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Healing from betrayal trauma is no small feat! It takes a lot of work, time, and focus in order to do it. That's all great, but then there's the "HOW?" In this podcast, we will talk about Betrayal Trauma, my past with it, how I healed from it using Christian Scripture, and how you can do the same thing.
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Send a text When your neck deep in trauma, creating a life that you're proud of and dream about can feel like a far cry off. But, the self boundaries are actually tools and filters that you can use to start getting clear about what you want to create and how you want to create those things. Each one of the self boundaries act as a filter that we can push our dream through to help cleanse it from the things we don't want to be present in our lives anymore. When we dream with love, forgiveness...
Send a text Can I just say how excited I am about having Jenny Layton on this podcast today??!!?? This is an episode that was SOOO amazing for me to record and to talk with Jenny about. Jenny is an organization coach that helps women go from overwhelm to organized, and this is a HUGE issue when it comes to betrayal trauma. Trauma can often lead us to feeling overwhelmed and out of control. However, being organized is a large part of the piece of healing the trauma that comes to us in our liv...
Send a text Trauma has the ability to rob us of the life that we loved before the trauma. My clients tell me all the time that they just want to "find themselves again". Even though life will never be the same as it was before the trauma, it can be better than it was before. But, we have to get really intentional with what we actually do want instead of focusing on what we don't want. This does mean that we need to create boundaries for ourselves in order to do that, plus also recognize wha...
Send a text I ALWAYS hear, "Erin, how do I trust this person again?" Since I coach a lot of women who have husbands that have a porn addiction, often the person in reference is their husband. I decided to answer that question today with my good friend and fellow coach Kyson Kidd. Kyson helps men and women become immune to porn and living a life full of freedom, wellness, and joy! I couldn't think of anyone better to talk about trust with than Kyson! Take a listen! If you would like to ...
Send a text We tend to misunderstand what forgiveness is. We've been taught that it is a certain thing and that certain consequences come along with it... and its no wonder why those of us who have dealt with trauma aren't buying it. But, when we understand what it truly is, it COMPLETELY unlocks the door to healing, and allows us to finally drop the trauma for good! If you would like to book a call with me to help you live your dream life, free of trauma, completely unashamed, click on this...
Send a text There are four main boundaries that I check myself by in life that keep my joy and freedom close to my heart, and in my own control. We are talking about the first one today which is the Boundary of Love. I know! I know! That sounds really generic, but I think everyone has to decide what love is to them and how they are that very thing already. Listen in today, to set your own love boundary! If you would like to book a call with me to help you live your dream life, free of traum...
Send a text I'm not going to lie you guys! This is going to knock your socks off! Daniel discusses what boundaries are and how they are an absolutely BEAUTIFUL blessing and how they help create more abundance in our lives. If you are looking to doing some serious manifesting for yourself, you are ready to step out of the trauma and into "living your best and highest life", this is the episode for you to tune into! Go get your free meditation here: https://erinanderson.kartra.com/page/hearto...
Send a text Oh my goodness you guys!!! This boundary blueprint is SOOOO powerful. Using it has helped me create some really wonderful and supportive relationships... even from those who were previously not very loving and supportive. So! Take a listen! If you are ready to have relationships that show up to support you in the way you need to, this is a GREAT start! If you would like to book a call with me to help you live your dream life, free of trauma, completely unashamed, click on this li...
Send a text This tier seriously taught me so much about where I was at in my relationships. It really helped me see how I wanted to be and who I truly was because it it caused me to really think about what I wanted to create with other people. We often get stuck in this tier and sometimes because of that, we tend to get the wrong idea about what the "stuckness" means. So, today, we talk about what the Other's tier can teach you and how you can use that to finally have the relationships you ha...
Send a text Who is God to you and do you understand how that perception of who he is can help you heal from trauma? In this Episode, we discuss the God tier, how he is and can be your perfect father, and how to get to know him even better. Support the show If you would like to book a free coaching call click on this link to schedule a time: https://calendly.com/erin-anderson-coaching/creating-your-unbreakable-boundaries Get your free "Creating and Clarifying Boundaries" PDF here! https:/...
