Autism Family Resource

Parenting an autistic child can bring moments of joy, uncertainty, growth, and deep reflection. In this episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian Keene sits down with Dr. Jonathan Chism, also known as Dr. Chiz, a father, professor, minister, and co-founder of the Autism Dad Social Club. Dr. Chism shares the honest story of his family's journey raising his non-speaking autistic son. He opens up about the early shock and denial after diagnosis, the hope that therapy might "fix" autism, and the powerful shift that happened when he began listening to autistic voices and embracing a different perspective. Instead of focusing on changing his son, Dr. Chism learned to focus on connection, acceptance, and supporting his son's communication and independence. In this conversation, he reflects on the lessons autism has taught him about empathy, patience, inclusion, and what it really means to show up as a father. This episode is especially meaningful for parents who may feel overwhelmed early in their journey. It's a reminder that growth happens not only for children, but for parents too. Topics Covered • Processing an autism diagnosis as a parent • Moving from denial toward acceptance in the autism journey • Parenting a non-speaking autistic child • Listening to autistic voices and lived experiences • Supporting communication through AAC devices • Building strong father-child relationships • Encouraging independence and life skills • Finding community as an autism parent Timestamps 00:00 Introduction to Dr. Jonathan Chism 01:21 Dr. Chism's background and family 03:08 Receiving an autism diagnosis at age two and a half 07:57 Moving from denial toward understanding autism 10:40 Learning from autistic voices and shifting perspective 24:26 Advice for parents feeling overwhelmed Memorable Quote "Be patient with yourself. Your child is a gift, and this journey will create a new normal." — Dr. Jonathan Chism About the Guest Dr. Jonathan Chism, also known as Dr. Chiz, is an associate professor of history at the University of Houston Downtown, an ordained minister, and the co-founder of the Autism Dad Social Club. As a father raising a non-speaking autistic son, he is passionate about supporting fathers, promoting autism acceptance, and helping families build meaningful connections with their children. Resources Mentioned • Autism Dad Social Club • Uniquely Human by Dr. Barry Prizant • AAC communication tools such as TouchChat About the Host Brian Keene is a pediatric occupational therapist and founder of Pure Hearts Therapy, a neurodiversity-affirming therapy practice providing in-home pediatric therapy services for families in Arizona. Through the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian shares practical tools, expert conversations, and supportive insights to help parents navigate the journey of raising neurodivergent children. Learn more at: https://pureheartstherapy.com Subscribe & Connect If this episode resonated with you, please consider sharing it with another parent who might benefit from this conversation. Listen and subscribe to the Autism Family Resource Podcast: https://pod.link/1591840956 Explore more resources for families at: https://pureheartstherapy.com

Have you ever wondered if something deeper might be affecting your child's regulation, behavior, or sleep? In this episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian sits down with Dr. Jeffrey Knight, chiropractor and founder of the Autism Wellness Center, to explore how factors like inflammation, gut health, environmental toxins, and cellular health may influence a child's nervous system and overall regulation. Dr. Knight shares his four-phase approach to cellular healing, designed to help support detox pathways, improve mitochondrial function, and restore gut health. The conversation also highlights how addressing these internal systems may help children better engage in therapies, school, and daily life. This episode is not about quick fixes. It's about gaining a deeper understanding of how the body works and how families can explore additional tools to support their child's development and regulation. Topics Covered • How inflammation may influence behavior and regulation • The connection between gut health and neurological function • Dr. Knight's four-phase cellular healing approach • The role toxins and environmental exposures may play in health • Supporting detox pathways safely and thoughtfully • Why mitochondrial health matters for energy and regulation • Real stories of changes families have experienced • Simple lifestyle adjustments families can start today About the Guest Dr. Jeffrey Knight is a chiropractor and founder of the Autism Wellness Center in Utah. His work focuses on a whole-body approach to health, supporting neurological function, detoxification pathways, cellular healing, and gut health. Through his four-phase wellness program, Dr. Knight works with families across the country to help support children's overall health and regulation. Learn more: https://healthempoweredfamilies.com Resources Mentioned Health Empowered Families https://healthempoweredfamilies.com About the Host Brian Keene is a pediatric occupational therapist and founder of Pure Hearts Therapy, a neurodiversity-affirming therapy practice providing in-home pediatric therapy services for families in Arizona. Through the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian shares practical strategies, expert conversations, and supportive insights to help parents navigate autism and neurodiversity with confidence. Learn more: https://pureheartstherapy.com Subscribe & Connect If this episode resonated with you, please consider sharing it with another parent who might benefit from the conversation. You can find more resources and support at: https://pureheartstherapy.com Follow Pure Hearts Therapy on social media for more tools, strategies, and conversations supporting neurodivergent families.  

Many parents of neurodivergent children share a common feeling: isolation. Even when surrounded by people, it can feel like no one truly understands the unique challenges your family is navigating. In this episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian Keene sits down with autism advocate Mandy Pinckley to talk about the power of community and connection. Mandy shares her personal journey of discovering supportive spaces where she could be authentic about being autistic, and how finding the right community helped her build confidence and self-acceptance. Together, they explore why so many parents feel alone, how community support can transform the experience of raising a neurodivergent child, and practical ways families can begin building their own support networks. From online communities to local support groups, Mandy highlights how even one meaningful connection can help families move from isolation to hope. If you've ever wondered whether other families truly understand what you're going through, this conversation is a reminder that you are not alone—and your community may be closer than you think. Topics Covered • Why many parents of neurodivergent children feel isolated • Mandy Pinkley's journey embracing her autistic identity • The power of finding community with people who understand your experience • How support groups can reduce isolation and build confidence • Online communities vs. in-person support networks • How parents can help their children find supportive social environments • Why advocacy and authenticity matter in the autism community • How families can start building their own support networks About the Guest Mandy Pinckley is an autism advocate who speaks openly about identity, community, and the importance of creating spaces where neurodivergent individuals feel accepted and understood. Through advocacy and community engagement, Mandy works to promote inclusion, awareness, and authentic representation of autistic experiences. About the Host Brian Keene is a pediatric occupational therapist and founder of Pure Hearts Therapy, a neurodiversity-affirming therapy practice providing in-home pediatric therapy services for families in Arizona. Through the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian shares practical insights, expert conversations, and supportive strategies to help parents navigate the journey of raising neurodivergent children. Learn more at: https://pureheartstherapy.com Subscribe & Connect If this episode resonated with you, please consider sharing it with another parent who might benefit from this conversation. You can find more resources and support at: https://pureheartstherapy.com Follow Pure Hearts Therapy on social media for more conversations, guidance, and resources supporting neurodivergent families. Recommended Resources Mentioned CARD – Center for Autism & Related Disabilities Family Inclusion Networks (e.g., "FIN") Local autism organizations Facebook and online support groups Community events and family-friendly meetups    

