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Featuring Special Guest: Rabbi Dr. Bennett BlumIn this deeply personal episode, Rabbi Avi and Rabbi Blum honor the life and legacy of their mentor, Rabbi Elijah Schochet, Zecher Tzadik L'ivracha (1935–2026). A descendant of the Vilna Gaon and a student of legendary scholars like Abraham Joshua Heschel and Saul Lieberman, Rabbi Schochet was a "Rabbi’s Rabbi" whose influence spanned the globe.This episode explores the duality of a man who was both a towering intellectual and a simple practitioner of radical kindness. Through a rare 2015 recording and a moving dialogue with forensic psychiatrist Rabbi Dr. Bennett Blum, we examine how Rabbi Schochet navigated the darkest roots of human insecurity while remaining relentlessly committed to the joy and holiness within every individual.Featured Segment: Freud’s Secret LibraryThe episode features a 2015 sermon by Rabbi Schochet in which he dives into the psychoanalytic roots of the Book of Genesis. Key themes include:Sibling Rivalry: Examining the conflicts of Cain and Abel, Isaac and Ishmael, and Jacob and Esau as the central dilemma of human existence.The Craving for Favoritism: How the desperate need for parental and divine love can lead to either destructive insecurity or lives of Chesed (loving-kindness).Theology of Insecurity: A challenge to define whether our personal theology leads us to "kill for God’s glory" or to serve through Tzedakah (righteousness) and Rachamim (mercy).Key Discussion Points:The SLobodka Ideal: How Rabbi Schochet bridged the intellectual recognition of human flaws with a commitment to Gadlus HaAdam—the innate greatness of man."Enjoy, Enjoy": An analysis of Rabbi Schochet’s signature catchphrase as a radical theological choice. He believed we must choose whether to live a "life of joy interrupted by tragedy" or a "life of tragedy interrupted by joy."Honoring the Individual: Stories of Rabbi Schochet’s unique ability to make every person feel like his "favorite," from his own family members to a woman struggling with self-esteem.The "Third Ear": Reflections on his quiet authority, his vast knowledge base ranging from Aramaic Talmudic texts to Bollywood musicals and football statistics, and his refusal to be "Pollyannish" about the realities of suffering.The Obligation of the Student: Discussing the responsibility to amplify Rabbi Schochet's example in a world that feels darker without his physical presence.Terminology & ConceptsLamed Vavnikim: The Jewish mystical tradition of the 36 hidden righteous souls upon whom the world depends.Levayah: A funeral service; literally "escorting" the deceased.Neshama: The soul or inner essence of a person.Menschlichkeit: The quality of being a "mensch"—a person of integrity, honor, and compassion.Azkara / Kel Maleh Rachamim: The memorial prayer asking for the soul of the departed to find rest and be bound in the bonds of eternal life.A Final NoteAs Rabbi Schochet’s grandson noted at his funeral, he was a lighthouse. When a lighthouse goes dark, the ships do not stop; they must find a new way to navigate. This episode serves as a guide for all those seeking to calibrate their own lives toward joy, kindness, and intellectual honesty.Support the Show:Help us produce these conversations by supporting Horizontal Media on Patreon: patreon.com/horizontalmediaPlease subscribe, like, and recommend The Rabbi Avi Show to your friends.

Featured GuestOleg Cohen: A theoretical nuclear physicist, MBA, and tech entrepreneur. Originally from Irkutsk, Siberia, Oleg is a black belt in American Kenpo and a dedicated instructor of self-defense for the Jewish community.Episode Summary They say history repeats itself, but for Oleg Cohen, the future is already knocking at the door. Born in Irkutsk, Siberia, Oleg grew up in a society where antisemitism wasn’t just a sentiment—it was a fact of life. Today, as a successful tech entrepreneur and AI innovator in the United States, he sees haunting parallels between the collapse of the Soviet Union and the rising tide of hostility in modern America.In this sobering yet empowering conversation, Rabbi Avi and Oleg discuss the "lifting of the taboo" on Jew-hatred, the dangerous "horseshoe" of political extremism, and why the image of the weak, victimized Jew must be left in the past. Oleg shares his journey from a young boy hiding his identity in Russia to a black belt in American Kenpo teaching self-defense to Jewish students. This is a call to wake up, build physical and mental resilience, and refuse to be an easy target.Key Topics & TakeawaysThe Soviet Experience: Oleg opens up about growing up in Siberia, where being Jewish was effectively illegal and a source of shame. He recounts the chilling normalization of slurs and the "glass ceilings" in academia.The Lifting of the Taboo: Drawing from his experience with the collapse of the USSR, Oleg explains how societal instability can quickly turn "impolite" antisemitism into open, unchecked violence—a trend he now sees accelerating in the U.S. post-October 7th.The Horseshoe Theory: A discussion on how the extreme left and extreme right, despite their differences, ultimately meet at the point of antisemitism and anti-Zionism.Muscle Memory: Why intellectual success isn't enough. Oleg explains his transition into martial arts and why he believes every Jewish student needs to build the physical confidence to know "where the door is" and how to protect themselves.The Silence of Friends: The painful reality of non-Jewish friends and colleagues who stayed silent—or turned hostile—when the Jewish community needed them most.A New Strength: Why the "weak Jew" of the diaspora is a relic, and how Israel’s resilience should serve as a model for Jews in America.Mentioned in this EpisodeThe "Guy with the Guitar" Song: Oleg references a viral Russian song that contrasts the "old" image of the weak, victimized Jew of the Soviet era with the "new" Jew of Israel who will fiercely defend their land.Note: The song Oleg is likely referring to is by the famous Russian-Israeli bard and comedian Semyon Slepakov, whose songs about the war and Jewish identity went viral after October 7th. You can listen to his poignant (and often humorous) take on these themes here:Semyon Slepakov - "Song about the situation" (Note: While there are several viral songs fitting this description, Slepakov is the most prominent "guy with a guitar" addressing this exact sentiment).Connect with The Rabbi Avi ShowSupport the show and help us continue these vital conversations: patreon.com/horizontalmediaLike, rate, and subscribe to help us reach more listeners.

