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This is where we draw the line between Sunday knowledge and we live the word and principles of God practically, in every aspect of our life. Christ didn't save us to make us feel good, instead we are called to freedom, victory & abundance. On this podcast we are discipled, cultivated, challenged, refined and fruitful in every aspect of our lives! Goodbye passive Christianity, Hello to fruitful living! Welcome to a life REFINED
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Forgiveness sounds noble until your body tenses at a name, a memory, or a room. We go straight to the core: why unforgiveness quietly locks you out of peace, progress, and the presence you’re praying to feel. Drawing from Ephesians 4:31-32 and Matthew 6:14-15, we explore how spiritual principles operate like laws—break them and you feel the weight, keep them and your heart breathes again. This isn’t theory. It’s how to stop carrying what’s crushing you. We map the real signs you haven’t forg...
When the calendar shouts “show up,” what if wisdom whispers “slow down”? Today we open a raw, timely conversation about hidden seasons—those stretches where God forms character away from the spotlight—and why they’re not punishment but protection. With Pastor Koketso Molaolwe, we unpack the difference between being intentionally hidden and being stuck in obscurity, and we explore how early success can amplify unhealed wounds, distort identity, and quietly sabotage calling. We get honest abou...
Missed closers, fresh start, real talk. We kick off 2026 by owning last year’s lessons and setting a new standard: be led by the Holy Spirit in what you plan, how you show up, and the choices you make. No more mismatched motives or goals borrowed from the loudest voice in the room—this is about heart work that fuels real fruit. I share five personal nuggets from 2025 that reframed everything: God cares more about the state of your heart than the size of your output; caring for people can’t o...
Promises don’t break; people do—when we skip the prerequisite that unlocks them. Today we get honest about consecration: what it is, why it matters now, and how to practice it without turning faith into a checklist. We anchor in Joshua 3:5—“Consecrate yourselves, for tomorrow the Lord will do amazing things among you”—and explore the gap between revelation and realization, where obedience becomes partnership and purity protects power. We make it practical. Think of consecration like marriage...
Following Christ demands more than aesthetic Christianity; it requires the difficult journey of allowing Jesus to be not just our Savior but the Lord of our entire life. • Praise Mwelase shares her background growing up in a Christian household and her path to the entertainment industry • The difference between acknowledging Jesus as Savior versus surrendering to Him as Lord • How career success and good relationships can still leave us feeling spiritually "stuck" • Finding true identi...
When was the last time you thought about the complex dance of couple friendships? Those relationships that form when marriages intertwine, creating communities that laugh together, pray together, and sometimes even weather the storm when one marriage doesn't survive. In this raw, honest conversation, we dive deep into the beautiful mess of couple friendships – exploring everything from the strength these relationships bring during our lowest moments to the uncomfortable reality of comparison...
What does it truly mean to be a present father? Beyond showing up at occasional soccer games or providing financially, the depth of fatherhood remains murky territory for many men—especially those who grew up without strong father figures themselves. This eye-opening conversation with Sbu Zikalala takes us on a journey across continents as he shares how moving from South Africa to Taiwan completely transformed his understanding of what engaged fatherhood looks like. The cultural differences ...
We're in a critical season of shifting where the voices we listen to will determine our direction and decisions. Guard your heart, for out of it flow the decisions that will steer your entire life. • When things reach our ears, they affect our heart, and our decisions are a result of what we hear • The voice of distraction pulls our attention away from God's mandate without being inherently bad • Misdirecting voices lure us away from our God-given purpose, causing us to invest in wrong direc...
Movies portray an idealized version of marriage where the honeymoon phase never ends, but real intimacy often includes unexpected challenges that couples aren't prepared to discuss openly. • Sexual compatibility isn't automatic but requires active cultivation through communication and effort • Understanding each other's desires and expectations is fundamental to building a healthy sex life • Knowledge about hormonal cycles helps couples navigate libido differences without taking them persona...
Navigating seasons of shift requires understanding the difference between stewarding what God gives versus owning it as our identity. When God leads us through transitions, we must learn to recognize the signals and trust His provision for what comes next. • The biblical story of Elijah at the brook illustrates how God provides in one season before calling us to move • Spiritual maturity develops when we learn to yield to God's timing rather than clinging to comfortable seasons • Intimacy wi...
Marriage is a divine institution designed by God, not a performance measured by social media standards or external validation. We explore how to navigate relationships in today's digital landscape where "couple goals" are often defined by superficial displays rather than substantive connection. • Social media creates unrealistic expectations of perfect relationships • Most marriages aren't roses all the time - challenges are normal • Behind every perfect post is an imperfect reality • The bl...
Are you burying your talents in the ground because of fear? That's exactly what today's powerful conversation with Tamia Nontsikelelo, founder of Tol-Thema, a modest fashion brand, challenges us to examine. Tamia's journey from accounting student to successful fashion entrepreneur didn't follow the expected path. While still in university, she felt an inexplicable divine urgency to pursue her purpose rather than waiting for the "right time" after graduation. Despite being labeled "delusional...
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