Many parents know the feeling. Your child comes home and says, "Nobody plays with me," or you watch them standing alone on the playground while other kids easily connect. Every parent wants their child to feel included and accepted, but sometimes it feels like the world doesn't quite know how to make room for differences. In this episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian Keene sits down again with autism advocate Mandy Pinckley to talk about what real inclusion looks like for autistic children. Together they explore how friendships form, how peers can become allies, and what parents and educators can do to create environments where neurodivergent kids feel genuinely welcomed. Mandy shares personal insights from her advocacy work and her own experiences as an autistic adult. The conversation also explores practical ways parents can advocate for their children, teach healthy boundaries, and help kids build confidence and connection with others. This episode is a reminder that inclusion isn't just about allowing someone to participate — it's about creating spaces where every child truly belongs. Topics Covered • What true inclusion means for autistic children • Why some neurodivergent kids struggle with friendships • How peer mentorship programs create inclusive environments • The importance of listening to a child's lived experience • Teaching healthy boundaries and self-advocacy skills • How parents can advocate effectively in school settings • Ways peers can become allies for neurodivergent classmates Memorable Quote "Inclusion isn't just letting someone sit at the table — it's wanting them there." — Mandy Pinckley About the Guest Mandy Pinckley is an autism advocate dedicated to promoting understanding, inclusion, and empowerment for neurodivergent individuals. Through advocacy, community engagement, and educational conversations, she helps families and schools create environments where autistic individuals feel accepted and supported. Resources Mentioned • Penguin Project (inclusive theatre program for children with disabilities) • CARD — Center for Autism and Related Disabilities About the Host Brian Keene is a pediatric occupational therapist and the founder of Pure Hearts Therapy, a neurodiversity-affirming therapy practice providing in-home pediatric therapy services for families in Arizona. Through the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian shares practical tools, meaningful conversations, and expert perspectives to help parents support the development and wellbeing of their neurodivergent children. Learn more at: https://pureheartstherapy.com Subscribe & Connect If this episode resonated with you, please consider sharing it with another parent who might benefit from this conversation. You can explore more resources and support at: https://pureheartstherapy.com Follow Pure Hearts Therapy on social media for more conversations, strategies, and encouragement for families navigating autism and neurodiversity.  

What is it really like to grow up autistic? And what do autistic youth wish the adults in their lives understood better? In this episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian Keene sits down with autism advocate Mandy Pinckley to talk about her lived experience growing up autistic and the journey that led her into advocacy work today. Mandy shares what it was like navigating childhood, friendships, bullying, and the search for belonging while growing up undiagnosed. Together they explore how early understanding, supportive relationships, and open communication can make a meaningful difference for autistic youth. Mandy also shares insights on digital safety, emotional experiences, identity development, and why it's so important for parents to meet their children where they are. This conversation is the beginning of a multi-episode series with Mandy, where Brian and Mandy will explore topics like digital safety, inclusion, peer advocacy, and building supportive communities for neurodivergent youth. If you've ever wondered how to better understand your child's perspective or create a stronger connection with them, this episode offers thoughtful insights and encouragement. Topics Covered • Mandy's experience growing up autistic and being diagnosed later • Why many autistic girls go undiagnosed longer than boys • The emotional experiences many autistic youth navigate • Bullying, isolation, and searching for belonging • The role of digital environments and online safety • How open communication helps protect and support kids • Supporting identity development and self-expression • Helping neurodivergent youth find community Memorable Quote "Meet them where they're at — not where you want them to be." — Mandy Pinkley About the Guest Mandy Pinckley is an autism advocate focused on promoting digital safety, inclusion, and support for neurodivergent youth. Through speaking, advocacy work, and community engagement, she helps families and educators better understand the experiences of autistic individuals and create safer, more supportive environments. Resources Mentioned • CARD — Center for Autism and Related Disabilities About the Host Brian Keene is a pediatric occupational therapist and founder of Pure Hearts Therapy, a neurodiversity-affirming therapy practice providing in-home pediatric therapy services for families in Arizona. Through the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian shares expert conversations, practical strategies, and supportive insights to help parents navigate the journey of raising neurodivergent children. Learn more at: https://pureheartstherapy.com Subscribe & Connect If this episode resonated with you, please consider sharing it with another parent who might benefit from this conversation. Listen and subscribe to the Autism Family Resource Podcast: https://pod.link/1591840956 Explore more resources for families at: https://pureheartstherapy.com