Show Notes: Guest: Rabbi Daniel Levine In this episode, Rabbi Avi sits down with Rabbi Daniel Levine, the Senior Jewish Educator for Hillel at UC Irvine and a lecturer in Jewish Studies. They dive deep into the intellectual and spiritual evolution of a modern rabbi, the challenges facing Jewish students on campus today, and the delicate balance of maintaining a "principled centrist" identity in a polarized world.Episode HighlightsThe Intellectual Journey: Rabbi Daniel shares his transition from the "hyper-intellectual" world of the Brisk/Soloveitchik Yeshiva tradition to the pluralistic "soup" of modern American Judaism. He discusses how studying Jewish history from an academic perspective changed his view of Torah from a "top-down" static revelation to a "bottom-up" organic creation of the Jewish people.Biblical Criticism vs. Tradition: A candid discussion on the "shock to the system" that comes from encountering biblical criticism. Daniel explains how viewing the Torah as a composite text actually enhanced his connection to Jewish tradition and peoplehood, even as his relationship with halakha (Jewish law) changed.The "Slippery Slope" of Observance: Avi and Daniel grapple with the "slippery slope" of non-Orthodox life—how to define parameters for Jewish commitment and continuity without the strict boundaries of traditional law.The Fifth Question: Daniel discusses the philosophy behind his own podcast, The Fifth Question, and why long-form dialogue is the only way to preserve the nuance essential to Jewish thought.Zionism as an Indigenous Movement: Why Daniel views Zionism as a successful decolonial, indigenous rights movement and his concerns about why it isn't celebrated as such by modern progressives.Jewish Identity and Intermarriage: A nuanced look at the reality of assimilation and intermarriage in America. Daniel introduces the halakhic framework of L’chatchila (ideal) vs. B’dyeved (post-facto) as a way to remain welcoming to all families while advocating for Jewish continuity.The Overton Window of Judaism: A debate on what constitutes "authentic" Judaism. Daniel argues for a wide "Overton Window" that includes everyone from female Reform rabbis to the ultra-Orthodox in Borough Park. *Life on Campus Post-October 7: An honest assessment of the climate for Jewish students at UC Irvine and across the country. Daniel explains how modern Antizionist rhetoric often mirrors Soviet-era propaganda and why Jewish education is the best defense against campus hostility.The "Fast Takes" Round: Daniel’s preference for Persian cuisine over Ashkenazi cholent, his recommendation for the one book every centrist should read (As a Driven Leaf by Milton Steinberg), and what he would ask Maimonides if given the chance.Key Concepts DiscussedTorah Min HaShamayim: The traditional belief that the Torah was given directly by God at Sinai.Kiruv: Jewish outreach aimed at bringing Jews closer to tradition.Halakha: The collective body of Jewish religious laws.Brisk Method: An analytical approach to Talmud study emphasizing conceptual definitions. Connect with Rabbi Daniel LevineListen to his podcast: The Fifth QuestionFollow his work at: Hillel at UC Irvine https://www.ochillel.org/ucirvineEnjoyed the show? Please like, rate, and subscribe to The Rabbi Avi Show. To support the podcast, visit patreon.com/horizontalmedia.

