Our Perspective

In this episode, Thomas and I talk through the unexpected turns that shaped his journey and how God was present in every one of them. From his college experience and involvement in church to law school and meaningful conversations along the way, his path ultimately took a wild detour into a forestry grad program at UGA, which was so unexpected. This story is full of moments that didn’t go as planned but led exactly where he needed to be. We also dive into the question so many of us face: how do you navigate uncertainty when the path isn’t clear? Through it all, this episode is a reminder that detours aren’t distractions; they’re often where the most growth happens. And for parents, this conversation hits close to home. Walking alongside your adult children in seasons of uncertainty isn’t easy. We’re no longer called to parent the same way; we're called to coach from the sidelines. It’s a shift that requires trust, patience, and a deep reliance on God as He writes their story. Connect with Our Perspective: 💛 Instagram: @ourperspective.podcast 💛 Follow Patricia: @patricia_6710 💛 Follow Mary Grace: @_marygrace_d

Thomas reflects on his time in High School and the identity in God that made him unshakable. Even without a big circle of friends. We talk about confidence, identity, and learning not to compare. Connect with Our Perspective: 💛 Instagram: @ourperspective.podcast 💛 Follow Patricia: @patricia_6710 💛 Follow Mary Grace: @_marygrace_d

In this episode of Our Perspective Podcast, we share the story of how God provided the right male role models for Thomas, not through striving or control, but through surrender.  As a mom, I tried to orchestrate relationships out of fear, knowing how important strong men would be in my son’s life. But God had it covered.  From meeting Pastor Mike Ash in a lobby to moments that shaped Thomas’ journey.  Learning to tie a tie, men praying over him for Jesuit, celebrating his 15th birthday, high school graduation, and college milestones, this episode is a testimony of divine timing and faithful mentorship.  We also talk about:  * Pastor Mike Moore bringing Thomas on stage at Summer Explosion * Thomas sharing his testimony at Clash * Standing before courageous men and giving a bold charge * What it means to trust God instead of forcing outcomes    Anchor Verse: Exodus 14:14 — “The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.” If you are parenting out of fear, waiting on provision, or wondering if God sees your child’s future, this episode is your reminder that He is already fighting for them.   Connect with Our Perspective: 💛 Instagram: @ourperspective.podcast 💛 Follow Patricia: @patricia_6710 💛 Follow Mary Grace: @_marygrace_d

Thomas finally joins the podcast for an honest conversation about being the firstborn son, growing up in the church, and finding your voice as a young man. We talk about college, grad school plans, communication styles, building relationships with professors, and what it means to lead with gentleness instead of dominance. Thomas also shares his thoughts on faith, identity, and what it’s like choosing gentleness in a culture that often celebrates dominance. If you’re navigating young adulthood, faith, family dynamics, or firstborn pressure, this episode is for you. Connect with Our Perspective: 💛 Instagram: @ourperspective.podcast 💛 Follow Patricia: @patricia_6710 💛 Follow Mary Grace: @_marygrace_d

Before the microphones. Before the podcast. Before anyone was watching. There was a moment in a grocery store during COVID that sparked something in MG’s heart. What began as one small act of generosity turned into weekly $100 giveaways and thousands of dollars poured into single moms, dads, and foster families. In this episode, we talk about what it looks like to recognize your child’s calling early and how sometimes what feels small is actually preparation for something much bigger. Parents, pay attention. The calling is usually there long before the title ever is.Call it out. Speak life over it. Make room for it. I think this episode has been my favorite. It’s the sweetest story of when I finally recognized MG’s calling. But the truth is… it had been there the whole time. 🤍God is the kindest, don’t you think? Connect with Our Perspective: 💛 Instagram: @ourperspective.podcast 💛 Follow Patricia: @patricia_6710 💛 Follow Mary Grace: @_marygrace_d

This week, Mary Grace joins me for a heartfelt conversation about motherhood, calling, and trusting God with our children’s futures. We recap the last few episodes and dive into the dreams we have for our kids and the tension between planning for them and surrendering them to the Lord. Mary Grace shares the story of her mission trip and the defining moment when God called her into ministry. Her journey is a beautiful reminder that God often shapes purpose in unexpected places. I also share a line from my journal that has deeply shaped how I see motherhood: “Motherhood is to love who they were created to be, not what you want them to be.” As Proverbs 16:9 says, “In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps.” This episode is about releasing control, embracing calling, and trusting that God’s plans for our children are far greater than anything we could design ourselves. Connect with Our Perspective 💛 Instagram @ourperspective.podcast 💛 Follow Patricia @patricia_6710 💛 Follow MG @ _marygrace_d