What if parents could feel less afraid, less confused, and more connected to their autistic children? In this episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian Keene sits down with Megan Ashley: an autistic Black woman, licensed therapist, parent advocate, speaker, and author. Megan shares her own late autism diagnosis, what helped her recognize autism in herself, and how her lived experience now shapes the work she does with families. Together, they talk about sensory differences, masking, culture, behavior, and why so many autistic children are misunderstood when adults only look at the surface of what they do. Megan offers a compassionate, practical framework for parents who want to better understand their child instead of reacting from fear or frustration. This conversation is a powerful reminder that many behaviors make more sense when we slow down, stay curious, and learn to listen differently. If you've ever wanted to better understand what your child is trying to communicate, this episode is a meaningful place to start. Topics Covered • Megan Ashley's late autism diagnosis and lived experience • Why sensory differences are often one of the clearest signs of autism • How culture shapes the way autism is understood and supported • What masking is and why it can be so exhausting • Why autistic girls are often diagnosed later than boys • How environment influences whether autistic traits are supported or stressed • Redefining what "okay" can mean for your child • How parents can listen beyond behavior and better understand communication Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and Megan Ashley's advocacy mission 01:20 Megan's late autism diagnosis and personal journey 03:00 Understanding autistic thinking and communication differences 04:30 Autism culture and why context matters 08:45 Sensory differences and real-life sensory examples 10:20 Masking explained and why it can be exhausting 13:40 Why autistic girls are often diagnosed later 17:20 Recognizing sensory differences in children 20:40 Autism traits, strengths, and supportive environments 25:30 Redefining what "okay" means for autistic children 28:30 How parents can listen better and remove bias Memorable Quote "Meet them where they're at — not where you want them to be." — Megan Ashley About the Guest Megan Ashley is a licensed therapist, speaker, author, parent advocate, and autism advocate. As an autistic Black woman, her work focuses on helping parents better understand and connect with their autistic children through empathy, behavioral understanding, and practical support. She is the author of Blueprints of Behavior: Understanding Autism in Your Family Through Behavior. Resources Mentioned • Perfect Consulting • Blueprints of Behavior: Understanding Autism in Your Family Through Behavior by Megan Ashley • Megan Ashley on Instagram About the Host Brian Keene is a pediatric occupational therapist and founder of Pure Hearts Therapy, a neurodiversity-affirming therapy practice providing in-home pediatric therapy services for families in Arizona. Through the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian shares practical tools, expert conversations, and supportive insights to help parents navigate the journey of raising neurodivergent children. Learn more at: https://pureheartstherapy.com Subscribe & Connect If this episode resonated with you, please consider sharing it with another parent who might benefit from this conversation. Listen and subscribe to the Autism Family Resource Podcast: https://pod.link/1591840956 Explore more resources for families at: https://pureheartstherapy.com

If your child's meltdowns leave you feeling frustrated, stuck, or unsure what to do next, this episode is for you. In this episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian Keene sits down with Lisa Chan, parent coach, behavior specialist, and former pediatric occupational therapist, to talk about what's really going on during hard moments at home. Lisa explains why emotional regulation is a learned skill, how executive functioning plays a role in everyday struggles, and why parents have more influence than they often realize. Together, they unpack co-regulation, loving boundaries, secure attachment, and social skill development. Lisa also shares practical examples parents can use right away, including how to respond during meltdowns without escalating them and why role-playing can help children build social confidence. This conversation is a reminder that progress often starts with small shifts at home. When parents feel more supported and confident, it becomes easier to help children build the skills they need to thrive. Topics Covered • Why school-age meltdowns are often rooted in emotional regulation challenges • How executive functioning affects behavior, homework, and daily tasks • What co-regulation really looks like in the moment • Why validation and firm boundaries can work together • How secure attachment is built through consistency • Why some kids need direct support with social skills • How role-playing can help children practice real-life interactions • Why parents need support too Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and why this episode matters for overwhelmed parents 00:44 Meet Lisa Chan and how she shifted from OT to parent coaching 04:10 Emotional regulation, meltdowns, and executive functioning explained 12:20 What co-regulation looks like during a public meltdown 20:05 Secure attachment, consistency, and healthy boundaries 22:20 Social skills, self-esteem, and using role-play at home Memorable Quote "The biggest takeaway is really going to be the realization that you have more power in helping your child and helping yourself than you realize." — Lisa Chan About the Guest Lisa Chan is a parent coach, child behavior specialist, and former pediatric occupational therapist with over a decade of experience supporting families. Her work focuses on emotional regulation, behavior patterns, social skills, and helping parents create healthier, more connected family dynamics. Resources Mentioned • Lisa Parent Coach website • Lisa's emotional regulation course About the Host Brian Keene is a pediatric occupational therapist and founder of Pure Hearts Therapy, a neurodiversity-affirming therapy practice providing in-home pediatric therapy services for families in Arizona. Through the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian shares practical tools, expert conversations, and supportive insights to help parents navigate the journey of raising neurodivergent children. Learn more at: https://pureheartstherapy.com Subscribe & Connect If this episode resonated with you, please consider sharing it with another parent who might benefit from this conversation. Listen and subscribe to the Autism Family Resource Podcast: https://pod.link/1591840956 Explore more resources for families at: https://pureheartstherapy.com