Show Notes: Guest: Rabbi Daniel Levine In this episode, Rabbi Avi sits down with Rabbi Daniel Levine, the Senior Jewish Educator for Hillel at UC Irvine and a lecturer in Jewish Studies. They dive deep into the intellectual and spiritual evolution of a modern rabbi, the challenges facing Jewish students on campus today, and the delicate balance of maintaining a "principled centrist" identity in a polarized world.Episode HighlightsThe Intellectual Journey: Rabbi Daniel shares his transition from the "hyper-intellectual" world of the Brisk/Soloveitchik Yeshiva tradition to the pluralistic "soup" of modern American Judaism. He discusses how studying Jewish history from an academic perspective changed his view of Torah from a "top-down" static revelation to a "bottom-up" organic creation of the Jewish people.Biblical Criticism vs. Tradition: A candid discussion on the "shock to the system" that comes from encountering biblical criticism. Daniel explains how viewing the Torah as a composite text actually enhanced his connection to Jewish tradition and peoplehood, even as his relationship with halakha (Jewish law) changed.The "Slippery Slope" of Observance: Avi and Daniel grapple with the "slippery slope" of non-Orthodox life—how to define parameters for Jewish commitment and continuity without the strict boundaries of traditional law.The Fifth Question: Daniel discusses the philosophy behind his own podcast, The Fifth Question, and why long-form dialogue is the only way to preserve the nuance essential to Jewish thought.Zionism as an Indigenous Movement: Why Daniel views Zionism as a successful de-colonial, indigenous rights movement and his concerns about why it isn't celebrated as such by modern progressives.Jewish Identity and Intermarriage: A nuanced look at the reality of assimilation and intermarriage in America. Daniel introduces the halakhic framework of L’chatchila (ideal) vs. B’dyeved (post-facto) as a way to remain welcoming to all families while advocating for Jewish continuity.The Overton Window of Judaism: A debate on what constitutes "authentic" Judaism. Daniel argues for a wide "Overton Window" that includes everyone from female Reform rabbis to the ultra-Orthodox in Borough Park. *Life on Campus Post-October 7: An honest assessment of the climate for Jewish students at UC Irvine and across the country. Daniel explains how modern anti-Zionist rhetoric often mirrors Soviet-era propaganda and why Jewish education is the best defense against campus hostility.The "Fast Takes" Round: Daniel’s preference for Persian cuisine over Ashkenazi cholent, his recommendation for the one book every centrist should read (As a Driven Leaf by Milton Steinberg), and what he would ask Maimonides if given the chance.Key Concepts DiscussedTorah Min HaShamayim: The traditional belief that the Torah was given directly by God at Sinai.Kiruv: Jewish outreach aimed at bringing Jews closer to tradition.Halakha: The collective body of Jewish religious laws.Brisk Method: An analytical approach to Talmud study emphasizing conceptual definitions. *Connect with Rabbi Daniel LevineListen to his podcast: The Fifth QuestionFollow his work at: Hillel at UC Irvine https://www.ochillel.org/ucirvineEnjoyed the show? Please like, rate, and subscribe to The Rabbi Avi Show. To support the podcast, become a member at patreon.com/horizontalmedia

Episode Summary: They say if you want to see the future of the Jewish people, don’t look at a spreadsheet of statistics—look at who is sitting around your Shabbat table.In this episode, Rabbi Avi is joined by four dynamic young Jewish leaders—Shoshana Levine, Jacob Sandler, Ed Gelernt, and Aleeza Schoenberg—for a conversation that started as a Friday night dinner and turned into a high-energy debate about the future of American Jewry in 2026.Together, they wrestle with the "slippery slope" of standards versus inclusivity, the transition from Modern Orthodoxy to Egalitarianism, and how to build meaningful communities for a generation that demands authenticity. Whether you are a daily minyan-goer or someone who hasn’t stepped inside a synagogue in years, there is a seat for you at this table.Key Topics & TakeawaysThe Fifth Child: We know the four children from the Haggadah, but what about the one who didn't even show up? The group discusses how to reach the disengaged and "on the bubble" Jews who are falling through the cracks.Standards vs. The Slippery Slope: A debate on whether maintaining strict standards preserves the community or alienates the very people we are trying to reach.Authenticity & Egalitarianism: Aleeza shares her powerful personal journey from Modern Orthodoxy to finding a space where her presence as a woman didn't just exist, but truly mattered."LARPing" as Judeans: Ed proposes a provocative idea: Are we just live-action role-playing as ancient Judeans in modern America, or are we building a living, breathing civilization?High Ceilings, Low Floors: How to create educational programming (like Ed and Aleeza's Mishmar group) that is accessible to beginners without boring the experts.The Price of Admission: Addressing the financial and cultural barriers of suburban synagogue memberships and how to make Shul feel like home again.The Power of Singing: Why music and communal singing might be the "secret sauce" to engagement that transcends belief.Featured GuestsShoshana Levine: A second-year rabbinical student at The Jewish Theological Seminary (JTS) and long-time student of Rabbi Avi.Jacob Sandler: Hazzan (Cantor) at North Suburban Synagogue Beth-El in Highland Park, Illinois.Ed Gelernt: A PhD student in Genetics at Stanford University and an active lay leader at Kol Emet in Palo Alto.Aleeza Schoenberg: A writer, Jewish communal leader, and board member at Kol Emet in Palo Alto.Quotes from the Episode"The essence of what it is to be a Jew is to be engaged in the question of what it is to be a Jew.""We are a religion of collaborative overlap.""If you want to get Jews to want to be Jewish, figure out what part of it actually was home."Connect with The Rabbi Avi ShowSubscribe to the podcast for more conversations on Jewish life, law, and philosophy.support us at www.patreon.com/horizontalmediaFollow us on https://x.com/tribopub?s=11&t=2puXn_1r6I2Vh7QUp3VPaw

