphoenix JOIN ME LIVE: I typically go live on Fridays and answer relationship questions — subscribe so you don't miss future lives. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIqQk8e7hlHIkIlExPZTMjA

Trying Harder Won't Close the Distance— But This Will

2026-03-0308:28

Do you feel the distance in your relationship and do all you can to close that gap? If you feel like you're doing everything to keep your relationship connected… you're not alone. Many smart, capable women find themselves working harder and harder in their relationships—checking in, initiating conversations, planning time together, trying to fix things when they feel off. And the more distance you feel, the more effort you put in. But here's the truth most women don't realize: Trying harder often makes the distance worse. When you become the one carrying the emotional weight of the relationship, the dynamic slowly shifts until the connection depends on your effort to survive. In this episode, we talk about the pattern of over-functioning in relationships and why "trying harder" rarely creates the closeness you want. You'll learn what actually helps restore balance and why stepping out of the role of "relationship manager" is the beginning of real connection. Because love isn't supposed to feel like constant work. Healthy relationships feel mutual, steady, and safe. In this episode we talk about: • Why trying harder often creates more emotional distance • The hidden pattern of carrying the relationship • What happens when you stop over-managing the connection • The shift that helps relationships become mutual again If you feel like you're always the one holding the relationship together… You're not alone — and you don't have to keep doing it that way. ✨ Explore my transformational courses: https://sabrinaphoenix.com Join Me Live On Youtube on Fridays at 3-4ish central here: https://www.youtube.com/@Phoenix_Coaching

Stop Doing Everything in Your Relationship — Be Magnetic Instead

2026-02-2309:21

If you're a smart, strong, successful woman and love still feels harder than it should… this episode is for you. We're talking about the pattern that quietly turns relationships into work: overfunctioning—being the "manager," the planner, the fixer, the one holding it all together. And why, when you're always leading the relationship, you end up feeling drained, resentful, and like you're doing everything… while he's doing less. Inside, you'll learn: The difference between manager energy vs lover energy Why "carrying the relationship" kills connection (even when you have good intentions) How to spot whether he's truly invested… without chasing, fixing, or forcing You don't need to be "more feminine." You're already enough. This is about where your energy goes—and letting reality show you the truth. ➡️Take the quiz for clarity on your pattern (and what's keeping you stuck): https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL ➡️See Transformational Courses & Guides for deeper support: https://sabrinaphoenix.com I'm Sabrina Phoenix, and I help women stop doing everything in love—so they can experience a healthy, deeply connected relationship without losing themselves. #hfc #highfunctioningcodependeny #relationships #datingadviceforwomen #overdoing #overfunctioning #emotionallyavailablemen #overgiving #relationshipadvice #selfworth #boundaries #emotionalintimacy

Feel Loved This Valentine's Day — No Matter Your Relationship Status

2026-02-1110:40

Valentine's Day can bring up a lot of emotions — especially if your life doesn't look the way you thought it would by now. If you're single, feeling lonely, in a relationship that feels distant, or quietly wondering why this day affects you more than you expected… this episode is for you. ✨ Take the Quiz Understand the pattern that's been keeping you stuck:👉https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL ✨ Explore the Courses (BOGO for Month of Feb) (Use code: LOVE2026 at checkout) If you're ready to go deeper and create the kind of love you truly want…👉https://sabrinaphoenix.com/ In today's conversation, we're breaking the silent pressure around Valentine's Day — the expectations, the comparisons, and the feeling that something is missing if you don't have the "perfect" love story. The truth is, nothing has gone wrong. You don't need a relationship to feel loved, whole, or complete. This is about taking your power back. It's about learning how to create love, warmth, and meaning in your life right now — not waiting for someone else to bring it to you. In this episode, we talk about: Why Valentine's Day can feel heavy or emotional The pressure to have it all figured out by now How to stop comparing your life to what you see around you What it really means to feel love — even if you're alone or things aren't where you hoped they'd be Whether you're single, healing, dating, or in a relationship that doesn't feel how you imagined, you deserve to feel peace, comfort, and connection today. This is your reminder that love isn't something you have to wait for — it's something you can begin creating for yourself right now. If this episode speaks to you and you want to understand the patterns that may be keeping you stuck in love, take my free quiz to discover what might be blocking the healthy, secure relationship you truly want: 🎁 Take the quiz here: https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL

Stop Trying So Hard in Relationships — From Overgiving to Receiving

2026-02-0509:55

What if the problem isn't that you're not doing enough — but that you're doing too much? If you've been: overgiving overfunctioning doing more than your fair share staying in one-sided dynamics trying to make love work instead of being met 👉👉Explore the Courses (BOGO for Month of Love) ✨✨ Use code: LOVE2026 at checkout✨✨ Its time to get the deeply connected and fulfilling relationship that you've always wanted: 👉https://sabrinaphoenix.com/ ✨ Take the Quiz Understand the pattern that's been keeping you stuck: 👉https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL In this episode, I talk about what it means to be done trying hard in love and relationships. We explore: overfunctioning and overgiving why effort doesn't create reciprocity how one-sided relationships quietly drain you what happens when you stop going all out to keep things together This isn't advice. It's a truth many women feel but haven't named yet. Trying harder doesn't create closeness. It creates exhaustion. And when you stop managing, fixing, and proving — relationships either rise to meet you… or reveal that they can't. If you're ready to move out of effort & into clarity, this episode will help you see what's really happening. RELATED EPISODES Trying Harder Doesn't Create Closeness — It Blocks It. Listen To It Here.

Trying Harder Blocks Love — Feminine Energy Attracts It

2026-01-2610:26

Trying harder doesn't create the love you want — it quietly blocks it. If you're smart, capable, and doing everything right in your relationship — but still feeling unseen, unfulfilled, or emotionally drained — this episode is for you. ✨ Take the "What's Your Love Block?" Quiz (it's free) Discover the hidden pattern that's keeping you stuck in effort, overgiving, or chasing connection — and learn what actually creates closeness instead. 👉 Take the quiz: https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL 💖 Join Chosen: Next Level Love A private space for women who are done trying harder to be loved — and ready to feel calm, secure, desired, and deeply chosen without performing or overfunctioning. 👉 Join Chosen: CLICK HERE In this episode, I'm talking about: Why trying harder creates exhaustion, not intimacy How "effort" quietly turns into overfunctioning and self-abandonment The difference between forcing connection vs. allowing real closeness Why presence is more powerful than fixing, pushing, or proving How love shifts when you stop being the glue and start being you This isn't about doing more. It's about letting go of what's been draining you — and allowing love to meet you where you are. 🎧 Listen with an open heart. If this resonates, you're not behind — you're waking up.

Stop Being "Too Nice" — People Pleasing Makes You Invisible

2026-01-1907:40

Stop Being Nice and Start Being Real (How People-Pleasing Makes You Invisible). You cant create fulflling, deeply connected relationships if you're stuck in people pleasing patterns. 🔗 Chosen: Next Level Love - A private space for women who are done trying harder to be loved. Inside, you'll learn how to stop people-pleasing and overgiving, build emotional security, and create deeply connected relationships — without shrinking, performing, or losing yourself. 👉 Join here: https://www.skool.com/chosen-next-level-love-5566 People pleasing patterns, shrinking & performing in our relationships Instead of feeling valued, you feel ignored. Instead of feeling loved, you feel used. Instead of feeling cherished, you feel invisible. If you've spent your life being the "good one" — easy to love, understanding, accommodating, low-maintenance — this episode is for you. People-pleasing doesn't start because you're weak or insecure. It starts because somewhere along the way, being yourself stopped feeling safe. So you learned to: keep the peace manage other people's emotions avoid conflict swallow your needs put everyone else first And slowly… you became invisible. In this episode: why people-pleasing is really about safety, not kindness how "being good" quietly erases your needs, voice, & desires the emotional cost of over-accommodating why trying harder never makes you feel more chosen It's about honoring yourself — so that you can create authentic relationships where you feel deeply valued, loved, and seen. Take the Quiz to uncover the exact pattern keeping you stuck — and what shifts it: https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL 👉 [Take the quiz here]

