Neurodivergent Teens Aren’t “Acting Out”… They’re Asking for ConnectionWhat If Your Teen’s Behavior Isn’t Defiance… But a Cry for Connection?Why Neurodivergent Teens “Shut Down” (And What Parents Are Missing)Stop Correcting Your Teen—Start Understanding Them (This Changes Everything)#neurodivergentteens #parentingteens #adhdparenting #autismparenting #behavioriscommunication #consciousparentingWhat if your teen’s behavior isn’t something to fix… but something to understand?In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, Cheryl sits down with Jillian Nycum to challenge everything we’ve been taught about behavior, belonging, and parenting neurodivergent teens.This episode goes beyond labels and accommodations—and into something much deeper:👉 What if shutdowns, resistance, and emotional explosions aren’t defiance… but signals? 👉 What if your teen isn’t “acting out”… but trying to connect?Jillian shares a transformative perspective rooted in neuroscience, systems thinking, and lived experience raising a neurodivergent child. Together, they unpack how traditional systems—especially schools—often prioritize compliance over connection, and why that’s costing our kids more than we realize.This conversation will shift how you see your teen, their behavior, and your role as a parent.🔑 In This Episode, You’ll Learn:Why behavior is communication—not manipulationThe truth about masking (and why it’s more like filtering)How neurodivergent teens experience the world differentlyWhy belonging is not a “soft skill”—it’s a strategyWhat parents and teachers are missing when they focus on complianceHow to move from correction → curiosity in real timeThe hidden cost of “fitting into the system”How connection changes everything in your relationship🧠 Powerful Concepts from This Episode:“Behavior is not the problem—it’s the signal.”“Belonging is a condition we create, not something kids earn.”“Curiosity over correction.”“Your child is showing you how to connect with them.”“Masking is often filtering—what they let in and what they keep out.” 👤 About Jillian NycumJillian Nycum is a coach, facilitator, and learning designer who supports parents, educators, and leaders in navigating complexity through nervous system alignment, relationships, and systems thinking.With over 20 years of experience and lived insight as a parent of a neurodivergent child, her work blends neuroscience, trauma-informed practice, and real-world application to help people create environments where belonging fuels growth.🎧 Loved This Episode?Share it with a parent or educator who needs this perspective. Follow the podcast so you don’t miss future conversations that challenge how we parent and lead.And if your teen is struggling in school or you’re navigating diagnosis, IEPs, or advocacy—you don’t have to do this alone.#neurodivergentteens #parentingteens #adhdparenting #autismparenting #behavioriscommunication #consciousparenting #momsofteens #parentingadvice #neurodiversity #emotionalregulation #traumainformedparenting #specialeducation #iepsupport #parentingtips #mentalhealthawareness #raisingteens #connectionovercorrection #parentinghelp #nervoussystemregulation #educationreformIf you want to really leverage this episode for growth, the next move is:What if your teen’s behavior isn’t something to fix… but something to understand?In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, Cheryl sits down with Gillian Nycum to challenge everything we’ve been taught about behavior, belonging, and parenting neurodivergent teens.This episode goes beyond labels and accommodations—and into something much deeper:👉 What if shutdowns, resistance, and emotional explosions aren’t defiance… but signals? 👉 What if your teen isn’t “acting out”… but trying to connect?Gillian shares a transformative perspective rooted in neuroscience, systems thinking, and lived experience raising a neurodivergent child. Together, they unpack how traditional systems—especially schools—often prioritize compliance over connection, and why that’s costing our kids more than we realize.This conversation will shift how you see your teen, their behavior, and your role as a parent.🔑 In This Episode, You’ll Learn:Why behavior is communication—not manipulationThe truth about masking (and why it’s more like filtering)How neurodivergent teens experience the world differentlyWhy belonging is not a “soft skill”—it’s a strategyWhat parents and teachers are missing when they focus on complianceHow to move from correction → curiosity in real timeThe hidden cost of “fitting into the system”How connection changes everything in your relationship🧠 Powerful Concepts from This Episode:“Behavior is not the problem—it’s the signal.”“Belonging is a condition we create, not something kids earn.”“Curiosity over correction.”“Your child is showing you how to connect with them.”“Masking is often filtering—what they let in and what they keep out.” 👤 About Gillian NycumGillian Nycum is a coach, facilitator, and learning designer who supports parents, educators, and leaders in navigating complexity through nervous system alignment, relationships, and systems thinking.With over 20 years of experience and lived insight as a parent of a neurodivergent child, her work blends neuroscience, trauma-informed practice, and real-world application to help people create environments where belonging fuels growth.🎧 Loved This Episode?Share it with a parent or educator who needs this perspective. Follow the podcast so you don’t miss future conversations that challenge how we parent and lead.And if your teen is struggling in school or you’re navigating diagnosis, IEPs, or advocacy—you don’t have to do this alone.🔥 SEO HASHTAGS#neurodivergentteens #parentingteens #adhdparenting #autismparenting #behavioriscommunication

