Dear Primas

🎙 Dear Family, Are We Complete Primas… this one is tender. 🥹💌 In this episode, Kristi and Clari open up about a question that quietly sits in so many moms' hearts: Are we complete? From planning Santi's first birthday without family nearby, to the emotional weight of those early wake-ups and sleepless nights, we talk honestly about the newborn bubble, how beautiful it is, how fleeting it feels, and how exhausting it can be when you're in it. We unpack the realities of having kids close in age, the physical toll of motherhood that no one fully prepares you for, and how deeply personal the decision to grow your family really is. Is there a "right" age gap? Is there a perfect number? Or are we all just figuring it out as we go? We also talk about the differences in raising boys and girls, the importance of partner support, and why open communication matters more than ever when you're navigating these life-changing decisions together. If you've ever wondered whether your family is complete… or whether your heart still wants more… this conversation is for you. 💕 No pressure. No judgment. Just real talk from two Primas learning as they go. Grab your cafecito ☕ and come sit with us! Let's get into it Primas! Currently Watching: Clari- Paradise Currently Reading: Kristi- Everyone is lying to you Jo Piazza Clari- Listen for the lie Let's get into it Primas! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Dear Primas - YouTube

Primas… we have THOUGHTS. 😅💅 In this episode, Clari and Kristi are doing what we do best catching up on what we're watching, what we're reading, and the shows that absolutely have a chokehold on us right now. From His & Hers to The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and Tell Me Lies, we're unpacking the twists, the red flags, the characters who make questionable choices, and why we're still so invested. SPOILER ALERT*** This convo feels like the group chat after everyone finishes the same show a little nostalgic, a little "why are we like this?" So grab your cafecito ☕, settle in, and come spiral with us. And don't forget to tell us what YOU'RE watching next because if there's one thing we're always ready for, it's more recommendations. 💌 Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠  @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Dear Primas - YouTube

Primas… if January has you easing in instead of going all in, this one's for you. 💅✨ In this episode, Kristi and Clari are reconnecting after the New Year and pressing pause on the pressure. We're talking motherhood, growth, and what it really looks like to balance family life when you're doing it from different states and different seasons of life. This conversation feels like a journal entry read out loud. We reflect on why Dear Primas has always been about honesty over perfection, why community matters more than ever for moms, and why it's okay to not have everything figured out right now. January isn't about reinventing yourself, it's a soft launch into the year, and we're learning to take it one day at a time. If you don't have a prima to text, we're your Primas. 💌 So grab your cafecito ☕, settle in, and come chat with us because you're not behind, you're right where you're supposed to be! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Reading: Kristi: The Girl Who Was Taken Currently watching: Clari:  Kristi: Steal Chapters 00:00 Welcome Back and New Year Greetings 02:32 What is Dear Prima? 04:44 The Evolution of the Podcast 08:38 Building a Community of Moms 10:15 New Year Reflections and Family Goals 12:44 The Pressure of New Year's Resolutions 18:40 Finding Balance and Being Active 21:02 Miami's Vibrant Sports Culture 24:50 Navigating Parenting and Sports 29:32 The Realities of Kids in Sports 38:43 Engaging with Our Community

Primas… we can't believe we're here. 🥹 In this milestone 50th episode, Clari and Kristi are pressing pause to reflect on how far Dear Primas has come and how much we've grown right alongside you. From the early days before hitting record with nerves and big dreams, to navigating motherhood, work, and the constant evolution of who we're becoming, this episode is a heartfelt look at the journey so far. We talk honestly about balancing motherhood and professional life, the decisions we're making for our kids' education, and the shift in perspective that comes with realizing our children are our biggest investments. We open up about the pressures around motherhood, the conversations around staying home, showing up, and finding where we fit in this ever-changing puzzle of life. This episode is a reminder that we're all learning as we go, that growth doesn't have to be loud to be meaningful, and grace is something we deserve to give ourselves along the way. Most of all, it's a thank you. For listening, for growing with us, and for being part of this community. We wouldn't be here without you, primas. 💕 Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Reading: Kristi: The Ravenhood (The Finish Line #3) Currently Watching: Clari & Kristi: Tell me Lies  Chapters 00:00 Celebrating Episode 50: A Journey Together 00:58 Reflecting on Motherhood: Early Days and Growth 04:22 Navigating Career Changes and Family Dynamics 08:42 Prioritizing Family: The Shift in Focus 12:33 Exploring Education: Homeschooling vs Traditional Schooling 15:06 Quality Time with Kids 16:27 Reevaluating Education Choices 18:00 The Stigma of Stay-at-Home Parenting 18:57 Balancing Work and Family Life 22:06 The Learning Curve of Homeschooling 23:02 Evolving Perspectives on Parenting 25:58 Building a Supportive Community 27:26 Embracing Change and Growth