The Moment You Stop Tolerating Less Than You Deserve, Everything Changes

2026-01-1205:36

Love isn't supposed to feel one-sided, exhausting, or like constant work. If you're smart, capable, and doing "everything right" in your relationship — but still not feeling supported, chosen, or met — this video is for you. ✨ Take the What's Your Love Block? Take the QUIZ to discover your relationship pattern and how you may be accidentally blocking the love you want: https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL In this episode, I talk about why trying harder, giving more, and overfunctioning doesn't create the kind of love you actually want. I share what shifted when I got clear on what I wanted and required, stopped carrying the relationship on my own, and maintained my boundaries — and why that's when love stopped feeling one-sided and started feeling supportive, nurturing, and good again. If love has started to feel like effort instead of ease, this will help you understand: Why effort doesn't fix one-sided relationship dynamics How overgiving quietly blocks real intimacy What actually changes when you stop doing all the emotional work Why love should feel supportive — not draining RELATED EPISDOES: Listen to last weeks episode: You Dont Need A New Year's Resolution - You Need A RESET: https://sabrinaphoenix.com/blog/why-love-feels-like-work

You Dont Need A New Year's Resolution — You Need A RESET

2026-01-0312:10

Everyone talks about New Year's resolutions — doing more, fixing yourself, becoming someone new. But what if that's not the problem? In this live, I talk about why real change doesn't come from pushing harder or setting more goals — it comes from learning how to reset instead of carrying guilt, disappointment, and self-judgment into the next chapter of your life. ✨✨✨ Take the Love Block Quiz: https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL — it helps you see the hidden pattern shaping your relationships and love life. If you're a smart, capable woman who: feels exhausted from always trying to "do better" keeps overgiving or overfunctioning in relationships feels like love requires too much effort or is tired of starting over every January only to end up back in the same place… This conversation is for you. We talk about: why resolutions often fail how overgiving and self-pressure sneak into our goals and relationships why being "good" can quietly turn into self-abandonment and what it really means to reset — without fixing, forcing, or becoming someone new This isn't about telling you what to do, it's about learning to be self-led and develop self-trust so that your thriving in your relationships and life! JOIN ME LIVE: I typically go live on Fridays and answer relationship questions — subscribe so you don't miss future lives. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIqQk8e7hlHIkIlExPZTMjA ✨ If you want deeper support: Visit sabrinaphoenix.com for coaching and courses.

Spending the Holidays Alone Doesn't Feel Like a Hallmark Movie — & It's OK

2025-12-2413:02

How to stop feeling lonely, disappointed, and stressed TF out on the holidays and find joy and happiness no matter how your life looks!! I used to sabotage my holidays by doing this! how comparing oneself to others can cause despair. how I approach new years resolutions I used to perpetually feel disappointed and lonely on the holidays to just enjoying it and being in the present moment with my family How comparing your life to others will RUIN every single holiday and steal your joy and happiness! Ready to stop doing it all, giving too much, or feeling unseen in your relationship? Get the healthy, thriving relationship you've always wanted. Chat with me here: https://sabrinaphoenix.com/private-coaching ///FREE RESOUCES/// Grab My Chosen & Cherished CHEATSHEET To Get The deeply connected and fulfilling Relationship You Desire https://phoenixcoaching.kit.com/sl 👉👉👉 Take the Quiz: https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL take the 60 second quiz to find out your hidden pattern that pulls capable, high-achieving women into over-giving, over-thinking, and feeling unseen in love…

Why Waiting for Him to Step Up Keeps You Stuck

2025-12-1403:45

👉👉👉 Take the Quiz: https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL take the 60 second quiz to find out your hidden pattern that pulls capable, high-achieving women into over-giving, over-thinking, and feeling unseen in love… CHOOSE YOURSELF — Stop Waiting for Him to Choose You Are you stuck waiting for him to show up, commit, communicate, or finally choose you? Do you keep hoping this time will be different — while quietly shrinking, overgiving, or putting your needs on hold? In this video, we're talking about what it really means to choose yourself — not in a selfish or cold way, but in a grounded, self-respecting way that changes how you show up in love. Choosing yourself doesn't mean you stop caring. It means you stop abandoning yourself while waiting to be chosen. If you've been: Waiting for him to change, decide, or step up Overgiving, overthinking, or doing all the emotional work Afraid to ask for more because you don't want to "push him away" Telling yourself to be patient while feeling unseen or unfulfilled …this conversation is for you.