Here is your Gift!!!Guidehttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/iep-high-school-transition-parent-quick-guideIf your child has an IEP, the transition from Grade 8 to Grade 9 can feel overwhelming.You’re not just thinking about academics—you’re wondering:👉 Will my child get lost in a much bigger school? 👉 Will teachers really understand their learning needs? 👉 What happens to their IEP—does it actually follow them? 👉 Will they feel socially safe and included? 👉 And when they’re struggling… who will they go to?These are real, valid concerns—and you’re not alone in them.The high school transition is one of the most critical moments for students with learning differences, ADHD, autism, or anxiety. And the truth is, the support doesn’t automatically “just happen.”But with the right preparation, advocacy, and awareness, this transition can feel a lot more supported—for both you and your child.This is the conversation every parent of an IEP student needs to be having before Grade 9 begins.#IEP #ParentingTeens #SpecialEducation #NeurodivergentTeens #ADHDKids #AutismSupport #HighSchoolTransition #Grade9 #ParentAdvocacy #SpecialEdSupport #IEPTransition Connect with Cheryl!YOUR GIFT- GUIDE FOR GRADE 8 TO GRADE 9 IEP TRANSITIONShttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/iep-high-school-transition-parent-quick-guideLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : support@cherylpankhurst.com Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

#ParentingTeens #TeenMentalHealth #DigitalWellbeing #DrSajitaSetia #ScreenTimeForTeens #SocialMediaAndTeensIn this powerful episode of Parenting Teens Advice Redefined, Cheryl sits down with Dr. Sajita Setia, physician, digital well-being researcher, and evidence-based educator, for a much-needed conversation about raising teenagers in a world shaped by screens, algorithms, social media, and AI.Parents today are navigating a reality none of us grew up in. Teens are building friendships online, forming identity through digital spaces, and living in a world where their nervous systems rarely get a break. So how do parents protect their teens without pushing them away? How do we guide without controlling? And how do we create homes that feel calm, connected, and grounded in a world that never seems to turn off?Dr. Sajita breaks down what digital well-being actually means in real life, not just in theory. She shares practical, evidence-based strategies to help families reduce harm, improve sleep, protect mental health, strengthen connection, and create healthier relationships with technology.Cheryl and Dr. Sajita explore the emotional pull of screens, the dopamine-driven design of social media and online gaming, the risks of emotional dependency on AI, and the importance of teaching teens digital boundaries before problems escalate. They also talk about why connection is the most powerful protection parents can offer.This episode is full of honest insight, compassionate truth, and practical tools every parent needs right now.In this episode, we cover:What digital well-being means for teens and familiesHow screens and algorithms affect teen mental health and nervous systemsWhy the old advice about screen time hours is outdatedHow to set phone and device boundaries without hoveringWhy no phones in the bedroom is one of the most important family rulesThe connection between dopamine, social media, online gaming, and compulsive screen useHow to help teens build healthier offline sources of reward and belongingWhy delaying smartphones and social media can matterThe dangers of sharenting and posting children onlineHow AI is shaping teen life in both helpful and harmful waysWhy emotional reliance on AI can interfere with healthy developmentThe importance of digital detox, digital sunsets, and better sleep habitsHow online predators and manipulative digital spaces can target vulnerable childrenWhy parent-child connection remains the strongest form of protectionKey takeaway:The answer is not fear, shame, or total control. The answer is connection, curiosity, boundaries, and intentional parenting in a digital world.Connect with Dr. Sajita Setia:Website: https://sajitasetia.com/ https://www.instagram.com/drsajitasetia/Be sure to check the show notes and episode description for Dr. Sajita’s website and social platforms, where she shares education and tools for parents raising teens in today’s digital world.Work with Cheryl:Cheryl Pankhurst is an educational strategist, family advocate, speaker, published author, and founder of Insight to Impact. She helps families navigate school challenges, diagnoses, IEPs, transitions, and teen advocacy with clarity and confidence. Visit CherylPankhurst.com to learn more about consulting and her 90-day advocacy program.Connect with Cheryl!Let’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : support@cherylpankhurst.com Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

