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In this podcast, Paul Carroll, Creator & Founder of AutismDadvocate.org, discusses topics that truly matter to fathers of autistic children.
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What happens when years of neurodiversity advocacy collide with the reality of raising an autistic child? In this episode, Paul talks with Charles Kransberger, a neurodiversity expert and father, about his journey and insights. They explore practical strategies for supporting autistic children, planning for the future, and creating meaningful opportunities at home, in school, and in the workplace. Plus, Charles shares his vision for a more inclusive world—and what parents and organizations can do today to make it real. Charles personal journey as a neurodiversity advocate His perspective as a Dad and how it reframed his view of autism after working in the Field for years Neurodiversity in Practice — Insights from the Field Charles' practical advice for Dads The Future of Neuroinclusion
What happens when families procrastinate planning for their autistic child's future? In this episode, Paul sits down with Michael Pereira, founder of The Autism Voyage® and father of a neurodivergent child, to uncover the hidden risks families face when they delay essential steps in planning for their child's future. Too often, parents focus on surviving today's demands, therapies, school meetings, and daily care, without realizing how unprotected their family may be if something happens tomorrow. Together, Paul and Michael discuss why true planning isn't just about the child's future, it's also about protecting the well-being of parents and siblings. From common insurance blind spots to the emotional weight of procrastination, this conversation offers clarity, practical awareness, and encouragement for families who want to avoid painful mistakes and build confidence for the road ahead.
In this episode, Paul sits down with Jett Stone, a leading psychologist specializing in men's mental health, to explore the unique emotional challenges faced by fathers of autistic children. Often overlooked in the broader conversation, these fathers frequently navigate their journeys in isolation—quietly bearing the weight of uncertainty, stress, and profound love for their children. We'll discuss why community and connection matter, and how breaking the silence can foster resilience and connection. Together, Jett and Paul shine a light on the importance of friendship, shared experience, and mental wellness in the lives of these amazing dads. Discussion Topics: The hidden emotional toll on fathers raising children on the autism spectrum Why fathers often experience isolation—and what prevents them from seeking help The role of friendship and bonding in supporting mental health Strategies and support systems that can make a difference: from peer groups to professional resources
In this episode, Paul is joined by Michael Szafron, a Vice President of Sales & Operations who was diagnosed with autism at age 41. They dive into the real-life challenges autistic professionals face at work—from getting hired to moving up the ladder—and share honest insights on navigating workplace relationships, culture, and career growth. Michael and Paul will discuss the following: how the hiring process impacts autistic applicants common workplace challenges for autistic workers how autistic workers can navigate workplace relationships and cultures the challenges of career advancement and mobility
In this episode, Paul is joined by Jodi Carlton, a leading world expert in mixed neurotype relationship dynamics and communication. Her YouTube channel - Neurodiverse Relationships - has amassed 15,000 subscribers and 1,000,000+views of its video content. Jodi and Paul discuss the following: -understanding the unique relationship dynamics within the autism community -how autistic teens can build self-confidence and self-esteem -navigating the online dating worlds -how autistic teens can spot "red flags" -how Dads can support their autistic daughters and sons with dating
In this episode, Paul interviews Stefan Bjes, Founder of Blue Line Spectrum Safety and a patrol sergeant with 19 years of experience in the greater Chicago area. Stefan is also the father of two autistic sons. We'll explore a critical topic for parents of autistic children: how to prepare them for interactions with law enforcement, particularly during traffic stops. Together, we'll discuss strategies to help your child remain calm, communicate clearly, and manage sensory sensitivities when faced with flashing lights or loud sirens. We'll also cover the importance of role-playing these scenarios, teaching your child how to disclose their autism to officers, and providing them with tools like autism ID cards. Join us for this vital conversation on empowering autistic children to stay safe and confident during police encounters.