Navigating autism can feel especially isolating when families are also carrying the weight of cultural barriers, medical mistrust, or systems that were not built with them in mind. In this episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian Keene sits down with Dr. Martine LaVenture, a licensed social worker, school social worker, therapist, and proud mom of a teen on the autism spectrum. Dr. LaVenture shares how her personal and professional journey shaped her passion for supporting autistic children and their families, especially within historically marginalized communities. Together, they talk about what to do after a diagnosis, how to build a care team and village around your child, how to educate family members in relatable ways, and why culturally responsive care matters so much. This conversation is warm, practical, and deeply encouraging. If you have ever felt like you were carrying too much on your own, this episode is a reminder that you do not have to navigate autism by yourself. There is support, there is community, and there are ways to advocate with more clarity and confidence. Topics Covered • What to do after an autism diagnosis • How to build a strong care team and support village • Helping family members understand autism in relatable ways • Teaching autistic children to advocate for their own needs • Therapy burnout and why breaks can be healthy • Cultural barriers and disparities in autism care • Why communication between families and providers matters • Encouragement for parents carrying a heavy load Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and why this conversation matters 01:14 Dr. Martine LaVenture's background and autism advocacy journey 05:03 What to do after an autism diagnosis 10:13 Building a village and treatment team around your child 12:41 Therapy burnout, breaks, and discharge conversations 15:32 Cultural disparities, advocacy, and communicating with providers Memorable Quote "You don't have to do this by yourself. There is a village, there is a community out there." — Dr. Martine LaVenture About the Guest Dr. Martine LaVenture is a licensed social worker, school social worker, therapist, and autism advocate. She is also a proud mom of an 18-year-old on the autism spectrum and brings both lived and professional experience to her work supporting children, families, and culturally responsive care systems. Resources Mentioned • Dr. Martine LaVenture's website: leventraconsultant.com • Instagram: @laventurecslc • Upcoming children's book about autism About the Host Brian Keene is a pediatric occupational therapist and founder of Pure Hearts Therapy, a neurodiversity-affirming therapy practice providing in-home pediatric therapy services for families in Arizona. Through the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian shares practical tools, expert conversations, and supportive insights to help parents navigate the journey of raising neurodivergent children. Learn more at: https://pureheartstherapy.com Subscribe & Connect If this episode resonated with you, please consider sharing it with another parent who might benefit from this conversation. Listen and subscribe to the Autism Family Resource Podcast: https://pod.link/1591840956 Explore more resources for families at: https://pureheartstherapy.com

Many autistic children chew on shirts, toys, or even their own hands. For parents, these behaviors can feel confusing or concerning. But often, mouthing and chewing behaviors are a child's way of meeting an important sensory need. In this episode of the Common Chaos Sensory Series, host Brian Keene is joined by occupational therapist Dipali Devani to explore why these behaviors happen and how families can support their children in safe and supportive ways. Dipali explains how oral sensory needs, regulation challenges, anxiety, and sensory seeking can all play a role in mouthing behaviors. She also shares practical strategies parents can use at home—from sensory replacements and calming routines to creating safe spaces that help children regulate. This conversation helps parents understand what's developmentally typical, when to seek support, and how occupational therapy can help children meet their sensory needs in ways that support their well-being. If your child frequently chews on clothing, toys, or their hands, this episode will give you helpful insight and practical tools you can start using right away. Topics Covered • Why autistic children may chew or mouth objects • How oral sensory needs relate to regulation • When mouthing behaviors are developmentally typical • Signs parents should look for after age 3–5 • Health, social, and eating challenges that may arise • Sensory tools and safe alternatives for chewing • Practical strategies families can use at home • The role of occupational therapy in supporting sensory needs Memorable Quote "Children often chew or mouth objects because their body is trying to regulate itself—they're simply trying to get the sensory input they need." About the Guest Dipali Devani is a pediatric occupational therapist who works with children and families to support sensory processing, regulation, and development. Her experience spans outpatient therapy, home health, and pediatric care settings. In addition to her clinical work, Dipali has studied Ayurveda, a holistic healing system focused on natural wellness and balance. She integrates both traditional occupational therapy strategies and holistic perspectives to support children and families. About the Host Brian Keene, OTD, OTR/L is an occupational therapist and the founder of Pure Hearts Therapy. He created the Autism Family Resource Podcast to help parents better understand autism and gain practical strategies that support regulation, connection, and advocacy for neurodivergent children. Through Pure Hearts Therapy, Brian works with families to provide education, therapeutic services, and resources that empower children to thrive. Subscribe & Connect If this episode resonated with you, please consider sharing it with another parent who might benefit from this conversation. Listen and subscribe to the Autism Family Resource Podcast: https://pod.link/1591840956 Explore more resources for families at: https://pureheartstherapy.com

Parenting a neurodivergent child can bring many unexpected challenges—emotionally, logistically, and financially. In this episode, Brian sits down with autism advocate and father Michael Pereira, founder of My Autism Voyage, to talk about the real-life journey that led him to support other families navigating autism. Michael shares the story of recognizing early signs in his son, moving through denial, seeking professional guidance, and ultimately leaving corporate life to build a mission-driven platform for autism families. Through his blog and newsletter, My Autism Voyage helps parents think about daily living strategies, long-term planning, and entrepreneurship opportunities that can create more flexibility for families raising neurodivergent children. Together, Brian and Michael explore topics that many families don't always have time to think about—like life insurance planning, long-term care considerations, and financial protection strategies that support children well into adulthood. This conversation also highlights the importance of community, collaboration with professionals, and empowering parents with practical tools to move forward with clarity and confidence. If you've ever felt overwhelmed by the responsibilities of parenting, planning, and advocating for your child, this episode offers encouragement, perspective, and actionable ideas to support your family's journey. Topics Covered • Michael's journey as a father navigating an autism diagnosis • Moving from corporate life to mission-driven entrepreneurship • Practical daily living resources for autism families • Why long-term financial planning matters for families with neurodivergent children • Understanding life insurance, disability protection, and future care planning • Creating income flexibility through entrepreneurship • The importance of community and collaboration among parents and professionals • Common mistakes parents make when seeking advice Timestamps 00:00 Introduction 02:08 Michael's parenting journey and early signs of autism 09:18 The mission behind My Autism Voyage 13:00 Financial and life planning considerations for families 18:00 Entrepreneurship and creating flexibility for parents 25:05 Why professional guidance and collaboration matter Memorable Quote "Movement brings clarity. When you keep moving toward your goals, you start to see what works and what doesn't." About the Guest Michael Pereira is the founder of My Autism Voyage, a platform created by a parent for parents navigating autism. Through blog content, newsletters, and educational resources, Michael shares practical insights on daily living strategies, long-term financial planning, and entrepreneurship opportunities for families raising neurodivergent children. He is also an insurance professional who helps families think strategically about protecting their child's long-term future. About the Host Brian Keene, OTD, OTR/L is a pediatric occupational therapist and the founder of Pure Hearts Therapy. Through the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian shares practical strategies, expert insights, and parent perspectives to help families support regulation, connection, safety, and independence for neurodivergent children. Subscribe & Connect If this episode resonated with you, please consider sharing it with another parent who might benefit. Listen and subscribe: https://pod.link/1591840956 More resources for families: https://pureheartstherapy.com