Link to pre-order! https://a.co/d/00e1yv3b #AutismAcceptance #AutismAwareness #AutismAdvocacy #AutismCommunity#ParentingAutisticTeens #ParentingTeensParenting Teens Advice RedefinedWTF Series: Daring to Belong – Stories of Autism, Courage, and ConnectionIn this raw and unfiltered WTF episode, I’m celebrating something deeply meaningful — becoming a published contributing author in the powerful new anthology Daring to Belong: Stories of Autism, Courage, and Connection.This book brings together 11 voices — parents, educators, advocates, and professionals — sharing deeply personal stories about autism, belonging, resilience, and the courage it takes to walk a path that doesn’t always look like what the world expects.With Autism Acceptance Month approaching and Autism Acceptance Day on April 2, this episode launches a special autism series on Parenting Teens Advice Redefined focused on supporting families raising teens on the autism spectrum.Each upcoming episode will feature conversations with educators, parents, autistic adults, advocates, and professionals sharing their lived experiences and expertise about raising autistic teens, navigating neurodiversity, building belonging, and supporting autistic children into adulthood.And the best part?All presale proceeds from the book go toward autism initiatives supporting individuals and families who need advocacy, resources, and community.Meet the Authors of Daring to BelongThis anthology includes powerful stories from voices across the autism community:Susan Tatem – Founder of Bright Path for Autism, autism advocate, coach, and speaker helping families navigate the transition from adolescence to adulthood.Julia Lavia – Visibility strategist and community builder empowering women entrepreneurs to step into their voice and embrace belonging.Kathleen Souter – Mother of six and longtime special needs advocate whose story reflects persistence, unconditional love, and resilience.Lisa Jacovsky – Psychology professor, behavior specialist, and award-winning children’s author dedicated to supporting individuals on the autism spectrum.Anne-Marie Springer – Retired Navy nurse, entrepreneur, author, and autism advocate whose motherhood journey reshaped her life’s mission.Cheryl Pankhurst – Educator, autism advocate, and host of Parenting Teens Advice Redefined. Her chapter, They Would If They Could, explores shifting the mindset between parents and educators from judgment to understanding.Tasha (Contributor) – Shares a deeply personal story of motherhood, grief, growth, and resilience.Candice Fields – Tells the extraordinary story of navigating both cancer and autism in her family while leaning into community and courage.Sherry Dixon – Educational leadership expert and former principal challenging systems that fail neurodivergent students.Jean Ramsey – UK educator helping families and grandparents navigate neurodiversity with understanding and compassion.Trina Reid – A powerful story about family life when autism reshapes expectations and reveals new strength.Why This Book Matters for Parents of Autistic TeensIf you are raising a teen on the autism spectrum, you already know that autism is not a single experience.As the saying goes:“If you’ve met one person with autism, you’ve met one person with autism.”Autism is a spectrum, and each child’s path, strengths, challenges, and gifts are unique.This book reminds us that belonging doesn’t happen by accident. It is something we create together — as parents, educators, families, and communities.Supporting autistic teens requires collaboration between parents, teachers, psychologists, advocates, and extended families so that every child feels seen, supported, and valued.Support the Book & Autism AdvocacyWhen you order Daring to Belong, you are doing more than reading inspiring stories.You are helping fund autism initiatives that provide advocacy, support, and resources for families navigating autism.Consider purchasing copies for:• Parents raising autistic children• Teachers and educators• Grandparents and extended family• Professionals working with neurodivergent students• Anyone wanting to better understand autismSubscribe for the Autism SeriesOver the coming weeks on Parenting Teens Advice Redefined, you’ll hear powerful conversations about:• Parenting teens on the autism spectrum• Neurodivergent students and school support• Autism acceptance and advocacy• Transitioning autistic teens into adulthood• Supporting mental health for autistic youth• Family dynamics and autismSubscribe so you don’t miss these conversations.Connect With CherylWebsitewww.CherylPankhurst.comEmailsupport@cherylpankhurst.comBook a complimentary consultation call to explore how Cheryl can support your family navigating autism, neurodivergence, and school advocacy.Parenting Autistic Teens: Stories of Courage, Connection & Belonging | WTF Series