Why Couples Fight More During the Holidays (& How to Stay Close Instead)

2025-12-0904:05

Are you getting triggered easily, overwhelmed by your emotions, or feeling like you're spiraling the moment something feels "off" in your relationship? There is nothing wrong with you— you're overloaded. 👉👉HEAL FROM TRIGGERS & STOP HAVING THE SAME FIGHT WITH YOUR PARTNER : Go to my SHOP To Go From Spiraling to Secure course: https://sabrinaphoenix.com/ In this video, you'll learn why your body reacts so fast, how to calm the emotional rush, and how to shift out of stress so you can feel grounded, clear, and connected again. 👉👉TAKE THE QUIZ - https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL It shows you why you get triggered, what your body is trying to protect you from, and the first steps to feeling calm, secure, and chosen in love. Smart, successful women often carry the emotional weight in relationships. If you've been overthinking, walking on eggshells, or trying to "hold everything together," this is going to help you understand what's really going on underneath your reactions — and how to take your power back without shutting down or overgiving. ✨ If you want help understanding your specific pattern, take my What's Your Love Blueprint? quiz. It shows you why you get triggered, what your body is trying to protect you from, and the first steps to feeling calm, secure, and chosen in love.

You Feel Alone in Your Relationship — Here's Why

2025-11-2905:12

If you feel alone in a relationship, he may be emotionally unavailable. This hurts....alot. Are you feeling alone in a relationship even when he's right next to you? Are you always the one doing the emotional work? The one who gives more, tries harder, and still ends up feeling unseen? learn what's blocking you from the love that you've always wanted... TAKE THE QUIZ⬇️🎁What's your Love BLOCK? TAKE THE QUIZ. https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL You don't have to keep chasing love, overgiving, or shrinking yourself just to feel chosen.💖 You deserve love that feels safe, steady, and soul-deep — not like something you have to earn. ✨ It's time to break the pattern of loving from survival—and start receiving love that makes you feel seen, secure, and cherished. You're not too much. You're not too sensitive. You're not the problem. You've simply learned to prove your worth instead of feeling worthy already. ❤️ This is your invitation to attract a healthy, emotionally available relationship—without losing yourself in the process. //COACHING// Work with me here➡️https://sabrinaphoenix.com/private-coaching //POCAST/// 🎤BECOMING BADASS! https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL02S6TQdBv-tVITwq7LxWyN5sJdcqvFQX

The Real Reason You Tolerate One-Sided Relationships

2025-11-2306:12

Learn some VITAL one sided relationship signs. Are you DONE with one sided relationships and ready for healthy, secure loving partnership? Its time to stop overgiving, overfunctioning in your relationships and get the treatment and adoration you deserve!! DONE STRUGGLING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS AND LOVE LIFE? Do you want to reignite the connection closeness , deep love and devotion with your partner , then sign up for the VIP access list here ❤️ https://phoenixcoaching.kit.com/wl So that you can finally get the Extraordinary Love you deserve. Grab my Chosen & Cherished Cheatsheet to get the real love, deep connection, and fulfilling relationship that you deserve and desire (Its FREE. $47 Value)➡️➡️➡️ https://sabrinaphoenix.com/guide PRIVATE COACHING Apply for private 1:1 coaching now → https://sabrinaphoenix.com/private-coaching You don't have to chase love, prove your worth, or shrink to be chosen. Let's create the secure, soul-connected relationship you've always wanted! ///FREE RESOURCES/// ✨️Is He Emotionally Available—Or Just Saying the Right Things??!! Spot the Red Flags Before Your Heart Gets Hooked — and Stop Wasting Time on Men Who Give Crumbs and Make You Question Your Worth. Grab my FREE GUIDE (Normally $47) here: https://phoenixcoaching.kit.com/un

