The She’s Such A Lesbian Podcast

In this episode of She’s Such a Lesbian Podcast, host Dyse sits down with Nicole “King” Washington for a powerful conversation about confidence, leadership, and stepping fully into your authentic self. Together, they unpack what it means to embody “She-King” energy—owning your voice, claiming your space, and leading with purpose in a world that doesn’t always make room for us. Expect real talk, laughter, and gems you’ll want to carry with you long after the episode ends. This one’s for anyone ready to rise, reign, and unapologetically be who they are. 🌈🎙️  

This week on She’s Such a Lesbian, Dyse sits down with powerhouse entrepreneur Ashley Sanders, the self-proclaimed CEO of “Queen of the Fools.” But what does that title really mean? In this bold and unfiltered conversation, Ashley breaks down how she turned heartbreak, bad decisions, and entertaining the wrong people into a brand built on confidence, accountability, and leveling up. From dating disasters to reclaiming self-worth, she shares how embracing her past — instead of hiding from it — became the foundation for her glow-up. Dyse and Ashley dive into lessons learned from toxic cycles, the difference between being naïve and being hopeful, and why sometimes you have to wear the crown of your own mistakes before you can truly evolve. Funny, reflective, and a little spicy — this episode is for anyone who’s ever ignored a red flag and lived to tell the story.

This week on She’s Such a Lesbian, Dyse and Katz sit down for one of their most personal conversations yet. Joined by Katz’s brother, Clifford Leonard, the trio dives deep into the realities of addiction, incarceration, and what it truly means to hit your “last straw.” Clifford opens up about the silent shame that fueled his substance use, the wake-up call that led to three years behind bars, and the letter from his sister that became a turning point in his recovery. Together, they unpack masculinity, accountability, family loyalty, and the complicated but powerful journey of rebuilding trust. This episode is raw, honest, and rooted in growth — a reminder that you are not your worst mistake, and healing is possible when vulnerability meets responsibility. Trigger warning: discussions of addiction and incarceration.

In this episode of She’s Such a Lesbian Podcast, Host Dyse is joined by Regina Huggins for a powerful and affirming conversation centered on Black identity, healing, and self-determination. Together, they explore what Black pride really means beyond survival, how Black joy shows up as a daily practice, and why Black power is rooted in autonomy, rest, and choosing yourself. From unlearning survival mode to embracing softness, community, and truth, this episode creates space for reflection, growth, and celebration. This conversation is for anyone navigating Blackness with intention—honoring where you’ve been while claiming where you’re going. ✨ Pride. Joy. Power.

Today’s episode is called “Stud Pride, Soft Hearts & Side-Eyes”—and it’s a love letter to masc-presenting lesbians who are constantly misunderstood. We talk about what stud pride really means beyond the stereotypes, the softness that lives beneath masc energy, and the side-eyes that double as boundaries. From being labeled intimidating to navigating love, vulnerability, and community expectations, this episode breaks down the emotional depth, strength, and intentionality of studs who love hard and move with purpose. If you’ve ever been told you don’t seem nice, felt pressure to be the strong one, or learned to protect your peace with silence and a look—this one’s for you. ✨ Stud pride. Emotional depth. Boundaries with style.  

For a long time, survival was the goal. Getting through the day. Holding it together. Doing what had to be done. But what happens when survival isn’t the finish line anymore? In this episode of She’s Such a Lesbian, we talk about the shift from living in survival mode to intentionally building a life that actually feels like yours. We unpack growth that isn’t pretty, healing that doesn’t happen on a timeline, and the quiet confidence that comes from choosing yourself after years of doing what you had to do. This episode is for anyone who grew up fast, carried too much, and is now learning how to live—not just survive. ✨ Growth. Healing. Self-made energy.

Edale Lane is a award winning Amazon Best Selling Author of sapphic books and stories, publishing under her Past and Prologue Press Label since 2019. Her goal is to entertain and inspire her audience with her page-turning mysteries and immersive historical fiction (often with a fantasy flair) featuring bold and loving characters. No matter the dangers, you can expect a happy ending. (Well, maybe not for the foiled criminals.) Having to embarked on variety of careers, including school teacher, church music minister, Home Depot Associate and a tuck driver author Edale Lane has many experiences to draw from. She also holds a master's degree in history. When not writing, this Chilliwack, B.C. resident who lives with her long time partner, now battling cancer can be found playing the French horn, gaming, enjoying nature, or spoiling her Havanese dog. 

Welcome back to She’s Such a Lesbian, the podcast where we unpack queer identity, messy timelines, and the very gay art of surviving your twenties. Today’s episode is personal. Not in a trauma-dump way—but in a “wow, that shaped me more than I realized” way. We’re talking about: What mental health looks like when you’re still a kid raising a kid How teen motherhood collides with identity and autonomy And what it’s like to come out when your life already feels like it’s under a microscope

I’m joined by K’Anne Meinel, a powerhouse author who never asked for approval—and never needed it. From spending two weeks but did not publish it until 8 years later which was her very first novel, SHIPS, to building her own publishing house, to creating awards that celebrate lesbian literature, K’Anne’s journey is a masterclass in patience, independence, and bold storytelling. We get into what it really means to choose appetite over approval, why some stories refuse neat endings, and how humor, sarcasm, and double meanings can open readers up before hitting them right in the feelings. K’Anne shares how short stories shaped her longer works, why she started Shadoe Publishing to remove barriers for queer writers, and what inspired the creation of the Lesfic Bard Awards. This episode is for writers, creatives, and anyone who’s ever wondered what might happen if they stopped following the rules and started trusting themselves instead. So grab your coffee, tea, or wine, get comfortable, and press play. Because the stories that stick?