#ParentingTeens #TeenAI #AIParenting #FamilyThroughLinesIn this raw, honest conversation, host Cheryl Pankhurst sits down with Michael “Whit” Whitaker, author of Family Through Lines, to uncover:Why teens are secretly anxious about AI – homework help, friendship advice, and emotional support that feels like cheating.The three must‑have AI conversations every parent should have with their teen right now.Practical “waypoints” & the PAUSE protocol to help kids own their AI use, keep hard work, outsource with intent, and preserve human‑only spaces.How to replace guilt with clarity by building family “through‑lines” (core values that act like a compass).Key takeaway: You don’t need to be an AI expert—just start with curiosity, ask simple questions, and give your teen a safe, value‑driven framework to navigate AI. BioMike Whitaker ("Whit") is a father of two teenagers, author of Family Throughlines: Discover Your Timeless Compass for Parenting in an Uncharted World, and writer of the Substack newsletter Navigating AI Transitions with Whit. By day, he's a Senior Vice President at ICF, a global professional services firm, where he leads strategy and innovation initiatives. By night, he's a parent in the trenches trying to figure out how to guide his kids through a world being reshaped by AI. His work bridges professional strategy frameworks with the real conversations families need to have — about AI, social media, school safety, and growing up in a disrupted world. He lives in Boulder, Colorado with his wife Jen and their two kids.Important Links / How to find you *Book: https://www.familythroughlines.com (includes free Navigator's Guide download) Newsletter: https://mikewhitaker1.substack.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelwhitakericf/Connect with Cheryl!Let’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : support@cherylpankhurst.com Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

#ParentingTeens #NeurodivergentKids #IEPStudents #AutismParenting #ADHDParenting #HighSchoolTransitionThe transition from Grade 8 to Grade 9 is exciting for many families.But for parents of children with IEPs, learning differences, autism, ADHD, or anxiety, it can feel like stepping into the unknown.While other families are celebrating independence and new opportunities, many parents are quietly asking:“What if my child isn’t ready?” “What if they get lost?” “What if they shut down or refuse to go to school?”In this WTF Friday episode, Cheryl speaks directly to the parents who are lying awake at night worrying about the transition to high school.Drawing from decades of experience in education and special education, she shares practical strategies that dramatically reduce anxiety for both parents and kids before school even begins.You’ll learn how to proactively work with schools to create safety, familiarity, and support before day one.In this episode, Cheryl explains:• Why the transition to high school can trigger anxiety for neurodivergent kids • How to ensure your child has a “safe person” inside the school • Why multiple school visits and walkthroughs can change everything • How Educational Assistants can help students stay organized and supported • How weekly check-ins can build confidence and self-advocacy • Why preparing in the spring and summer makes the fall transition smoother • How parents can advocate for supports before problems startCheryl also shares one of the most powerful tools she implemented in schools — a “safe person system” that helps students feel supported from the moment they walk through the doors.If your child has an IEP, diagnosis, learning difference, or anxiety about high school, this episode will help you replace uncertainty with a clear plan.Because when kids feel safe, they can thrive.Connect with Cheryl!Let’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : support@cherylpankhurst.com Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

#TeenBrain, #Neuroscience, #7CFramework, #SocialMedia, #OverParenting,In this power‑packed conversation, host Cheryl sits down with Dr. Lisa Riegel—neuroscientist, educator, and author of NeuroWell and the 7C Framework. Together they unpack the science behind teenage behavior, demystify the “will‑or‑won’t” myth, and give parents practical, brain‑friendly tools to turn disengagement into engagement, anxiety into confidence, and “over‑parenting” into empowered autonomy.Connect with Lisahttps://www.linkedin.com/in/lisariegel/ www.epinstitute.net lisariegel.comConnect with Cheryl!Let’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : support@cherylpankhurst.com Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