Primas… why do Christmas cards feel like a full-time job? 😅🎄 In this episode, Kristi and Clari talk through the holiday pressure we all feel, from coordinating family photo sessions and the outfits, to racing the weather and hoping at least one photo turns out frame-worthy. We're sharing the joys, the stress, and the funny moments that come with trying to "capture the memories" while real life is very much happening. We also chat about why candid photos often end up being the ones we treasure most, our favorite holiday movies, and why the season is about connection not perfection. Because years from now, it won't be the perfect pose we remember… it'll be the moment. So if you're debating whether it's too late to send cards (again), grab your cafecito ☕, take a deep breath, and come laugh with us. 💌 Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Dear Primas - YouTube Currently Reading: Kristi: Good Spirits Chapters 00:00 Caffeine and Catching Up 01:53 Christmas Card Preparations 05:52 Family Photo Shoot Experiences 11:37 Photographer Insights and Tips 16:01 Capturing Family Memories 18:23 The Importance of Family Photos 21:53 Holiday Movies and Family Traditions

Primas… this one feels like a long overdue catch-up. 💌 Clari and Kristi are reconnecting after a major life shift! Clari's move from Houston to Miami 🌴. We're talking about the emotions behind packing up a life, the road trip, finding a new home, and what it really feels like to start over in a new place with your family. We also open up about how this holiday season will look different, how traditions evolve, and why change can feel exciting and bittersweet all at once. This episode is a reminder that even when life looks different than we imagined, it can still be really, really good. So grab your cafecito (or your choice of caffeine), settle in, and join us as we talk about growth, goodbyes, and embracing the next chapter, together. 💕

Primas, it's officially that time of year the pumpkin spice (or caffeine of your choice) is flowing, the field trips are field tripping, our kids can't be the only ones that changed Halloween costume ideas 12 times. 🎃😅 In this episode, Kristi and Clari are leaning all the way into the fall feels catching up on parenting moments, Halloween prep, and an unforgettable farm birthday party. We're talking about the cozy, the cringey, and the real parts of the season. 🍂 So grab your cafecito (or your pumpkin cold brew ☕) and tune in because this one feels like a Friday night chat with your primas about fall, family, and finding the real in a filtered world. 💅💌

Primas, welcome to Everything Must Go, AKA The Garage Sale Era, where everything's negotiable… except our emotions. 🥹💅  This one's for the real Primas who've hosted (or survived) a garage sale or two in their day. Who remembers the sticker tags, the small talk with strangers, and the "wait, are we really selling that?!" moments? Clari has started moving prep, we're on a rollercoaster of letting go, of stuff, of spaces, and of a few memories too. Between buyers, boxes, and big Florida dreams ☀️, we're selling things and catching feelings because saying goodbye to the familiar isn't as easy as a $5 deal.  So, grab a sweet treat, tune in for some laughs and a little reminder that every season (and every sale) brings a new chapter worth celebrating. 💌 Let's get into it, Primas! Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us:  @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Dear Primas - YouTube Currently Reading: Kristi: Watch it Burn