Send a text Welcome back my luvs! This week is a juicy episode because we are diving into how to change your results by changing your thoughts. It doesn't mean AT ALL that we are ever ok with our hubby's addictions. It means that we see it for what it truly is and what we truly are. Understanding ourselves as a goddess helps us to take goddess action! Tune in! Support the show If you would like to book a free coaching call click on this link to schedule a time: https://calendly.com/erin-an...
Send a text Welcome back everyone for a new episode of "The Other Side of the Struggle"! In today's episode, we go into more detail about the 5 steps from Stimulus to Results and how to get more of the results you are looking for in your life. I also talk about some of the thoughts that were keeping me stuck in the trauma, the results I was having from those thoughts, and what I realized that changed it all! Support the show If you would like to book a free coaching call click on this link ...
Send a text Welcome back! In this weeks episode, I talk about the 5 step thought process that can either keep you rooted in trauma, or start you on your healing journey. This is a juicy episode guys! You don't want to miss this! If you are wanting peace, then this is the podcast for you! Support the show If you would like to book a free coaching call click on this link to schedule a time: https://calendly.com/erin-anderson-coaching/creating-your-unbreakable-boundaries Get your free ...
Send a text Hey my luvs! So, last week I talked about some of the trauma I have seen in my life, especially in my marriage, and how that lead me to the beginning of my healing journey. But, I wanted to talk with you about the very first thing I learned along my journey with healing. In this episode, you'll learn which relationships you need to focus on first to heal from the betrayal that you feel, and how to start working through some of your trust issues! Support the show If y...
Send a text It came to my attention that there were some things that could have been clarified in my earlier story! In this episode, I am retelling my story about where I was when I was in my betrayal trauma. Support the show If you would like to book a free coaching call click on this link to schedule a time: https://calendly.com/erin-anderson-coaching/creating-your-unbreakable-boundaries Get your free "Creating and Clarifying Boundaries" PDF here! https://www.erinandersonthetraumacoach...
Send a text One of the biggest things that we struggle with when we are victims of betrayal trauma is how to finally feel safe again. I get that question a lot, "How can I be safe again?". In today's episode, we talk about what safety truly is, and how we get it back! Support the show If you would like to book a free coaching call click on this link to schedule a time: https://calendly.com/erin-anderson-coaching/creating-your-unbreakable-boundaries Get your free "Creating and Clarifying B...
Send a text In this week, we are discussing all things new! When you are trying to heal from trauma, you are wishing that those that created the trauma would stop. You are wishing that you could just continue with your life. You feel like you are being chained and held back by the choices of another. You feel like you can't have freedom until the other person makes better choices. Today, we talk about finally doing what you need to do in order for your life to be your own again! Time to drop ...
Send a text In this episode of The Other Side of the Struggle, we are discussing how gratitude is the very thing that can help you heal from your trauma. Without gratitude, we are literally locking ourselves in a room with the trauma without a way out. Gratitude is the key to freedom! Support the show If you would like to book a free coaching call click on this link to schedule a time: https://calendly.com/erin-anderson-coaching/creating-your-unbreakable-boundaries Get your free "Creating...
Send a text In this week we tell a story about two brothers. One who was foolish, one who was wise. What ending shall we give the wise one? Join in to see how you can use the story of these two brothers to be a better steward of your joy. Support the show If you would like to book a free coaching call click on this link to schedule a time: https://calendly.com/erin-anderson-coaching/creating-your-unbreakable-boundaries Get your free "Creating and Clarifying Boundaries" PDF here! https://...
Send a text Hey everyone! So this was a super fun episode this week. So many people believe that if you forgive someone, you are allowing that person to hurt you over and over and over again. But, in this episode, I show you how that's not true and what forgiveness really is. It truly is your own God given super power! Support the show If you would like to book a free coaching call click on this link to schedule a time: https://calendly.com/erin-anderson-coaching/creating-your-unbreakable-...
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