#ParentingTeens #InnerWorkForParents #TheStormIsTheGift #MindsetShiftAfter a year‑long “unintentional hiatus,” I’m back on the WTF mic—raw, un‑edited, and straight from the heart. In this “Friday‑feel‑good” episode I dive deep into the storms we all get caught in, the temptation to manipulate our way out, and the powerful shift that happens when we let go and trust the redirection.I share a personal story about hunting for a home in Toronto—six condo rejections, endless paperwork, and finally a perfect‑vibe house that showed up when I stopped trying to prove myself. The lesson? Stepping out of your comfort zone is essential, but fighting the blocks that appear is what keeps you stuck.If you’re a parent of a teenager navigating the chaotic middle‑ground of adolescence—balancing expectations, “perfect” images on social media, and the inevitable storms—this episode is for you. Listen for practical mindset tools you can model for your teen and strategies to turn setbacks into growth‑fuel.Own Your Storm – Model accountability; let your teen see you taking responsibility for your own setbacks.Redefine Failure – Position “no” as a redirection, not a dead‑end.Authenticity Over Perfection – Share the messy middle; teens need realistic role models.Focus on Vibe & Relationships – Teach teens to look for people and environments that feel right, not just “look” right.Let Go of Over‑Proofing – Stop over‑documenting achievements for external validation; let intrinsic motivation guide them.📣 Call‑to‑ActionSubscribe to the WTF podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite platform—never miss a raw, un‑filtered episode.Share this episode with any parent (or teen) who feels stuck in a storm. Tag them and add the hashtags below!Connect with Cheryl!Let’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : support@cherylpankhurst.com Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

What do you say when your teen comes out as LGBTQ+?In this powerful conversation, Cheryl Pankhurst—special education specialist, teen advocate, and creator of Parenting Teens Advice Redefined Podcast—sits down with Stef Vachon, host of Together Moving Forward, to talk about what LGBTQ+ teens really need from parents.We talk about the words that create safety, how shame shows up in teenagers, signs your teen may be struggling with identity, and how parents can respond with calm, clarity, and connection—even if you don’t get it perfect.Stef shares his story of growing up in an unsafe environment, surviving bullying and homophobia, and learning how healing, therapy, and community helped him reclaim his life. Together we unpack what parents and educators can do right now to create a home where teens feel safe, seen, and valued.Because your teen isn’t asking for perfect language. They’re asking to feel chosen.This episode is for parents who are searching things like:• “How do I support my LGBTQ teen?” • “What do I say when my child comes out?” • “Signs my teen is questioning their identity” • “How to create a safe home for LGBTQ kids” • “How to help my teen with shame or anxiety”If you’re worried about saying the wrong thing… this conversation will guide you toward connection instead of fear.And remember what we always say here: It’s not about fixing your teen. It’s about doing the inner work so you can be the safe place they come home to.If you need help navigating school meetings, advocating for your teen, or rebuilding connection in your family, you can learn more about Cheryl’s consulting work at CherylPankhurst.com.Connect with Cheryl!The Good Divorce Show Episode https://open.spotify.com/episode/2hIILoayZV2oQu5zEzJdcP?si=wl8O0S9YSCCwkUSJQAYcrQLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : support@cherylpankhurst.com Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

#selfharm, #suicidalbehavior, #highriskbehaviors, #teenemotionalfireTeenagers who feel like they’re “on fire” with overwhelming emotions often turn to self‑harm, substance use, or compulsive scrolling as a quick way to douse the flames. In this powerful conversation, Katie K May shares the science behind fire‑feelers, the pitfalls of well‑meaning but invalidating parental reactions, and concrete steps you can take today to validate your teen without reinforcing destructive behavior.If you’re a parent who:Has noticed marks, cutting, or risky behavior in your teenFeels stuck in “crisis mode” and reacts with panic or angerIs unsure how to talk about self‑harm without “condoning” itWants practical tools for self‑regulation, validation, and rebuilding trust…this episode is your roadmap.Connect with Kaite:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/creativehealingphillyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/creative_healingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/katiekmayLinked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/katiekmayTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@teensupportcenterWebinar: 7 Truths for Stopping TeenSelf-Destructive Behaviorshttps://www.youreonfireitsfine.com/7truthsFree Chapter Download: You’re On Fire, It’s Finehttps://www.youreonfireitsfine.com/chapterConnect with Cheryl!Let’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : support@cherylpankhurst.com Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