It's Not Your Effort That Creates Love — It's Your Feminine Energy

2025-11-1206:56

Do you feel emotionally drained in your relationship? Like you're doing everything — planning, fixing, overthinking, holding it all together — and no matter how much you give, it still feels one-sided? 💌 Join the VIP Access List for Sign Up Here: https://phoenixcoaching.kit.com/devoted You might be the strong one. The emotionally available one. The one who notices everything, anticipates needs, and carries the emotional weight of the relationship. And yet… you feel unseen, unsupported, and exhausted. In this video, we're talking about why love starts to feel like work — especially for smart, capable women who are used to handling things on their own. We'll explore the invisible patterns that keep you over-giving, over-functioning, and feeling responsible for the relationship's success… even when your partner isn't meeting you halfway. In this episode, I'll show you why effort doesn't equal love, what actually inspires your man's connection, effort, and devotion, and how to stop overgiving without losing the relationship. 💞 //FREE RESOUCES// Take the Free Quiz: QUIZ: What's Blocking Real Love? https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL #relationshipadvice #marriageadvice #overgiving #overfunctioning #feminineenergy #selfworth #healthyrelationships #feelchosen #loveadviceforwomen

Stop Chasing Love — Step Into Your Feminine Energy Instead

2025-11-0310:29

Ready to learn how to stop chasing after love and attention!! I share how to stop chasing love and BE MAGNETIC so he comes to you and you get the love and cherishing you deserve!! Do you tend to chase after your partner for love and attention? Are you doing all the work, and it's not getting you the love, closeness, and connection you desire from him? Lets fix that!! ❤️❤️VIP WAITLIST HERE- END CHASING FOR GOOD AND CREATE THE DEEPLY CONNECTED & FULFILLING LOVE YOU'VE ALWAYS WANTED?! Ill show you how. Sign up for VIP Waitlist here-- https://phoenixcoaching.ck.page/reset I ONLY HAVE 10 SPOTS. You don't have to keep chasing love, overgiving, or shrinking yourself just to feel chosen.💖 You deserve love that feels safe, steady, and soul-deep — not like something you have to earn. ✨ It's time to break the pattern of loving from survival—and start receiving love that makes you feel seen, secure, and cherished. You're not too much. You're not too sensitive. You're not the problem. You've simply learned to prove your worth instead of feeling worthy already. This is your invitation to attract a healthy, emotionally available relationship—without losing yourself in the process. //COACHING// Work with me here➡️https://sabrinaphoenix.com/private-coaching //FREE RESOUCES// 🎁WHATS BLOCKING YOU FROM REAL LOVE? TAKE THE QUIZ. https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL //POCAST/// 🎤BECOMING BADASS! https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL02S6TQdBv-tVITwq7LxWyN5sJdcqvFQX

Trying Harder Is Pushing Love Away

2025-10-1407:42

Ready for the deep connection and love you've always wanted? When you know your worth, you stop settling for crumbs in a relationship. This is when everything changes. It was never about him, but always about YOU. ➡➡Join the VIP Access list➜ https://phoenixcoaching.kit.com/devoted You deserve a relationship that feels mutual, safe, and deeply satisfying where you feel seen, deeply loved and adored. In this final episode of the Breadcrumbs Series, we'll talk about how to stop accepting the bare minimum, how to hold your standards without fear, and how to show up in your feminine power so your partner naturally begins to step up. ✨ Inside this video, you'll learn: 1️⃣ The hidden reason love feels one-sided — and how to change it 2️⃣ Why your energy (not effort) inspires real connection 3️⃣ The shift that makes healthy love your new normal 💗 Ready for the next step? My brand-new program is opening soon — and the private founding round will be limited to only 10 women and offered at a deeply discounted rate (the full program will later be $999). It's not open yet… but you can join the waitlist below to be first to know when doors quietly open: //FREE RESOUCES// QUIZ Ready to stop accepting crumbs and start inspiring devotion? Take the free quiz here ➜ https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL #relationships #FeminineEnergy #MarriageAdvice #SelfWorth #InspireHimToStepUp #Breadcrumbs