In this episode, it’s just the girls. Carmen and Mary Grace share what it’s really been like navigating very different communication styles while growing up in the same home. They open up about how they process, express emotions, and respond under pressure, and how those differences showed up in real life, especially while being coached by similar leaders in high school. From misunderstandings to growth moments, they reflect on how learning to understand one another changed not just how they communicated, but how they related as sisters. This conversation is honest, reflective, and full of sister perspective showing how awareness, grace, and a willingness to listen can strengthen any relationship. If you’re a parent, sibling, or coach trying to navigate differences without losing connection, this episode is for you. Helpful Resources Mentioned in the Episode: Enneagram Information: https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ PDP Communication Tool: https://wowconsultinginc.com/pdptools/ Connect with Our Perspective: 💛 Instagram: @ourperspective.podcast 💛 Follow Patricia: @patricia_6710 💛 Follow Mary Grace: @_marygrace_d

In this episode, we continue the conversation around communication, but this time, we get more personal. We share a few more stories, laugh a lot, and give you a deeper look into how the girls communicate, process, and show up in real life. These early episodes are really about laying the foundation: what our home looked like, how we talked through hard moments, and how understanding communication styles shaped how we related to one another as a family. It’s honest, lighthearted, and full of real-life moments that helped us grow in empathy and connection. If you’re a parent trying to better understand your kids (or yourself), this episode is an invitation to listen, laugh, and learn alongside us. Helpful Resources Mentioned in the Episode: Enneagram Information: https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ PDP Communication Tool: https://wowconsultinginc.com/pdptools/ Connect with Our Perspective: 💛 Instagram: @ourperspective.podcast 💛 Follow Patricia: @patricia_6710 💛 Follow MG: @_marygrace_d

In this episode, we do a deep dive into communication styles—how they show up under pressure, how they differ from person to person, and why understanding them matters so much in real life. We kick things off with a hilarious and humbling story from a mountain hike that went very wrong, very fast. The Hike That Changed Everything The four of us—Thomas, Carmen, Mary Grace, and myself—set out for what we thought would be an easy 8-mile hike. No big deal… or so we thought. Instead, we somehow ended up hiking 18 miles, all the way up to the Appalachian Approach Trail. No cell service Not enough water Completely unprepared And by the time we reached the top with 9 miles still left to walk down, all we had left between us was one bag of nuts What followed was a perfect real-life example of how different personalities and communication styles show up under stress. Every Enneagram number on that hike made itself very clear—and the reactions were wildly different (and honestly, pretty funny). Enneagram in Real Life As we retell the hike, we unpack how each person’s Enneagram number showed up: How some stayed calm How others took charge How some spiraled internally And how miscommunication made an already tough situation even harder It’s a real-world look at how personality differences can either clash—or complement each other—when things don’t go as planned. Introducing the PDP Framework From there, the conversation transitions into the P, C, D, E communication framework (also referred to as the PDP tool), a tool I’ve personally used with all three of my kids to help them: Understand how they communicate Recognize how others communicate differently Reduce conflict And build healthier conversations We walk through each letter—P, C, D, and E: What each one represents How it shows up in communication How it can be misunderstood And how understanding it can completely change the way you relate to your kids (and everyone else) 📎 A link to the PDP resource is included in the show notes so you can explore it more deeply on your own. Why This Matters This episode is a reminder that: Communication breaks down fastest when we’re tired, stressed, or unprepared Personality differences aren’t problems—they’re information And understanding how your kids are wired can turn frustration into empathy Whether you’re a parent, spouse, leader, or friend, this episode will give you practical insight—and a good laugh along the way. Information on the Enneagram - https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ Infomation on the PDP- https://wowconsultinginc.com/pdptools/ Connect with Our Perspective 💛 Instagram @ourperspective.podcast 💛 Follow Patricia @patricia_6710 💛 Follow MG @ _marygrace_d

When the Walls Came Down: Where God Met Us in the In-Between In Episode 9, Carmen and Pat sit down for a conversation that starts with communication but naturally unfolds into something much deeper. Together, they reflect on the moments God used, often quietly and unexpectedly to bring their hearts closer. We talk about Carmen’s love for horseback riding and the beautiful ways God met and strengthen us through that passion. From there, we look back on long walks on Davis Islands during Covid, when life slowed down and time together became sacred. Those walks created space for walls that had been built over many years to slowly come down. This episode is about the gift of intentional, one-on-one time and what can happen when we choose to listen without rushing, fixing, or filling the silence. Pat shares how those moments helped her understand Carmen’s heart more deeply, and how creating a safe, unhurried place allowed Carmen to open up and share freely. More than anything, this conversation is a reminder that God often meets us in the in-between. He mets us in the walks, the hobbies, the quiet moments, and the time we choose to give our kids. Parents this is so important. When we make room and stay present, the Holy Spirit gently does the work of softening hearts, breaking down walls, and growing connection in ways only He can. If you’re a parent longing for deeper connection with your child, let this episode remind you that it doesn’t have to be perfect—it just has to be present. God is already at work in the in-between. Connect with Our Perspective 💛 Instagram @ourperspective.podcast 💛 Follow Patricia @patricia_6710 💛 Follow MG @ _marygrace_d