#AutismParenting #TeenSupport #Neurodiversity #ParentingTeensIn this raw, honest conversation, Cheryl sits down with Sam Mitchell, and his Mom, to break down the biggest myths parents of autistic teens hold, share practical ways to nurture independence, and explore how to communicate without sounding controlling. Sam talks about his own journey—from a four‑year‑old diagnosis to building a thriving podcast—offering a roadmap for families navigating high school, social media, meltdowns, and the road to college or work.Whether you’re wondering how to support rather than “fix,” how to advocate for your teen in school, or simply need a fresh perspective on neurodiversity, this episode is packed with actionable insights you can start using today.👉 Ready to transform your parent‑teen relationship? Subscribe, download, and take the next step with Insight to Impact Coaching (link in show notes).

#NeurodiverseParenting #ASDTeen #ParentingTeens #FunctionalMedicine https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=auxjQWEGFCQ&list=PLbFucTSBmVzhaqaVIyIhDwRKYeiA2ZlEs&index=12www.DrSamShay.com In this raw, real‑talk episode we sit down with Dr. Sam Shay, DC, IFMCP—functional‑medicine clinician, neurodiversity advocate, and stand‑up comic behind the YouTube‑free comedy special “Neuro Spicy: Love, Life & Comedy on the Spectrum.”Dr. Sam shares the hard‑won lessons from growing up with undiagnosed autism, navigating parents who spoke a different neurological language, and how humor became his “edutainment” tool. We dive deep into:What life really looks like for a high‑schooler on the autism spectrum (sound‑sensitivity, literalism, “kryptonite” moments).Why modeling healthy habits—sleep, diet, stress‑management, and even genetics‑based blueprints—is the fastest way to help your teen thrive.The single most powerful emotional cue for neuro‑diverse kids: Caring (and how it differs from “kindness”).Practical, low‑budget actions parents can start today to rebuild trust, stop the “hypocrite” trap, and create a family “shared reality.”A surprising recommendation: Brazilian Jiu‑Jitsu as a sensory‑regulating, confidence‑building activity for teens.If you’re a parent of a teen (neuro‑typical or neuro‑diverse) who feels overwhelmed, confused, or stuck, this episode gives you a roadmap to move from surviving to thriving—both for your child and for yourself.Connect with Cheryl!The Good Divorce Show Episode https://open.spotify.com/episode/2hIILoayZV2oQu5zEzJdcP?si=wl8O0S9YSCCwkUSJQAYcrQLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : support@cherylpankhurst.com Website cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/ https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

#NeurodiverseParenting #ASDTeen #ParentingTeens #FunctionalMedicine https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=auxjQWEGFCQ&list=PLbFucTSBmVzhaqaVIyIhDwRKYeiA2ZlEs&index=12www.DrSamShay.com In this raw, real‑talk episode we sit down with Dr. Sam Shay, DC, IFMCP—functional‑medicine clinician, neurodiversity advocate, and stand‑up comic behind the YouTube‑free comedy special “Neuro Spicy: Love, Life & Comedy on the Spectrum.”Dr. Sam shares the hard‑won lessons from growing up with undiagnosed autism, navigating parents who spoke a different neurological language, and how humor became his “edutainment” tool. We dive deep into:What life really looks like for a high‑schooler on the autism spectrum (sound‑sensitivity, literalism, “kryptonite” moments).Why modeling healthy habits—sleep, diet, stress‑management, and even genetics‑based blueprints—is the fastest way to help your teen thrive.The single most powerful emotional cue for neuro‑diverse kids: Caring (and how it differs from “kindness”).Practical, low‑budget actions parents can start today to rebuild trust, stop the “hypocrite” trap, and create a family “shared reality.”A surprising recommendation: Brazilian Jiu‑Jitsu as a sensory‑regulating, confidence‑building activity for teens.If you’re a parent of a teen (neuro‑typical or neuro‑diverse) who feels overwhelmed, confused, or stuck, this episode gives you a roadmap to move from surviving to thriving—both for your child and for yourself.Connect with Cheryl!The Good Divorce Show Episode https://open.spotify.com/episode/2hIILoayZV2oQu5zEzJdcP?si=wl8O0S9YSCCwkUSJQAYcrQLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : support@cherylpankhurst.com Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