Call to ActionIf you found this story of "Beshert" inspiring, please subscribe and leave a review at patreon.com/horizontalmedia We began this series in the most vulnerable of places: the hospital room. We sat with my friend Adam Fox, exploring what it means to show up for one another when life hangs in the balance. We continued that conversation with Dr. David Dierks, an ER physician who gave us a raw, behind-the-scenes look at the frustrations of healing and the fragility of the human body. And most recently, we were moved to our core by E.C. Stillson. Facing a stage 4 cancer diagnosis—what many would call a "death sentence"—she showed us that even in the shadow of illness, life can be lived with spectacular purpose.Through these episodes, we’ve learned that life is precious and every moment is a gift. But as we transition today, I want to focus on a different kind of health. It is the health of the heart, the health of our community, and the vitality of our future.You see, we don’t want to just survive; we want to thrive. We want to walk through this short life not in loneliness, but with a partner—someone who doesn't just "settle" for us, but someone who matches the frequency of our soul.For the American Jewish community, this is a unique challenge. The statistics are daunting: outside the traditional Orthodox world, nearly 72% of Jews are marrying outside the Jewish people. I hear many of my rabbinical colleagues lamenting this as a "social illness," sometimes even berating the people for drifting away. Others have simply surrendered to the tide.I’ve decided to take a different approach. I’ve decided to treat this as a part of my ministry—a proactive "preventative medicine" for the soul. I never imagined myself as a matchmaker, but I’ve realized that I cannot simply complain about the statistics; I have to be part of the solution. If I can help a Jewish man and a Jewish woman find a harmonious beginning, I am helping to heal the heart of our people.Today’s guests are the living proof that this "ministry of matchmaking" works.Several years ago, Stephanie walked into my office. She was 26, an artist, and deeply wary of the superficiality of dating apps. Shortly after, through a "team effort" with members of our community, I was able to introduce her to Eric. Eric is a jazz guitarist, a man of deep values, who at 36 was beginning to wonder if his Beshert—his intended—was ever going to appear.On paper, they were an unlikely pair. There were age gaps, height differences, and divergent hobbies. But they chose to break the modern rules of dating. They chose to look past the superficial and connect on a deep, philosophical level.Today, they are here to share their story. And they didn’t come alone. We are also joined by six-month-old baby Shayna—the youngest guest in the history of the Rabbi Avi Show. She is a living testimony to the fact that when two souls connect, they don't just change their own lives; they build the future.Please join me in welcoming Stephanie, Eric, and little Shayna.(Music swells to a joyful peak and fades as the interview starts)

Show Notes: Guest: E.C. Stilson (Elisa Magagna)🎙️ Episode SummaryIn this profound and deeply personal conversation, Rabbi Avi welcomes back author E.C. Stilson (Elisa Magagna) to discuss her new novel, The Unfinished Business of Opal Bloom. Born from Elisa's own face-to-face encounters with mortality while battling Stage IV melanoma, the book explores the "spiritual architecture" of the afterlife.Elisa opens up about her health crisis, the "spirit of death" that visited her dreams, and how her main character, Opal, became a vessel for her to confront her own inner critic. They dive into a unique vision of Purgatory—not as a place of punishment, but as a school of craft led by a Master Luthier—where souls are repaired like weathered violins.🗝️ Key Themes & Discussion PointsThe Catalyst of Mortality: Elisa shares the harrowing experience of a 2021 health crisis where she was 30 minutes away from death, and how that urgency fueled the completion of this novel.The Eternal Symphony: Why music and harmony serve as the central language for Elisa’s vision of Heaven and the soul.The Pleopyts (Purgatory) as a Workshop: A look at the "Master Luthier" and the concept that our souls, though dented and scratched by life, can be repaired through learning and "tuning."The Inner Critic vs. Grace: Confronting the "grating monologue" of failure and perfectionism, and finding the "gentle whisper" that says, "You were doing your best."Legacy and "The Ripple Effect": Shifting the definition of legacy from professional performance to the kindness and resonance we leave in the people we love.The "Knotty" String to God: A beautiful Jewish metaphor about how the more "knots" (mistakes and repairs) we have in our connection to the Divine, the shorter the string and the closer we actually are to God.📖 Notable Quotes"The strings with the more knots, they're actually shorter and they're closer to God because they've had to learn more." — Elisa Magagna"True legacy is not about what you did on earth. It's about the kindness and the resonance you leave within other people." — The Master Luthier (from the novel)"I think God wants us to be perfectly imperfect... I'm me, and that's good enough." — Elisa Magagna🔗 Resources MentionedBook: The Unfinished Business of Opal Bloom by E.C. Stilson Book: Ring the Bell by E.C. StilsonBook Reference: When Bad Things Happen to Good People by Harold Kushner❤️ Support the ShowIf you enjoyed this episode, please rate, subscribe, and recommend the Rabbi Avi Show.Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/horizontalmedia

