Sass & Surrender Podcast

Hosts drew_spanks and I_Fly_Away explore common spanking positions—over‑the‑knee (OTK) variations, straddling, diaper position, wheelbarrow, and setups on the couch and bed—sharing how each feels for top and bottom. The episode offers practical tips on positioning, implement choice, comfort adjustments for different body sizes, and public-play considerations. They emphasize safety and communication: start slow, use hands first, experiment mindfully, and keep open feedback between partners.

In this episode drew_spanks and I_Fly_Away discuss private, semi-private, and public play — what each looks like, when to choose them, and how to prioritize safety, consent, and clear boundaries. They share personal stories about parties, pickup play, and managing jealousy through rules like sexual monogamy. The hosts offer practical advice: meet publicly first, vet play partners, save serious punishments for private spaces, and use smaller vetted gatherings as a stepping stone to big parties. They close with thoughts on communication, party etiquette, and how they navigate play in everyday life.

Hosts drew_spanks and I_Fly_Away welcome guest -Latte- to discuss bratting, her spanking journey, and how play partners, dynamics, and parties shaped her path into the scene. The episode covers maintenance spankings, punishment vs. play, emotional release, consent and ethical bratting, communication, and navigating boundaries in kink relationships.

In this episode drew_spanks and I_Fly_Away discuss aftercare following spanking—what it looks like immediately and over the days after a scene, differences between tops, bottoms, and switches, and why longer-term check-ins matter. They share practical tips (hydration, rest, lotion, chocolate, journaling), emphasize clear communication and negotiation about needs and limits, and encourage reaching out to the community for support when experiencing sub-drop or top-drop.

In this episode drew_spanks and I_Fly_Away dive into spanking implements — hands, hairbrushes, paddles, belts, canes and custom rubber straps — and how materials, size and design change the feel from stingy to thuddy. They discuss safety (where to hit and noise concerns), the importance of quality finishes, favorite makers like Alpine Impact, and tease that aftercare will be the next episode’s focus.

Hosts drew_spanks and I_Fly_Away discuss the fundamentals of safe words, how the traffic‑light system (green/yellow/red) works, and why safe words matter even during punishments. They cover practical tips for tops and bottoms — check‑ins, headspace awareness, running through implements with new partners — and strongly warn against playing with anyone who refuses safe words.

Hosts drew_spanks and I_Fly_Away discuss how they established and maintain their spanking dynamic, blending domestic-discipline-style rules with playful rituals. They explain the importance of mutual agreement, realistic expectations, leading by example, and using rituals (like spankings) to create fresh starts for serious behavior changes. The episode covers examples (e.g., speeding and door-opening), how punishments and rule-setting work in their relationship, and teases a follow-up episode about safe words, boundaries, and playing with others.

Welcome to the first episode of Sass and Surrender. Hosts Drew Spanks and I Fly share their personal journeys into spanking and domestic discipline, how they met, and why this kink matters to them. They talk about building a healthy dynamic, blending vanilla intimacy with kink, communication, community experiences, and what listeners can expect from future episodes.