#NeurodivergentTeens#HighSchoolTransition#Grade8To9#IEPSupport#ParentingTeensAre you a parent of a neuro‑divergent teen gearing up for the big leap from Grade 8 to high school? In this power‑packed episode of Parenting Teens: Advice Redefined, host Cheryl Pankhurst walks you through every step of the legally required Grade 8 transition meeting and shows you how to turn it into a confidence‑building, advocacy‑boosting experience for your child.You’ll learn how to:Decode and own the Individual Education Plan (IEP) together with your teen.Choose, test, and fine‑tune accommodations that actually work.Make the transition meeting a collaborative, stigma‑free conversation.Build a proactive communication system with high‑school teachers before the school year starts.Schedule multiple school tours, map out the daily timetable, and identify safe‑spaces and go‑to people.Explore extracurriculars early so your teen can find belonging from day 1.Handle bumps along the way with problem‑solving mind‑sets that keep the whole team in sync.Whether you’re feeling nervous, overwhelmed, or just looking for a clear roadmap, this episode gives you the tools, scripts, and confidence to set your teen up for a successful high‑school journey.👉 Ready for personalized support? Book a no‑pressure, no‑pitch free call with Cheryl (details in the show notes) and discover how Insight to Impact can help you transform stress into empowerment in just 90 days.Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with other parents who need a roadmap to high‑school success!Connect with Cheryl!The Good Divorce Show Episode https://open.spotify.com/episode/2hIILoayZV2oQu5zEzJdcP?si=wl8O0S9YSCCwkUSJQAYcrQLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : support@cherylpankhurst.com Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

So many parents are quietly asking themselves the same question: “Am I doing this right?”In this powerful episode, I’m joined by Chantal Dempsey to talk about something that rarely gets addressed directly — confidence in you as a parent, and how deeply that confidence shapes your teen.Because here’s the truth: You cannot build confidence in your teen if you don’t trust yourself first.We explore why teen confidence isn’t built through praise, pressure, or “fixing,” but through felt safety, consistency, and a parent who is grounded in their own values. Chantal shares practical insight into how parental self-doubt, people-pleasing, and fear of getting it wrong can unintentionally erode connection — and what to do instead.In this conversation, we discuss:Why so many capable parents feel unsure and second-guess themselvesThe link between parent confidence and teen self-trustHow teens actually develop confidence (and what doesn’t work)What to do when your teen appears insecure, withdrawn, or overly dependent on external validationHow to model confidence without perfection or controlThis episode is especially important if you’re parenting a teen who is struggling with identity, anxiety, or self-esteem — or if you feel like you’ve lost your footing along the way.Teen confidence starts at home. And it starts with you believing in yourself again.🎧 Listen in for a grounded, compassionate conversation that will help you come back to yourself — and show up as the parent your teen truly needs.Chantal Dempsey is an Award-Winning Mindset and Confidence Coach, NLP Expert and Master Hypnotherapist, known for her transformative impact in the field of confidence and personal development. She is passionately dedicated to empowering both men and women to overcome their challenges and unlock their highest levels of confidence.Important Links / How to find Chantalhttps://www.skool.com/getconfident/aboutConnect with Cheryl!The Good Divorce Show Episode https://open.spotify.com/episode/2hIILoayZV2oQu5zEzJdcP?si=wl8O0S9YSCCwkUSJQAYcrQLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : support@cherylpankhurst.com Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

#HighSchoolSemester #ParentTeacherConferences #StudentVoice #IEPAccommodations #SpecialEducation #Advocacy The new semester is just around the corner, and it’s the perfect moment to reset, refocus, and give your teen a genuine voice in their education. In this episode Cheryl breaks down:Why “it’s not them, it’s you” matters and how shifting the focus to your own triggers unlocks real change.How to turn the inevitable parent‑teacher meetings from a “he‑said/she‑said” nightmare into a collaborative, “speed‑dating” experience where your teen is 10 % of the conversation.Practical steps to co‑create a partnership with teachers, set up weekly check‑ins, and keep the IEP (or any accommodation plan) front‑and‑center from day 1.The delicate balance between guidance and helicopter parenting—and how to hand the reins back without sacrificing support.Real‑world tools for parents who feel stuck: when a new diagnosis lands on the table, how to find an advocate, decode assessment reports, and move from overwhelm to action.Whether you’re a single parent juggling work, a busy family, or simply looking for a fresh strategy to empower your teen, this episode gives you a step‑by‑step roadmap to start Semester 2 on the right foot—together.Connect with Cheryl!The Good Divorce Show Episode https://open.spotify.com/episode/2hIILoayZV2oQu5zEzJdcP?si=wl8O0S9YSCCwkUSJQAYcrQLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : support@cherylpankhurst.com Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

