The Leadership Confidence Podcast

In this episode, we explore why culture isn't formed by the values on your wall—it's formed by what you actually reward, promote, and allow to continue in practice. And why well-intentioned leaders end up tolerating the very behaviours that undermine the culture they're trying to build.What You'll Learn:Why the gap between stated values and actual behaviour is where trust breaks downThe psychology of why leaders tolerate behaviour that contradicts their valuesThe concept of espoused values vs. enacted values—and why people always believe the enacted onesHow leaders underestimate how closely they're being watchedWhat it takes to close the gap between intention and realityKey Takeaways: When people stop believing the stated values are real, your best talent leaves, decision-making slows, innovation dies, and cynicism spreads. The culture you create isn't the one you intend—it's the one your patterns of reinforcement build.About Cecilie: Cecilie Søndergaard Nielsen is the founder of leadership and coaching performance practice, CN8 Leadership Confidence, and an executive leadership coach who works with senior leaders and teams in high-pressure, high-growth environments. She combines real-world business experience with deep expertise in psychology and neuroscience to help leaders create meaningful, sustainable change.Resources: Join the Leadership Confidence newsletter for deeper insights: www.cn8.co.uk Connect on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/cecilie-søndergaard-nielsen

Episode Summary:Your executive team just finished another productive strategy session. Smart discussion, clear next steps. And yet - the real issue remains completely untouched.In this episode, we explore why capable, experienced executive teams avoid the conversations that matter most. Not because they lack courage, but because the neuroscience of status threat fundamentally changes the calculation at senior levels.What You'll Learn:Why executive teams optimise for process while avoiding substanceHow status threat operates differently at the executive level than at lower levelsThe neuroscience behind why naming difficult truths feels genuinely riskyThe concept of "false consensus" and why ambiguity protects the status quoFour practical strategies for breaking the avoidance pattern without triggering defensivenessKey Takeaways:When power operates invisibly, decisions take longer, conflict goes underground, and teams can't function at full potential. The teams that perform at the highest levels aren't the ones that avoid tension—they're the ones that have learned to metabolize it.About Cecilie:Cecilie Søndergaard Nielsen is the founder of leadership and coaching performance practice, CN8 Leadership Confidence, and an executive leadership coach who works with senior leaders and teams in high-pressure, high-growth environments. She combines real-world business experience with deep expertise in psychology and neuroscience to help leaders create meaningful, sustainable change.Resources:Join the Leadership Confidence newsletter for deeper insights: www.cn8.co.ukConnect on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/cecilie-søndergaard-nielsen

In this episode, we explore why effort so often becomes the default response at senior levels of leadership - and what your own level of effort can tell you about how the system around you is really working. We’ll look at: why staying close and involved often feels like the most responsible optionwhat’s actually happening in the brain when leaders step in under uncertaintyand how sustained effort can act as a signal — not of failure, but of something else being carried by you that may not belong there This isn’t about doing less, stepping back, or changing your standards. It’s about understanding why effort feels necessary, and what information your effort might be giving you.

This episode is about something that often goes unexamined at senior levels of leadership — not because it’s taboo, but because it’s so easily mistaken for effectiveness and therefore harder to spot and diagnose as a potential leadership issue. We're talking about why so many senior leaders end up solving the wrong problems — not because they lack judgement, or ability but because they’re operating at the wrong level of the system. We discuss: why this happenshow to recognise when you’re working too close to the surfaceand what it actually means to shift from problem-solving to leverage at senior level

In this episode, we’re talking about a distinction that becomes increasingly important at senior levels of leadership: the difference between insight and accuracy. We’ll explore why being highly reflective is no longer enough on its own, how information subtly changes as roles become more senior, and what actually shifts when leaders stop relying on judgement alone and start restoring accuracy in the system.

In this episode of the Leadership Confidence Podcast, we’re looking at why so many goals fail - even for high-performing leaders. We’ll explore the neuroscience behind shame-based motivation, why “should” goals create resistance, and the shifts that actually drive sustainable change. You’ll leave with a smarter way to set goals that builds momentum, strengthens self-trust, and works with your brain rather than against it.

In this episode, Cecilie Søndergaard Nielsen breaks down the psychology of leadership worthiness and identity. We explore why high-performing leaders often confuse confidence with validation, how early narratives shape behaviour, and what it really takes to lead without over-proving.Expect practical insight, real leadership examples, and a reframing of confidence that helps you take bolder action — even before you feel ready.

It only takes one moment to change the whole room. In this episode, we explore how small leaks of emotion - a sharper tone, a tighter posture, a split-second reaction - can reshape how people interpret you and shift the trajectory of a conversation or meeting. You’ll learn how to spot the signals you’re sending before others do, how to recover fast when a moment lands badly, and how to use emotion intentionally so it strengthens your leadership instead of undermining it.

You’re busy, but not progressing. Sound familiar? In this episode, Cecilie Søndergaard Nielsen breaks down the neuroscience of overwork — why high performers often confuse activity with impact, how dopamine and anxiety keep you stuck in motion, and what it really takes to reset. You’ll learn how to spot the trap early, create space for strategic thinking, and reclaim calm, confident focus in a world thatrewards speed over substance.

Even the most capable leaders sometimes lose confidence under pressure. In this episode, executive coach Cecilie Søndergaard Nielsen unpacks why — exploring what happens in your brain when stress hits, why logic disappears just when you need it most, and how to regain clarity, confidence, and control in real time.