In this conversation, Alma Hernandez shares her journey as a Mexican-American Jew and her experiences in reclaiming her Jewish heritage. She discusses her political aspirations, the challenges she faced, and her commitment to advocating for her community. Alma reflects on her personal trauma and how it has shaped her resilience and dedication to public service. She emphasizes the importance of Holocaust education and her unapologetic support for Israel, while also addressing the need for unity within the diverse Jewish community. Throughout the discussion, Alma highlights the influence of her family and the legacy they have instilled in her, providing hope and motivation for her future endeavors.Takeaways:Alma identifies as an unapologetic Mexican Jew, reflecting her unique cultural background.Her conversion to Judaism was a personal journey of reclaiming her heritage.Alma became the youngest woman ever elected in Arizona, breaking barriers in politics.She believes in the importance of unity within the Jewish community, regardless of differing opinions.Alma emphasizes the need for resilience and thick skin in the political arena.Her personal trauma has fueled her advocacy for criminal justice reform.Alma is committed to Holocaust education, believing in the importance of sharing survivor stories.She stands firmly with Israel, despite facing backlash from within her party.Family legacy plays a crucial role in Alma's motivation and determination.Alma's journey is a testament to the power of perseverance and hope.

Follow & Support The Rabbi Avi Show and Horizontal MediaPlease like, rate, sharer and subscribe to The Rabbi Avi Show on your favorite podcast platform. This helps spread the word to new listenersTo support the show financially, please visit Horizontal Media here: patreon.com/horizontalmedia🎙️ Show Notes: Beyond the Band Room: A Rabbi and an ER DocGuest: Dr. David DierksRabbi Avi sits down with his lifelong friend, Dr. David Dierks, for a conversation that spans from their junior high band room in Arizona to the high-stakes environment of a modern emergency room. Dr. Dierks shares his "uncommon path" from ER nurse to Doctor of Osteopathic Medicine (D.O.), offering a candid, frontline perspective on the realities of the US healthcare system.They discuss the profound impact of their shared musical past, the "medical purgatory" created by a profit-driven system, and the critical importance of being an advocate for your own health. Dr. Dierks provides a sober look at physician burnout and the challenges facing rural hospitals, but also shares what gives him hope—and why, after seeing humanity at its best and worst, he still fundamentally loves people.Key Topics & Timestamps(00:01) Introduction: The story behind the episode title, "Beyond the Band Room: The Rabbi and the ER."(01:57) Dr. Dierks discusses the "culture shock" of moving from a small farm in Iowa to Chandler, Arizona.(04:33) How the "many moving parts" of a high school marching band provided the perfect training for teamwork in the ER.(05:41) Reflecting on their high school friendship, being one of the few Jewish kids in school, and their shared period of questioning religion.(08:25) A personal memory: When Rabbi Avi's family trusted David to care for his grandfather, long before he was a doctor.(10:21) The "Uncommon Path": What driving force (including a divorce and a nudge from his brother) pushed him to go from a successful ER nurse to a physician?(12:03) What is a D.O.? Dr. Dierks explains the holistic philosophy of Osteopathic Medicine, founded by Dr. A.T. Still.(16:28) How his years as a CNA and nurse gave him a different, more confident approach to medicine than his colleagues.(18:14) The 12-Year Burnout: What it's like when both you and your spouse are ER doctors. (Spoiler: They have to talk shop at home).(20:20) The Single Biggest Challenge Facing Hospitals: Capitalism. Dr. Dierks explains how the profit-motive impacts patient care.(23:05) "Medical Purgatory": The daily reality of specialists refusing complicated or uninsured patients, leaving them stuck in the ER.(25:21) The critical importance of being an advocate for yourself and your family members in the hospital.(25:38) The impact of the burnout crisis, especially after 10% of the healthcare workforce left post-COVID.(28:54) Rural vs. Urban Medicine: The stark differences in resources between practicing in Iowa and Arizona.(31:02) How do we rebuild public trust? Dr. Dierks argues that most providers are good people "beaten down by the system."(33:21) A Sign of Hope: The rise of Advanced Practitioner Providers (APPs) in filling the primary care gap.(35:09) Will AI fix healthcare? The hope that AI will handle documentation and finally let doctors get back to the patient's bedside.(36:47) The "Magic Wand" Question: The one thing Dr. Dierks would change about the US healthcare system.(37:26) Advice for any young person considering a career in medicine: "Talk to as many people as you can."(39:02) A 35-Year Friendship: Dr. Dierks reflects on how their lifelong bond has been a "grounding force."(41:49) The Final Lesson: After all these years in the ER, Dr. Dierks shares the one lesson he carries every day.