Divorce is never easy, and when a child has additional support needs, the process can feel even more overwhelming. In this episode, Brian Keene sits down with family law attorney Anna Kay to talk through some of the biggest questions parents may face when navigating divorce while caring for a neurodivergent child or a child with disabilities. Anna shares practical insight on different divorce process options, including litigation, mediation, and collaborative divorce, and explains why being intentional early can make such a meaningful difference for families. The conversation also explores how parents can reduce conflict, communicate with children in age-appropriate ways, think through therapy schedules and medical decisions, and plan ahead for long-term financial and legal considerations. This episode is designed to offer guidance, encouragement, and a starting point for parents who may be trying to make thoughtful decisions during a difficult season. Whether you are currently navigating divorce or simply want to better understand what support can look like, this conversation offers helpful perspective and practical next steps. Topics Covered The difference between litigation, mediation, and collaborative divorce Why process choice matters for families of children with disabilities How to reduce conflict and protect children emotionally during divorce Why children should not be used as messengers between parents Planning for therapy schedules, medical decisions, and day-to-day logistics How special needs planning and trusts may protect long-term benefits Why working with the right professionals in your state matters The importance of self-care while navigating major family transitions Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and episode overview 01:46 What parents can take away from this conversation 02:45 Divorce process options: litigation, mediation, and collaboration 10:27 Reducing conflict and protecting children emotionally 13:42 Therapy, medical decisions, and long-term planning 23:37 Helpful resources and final encouragement Memorable Quote "Please protect your children and shelter them during your divorces as much as you can." About the Guest Anna Krolikowska is a family law attorney who helps families navigate divorce with intention, clarity, and long-term planning in mind. Her work includes supporting parents of children with disabilities as they think through co-parenting, legal agreements, and future planning in a way that protects their children and helps families move forward. Resources Mentioned Anna Kay Law State bar associations Collaborative divorce associations American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers Special needs trust planning attorneys About the Host Brian Keene is the host of the Autism Family Resource Podcast and the founder of Pure Hearts Therapy, a neurodiversity-affirming pediatric therapy practice that supports children and families through compassionate, practical care. Subscribe & Connect If this episode resonated with you, please consider sharing it with another parent who might benefit from this conversation. Listen and subscribe to the Autism Family Resource Podcast: https://pod.link/1591840956 Explore more resources for families at: https://pureheartstherapy.com

Some children seem overwhelmed by everyday smells, while others seek out strong scents or react in ways that can leave parents feeling confused and unsure how to help. In this episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian Keene is joined by occupational therapist Dipali Devani to talk about smell sensitivity, sensory processing, and practical ways families can support children who are highly affected by scents in their environment. Dipali explains how the olfactory system connects with regulation, behavior, taste, and memory, and why certain smells can trigger distress, avoidance, nausea, or big emotional reactions. She also shares simple, actionable strategies parents can try, including journaling triggers, introducing smells slowly and safely, and using calming or alerting scents in supportive ways. This episode is a helpful starting point for parents who want to better understand what their child may be experiencing and how occupational therapy can help. It is warm, practical, and full of simple ideas families can begin using right away. Topics Covered What sensory sensitivity means, especially with smell How smell can affect regulation, behavior, and emotional responses Why some children are especially sensitive to certain scents How smell and taste work closely together Why journaling triggers can help parents spot patterns Gentle ways to desensitize children to difficult smells How calming and alerting scents can support regulation Why occupational therapy can be helpful early on Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and episode overview 01:30 What smell sensitivity means in sensory processing 04:39 Why journaling triggers is a helpful first step 10:27 How to slowly reintroduce difficult smells 13:44 Real-life OT example using mashed potatoes 18:15 Using calming and alerting scents to support regulation Memorable Quote "You don't know what else is involved. You might not know what else the child needs as a support." About the Guest Dipali Devani is an occupational therapist at Pure Hearts Therapy who specializes in sensory integration and supporting children through practical, family-centered strategies. She is also an Ayurvedic practitioner and brings an integrative, client-centered perspective to her work with children and families. Resources Mentioned The Out-of-Sync Child Occupational therapy Sensory diets About the Host Brian Keene is the host of the Autism Family Resource Podcast and the founder of Pure Hearts Therapy, a neurodiversity-affirming pediatric therapy practice supporting children and families through compassionate, practical care. Subscribe & Connect If this episode resonated with you, please consider sharing it with another parent who might benefit from this conversation. Listen and subscribe to the Autism Family Resource Podcast: https://pod.link/1591840956 Explore more resources for families at: https://pureheartstherapy.com