Why Setting Boundaries Reveals If He's Serious — or Just Breadcrumbing You

2025-10-0705:32

Will setting healthy boundaries make you look selfish or push him away? (This is #4 in my Crumbs Series) This video will change how you see boundaries and how they are essential to getting the love that you want. 👉 Watch the Series to go from Crumbs To Cherished In Your Relationship: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL02S6TQdBv-s8A1lV1058ru24txwS9BFf Many women stuck in breadcrumb relationships (where you give everything and get the bare minimum back) worry that setting boundaries will make things worse. But here's the truth: boundaries don't push away the right man — they reveal whether he's capable of showing up for real love. In this video, you'll learn: ✨ Why boundaries and self-respect don't cause distance — they build connection ✨ How overgiving and chasing love quietly create breadcrumbs in a relationship ✨ The one communication shift that helps him hear you without feeling attacked ✨ A simple one-sentence boundary script you can use this week to speak your needs without guilt If you've been doing all the emotional work and still getting crumbs, it's time to set loving boundaries that inspire mutual effort, respect, and reciprocity. 💗 Because boundaries aren't selfish — they're clarity. 📖 Watch next: 👉 Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL02S6TQdBv-s8A1lV1058ru24txwS9BFf 👉What if you stop doing everything and he doesnt step up? (video) https://youtu.be/YCdlqX-PaTU //COACHING// Work with me here➡️https://sabrinaphoenix.com/coach1-1 //FREE RESOUCES// 🎁WHATS BLOCKING YOU FROM REAL LOVE? TAKE THE QUIZ. https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL //POCAST/// 🎤BECOMING BADASS! https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL02S6TQdBv-tVITwq7LxWyN5sJdcqvFQX too nice, caring too much, over giving, overfunctioning, people pleasing, healthy relationships, setting healthy boundaries

Stop Doing Everything in Your Relationship — It Leads to Breadcrumbs

2025-09-3006:07

Are you feeling drained in a relationhip? Are you tired of overgiving, overworking, and overfunctioning… only to feel unseen and undervalued? 💎Imagine truly feeling seen, deeply loved and cherished in your relationship! Working one-on-one with me, I'll teach you the transformational tools to transform your relationship so you can have the love and partnership you truly deserve. ➡️➡️Join the VIP Access list➜ https://phoenixcoaching.kit.com/devoted ✨ "Ready to stop accepting crumbs and start inspiring devotion? 👉Take the Love Block quiz here ➜ https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL You don't have to keep hustling for scraps of love, attention, or recognition. In this video, I'll break down the hidden patterns that keep you stuck in "do more, give more" mode — and how to finally step into your power without burning out. ✨ What you'll learn in this video: Why overfunctioning keeps you trapped in unequal relationships How to recognize when you're hustling for scraps of validation The mindset shifts that allow you to step into queen energy Practical steps to stop overgiving and start receiving more with ease This isn't about doing more. It's about reclaiming your time, your energy, and your worth. 👑 You deserve more than scraps — it's time to step fully into your power. 👉 If this message resonates, don't forget to like, subscribe, and share so more women can stop overfunctioning and rise into their full strength. 🔗 Want to go deeper? Visit: https://sabrinaphoenix.com

Why Overgiving In Your Relationships Always Backfires

2025-09-2107:08

In my #2 breadcrumbs in a relationship series, I share why overgiving and overfunctioning don't create closeness — they quietly push love away. In this second video, I'll show you why the more you give, the less you often get, and how this pattern leaves you drained instead of desired. When You Stop Doing Everything, Your Partner Starts Showing Up You'll learn: ✨ The hidden ways overgiving backfires (and why it's not your fault) ✨ How overfunctioning makes you feel responsible for everything — and what to do instead ✨ The real difference between crumbs and real love If you've ever poured your whole heart into someone only to feel emptier the harder you tried… this is your wake-up call. 📌 This is Part 2 of the Breadcrumbing Series — don't miss Part 1: Why You Keep Settling for Bread Crumbs in Love (It's Not Your Fault) 👉 [https://youtu.be/mCM_rkdGXjQ 💜 Be sure to subscribe and turn on notifications so you don't miss the next video in the series! #breadcrumbing #overgiving #overfunctioning #relationships #datingadvice #selfworth

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Stop Caring Too Much: From Doing Everything To Being Loved For Who You Are