In this special bonus video for Episode 8, Is Everything OK With Your Heart? Learning to Unpack What We Carry, Pat goes deeper into the heart-check questions that sparked so much reflection in the main episode. This intimate conversation creates space to unpack what we’re really carrying beneath the surface: unspoken hurts, lingering worries, broken trust, and emotions we often overlook. Building on Proverbs 3:5 and insights from Enemies of the Heart by Andy Stanley, this bonus dives deeper into the importance of daily heart awareness and inviting God into the hidden places of our lives. Pat reflects more personally on the power of asking intentional questions, listening closely to the Holy Spirit, and allowing Scripture to guide us back to truth when emotions try to take the lead. This bonus is an invitation to slow down, check in with your heart, and honestly assess what may be impacting your relationship with God and others.

In Episode 8, Is Everything OK With Your Heart? Learning to Unpack What We Carry, we welcome a very special guest, Carmen!!! She is making her podcast debut and we are so excited to share her with you guys! This episode is a heartfelt and honest conversation about what it looks like to intentionally unpack our hearts so we can live healthy, free, and open to what God has for us. We center our conversation around Proverbs 3:5, reflecting on Carmen’s personal struggle with trust and how Scripture has played a key role in shaping her faith. We also draw from Andy Stanley’s Enemies of the Heart, exploring the importance of recognizing what we’re holding onto before it quietly affects our hearts and relationships. This episode is filled with encouragement on memorizing Scripture, listening to the Holy Spirit, and bringing God’s Word back to the forefront when emotions, worries, or past hurts resurface. Pat also shares the simple but powerful heart-check questions she asked every night—questions that created space for honesty, healing, and deeper connection. As we learn what it means to unpack our hearts daily, we’re reminded that a healthy heart leads to freedom, openness, and a greater awareness of God’s presence. This conversation also lays the foundation for our next episode, where we’ll dive even deeper into communication. Heart-Check Questions We Discuss: * Is everything OK with your heart? * Are you mad at anybody? * Did anyone break a promise? * Did anyone hurt your feelings? * Is there anything you need to tell me? * Are you worried about anything? Connect with Our Perspective 💛 Instagram @ourperspective.podcast 💛 Follow Patricia @patricia_6710 💛 Follow MG @ _marygrace_d

What could change in your family if you started reading the Bible together today? In Episode 7 of Our Perspective, MG and Pat are joined by their dear friend Amy for a meaningful conversation about building a rhythm of Scripture in your home. We partner with SOAR, a journaling method that helps individuals and families engage God’s Word through Scripture, Observation, Application, and Reflection. Together, we cast a vision for the future: What might your relationship with your kids look like by the end of 2026, if you committed to reading the Bible together now? How might your family dynamic shift? And how could your relationship with God deepen along the way? This episode is full of encouragement for parents who feel unsure where to start, overwhelmed by busy schedules, or simply longing for a deeper spiritual connection at home. You don’t need perfection, just presence, consistency, and a willingness to invite God into your daily rhythm. Now is the time to begin. Grab a SOAR journal, press play, and take the first step toward creating a legacy of faith in your family. Start small, stay consistent, and trust that God will honor every moment you choose to open His Word together. SOAR Resources- lnk.bio/soar.journal Connect with SOAR 💛 Instagram @soar.journal Connect with Our Perspective 💛 Instagram @ourperspective.podcast 💛 Follow Patricia @patricia_6710 💛 Follow MG @ _marygrace_d

Raising kids was never meant to be done alone. In this episode of Our Perspective, Mg and I talk about the importance of surrounding your children with strong, godly mentorship. Finding people who will speak truth, model faith, and walk alongside your family. From choosing the right voices to trusting your village, this conversation will encourage you to be intentional about who helps shape your kids’ hearts and futures. Connect with Our Perspective 💛 Instagram @ourperspective.podcast 💛 Follow Patricia @patricia_6710 💛 Follow MG @ _marygrace_d