Friendship, belonging, and inclusion matter deeply for neurodivergent children, but many families still struggle to find environments where their child feels truly welcomed and supported. In this episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian Keene talks with Gail Ewell, Executive Director of Hope Technology School, about what it takes to build inclusive spaces at school, at home, and in the community. Gail shares how her own parenting journey led her to create a fully inclusive school for students with diverse support needs. She discusses why friendship is such an important protective factor, how inclusive activities can help reduce bullying, and why communication, advocacy, and community partnerships matter so much for children with higher support needs. This conversation is full of encouragement for parents, educators, and therapists who want to create more connection and opportunity for neurodivergent learners. Gail also offers practical ideas families can use right away, from buddy systems and social groups to community programs and inclusive play opportunities. If you've ever wondered how to help your child build friendships and feel more included, this is a meaningful episode to listen to. Topics Covered Why friendship is essential for neurodivergent children How inclusion can reduce bullying and social isolation Gail's journey as a parent and founder of Hope Technology School What makes a fully inclusive school environment different Practical ways families can encourage connection in everyday life How therapists and community organizations can support inclusion Why communication support matters for children with higher support needs The importance of advocacy, hope, and not giving up on your child's potential Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and episode overview 01:10 What families can expect from this conversation 04:17 What makes Hope Technology School different 05:52 Building inclusive environments and circles of friends 10:33 How parents can encourage inclusion at home and in the community 19:39 Communication, advocacy, and not giving up Memorable Quote "Don't give up hope." About the Guest Gail Ewell is the Executive Director of Hope Technology School, a nonprofit inclusive K–12 school in California. She is also a mother of three adult children with diverse support needs and has spent decades building programs, schools, and inclusive opportunities that support neurodivergent children and their families. Resources Mentioned Hope Technology School Inclusive sports programs Buddy systems and mentorship programs Social skills groups AAC and communication supports About the Host Brian Keene is the host of the Autism Family Resource Podcast and the founder of Pure Hearts Therapy, a neurodiversity-affirming pediatric therapy practice that supports children and families through compassionate, practical care. Subscribe & Connect If this episode resonated with you, please consider sharing it with another parent who might benefit from this conversation. Listen and subscribe to the Autism Family Resource Podcast: https://pod.link/1591840956 Explore more resources for families at: https://pureheartstherapy.com

What happens when someone grows up autistic without knowing why the world feels different? In this episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian Keene talks with New York Times bestselling author J.D. Barker about his experience growing up autistic without a diagnosis, how that shaped his childhood and work life, and what changed when he was finally diagnosed at age 22. J.D. shares openly about social challenges, anxiety, masking, and the pressure to fit neurotypical expectations. He also reflects on how understanding his autism helped him recognize his strengths, including pattern recognition, structure, and creativity, which now support his work as a successful author. The conversation also explores partnership, parenting, and what it has been like to support his own autistic daughter with a much earlier diagnosis and a stronger support system. This episode offers encouragement for parents, autistic adults, and anyone who wants a deeper understanding of how autism can show up across the lifespan. It is an honest, thoughtful conversation about challenges, self-awareness, support, and the importance of focusing on strengths. Topics Covered Growing up autistic without an early diagnosis How a diagnosis at age 22 changed J.D.'s life Social anxiety, masking, and navigating neurotypical expectations Why some environments are more draining than others How autism can shape creativity, structure, and problem-solving The role of partnership and support in personal growth Parenting an autistic child with more early support Why it helps to focus on a child's strengths and interests Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and episode overview 01:15 Growing up autistic without a diagnosis 06:04 Social situations, masking, and recharging 11:35 J.D.'s writing career and current projects 15:18 Parenting, partnership, and supporting his daughter 21:36 Final takeaway on finding a child's strengths Memorable Quote "Find the one thing that they actually do like and encourage that." About the Guest J.D. Barker is a New York Times bestselling author known for thrillers, horror, and suspense novels. He has written numerous bestselling books, collaborated with major authors including James Patterson, and speaks openly about his personal experience as an autistic adult. Resources Mentioned J.D. Barker Master of Suspense Forsaken The Fourth Monkey Dracul Behind a Closed Door The Writer About the Host Brian Keene is the host of the Autism Family Resource Podcast and the founder of Pure Hearts Therapy, a neurodiversity-affirming pediatric therapy practice that supports children and families through compassionate, practical care. Subscribe & Connect If this episode resonated with you, please consider sharing it with another parent who might benefit from this conversation. Listen and subscribe to the Autism Family Resource Podcast: https://pod.link/1591840956 Explore more resources for families at: https://pureheartstherapy.com

Receiving an autism or ADHD diagnosis for your child can bring a wave of emotions, questions, and uncertainty. In this episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian Keene sits down with author, speaker, podcaster, and Arizona mom Kari Baker to talk about her journey parenting her son with autism and ADHD. Kari shares honestly about the early years of confusion, the pressure she felt to keep everything together, and the long road toward acceptance and healing. She also talks about the inspiration behind her book, Finding Kind, and how her family moved from secrecy and shame into a more strengths-based, hopeful way of supporting their son. This conversation is full of encouragement for parents who may be in the thick of diagnosis, therapies, school challenges, or simply learning how to let go of the "perfect parenting" picture they once imagined. If you are looking for a reminder that you are not alone, that your child has gifts worth nurturing, and that there can be joy in a different path than the one you expected, this episode is a meaningful one to hear. Topics Covered Kari's journey from financial planning into advocacy and encouragement for families What it was like to parent through an autism and ADHD diagnosis The emotional impact of secrecy, shame, and learning to make peace with a different path Why early diagnosis and early intervention matter How autism and ADHD can show up differently at school and socially Kari's book Finding Kind and why she wrote the story she wished she had found The power of community and finding other parents who understand Why focusing on a child's strengths can change everything Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and episode overview 04:17 Kari's biggest takeaway for families 06:48 The story behind Finding Kind 10:48 Discovering her son's autism diagnosis 17:23 Autism, ADHD, and school challenges 20:35 Kari's podcast and what she's learning from other families Memorable Quote "Your child was born on purpose for a purpose." About the Guest Kari Baker is an author, speaker, podcaster, and Arizona mom of a son with autism and ADHD. She is the founder of Kind Families and the author of Finding Kind, a book that shares her personal parenting journey and offers encouragement to families navigating diagnosis, therapies, and the beauty of raising neurodivergent children. Resources Mentioned Finding Kind Kind Families Kari A. Baker Gentry Pediatric Behavioral Services Southwest Autism Research & Resource Center Think Asperger's ASD Mamas by Your Side About the Host Brian Keene is the host of the Autism Family Resource Podcast and the founder of Pure Hearts Therapy, a neurodiversity-affirming pediatric therapy practice that supports children and families through compassionate, practical care. Subscribe & Connect If this episode resonated with you, please consider sharing it with another parent who might benefit from this conversation. Listen and subscribe to the Autism Family Resource Podcast: https://pod.link/1591840956 Explore more resources for families at: https://pureheartstherapy.com  