From a Stud’s point of view, Dyse takes the solo mic and breaks down one of the most controversial relationship questions: can exes really stay friends—or is that a hard no? Speaking as a happily married stud of 2 years married to her wife and co-host Katz), Dyse delivers a raw, funny, and sarcastic take on boundaries, emotional access, and the lies we tell ourselves in the name of “maturity.”

If you’ve ever heard “I’m not ready for a relationship” and replied with “that’s okay, I can wait” — this episode is about you. Dyse spends this episode lovingly roasting studs (including herself) for chasing emotionally unavailable lesbians like it’s a competitive sport. We’re talking fixer-upper romances, potential-based relationships, and doing Olympic-level emotional labor for people who “just need time.” Expect: Stud-on-stud accountability (no shame, just jokes and growth) Unready lesbians being described accurately but respectfully The phrase “she’s different with me” being exposed for what it really is. A breakdown of how patience turned into self-erasure Laughs, long pauses, dramatic realizations, and at least one “oh wow… I hate how true that is” moment This is not a how-to episode. This is a “why did I stay so long?” episode. Come for the humor. Stay for the clarity. Leave with the understanding that peace is better than potential and love should not feel like a waiting room. Headphones recommended. Group chat apologies optional.

In this episode of She’s Such a Lesbian, host Dyse breaks down the history and psychology behind New Year’s resolutions and explains why they rarely lead to lasting change. Instead of chasing unrealistic goals or reinventing ourselves every January, Dyse introduces a grounded 2026 approach: self‑affirmation through action. Listeners learn how identity‑based habits, small consistent steps, and compassionate self‑alignment create real, sustainable growth. This episode blends education, structure, and queer‑centered insight to help you step into the new year with clarity and intention.  

In this powerful episode of She’s Such a Lesbian, host Dyse sits down with Caress Loftin for a raw and transformative conversation titled “From the Cellblock to Servanthood.” Caress shares her lived experience navigating incarceration, identity, faith, and queerness—unpacking how survival shaped her and how purpose ultimately called her into a life of service. With honesty and reflection, she speaks on accountability, healing, and redefining freedom beyond confinement. This episode is about resilience, redemption, and the complexity of becoming who you are meant to be—especially when the world only knows your past. 🎙️ Real stories. Real growth. Real truth. 🎧 Tune in and listen with an open heart.

Codependent, Toxic & Cheating — Why We Can’t Let Go explores the uncomfortable truth behind staying in relationships that hurt us. It dives into how emotional dependency, manipulation, and broken trust can become tangled with love, making it feel impossible to walk away—even when we know we should. Through honest reflection, the title examines fear of loneliness, attachment patterns, and the false hope that someone will change. It’s not about blaming, but about understanding why we cling to what’s familiar, even when it’s damaging, and how awareness can be the first step toward choosing ourselves.

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In this episode of She’s Just a Lesbian, Katz and Dyse have an honest conversation about addiction vs. spiritual attack—a topic many families struggle to understand. When someone you love is battling addiction, it can feel confusing, painful, and overwhelming, especially when faith, fear, and survival collide. This episode isn’t about choosing sides; it’s about exploring how addiction affects the mind, body, spirit, and the people caught in the middle. Through lived experience and open dialogue, we talk about compassion, boundaries, and why both belief and medical reality matter when it comes to healing. Hashtags: #ShesJustALesbian #AddictionAwareness #QueerConversations #HealingJourney #RealTalk

Cliff is Katz baby brother and we are sharing his story publicly for the first time after spending 20 years incarcerated and fighting through addiction. Now sober and rebuilding his life, he’s focused on growth, accountability, and creating a healthy future. Recently married, he speaks candidly about redemption, second chances, and what it really takes to come home, stay sober, and move forward with purpose. His story is about resilience, responsibility, and choosing change—every single day. #SobrietyJourney #RecoveryIsPossible #OneDayAtATime #HealingInProgress #ChoosingChange #RebuildingLife #LoveAfterStruggle #FamilyFirst #MarriageAfterHardship https://beacons.ai/shessuchalesbianpodcast

She’s Such a Lesbian is a live podcast hosted by a lesbian couple who aren’t afraid to have the conversations most people avoid. We go live to talk honestly about real-life issues—love, trauma, addiction, healing, relationships, and community—from a queer perspective. No judgment, no sugarcoating—just open dialogue, lived experience, and space for truth. This is a place for real conversations, real people, and real healing.

She’s Such a Lesbian is a live podcast hosted by a lesbian couple who aren’t afraid to have the conversations most people avoid. We go live to talk honestly about real-life issues—love, trauma, addiction, healing, relationships, and community—from a queer perspective. No judgment, no sugarcoating—just open dialogue, lived experience, and space for truth. This is a place for real conversations, real people, and real healing.