Unveiling Heirs: Christian Parenting

If you are a wife carrying the spiritual weight of your home because your husband is not leading spiritually, this episode is for you. Many wives in this position feel caught between two harmful extremes: Striving: overfunctioning spiritually, trying to hold everything together, longing to be seen or validated Shrinking: silencing themselves or pulling back in the hope that their husband will step up Neither posture brings peace. Neither is rooted in trust. In this episode, Diana speaks directly to wives who pray alone and feel the quiet exhaustion of carrying spiritual responsibility without partnership. You'll hear a compassionate but clarifying reframe that releases you from false responsibility, without asking you to disappear or perform. In this episode, we cover: Why striving and shrinking are both fear-based responses How overfunctioning spiritually can quietly erode peace and trust Why silencing yourself does not produce spiritual leadership in a marriage The difference between faithfulness and spiritual over-responsibility How to remain present, truthful, and anchored without controlling outcomes This conversation is not about fixing your husband or managing your marriage. It's about tending to your heart and returning to peace. Resource: Many wives are already paying a price in emotional exhaustion, spiritual pressure, and the weight of carrying too much for too long. If you sense the Lord inviting you into rest, clarity, and emotional steadiness, Diana created "Renew the Heart" to support that process. This guided renewal experience is designed to help you: Release spiritual overfunctioning Restore peace and clarity Return to trust without striving or shrinking You can learn more here: https://www.dianabigham.com/maritalrenewal No pressure. No striving. Just an invitation to let God tend to your heart.

"Cheap" help actually costs you... Many Christian parents consume endless encouragement, advice, and free resources yet still feel stuck in the same reactive patterns. In this episode, Diana Bigham explains why the problem isn't lack of care or effort, but reliance on low-demand help that asks nothing and builds little capacity. You'll learn why real change always carries a cost (not just financial), how commitment builds capacity over time, and what actually helps parents move from inspiration to steady leadership. Key Takeaway Cheap, low-cost, low commitment help may feel safe, but it often costs growth. Capacity is built through commitment, consistency, and staying engaged when it would be easier to disengage. Reflective Question What kind of help have I been choosing, and what has it been costing me? Ready to move beyond low-demand help and build real capacity in your parenting? Join the free 3-day experience Pioneer Parent (January 14–16, 2026): https://www.dianabigham.com/pioneerparent Learn more about The Journey to Unveiling Heirs at:unveilingheirs.com

Why Peace in Your Home Requires Capacity, Not Perfection Many Christian parents believe peace will come when they finally get it right — fewer mistakes, better routines, calmer reactions. In this episode, Diana Bigham explains why peace doesn't come from perfection, but from capacity: the ability to stay present, regulated, and grounded when things are hard. You'll learn how capacity — not control — creates safety in your home, why leadership matters more than flawless parenting, and how small internal shifts can radically change the atmosphere your children experience. Episode Timestamps 00:00 – Introduction: Why peace feels elusive for many parents 01:40 – The myth that peace comes from getting it right 03:20 – What capacity actually means in everyday parenting 05:15 – Perfection vs presence: why perfection increases pressure 07:10 – A real-life meltdown example: control vs leadership 09:05 – Why leadership creates safety (not compliance) 11:00 – How children learn peace through our capacity 12:45 – Why capacity is built over time, not in one moment 14:15 – Reflection question + Pioneer Parent invitation Key Takeaway Peace in your home doesn't come from eliminating conflict, it comes from having the capacity to stay present and lead well when conflict shows up. Reflective Question Where do I lose capacity the fastest in my parenting, and what might that be inviting me to grow? Want to build real capacity instead of chasing perfection? Join the free 3-day experience Pioneer Parent (January 14–16, 2026): https://www.dianabigham.com/pioneerparent