Primas, this one feels like dropping a voice note in the group chat. 💅 Life's Better When You Have a Primas Group Chat! We are catching up on all the things from fried food at the state fair to our current TV obsessions (yes, we have thoughts and questions on Dancing With The Stars 🪩) Are the Primas watching too? Of course, we also talk about the books that have us up past bedtime. 📚 If your group chat covers everything from what you're watching 👀 to what's for dinner 🍝… this week's episode is basically YOU. 💕 Whether you're in the carpool line, on your walk, or winding down at night this one will lift your mood, make you laugh, and remind you that life's better when you have a group chat. 💅 Watch or listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: Dear Primas - YouTube @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Watching: Clari: Reasonable Doubt Kristi: DOC Currently Reading: Kristi: Stillhouse Lake Series and listening 🎧

Okay primas… moving isn't just about packing boxes, it's about packing emotions too 💌. In this episode, Kristi and Clari talk about the ups and downs of parenting through big changes navigating school dynamics, family reactions to Clari's upcoming move to South Florida, and the bittersweet feeling of leaving behind familiar comfort zones. We get real about: ✨ Helping kids adjust to new dynamics ✨ The emotional weight of leaving "your people" ✨ Family opinions ✨ Building a new community from scratch ✨ Finding growth + adventure as a family Because being a mama sometimes means starting over and learning that it's okay to feel both scared and excited at the same time. 💕 #dearprimas #moving #primas #momsofmultiples #millennialmomlife #lifechanging Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠  @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Dear Primas - YouTube Currently Reading: Kristi: You must be new here

Primas, what's for dinner? 👀 This week's episode is the question we ask every. single. night. We're talking our go-to dinners, freezer staples, crockpot hacks, Sunday meal prep dreams (that sometimes flop). From pork shoulder carnitas that stretch into four meals to "pizza Fridays" that save our sanity, we're spilling our go-to dinners, the ones that actually get us through sports practices, picky toddlers, and husbands who order Chop Shop bowls on repeat. This episode is for every prima standing in front of the fridge at 6 pm like… "So, rice and nuggets again?" 😂 Or are you channeling your inner Senora and have a go-to recipe? Primas, help another prima out! What is your go-to dinner? What are some shareable hacks? ✨ Prima takeaway: Dinner doesn't have to be fancy to count. If your crew is fed, you're winning!  #dearprimas #whatsfordinner #primas #momsofmultiples #millennialmomlife Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠  @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Dear Primas - YouTube Currently Reading: Kristi: In the Likely Event

🎙 Dear Mom Diaries… Primas, let's talk about something that doesn't get enough space in the group chat👉 motherhood and how we see ourselves after having babies. 💕 In this episode, Kristi and Clari open up about the real and raw parts of postpartum body image, from trying on five outfits before leaving the house to wondering if you'll ever feel "yourself" again. We talk about breastfeeding hunger that never ends, the jeans that just won't button, and why it's so important to give your body grace in every season. We also dive into the mental health side of confidence, how fashion can impact how we feel, and why self-care isn't selfish, it's part of surviving (and thriving) in motherhood. Takeaways we hope stick with you: ✨ It's okay to feel the feels. ✨ Give your body grace. ✨ Confidence takes time, and you're not alone in the journey. So, grab your cafecito and let's YAP. 💌 Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: Dear Primas - YouTube @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠  @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Reading: Kristi: The Skyland Series

Primas, this is one of those FaceTime calls you didn't ask for… but definitely needed. 💕 In today's episode of Dear Primas, Let's Talk About It, we're firing off all the random topics living rent-free in the group chat: 📍 Location sharing in relationships — sweet or sus? 💌 Hard launch culture — is soft launching still a thing? 🙋 Social etiquette in public spaces — can people not? 💬 Communication & relationships — what's working, what's not. 👖 Fashion throwbacks — low-rise jeans… Why are they back? Basically, it's a little terapia, a little heeheehaaha, and a whole lot of primas talking like you're sitting on the couch with us! So grab your cafecito (or your wine, no judgment) and let's catch up — porque if we don't talk about it here, we'll just be texting about it later anyway! ✨ You're basically a Prima now… welcome to the group chat. #DearPrimas #GroupChatEnergy #hardlaunchculture