In Episode 5 of Our Perspective Podcast, Pat and MG talk about why Scripture matters—even to your kids. We dive into the importance of reading the Bible together, memorizing Scripture as a family, and modeling a love for God’s Word in everyday life. Even when your kids are small, what they see you do shapes what they value. This episode is a reminder that Scripture isn’t just something we teach but also something we live out together. Resources: Jesus Calling: 365 Devotions For Kids  Jesus Calling For Kids Connect with Our Perspective 💛 Instagram @ourperspective.podcast 💛 Follow Patricia @patricia_6710 💛 Follow MG @ _marygrace_d

Last week, we dove into Part One of prayer. Prayer was a steady, everyday rhythm that carried me through every season of parenting. We open up about the prayers that shaped our home and the ones we still pray today, including: Prayer over our kids, that God would be tangible in their lives Prayer for wisdom and integrity (Proverbs 3:13) Prayer that sin would come to light quickly Prayer for one good, solid friend in every season Prayer over the teachers, coaches, and voices influencing them Prayer for a hedge of protection over their hearts and steps Prayer for boldness, anchored in 2 Timothy 1:7 This week, in Part 2 of Prayer, we go even deeper into the heart of prayer. We discuss Praying for peace over depression and anxiety Prayer for their future spouse But this episode goes beyond the prayers I prayed over them. This episode, MG gets vulnerable and shares her recent ADHD and situational anxiety diagnosis, and together we explore what it really looks like to pray when life feels uncertain. Real, raw, and full of hope, this episode will leave you inspired to pray deeper than ever. Connect with Our Perspective 💛 Instagram @ourperspective.podcast 💛 Follow Patricia @patricia_6710 💛 Follow MG @ _marygrace_d

Welcome back to Our Perspective Podcast! We can’t believe we’re already on Episode 3 of this series on the four guiding rhythms that quietly shaped the heartbeat of our home. And honestly… watching this one back had us laughing. MG’s facial expressions and quick comebacks? Pure gold.  This week, we dive into Part One of prayer. Prayer was a steady, everyday rhythm that carried me through every season of parenting. We open up about the prayers that shaped our home and the ones we still pray today, including: Prayer over our kids, that God would be tangible in their lives Prayer for wisdom and integrity (Proverbs 3:13) Prayer that sin would come to light quickly Prayer for one good, solid friend in every season Prayer over the teachers, coaches, and voices influencing them Prayer for a hedge of protection over their hearts and steps Prayer for boldness, anchored in 2 Timothy 1:7 It’s honest, practical, meaningful, and full of moments that will make you laugh right along with us. Tune in and see how prayer became one of the rhythms that quietly kept our family grounded. Connect with Our Perspective 💛 Instagram @ourperspective.podcast 💛 Follow Patricia @patricia_6710 💛 Follow MG @ _marygrace_d

Welcome back to Our Perspective Podcast! This week, Pat and MG kick off a brand-new series on the four guiding rhythms that quietly shaped the heartbeat of their home. These weren’t fancy strategies—just everyday practices that kept their family grounded, connected, and supported by a village that mattered. In today’s episode, they unpack the first rhythm—born from a single, deeply personal question: “What do you hope people say about you at your funeral?” That question sparked a defining statement for their family, one Pat hopes will echo for generations. Tune in as they share the surprising story behind it and how it changed everything. Now go and leave people better than you found them! 💛 Resources: 💌 Davis Family Mission Statement 🎉 We leave people better than we found them By creating environments for people to experience Christ To ultimately see people feel loved, seen, and valued. How to write a Legacy Statement: 📝 Start with the question- ❓ “What do I want people to say about me at my funeral? Mission Statement A formal, short written statement defining the mission of your life. Legacy Action Statement How are you going to accomplish your Mission in Life Action Vision Statement What the future looks like See Connect with Our Perspective 💛 Instagram @ourperspective.podcast 💛 Follow Patricia @patricia_6710 💛 Follow MG @ _marygrace_d

In our very first episode, we’re opening the doors wide and inviting you into the heart behind Our Perspective. This podcast was born out of our desire to empower parents to raise bold followers of Jesus through real, honest, and practical conversations between parent and child. In this episode, we unpack our mission, vision, and the “why” behind everything we’re setting out to do. You’ll hear how we plan to create a safe space where families can grow together, learn from Scripture, laugh through real-life moments, and navigate the messy and meaningful parts of parenting—side by side with my kids. Whether you're a new parent, a seasoned parent, or someone simply wanting to help build Christ-centered families, this episode lays the foundation for what you can expect from every conversation ahead. Mission: To empower parents to raise bold followers of Jesus through real, honest, parent-to-kid conversations. Vision: To equip a generation of Christ-centered families by creating a safe space where parents and children grow together. Strategy: Through biblical wisdom, honest dialogue, and practical steps you can apply in your own home. Welcome to the journey—let’s grow together.