What does autism therapy look like when it is truly play-based, family-centered, and grounded in a child's individual strengths? In this episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian Keene talks with Will Martin from SOAR Autism Center about the Early Start Denver Model, often called ESDM, and how it offers a different approach from more traditional forms of ABA therapy. Will shares how he entered the autism field, what drew him to early intervention, and why ESDM stood out as a developmentally informed, relationship-based model for supporting young autistic children. The conversation explores how SOAR approaches communication, play, challenging behavior, family collaboration, and neurodiversity-affirming care. Brian and Will also talk openly about some of the concerns families have around ABA and how providers can take a more respectful, individualized approach. This episode is especially helpful for families who are trying to understand different therapy options, ask better questions when choosing a provider, and find care that aligns with their values. Topics Covered What the Early Start Denver Model is and how it differs from traditional ABA Will's journey into autism care and early intervention How play-based therapy can support communication and learning What discrete trial training is and why some families seek alternatives Common signs a child may benefit from autism therapy or assessment How SOAR structures assessment, scheduling, and interdisciplinary care What neurodiversity-affirming autism care can look like in practice Why families should ask hard questions when choosing a provider Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and episode overview 01:21 What families may take away from the episode 04:23 ESDM compared to traditional discrete trial training 10:34 How SOAR assesses children and builds treatment plans 15:04 Signs a child may benefit from autism therapy 25:29 Neurodiversity-affirming care and concerns around ABA Memorable Quote "Feel empowered to ask tough questions about what type of therapy and what type of approach you might experience at different providers." About the Guest Will Martin is a behavior analyst and Head of Early Start Denver Model Implementation at SOAR Autism Center. He has worked across home, school, clinic, and research settings and is passionate about providing developmentally informed, individualized care for autistic children and their families. Resources Mentioned SOAR Autism Center Early Start Denver Model ESDM curriculum checklist About the Host Brian Keene is the host of the Autism Family Resource Podcast and the founder of Pure Hearts Therapy, a neurodiversity-affirming pediatric therapy practice that supports children and families through compassionate, practical care. Subscribe & Connect If this episode resonated with you, please consider sharing it with another parent who might benefit from this conversation. Listen and subscribe to the Autism Family Resource Podcast: https://pod.link/1591840956 Explore more resources for families at: https://pureheartstherapy.com

Divorce is never easy, and when a child has autism, disabilities, or other support needs, the process can feel even more overwhelming. In this episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian Keene talks with certified divorce coach, mediator, and special needs parent Mary Ann Hughes about how families can navigate separation while keeping their child's well-being at the center. Mary Ann shares her personal experience parenting two children on opposite ends of the autism spectrum while going through divorce, and explains why special needs divorce planning often requires a different level of care, foresight, and support. She offers practical guidance on talking with children about divorce, avoiding rushed decisions, protecting government benefits, planning for therapies and future services, and creating a more child-centered approach to co-parenting. This episode is especially helpful for parents who are currently going through separation, considering divorce, or simply want to understand what to think about if life takes an unexpected turn. It is honest, grounded, and full of helpful perspective for families facing a difficult season. Topics Covered Why divorce planning looks different when a child has special needs How to talk with children about divorce in a supportive way Using social stories to help children understand change Why it is important not to rush major legal and financial decisions How to keep the child's needs at the center of the divorce process Why future planning matters for therapies, programs, and adult services Protecting government benefits and financial eligibility How divorce coaching, mediation, and parenting coordination can help families Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and episode overview 01:12 Mary Ann's story and why she does this work 04:28 Talking with children about divorce and using social stories 07:29 Planning ahead for therapies, services, and the future 12:33 Protecting benefits and understanding legal considerations 15:56 How parents can work with Mary Ann and get support Memorable Quote "This is not the end. It's the start of something new and something different." About the Guest Mary Ann Hughes is a certified divorce coach, mediator, and parenting coordinator who specializes in supporting families with children with special needs. She is also a mother of two autistic young adults and brings both personal and professional insight to helping families navigate divorce in a more thoughtful, child-centered way. Resources Mentioned Special Family Transitions Social stories for divorce conversations Special needs trusts Parenting coordination Mediation for families with children with disabilities About the Host Brian Keene is the host of the Autism Family Resource Podcast and the founder of Pure Hearts Therapy, a neurodiversity-affirming pediatric therapy practice that supports children and families through compassionate, practical care. Subscribe & Connect If this episode resonated with you, please consider sharing it with another parent who might benefit from this conversation. Listen and subscribe to the Autism Family Resource Podcast: https://pod.link/1591840956 Explore more resources for families at: https://pureheartstherapy.com