Episode Description: This is a very special episode of The Rabbi Avi Show, recorded not in a studio, but on location in a hospital room at Tucson Medical Center. Rabbi Avi sits down with Adam Fox, a young, dynamic Jewish leader he had only recently met. What began as a pastoral visit transformed into a profound and raw conversation.From his hospital bed, Adam shares his remarkable journey: from his early ambitions to be a rabbi, through his professional career empowering students at Hillel and Chabad, to the devastating loss of his mentor.Everything changed on October 7th, 2023. Adam details how the horrors of that day—and the wave of anti-Semitism he witnessed firsthand on college campuses—ignited a new, fierce mission. He speaks with stunning clarity and passion about the fight for Israel, the indivisible link between anti-Zionism and anti-Semitism, and the absolute necessity of Jewish unity.This conversation is a powerful testament to spiritual strength. Adam's physical vulnerability only magnifies his unbreakable spirit and his profound love for the Jewish people.In This Episode:(00:01) - Introduction from Rabbi AviRabbi Avi sets the stage for this unique episode, recorded at Adam Fox's bedside at TMC.He describes the power of meeting Adam and the "incredible spiritual strength" that listeners are about to hear.(02:15) - From Jewish Campus Life to Israel AdvocacyAdam shares his "origin story," from his Bar Mitzvah with Rabbi Joe Weizenbaum to his involvement in BBYO.His professional journey working to engage Jewish students at Hillel (University of Arizona, Colorado State) and Chabad (Northern Arizona University).Adam's core philosophy: Empowering students to "take ownership of their Jewish journey."(06:15) - Mentorship and Devastating LossAdam pays tribute to his mentor, Scott Zorn (z"l), and the heartbreaking story of his sudden passing on New Year's Day 2019.(10:20) - The Turning Point: October 7th, 2023Adam describes the "devastation" of October 7th while working at Colorado State Hillel.He discusses the immediate pivot from building Jewish life to defending it.Witnessing campus anti-Semitism firsthand: "From the River to the Sea" chants and the indifference of university administration.(15:10) - Defining the Fight: "Anti-Zionism IS Anti-Semitism"Adam makes a passionate, clear case for why there is no distinction between anti-Zionism and anti-Semitism, endorsing the IHRA definition.He provides listeners with a "script" for explaining this: "It is fair to criticize Israel's policies... What is [anti-Semitism] is when you deny the right of the Jewish homeland for the Jewish people."He argues that Zionism is the "ultimate decolonization movement" and the most successful indigenous rights movement in human history.(21:30) - Projects and AdvocacyAdam details the advocacy work he is involved in:Project Max: Combating anti-Semitism and intolerance through sports.End Jew Hatred: A grassroots movement to liberate the Jewish people from Jew hatred.Jewish Advisory Council: Working with local leaders and Congressman Juan Ciscomani to combat anti-Semitism in Southern Arizona.(27:40) - A Call for Jewish Unity and PrideRabbi Avi offers a heartfelt prayer for Adam's complete recovery (Refuah Shlemah).Adam's powerful closing message: "Wear your Jewish symbols. Wear your Jewish necklaces... We can't hide anymore, especially now more than ever."A plea for Jewish unity: "Reform, Conservative, Orthodox... Ashkenazi, Sefaradi, Mizrahi... None of that should matter. We're all Jewish. Be proud to be Jewish."(31:00) - Concluding BlessingRabbi Avi connects Adam's fragile, strong state to the themes of Sukkot—finding God's presence and grace even in a place of vulnerability.⭐ Key QuotesAdam Fox: "Each Jewish person has their own unique Jewish journey... I believe it's the role of others to embrace that and to open doors and to guide them."Adam Fox: "Zionism is the ultimate decolonization movement. It's the ultimate indigenous rights... successful movement... It took us thousands of years to finally get our right to return to our home."Adam Fox: "Don't let petty politics... Don't let however you identify as a Jew separate you from other Jews. Let's be united... We survived Haman. We survived the Nazis. We outlived all our enemies, but only through our unity, only through our strength, our ruach, and our Jewish pride."Resources MentionedOrganizations:HillelChabadB'nai B'rith Youth Organization (BBYO)Project MaxEnd Jew HatredPeople:Rabbi Joe WeizenbaumScott Zorn (z"l)Rabbi Dobi ShapiroRep. Juan CiscomaniReps. Alma, Consuelo, and Daniel HernandezConcepts:IHRA (International Holocaust Remembrance Alliance) definition of anti-Semitism🙏 Support the ShowSubscribe: Please like, recommend, and subscribe to The Rabbi Avi Show on your favorite podcast platform.Support: If you appreciate our efforts, please consider supporting us at