Dear Primas, He's not the one if… Primas, let's be real dating looks way different these days 😅. Whether it's your 20s, 30s, or 40s, we've all had those "wyd?" late-night texts, the awkward first dates, and the 🚩 we wish came with neon lights. We may be on the other side now but trust us… we've got some stories and a little perspective you didn't ask for but. 😉 In this episode, Kristi and Clari talk straight from the group chat about the highs and lows of online dating, and how social media can reveal more than a DM ever should. We share why being intentional matters (without turning a first date into a job interview), and how to check your own baggage at the door. Whether you're fresh out of a relationship, still figuring out what you want, or just reminiscing on your own dating days while folding laundry before bed, this convo is for you. And of course, we couldn't leave you without sharing the shows, movies, and books we're currently obsessed with. So grab your cafecito (or your wine glass), get comfy and let's chat Primas! 💌 Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Watching: Clari: Power Moves with Shaq Currently Reading: Kristi:The Unhoneymooners and listening 🎧The Twisted Women's Book Club  

Primas, let's be real—going from one to two (or more) kids hits different. 💁🏻‍♀️ Some days it feels like we're juggling snacks, schedules, and sibling drama all before our second cup of coffee. Other days, the mom guilt sneaks in and we're wondering if everyone is getting enough of us. In this episode, we're opening up about the new season of life as moms of multiples. The challenges, the guilt, and the small wins that keep us going. From balancing family activities to involving our littles (yes, even laundry can be a "team effort" 😅), we're finding ways to make it work while giving ourselves grace. Yes, it's exhausting, but seeing siblings love on each other? Worth every sleepless night. And because your primas love to chat it all out, we're also sharing our latest movie binges, shows we can't put down, and the books keeping us company once the kids are (finally) asleep. 📺📚 So whether you're in the trenches with 2 under 2, navigating sibling squabbles, or just trying to survive bedtime, grab your cafecito and join us we promise that you're not doing it alone. 💖 #DearPrimas #MomsOfMultiples #MillennialMomLife #MomGuiltIsReal #BedBy9Club Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Youtube DearPrimas Currently Reading: Kristi: The Unhoneymooners

🎙 Dear Primas, Catch Us Up 🏖️📚 Okay primas… summer is officially in the rearview, and we need to talk. 🫠 We're catching you up on ALL the things, from vacation highlights to the very real struggle of getting kids back on a sleep schedule (send cafecito). Between late bedtimes, meltdowns over lost pool toys, and the back-to-school prep, we're just trying to remember what day it is. In true Primas fashion, we're also sharing our summer favs, the shows we binged and the books that stopped the doom scrolling. 💬 In this episode: ✏️ Vacay recaps + the return to reality 🛏️ Sleep schedules & kid attitudes (send help) 📚 Our summer watch & read list 🎒 Back-to-school prep So join us for a catch-up that feels like FaceTiming your Primas after a long summer apart. Because let's be honest… the group chat missed you. ❤️ #DearPrimas #BackFromBreak #MillennialMomLife #PrimasWhoGetIt

🎙 Dear Primas, I Got a Text! 💌 (Casa Amor Recap + All the Drama) Okay, Primas… we need to talk. CASA AMOR 🔥 Your favorite millennial couch commentators (aka us) are back with a full Love Island download and YES, we're watching "for the plot." From recouplings that had us gasping to the beige flags that suddenly turned BRIGHT RED, we're breaking it all down like we're voice-noting the group chat. We may be in bed by 9 with a baby monitor and dry shampoo in our hair, but the tea is steaming and we have thoughts. So many thoughts. Whether you're tuning in during naptime, folding laundry, or sneaking an episode after bedtime, pour a cafecito (or wine), and come yell with us. 💬 Text us back, Primas: 📱 Did you see that twist coming? ❤️ Who's your villa MVP right now? 🚩 Who packed their red flags in their carry-on? Let's get into it and yes, we will be watching every single second until the finale. Tag your fellow Love Island-obsessed primas 💕 #DearPrimas #IGotAText #CasaAmorRecap #MillennialMomWatchingTV #LoveIslandCommentary #HotPrimaSummer