Yep, we're going there, going deep into the pure messiness of being the father of an autistic child. In this solo podcast, Paul goes deep and vulnerably into all the areas where fathers are challenged, particularly with all the different roles that these amazing Dads play every day. Paul discusses the following roles: Surprise, surprise! you're a human being first before your role as a Dad Okay, let's now discuss your role as a father Your role as spouse / partner Your role as a friend (and supportive Dadvocate)
In this podcast, Paul interviews Susanna Lovell, Life Coach and author of the recently-released book - Your True Self Is Enough: Lessons Learned on My Journey Parenting a Child with Autism". Susanna shares her journey of navigating through the worry and heartbreak of raising a special needs child. She ultimately finds her true life calling: to help other parents find and realize joy and passion in their own lives. Episode outline: Paul and Susanna discuss the following: Susanna's journey as a single mom Susanna's struggle with postpartum depression and anxiety Her daughter's autism diagnosis and co-morbidities How our culture treats families with disabilities Susanna's life lessons on self-care as a parent
In thisepisode, Paul interviews Manisha Lad, who is the Founder of The Sensory Pathway Center in New Jersey. Just in time for Mother's Day, Manisha shares her journey as the mother of an autistic son, and how it propelled her to found her own non-profit to help other moms (and Dads) on their autism journeys. Paul and Manisha discuss the following: Akhil' s diagnosis at a very young age What Manisha learned about Akhil and his autism Akhil's broken silence: a new journey begins Managing emotions and remaining positive during difficult times How Akhil's insights helped Manisha find even more interventions Akhil's journey to college
Within the autism community, parents often navigate the complex comorbidities associated with autism, including mental health issues. The latest Autism Dadvocate podcast shares one father's journey with autism, love and ultimately - grief. My guest is this episode is Robert Hubbard, whose latest book - Scenes with my Son - shares his courageous story. Paul and Robert discuss the following: Robert's journey as a father with his son's autism diagnosis How Auggie's autism progressed as a child and as a teenager Auggie's comorbidity with mental health Robert's personal journey with faith
Burnout...........we hear this term everywhere…….office workers, nurses, teachers, police officers, working Moms… but is the phenomena of burnout different for parents with autistic kids? The answer may surprise you (and it's a resounding yes). Within the autism community, parents navigate therapy appointments, IEP meetings, endless calls with health insurance companies, meltdowns, special diet needs, and creating a sensory-safe environment for their kids. In this episode, Paul discusses burnout with Christopher MacLellan, CEO of the Whole Care Network – an organization dedicated to promoting care and support to families or anyone in a caregiving role. Paul & Christopher discuss the following -Why addressing burnout matters -The impacts of burnout if not addressed -Strategies and tips for minimizing burnout -Manageable self-care tips that don't take lot of time or money
Our current US Surgeon General – Vivek Murthy – recently stated that loneliness in the U.S has become epidemic, and is as detrimental to your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. Within the autism community, this isolation is particularly pervasive amongst fathers of children on the spectrum…… In this episode, Paul and Andrew Horn, CEO of Tribute and Executive Men's Coach, discuss the following: Why isolation, disconnectedness and loneliness is so prevalent amongst men in our society Why addressing isolation and seeking a community matters….. Strategies and tips for addressing isolation and loneliness 3 steps to making deeper connections "Go first" "Authenticity & vulnerability" Persistence and tenacity - meaningful connections do take time
As Dads, we want the best for our kids, right? However, when we as Dads set neurotypical standards for our neurodiverse kids, we are not being good Dads. In fact, we're doing just the opposite. In this podcast, Paul interviews Jude Morrow, CEO of Neurodiversity Training International, author, and TedX speaker. They discuss the unique dynamics between neurotypical Dads and neurodiverse kids Paul and Jude discuss the following: Jude's own journey and diagnosis Parenting practices that derailed Jude's adolescence Common assumptions Dads make about their autistic kids When Dads should intervene, and when Dads need to back off Top Three Mistakes that Dads typically make with their kids
What if you were the father of two autistic children, only to be diagnosed with autism yourself at the age of 41? This is the compelling story of Jeremy Rochford. In the latest Autism Dadvocate podcast, I interview Jeremy Rochard. Jeremy is an author, TedX speaker, weight loss coach, standup comedian, and all-around amazing (and funny!) guy. We discuss his fascinating journey with autism, which includes: His weight loss journey - 200 lbs! His foray into stand-up comedy His children's diagnosis His own autism diagnosis His advice and insights to other autism dads Please join us for an organic (and very humorous) conversation between these two Dads.