https://privatechefcookbook.com/Episode Show Notes: Private ChefRabbi Avi sits down with one of his dearest friends of 25 years, Chef Yair Luria. This is a reflective and heartfelt conversation about legacy, friendship, and the profound stories we tell through food.Yair shares the deeply personal origin of his new cookbook, "Private Chef" , which began as a way to create a legacy for his family while sitting shiva for his father (02:53). He explains that his book is not just a collection of recipes, but "a story of my life with recipes and anecdote" (04:10). He and Rabbi Avi discuss their shared experience of grief and reciting the Kaddish over the past year (00:00).Yair shares a vivid childhood memory behind his s'chug (hot sauce) recipe (06:42) and reflects on his unconventional path to becoming a chef—from originally wanting to be a dentist to studying economics and logistics (08:41, 09:20).In this episode, you'll hear:The powerful story of how a moment of grief led to a "magnum opus" (02:53).Yair's childhood memory of a very spicy pepper that stayed with him forever (06:42).His journey from a project coordinator to a high-end chef for clients like NBA player Omri Casspi (10:35).The key lesson he learned from cooking for an elite athlete: "There are no shortcuts... food is a gasoline for his health" (13:45).Why Yair sees the laws of kashrut as a framework for creativity, not a limitation (21:24).His philosophy on cooking for Shabbat: "It's dancing... it's a blessing for the house" (25:01).A simple, professional tip to elevate your home cooking: "Taste your food... cook because you love cooking" (26:13).The three most underrated ingredients you should be using: leek, beets, and celery root (27:17).Yair's ultimate wisdom on how food "is the connection between people," "can break a border," and is the "secret for friendship" (31:01).Find Chef Yair's Book:Private Chef is available everywhere books are sold.Visit his website: privatechefcookbook.comSupport the Show:Help us produce these conversations by supporting Horizontal Media on Patreon: patreon.com/horizontalmediaPlease subscribe, like, and recommend The Rabbi Avi Show to your friends.

patreon.com/horizontal mediaGuest: Rabbi Yossi Etz-HasadehDescriptionWhat does it take for a man to leave a quiet life on a 1,500-acre sheep farm in New Zealand for a hilltop community in the biblical heartland of Hebron?Today, Rabbi Avi reconnects with his dear friend, Rabbi Yossi Etz-Hasadeh, for an honest, on-the-ground perspective of what life is really like in Israel—especially in the places we hear about most but understand least. Rabbi Yossi’s story is one of profound transformation, taking him from the remote plains of New Zealand to the bustling world of Israeli high-tech, from leading a community in California to building a home for his children and grandchildren in Judea.In this conversation, Rabbi Yossi paints a vivid picture of a life deeply connected to the seasons and the soil. He shares the personal reasons he made Aliyah, what it means to be part of the miraculous story of Israel, and gives us a rare and candid look at the daily realities of life in the Har Hevron region—including his personal experiences working alongside his Arab neighbors and challenging the distorted narratives we so often see in the media.In this episode, we discuss:Growing up on a farm in New Zealand: Rabbi Yossi shares vivid memories of being a shepherd, working the land, and how a distant radio broadcast of the Six-Day War first connected him to Israel.The catalyst for Aliyah: Why he and his wife left a beautiful life in New Zealand for the unknown in Israel, driven by a desire for their daughters to marry Jewish husbands and a deep love for the land."Just being in Israel": What it means on a gut level to be part of the "miracle" of the re-established State of Israel and to raise a family between Jerusalem and Hebron.Life in Judea (Har Hevron): A look inside the tight-knit, diverse community of Beit Haggai, from its mix of Ashkenazim, Sephardim, and B'nei Menashe to the shared responsibility of guard duty.Challenging the media narrative: Rabbi Yossi contrasts the media's portrayal of the "West Bank" as a place of constant conflict with his lived reality of safety, community, and cooperation.Working with Arab neighbors: His experiences in the Israeli high-tech world, working in a diverse environment of religious and secular Jews, Christians, and Muslims, and the culture of mutual respect he witnessed.The core of the conflict: Rabbi Yossi’s perspective on the historical and religious roots of the conflict, and his thoughts on what a long-term solution might require.Jewish vs. Western values: A brief exploration of where these value systems align and where they diverge, rooted in the Torah versus Greco-Roman philosophy.Advice for the next generation: Rabbi Yossi's essential advice for young Jews in the diaspora: learn your 3,000-year history to truly understand your connection to the land of Israel.