Most Christian parents look for relief when things get hard — fewer tantrums, calmer mornings, less reactivity. In this episode, Diana Bigham explains why relief is temporary and why capacity is what actually creates lasting change in your parenting and your home. You'll learn what capacity really means in everyday language, why information alone doesn't change how you respond under pressure, and how building internal capacity leads to steadier leadership and deeper peace. Key Takeaway Relief helps you survive a moment. Capacity changes how you show up in every moment. Reflective Question What shows up in me before I have time to think when my child is dysregulated? Ready to move beyond short-term relief and build real capacity in your parenting? Join the free 3-day experience The Pioneer Parent Challenge (January 14–16, 2026): https://www.dianabigham.com/pioneerparent

Why "Trying Harder" Is Failing Christian Parents Most Christian parents try harder, pray more, and research all the tips...yet still feel exhausted, reactive, or stuck. In this episode, Diana Bigham explains why effort alone doesn't create lasting peace in your home and what does. You'll discover the difference between information and capacity, why seeking relief doesn't equal transformation, and what it really looks like to lead with steadiness instead of stress. Listen to this episode if you want: Parenting insights that actually change your responses Practical understanding of what builds capacity over guilt A healthier way to lead your family without burnout Reflective question: Who am I becoming as a parent in the everyday moments of stress and pressure? Key Takeaway Trying harder isn't the problem... it's that effort alone can't build the capacity needed to lead with peace, clarity, and steadiness. Ready to Go Deeper? Join the free 3-day experience The Pioneer Parent Challenge January 14th–16th where you'll learn how to build real capacity in your parenting: https://www.dianabigham.com/pioneerparent

Do want your child to be more confident in themselves? Does their self esteem plummet when they've made a mistake? One way to help your children develop confidence is to correct them with kindness. Want more support to boost your child's confidence? Learning what God says about you is even better than positive affirmations. Sign up for the School of Prophetic Families and discover 12 ways we can receive and respond to the voice of God. propheticfamilies.com Quick Episode Summary: The #1 most vulnerable time for children What parents can do to build confidence through a heart to heart conversation How to help children embrace mistakes as a natural part of life

Do want your child to be more confident in themselves? Do they feel like they don't fit in or belong? One way to help your children develop confidence is to connect them with others. Want a community for yourself? Share your stories and struggles with us in our free community in Facebook. Go to facebook.com/groups/dianabigham Quick Episode Summary: How connection with others matters What the Bible says about the parts of the body of Christ How to help your kids understand how they matter even if others are similar to them

Do want your child to be more confident in themselves? Are they comparing themselves to others and feeling unworthy? One way to help your children develop a sense of their purpose and identity is by reminding them often about what God says and thinks about them. Let your children know their personal significance and help them discover the purposes God has for them. Want more support to boost your child's confidence? Learning what God says about you is even better than positive affirmations. Sign up for the School of Prophetic Families today. propheticfamilies.com Quick Episode Summary: When kids compare themselves and why they lack confidence How to practice listening to what God says about your children What to do when you can only focus on the negative characteristics

Do want your child to be more confident in themselves? Are they afraid of being wrong or feel like they're not good enough? One way to help your children develop a sense of their purpose and identity is by giving them direction and guidance through love. Want more support to boost your child's confidence? Learning what God says about you is even better than positive affirmations. Sign up for January's School of Prophetic Families class and discover what God says about you specifically. propheticfamilies.com Quick Episode Summary: Why kids need confidence The effect on kids if parents drill kids with lessons Example on how to give kids guidance to boost their confidence

Thank you for supporting the Unveiling Heirs Podcast. We will be taking a break from weekly episodes, but please check back. In the meantime, Diana shares books she enjoys as resources for her and her family that listeners might enjoy. Connect with Diana at: www.facebook.com/groups/dianabigham   Follow us on Social Media to stay up-to-date with current services and products.   Have questions or feedback? Email us at support@unveilingheirs.com   Mentioned Recourses: Shawn Bolz: Breakthrough Myles Monroe: Rediscovering the Kingdom Shawn Bolz: Translating God Robbie Dawkins: Do what Jesus did, Do greater things, Identity thief   Resources for kids. Kathryn Kuhlman: God's generals for kids Amazon T.V: Torch lighters Dan McCollam: My superpowers Pat Barrett & Chris Tomlin: Good, Good, Father