Mental health is an important part of supporting neurodivergent children, yet it is often overlooked in the larger autism conversation. In this episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian Keene talks with social worker and certified autism specialist Mitch Leppicello about the emotional lives of autistic children and why families need practical tools to support regulation, communication, and connection. Mitch brings more than 30 years of experience working with autistic individuals and their families. He shares how the field has changed over time, why anxiety and other mental health challenges often overlap with autism, and how parents can better understand what their child is trying to communicate during emotionally intense moments. He also introduces his Calm Compass framework, which helps families focus on connection, communication, encouragement, and movement as ways to support children through stress and dysregulation. This episode is especially helpful for parents, caregivers, therapists, and educators who want a more compassionate and practical understanding of how mental health and autism can intersect in everyday family life. Topics Covered How Mitch found his way into autism and neurodiversity work Why mental health challenges often overlap with autism Common emotional struggles autistic children may experience Why communication breakdowns can fuel emotional dysregulation Mitch's Calm Compass framework: Connect, Articulate, Lift, and Move How parents can help children better express what they are feeling Why connection and co-regulation matter during hard moments The value of collaboration between families and therapists Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and episode overview 01:27 Mitch's path into autism and mental health work 07:17 How autism and mental health challenges overlap 11:31 What the Calm Compass is 13:53 Using "Articulate" to help children express feelings 20:46 Why connection and regulation strategies matter most Memorable Quote "Autism is not an excuse. It's an explanation." About the Guest Mitch Lepicello is a social worker, certified autism specialist, and mental health professional with more than 30 years of experience working with autistic children, teens, adults, and families. He created the Calm Compass framework to help families strengthen connection, communication, and emotional regulation. Resources Mentioned The Calm Compass ASD Parenting Journey Mitch Lepicello's social media resources Stress management tools and visual supports for autistic children About the Host Brian Keene is the host of the Autism Family Resource Podcast and the founder of Pure Hearts Therapy, a neurodiversity-affirming pediatric therapy practice that supports children and families through compassionate, practical care. Subscribe & Connect If this episode resonated with you, please consider sharing it with another parent who might benefit from this conversation. Listen and subscribe to the Autism Family Resource Podcast: https://pod.link/1591840956 Explore more resources for families at: https://pureheartstherapy.com

The lockdown may feel far behind us, but for many children, its impact is still showing up in everyday life, especially in social communication and emotional regulation. In this episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian Keene welcomes back Lenora Edwards to talk about how the pandemic and isolation affected children's language development, social skills, and confidence in communication. Lenora shares how reduced in-person interaction, masking, and fewer natural opportunities for conversation created real developmental gaps for many children, especially those who were very young during lockdown. She explains why skills like reading facial expressions, understanding tone, problem-solving in social situations, and simply knowing what to say in everyday interactions have become harder for many kids. She also offers practical, encouraging strategies parents can start using right away, including modeling, creating safe opportunities for communication, and helping children build confidence through practice. This episode is especially helpful for parents, caregivers, educators, and therapists who want to better understand what was lost during lockdown and how to gently rebuild those social and communication skills moving forward. Topics Covered How lockdown affected language development in young children Why masks and isolation changed social learning The impact on tone, body language, and facial expression reading Why some children now feel stuck in social situations How texting and screens can reduce real-life communication practice Why modeling communication matters so much Practical ways parents can create safe social opportunities When to trust your instincts and seek professional support Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and episode overview 01:56 What families can expect to learn from this conversation 04:10 How lockdown changed language exposure and development 10:14 Why children may not know what to say socially 17:51 Practical strategies parents can use at home 22:06 When to seek help and trust your instincts Memorable Quote "It's our responsibility as the community, as people of this world, to help them communicate." About the Guest Lenora Edwards is a TEDx speaker and Chief Knowledge Officer with Better Speech. She is a speech-language pathologist with extensive experience supporting children and adults with communication needs across a wide range of settings, including hospitals, schools, outpatient clinics, and online therapy. Resources Mentioned Better Speech BetterSpeech.com Speech therapy for social communication Online speech therapy consultations About the Host Brian Keene is the host of the Autism Family Resource Podcast and the founder of Pure Hearts Therapy, a neurodiversity-affirming pediatric therapy practice that supports children and families through compassionate, practical care. Subscribe & Connect If this episode resonated with you, please consider sharing it with another parent who might benefit from this conversation. Listen and subscribe to the Autism Family Resource Podcast: https://pod.link/1591840956 Explore more resources for families at: https://pureheartstherapy.com  

What happens when a child who is labeled as "slow" or "lazy" is actually a bright, creative learner who simply needs the right support? In this episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian Keene talks with Lynn and Jonathan Greenberg about their family's journey with dyslexia, the challenges Jonathan faced growing up, and the powerful book they created together, Robbie the Dyslexic Taxi. Jonathan shares what it was like to struggle with reading and writing in traditional school settings, how those early labels affected him, and the difference it made when he was finally understood and supported in the right environment. Lynn offers a parent's perspective on trusting her instincts, advocating for her child, and making difficult decisions to get him the help he needed. Together, they talk about how creativity, support, and perseverance helped transform challenges into strengths. This episode is a meaningful listen for parents, educators, and anyone who wants a better understanding of dyslexia, learning differences, and the importance of seeing the child beyond the label. Topics Covered What dyslexia looked like in Jonathan's early school experience How negative labels affected confidence and self-image Lynn's journey of recognizing that something was different Finding the right school and support for a child with dyslexia How dyslexia can affect reading, writing, and visual processing Why support from family can make such a powerful difference The story behind Robbie the Dyslexic Taxi Why learning differences can also come with unique strengths Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and episode overview 03:56 Jonathan's experience growing up with dyslexia 07:03 Lynn's perspective and finding the right support 10:49 How the book Robbie the Dyslexic Taxi came to life 16:21 Final encouragement for parents and children 20:07 Where to find the book and connect with Lynn and Jonathan Memorable Quote "You may be different, but that's not a bad thing." About the Guest Lynn Greenberg is Jonathan's mother and co-author of Robbie the Dyslexic Taxi. Jonathan Greenberg is a college student, artist, and writer who was diagnosed with dyslexia as a child. Together, they created their book to help children and families better understand dyslexia and to encourage confidence, creativity, and conversation. Resources Mentioned Robbie the Dyslexic Taxi Creative Cab Company CreativeCabCompany.com Amazon book listing About the Host Brian Keene is the host of the Autism Family Resource Podcast and the founder of Pure Hearts Therapy, a neurodiversity-affirming pediatric therapy practice that supports children and families through compassionate, practical care. Subscribe & Connect If this episode resonated with you, please consider sharing it with another parent who might benefit from this conversation. Listen and subscribe to the Autism Family Resource Podcast: https://pod.link/1591840956 Explore more resources for families at: https://pureheartstherapy.com