Show Notes: Episode SummaryWhat does it mean to live on the front lines of Jewish history today? In this powerful episode, Rabbi Avi sits down with Rabbi Yaron Buki, the grandson of Holocaust survivors who left a comfortable life in California to move his family to Katzrin in the Golan Heights.Rabbi Buki shares the deep spiritual conviction that led him to believe the ultimate fulfillment of being a Jew is found only in the land of Israel, where we are not just scattered communities, but Goy Echad Ba'aretz—one unified nation. He offers a unique perspective as a "rabbi with calloused hands," someone deeply involved in the most fundamental aspects of the Jewish life cycle: as a mohel (ritual circumciser), a shokhet (ritual slaughterer), and a member of the Hevra Kaddisha (sacred burial society).We explore the beauty and challenges of unifying diverse Jewish traditions, as his own Ashkenazi roots have joined with his wife's Yemeni heritage. Rabbi Buki also provides a raw, honest look at the psychological reality of raising a family near the borders of Lebanon and Syria, and how to find strength and normalcy amidst the trauma of war. This is a profound conversation about identity, the sanctity of life, and a vision for what a rabbi can and should be in Israel today.Key Topics Discussed• The Spiritual Pull of the Land: Rabbi Buki explains why he believes the Torah can only be fully realized in the Land of Israel and the spiritual drive that led him to make Aliyah. [03:24]• One Nation vs. Scattered Communities: A deep dive into the concept of Goy Echad Ba'aretz (One Nation in the Land) and how living in Israel unifies the Jewish people in a way the diaspora cannot. [06:58]• The Ingathering of Exiles in One Family: How his family’s combined Ashkenazi and Yemeni heritage serves as a microcosm for the challenges and beauty of unifying the Jewish people. [09:51]• Life in the Golan Heights: Why he was drawn to the raw, quiet power of the Golan and what he found there that he couldn’t find in Jerusalem or Tel Aviv. [17:18]• Embracing the Full Life Cycle: Rabbi Buki’s journey to becoming a mohel, shokhet, and member of the burial society, and what these hands-on roles have taught him about the sanctity of life. [23:26]• A Rabbi with "Dirty Hands": Rabbi Buki’s vision for the modern rabbi in Israel—one who is deeply embedded in the practical, physical, and spiritual needs of the community. [31:52]• Raising a Family on the Front Lines: A candid look at the psychological tension and trauma of living under the constant threat of attack near the borders of Lebanon and Syria, and the sources of strength he draws upon. [45:09]• Surviving Psychological Warfare: How this war is different from past conflicts and the feeling of betrayal from a world that seeks to redefine Jewish identity and history. [52:29]• The Most Important Thing to Learn: Rabbi Buki’s powerful advice that the act of consistent daily learning is more important than what you learn. [59:39]More Information• What is a mohel? https://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/the-mohel/• How do Jews slaughter animals? https://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/kosher-meat/• What is the Hevra Kadisha? https://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/hevra-kaddisha-or-burial-society/About Our GuestRabbi Yaron Buki is a community rabbi in Katzrin, located in the Golan Heights. The grandson of Holocaust survivors, he made Aliyah from California with a passion for building a hands-on, authentic Jewish life in the Land of Israel. He is a mohel, shokhet, and a member of the local Hevra Kaddisha, serving his community at every stage of the life cycle. His family represents the ingathering of the exiles, blending Ashkenazi and Yemeni traditions on the front lines of modern Jewish life.

Welcome to The Rabbi Avi Show, the podcast that explores the full spectrum of human connection. Each episode, Rabbi Avi Alpert brings his wisdom, humor, and unique perspective to a new conversation about the relationships that shape our lives and our world.From the bonds of marriage and family to the dynamics of friendship, community, and even our relationship with ourselves, Rabbi Avi and his esteemed guests tackle the big questions and everyday challenges with warmth and honesty.The Rabbi Avi Show also dives deep into the complex and crucial relationships that Jews face around the globe, fostering understanding and building bridges in an often hostile world. This theme includes the exploration of the unique connections between Israelis and Americans, examining shared values, differences, and evolving ties that bind the two nations.Whether you're looking for guidance, a fresh point of view, or just a little bit of inspiration, you'll find it here. Join us as we discover what it truly means to be connected.