🎙️ Dear Primas, Can We Pull You for a Chat? I GOT A TEXT!!!!! IYKYK!! Primas, let's talk Love Island — because you know we have thoughts!! Are we watching for the plot (and by plot, we mean drama, and who's giving ick vs. green flag energy 😅). Week 1 is here, and we are breaking it all down — Can we pull you for a chat? This episode is basically our group chat in podcast form: 🩷 Who came in hot? 🩷 Who's giving situationship energy? 💗 Are we being LOVE BOMBED? 🩷 And who's just… there for a good tan? We're talking about how Love Island hits different now that we're in our 30s, holding babies and emotionally invested in couples who have known each other for 3 days, and gave up sleep but not drama. We see you, 9PM Primas!! 🫣 Whether you're watching while folding laundry, nursing a newborn, or sneaking in 20 minutes before bedtime (because let's be real—we're in bed by 9... NO SHAME), this one's for the millennial primas who still love a messy villa and a perfectly timed "can I pull you for a chat?" Grab your cafecito, throw on that robe, and let's gossip like it's 2010 and we've got zero responsibilities. 💅🏽✨ 🎧 Streaming now on all podcast platforms 💬 Primas, who's your fave couple so far? And who's giving red flag realness? Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Reading: Kristi: That's Not My Name    

🎙 Dear Primas, What's Your Type... ✨ Primas we are back and talking all about personality types and how they show up in life! Are you the planner with color-coded lists and calendar invites? Or the go-with-the-flow queen figuring it out as you go? Whether you're navigating big life shifts, planning your next move, or learning how to not overthink every little thing (guilty 🙋‍♀️), this episode is for you. 💬 In this episode: 📝 How our personalities show up in relationships, friendships & big decisions 🎒 Planning vs. procrastinating when it comes to life goals 🎉 Event prep: from birthday bashes to bridal showers 🧠 The mental load we carry—even when we're not moms 🎧 Why understanding your type helps in every season So, Primas… what's your type? And how does it show up in your daily life, your milestones, or your "I swear I'm gonna start Monday" moments? Tag your opposite-type bestie, grab your cafecito, and come hang with us—because every type is welcome here. 💕 #DearPrimas #millennialwomen #personalitytypes #millennialmoms #lifeinprogress #latinas #momlife #realmomlife #motherhoodunfiltered #2under2club Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠   Currently Reading: Kristi: The Five Star Weekend

🎙️ Dear Other Half This one's for every Prima who's ever side-eyed their partner mid-diaper change or whispered "I'm doing everything!" under their breath. In this episode, we're talking about the real side of parenting as a team — the good, the messy, and everything in between. 💬  From navigating discipline styles to carrying the mental load, we open up about what it's really like co-parenting when you're both running on fumes and figuring it out day by day. Clari and Kristi share honest stories about communication breakdowns, mismatched expectations, and how learning to meet each other halfway is still a work in progress. We dive into: ✨ How parenting can expose all the gaps in communication ✨ Different approaches to discipline (and how they clash) ✨ Why "just tell me what you need" isn't always enough ✨ The invisible load moms carry daily ✨ The guilt vs. grace cycle in motherhood and marriage Whether you've got 2 under 2, are deep in toddler negotiations, or still working through unspoken expectations with your partner — you are not alone. Grab your cafecito, press play, and join us in saying what so many of us feel: parenting is hard, relationships take work, and sometimes… we just want someone else to handle bedtime. 😅 💡Primas, how do YOU and your other half tag-team parenting? What works? What drives you loco? #DearPrimas #MarriageAndMotherhood #MentalLoadIsReal #MillennialMoms #ParentingTeamwork #2Under2Club #MomLifeUnfiltered Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Reading: Kristi: The Favorites