As Christians, we have the responsibility to live mission-minded to extend the kingdom of God and destroy the works of the enemy. Nothing changes in our world without our partnership with God. But, in order to run a good race, we have to be spiritually disciplined.   Join Diana as we finish this 3-part series on spiritual disciplines by discussing fellowship and service.   Be a part of our Facebook Community for encouragement and practical tips.   Quick Episode Summary: What out Christian life should look like Reconnecting with the Lord and with each other Bringing heaven to earth Do everything wholeheartedly How Jesus served What is the Kingdom? Closing prayer

As Christians, we have the responsibility to live mission-minded to extend the kingdom of God and destroy the works of the enemy. Nothing changes in our world without our partnership with God. But, in order to run a good race, we have to be spiritually disciplined.   Join Diana as we continue to take a look at common spiritual disciplines for every believer. In this episode, Diana talks on engaging the word of God and worship.   Quick Episode Summary: The importance of fasting Engaging God's word How to have a greater impact The result of reading the word The power of worship Setting our mind and affection on the Lord The different types of worship

Learn how to handle COVID-19 with your family in this bonus episode with Diana Bigham.   If you are stuck at home we have tons of FREE content waiting for you to binge on our Facebook group. www.facebook.com/groups/dianabigham

As Christians, we have the responsibility to live mission-minded to extend the kingdom of God and destroy the works of the enemy. Nothing changes in our world without our partnership with God. But, in order to run a good race, we have to be spiritually disciplined. Learn more about prayer and fasting in this episode.   Quick Episode Summary: How to strengthen your faith Seeking his wisdom Deep dive into fasting Putting your spirit soul and body in alignment with God The different types of fast What to do if you experience Should children fast? The health benefits of fasting

Do you have a child that gets anxious at doctor visits? Do they hate getting shots, even with the doctor uses a numbing spray? Listen to these tips on how to mentally prepare your child for their checkup. For more practical tips, join our free Facebook community. www.facebook.com/groups/dianabigham   Quick Episode Summary: Get medical toys Making the doctor fun How to prep your kid for shots Handling your child's fear Getting your kids "unstuck" Empowering your children to talk the doctor

Many Christians find themselves in a trap of only feeling worthy when they are doing the right things and feel worthlessness when they make mistakes. But what about our children? In this episode, Diana shares 3 tips to help end the cycle of performance-driven worth in children.   www.facebook.com/groups/dianabigham   Quick Episode Summary: Do you struggle with preference? Focus on character Leaving room for failures Make your mercy's new Developing your children's self-talk How to get more parenting tips

Ever wonder why change can be hard? Do you get discouraged when you fall back into old habits? In this episode, Diana explains the different stages of change that we tend to go through when developing new habits.   For more practical tips and an encouraging community, join our free Facebook community at www.facebook.com/groups/dianabigham   Quick Episode Summary: Breaking habits Preparing for change Mistakes are normal Revising your plan Closing prayer

Having an estranged relationship with a family member is difficult. Recently, a mom reached out about her daughter and our hearts go out to the family. If you're in a similar situation, may you find encouragement in this episode. For a private consultation with Diana, go to www.dianabigham.com/consultation   Quick Episode Summary: How to have a healthy conversation How to avoid making loved ones feel rejected Defining the level of healthy contact Avoid being passive-aggressive The importance of humility Closing prayer

Every have thought patterns that lead to anxiety or depression? In this episode, Diana discusses what a stronghold is and one way to break free from them.   LINKS: www.unveilingheirs.com   Quick Episode Summary: Buyers regret When the enemy tries to sell you doubt Learning to agree with God's thoughts How to implement journaling It's okay to have "Why But" moments Declaring truth

Need some guidelines on navigating social media with your teens? Join Diana with guest Angie Price as they talk about guidelines to helping raise youth in high tech social world.   Quick Episode Summary: How Angie handled social media Restricting smartphone uses How kids communicate Breaking addiction What to do with video chat Checking in on your kids Best resources for parents