80-85% of young autistic adults are unemployed and underemployed……………………………………… It doesn't have to be this way. ….. Many organizations are now incorporating neurodiversity as a part of their broader DEI efforts. Furthermore, there is deeper awareness and support for neurodiverse employees in the workplace. Nonetheless, young autistic adults face immense challenges as they enter the workforce. Please join Paul as he engages in an animated discussion with Becca Lory Hector on this topic. Becca is not only the Founder of Truly Inclusive Leadership, an organization dedicated to supporting and integrating disabled employees in the workplace, but she herself was diagnosed with autism at the age of thirty-six. Paul and Becca discuss the following: · Common challenges autistic employees face in the workforce · What autistic employees can do to self-advocate in the workplace · Reasonable accommodations that organizations can make that benefit of their neurodiverse workers · How Dads can effectively prepare their autistic kids to transition into the workforce
For children with autism, masking is a social survival strategy. There is often pressure on autistic children to perform social behaviors that are considered "normal " or neurotypical. Some children hide their neurodiverse behaviors in order to fit in. Regardless of its positive intentions, masking can lead to serious health consequences, such as depression, anxiety, autistic "burnout", and even suicidal ideation. In this podcast, Paul is joined by Shane Sale, Neurodivergent Specialist and father of an autistic daughter. They enter into an animated discussion on this critical topic. Paul & Shane discuss the following: How our autistic children typically "mask" their behavior What the progressive stages of masking are The differences between girls and boys when it comes to masking (and why it is so pervasive amongst autistic girls) The long-term impacts of masking on our kids' health How Dads can support their kids in this area
75-80% of marriages with an autistic child end in separation or divorce. This often-cited statistic (though open to dispute), nonetheless reveals the challenges of a marriage with an autistic child. In this podcast episode, Paul engages in a lively and organic conversation with a panel of professionals on this topic, including Jeremy Hamburgh and Ilana Smith of mybestsociallife.com, as well as Dr. Stephanie Holmes, a NeuroDiverse Marriage Specialist. The panel discusses the following: The phenomena of martial strain, separation, and divorce within the autism community (why is it so prevalent in our community?) The most common areas of strife with married couples of autistic children What Dads need to know about maintain healthy constructive dialogue with their wives/partners Where Dads can find additional resources on this topic
Need a little inspiration? Then, listen to the compelling story of Debra Vines, who was introduced by Holly Robinson Peete as a 2022 Top 10 CNN Hero at the CNN Heroes: An All-Star Tribute last December. Debra shares her personal journey as the Mom of an autistic son, which includes isolation, mental health challenges, addiction, and even incarceration. Paul and Debra discuss the following: Debra's personal journey as the mother of as an ASD son Her struggles with obtaining therapies for her son, and the impact on her mental health & well-being The creation and mission of theanswerinc.org Deb's personal observations – are there differences in the experience of Moms raising ASD kids, versus Dads? Deb's creation of "Just for Men" a support group for fathers of children with autism, and what we're planning for Autism Awareness month in April
25-30% of autistic children are minimally verbal or do not speak at all, although this is not a reflection of their intellectual ability. For their Dads, it is critical they seek out augmentative or alternative communication methods, such as speech therapy. In this podcast, Paul interviews Lenora Edward, Chief Knowledge Officer of Better Speech, a leading online speech therapy provider for ASD kids. Lenora and Paul engage in a broader discussion on the impact of speech delays with autistic children. Paul and Lenora discuss the following: Why do (some) autistic children struggle with speech? What are some early indicators of potential speech delays? What initial steps should Dads take when they identify a speech delay with their children? What are some common speech therapies employed to help autistic children?
2022 is coming to a close. In this short solo podcast (the first one in quite some time), Paul reflects back on 2022, invites the Autism Dadvocate community to look ahead to 2023, and ends the episode with an exciting announcement. Paul discusses the following: Past episodes from 2022 (and why they mattered) Future topics for 2023 that the Autism Dadvocate community has asked Paul to go deeper on – which include marital strain, unemployment / underemployment of autistic workers, and underestimating our kids' abilities The sobering death of Stephen "tWitch" Boss - and why this matters to the Dadvocate community A big announcement for 2023
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