#NeurodiversityEducation #ADHDLearning #StudentEngagement 1. Introduction & Podcast PurposeParenting Teens Advice Redefined – raw, real‑talk formatGoal: help parents raise “amazing human beings,” not just “kids”Guest introduction: Richard Comeau, founder of Above the Maze2. The Problem with the “Mindset / Grit” NarrativeOver‑emphasis on willpower, grit, and routine fixesHow this approach damages motivation and emotional energyKids internalise “I’m lazy / I can’t learn” instead of seeing systemic issues3. Understanding Diagnoses & AssessmentsLabels vs. lived experience (psychology jargon, psycho‑educational reports)What assessments actually reveal: visual discrimination, information overload, executive‑function gapsImportance of starting with observable behaviours (shutting down, cluttered pages)4. Core Learning Barriers in Traditional EducationVisual clutter & information density – “too much on the page”Lack of guided eye‑movement and clear focal points“Pace dump” lecture slides that leave no meaning‑making traceabilityThe inference burden placed on students to decode professor’s mental model5. Why Common Accommodations Often Miss the Mark17,000‑plus accommodations list – surface fixes, not state changesAccommodations don’t create a feeling of “I can do this”They force students to re‑organise incoherent info without providing context6. Sequential Disengagement & the “Threat vs. Play” SpaceDefinition of Sequential Disengagement – repeated barriers leading to avoidanceThe Threat Space: confusion → shame → “I can’t learn”The Play Space (Magic Circle): safe to fail, immediate feedback, intrinsic motivation7. The Need for Meaningful Context & Sense‑MakingBrain needs active sense‑making in a short time windowProviding real‑world context creates “shelves” for new info in memoryPartial understanding + rapid feedback = stronger retention8. Redesigning a Sample Lecture (Accounting Example)Original slide: dry objectives (“Explain how to account for current liabilities”)Problems: no relevance, heavy jargon, no connective narrativeRevised approach:Break down to the two pillars – debt vs. equityUse a single guiding question for every transaction– Turn abstract concepts into a story/real‑world scenario (hardware store purchase)Outcome: clarity, immediate relevance, actionable mental model9. Teaching Strategies & the “Three Core Questions”What do I need to know / be able to do?How do I know that I know it? (self‑check, evidence of mastery)What is the best way for this information to enter my brain? (mode of delivery)Aligns learning tasks with assessment of understanding, not rote recall10. Leveraging AI as an “Externalizer”AI externalises context that learners can’t generate themselvesGenerates simulations, podcasts, primers tailored to the student’s struggleTurns inaccessible material into play‑space affordances (feedback loops, instant results)11. Game‑Based / Serious‑Game LearningVideo‑game principles: immediate, intrinsic feedback; safe to failSimulated environments (e.g., “accounting office at Riverton Metalworks”)Engages the ADHD/ neurodivergent brain by activating interest & motivation12. The “Engagement Triangle” – Sustaining MotivationWay‑in: a meaningful entry point (clear “why”)Reason‑to‑stay: ongoing relevance, feedback, sense of progressWay‑back‑on‑track: tools/strategies to recover when engagement slips13. Richard's Coaching ProcessFour phases (2–3 sessions each) – rapid, dependency‑freePhase 1: intake, diagnosis of barriers, selection of a single coursePhase 2: building a learning workflow/engine for that coursePhase 3: testing, tweaking, handing over control to the studentPhase 4: scaling the system across other subjects14. Resources & Call‑to‑ActionWebsite: abovethemaze.ca – book an appointment, learn moreShow notes will contain links, contact info, and supplemental material15. Closing Remarks (Host – Cheryl)Introduction to Insight to Impact Coaching & ConsultingEmphasis on parent transformation as the foundation for teen successInvitation to a no‑pressure discovery call (90‑day life‑change promise)Richard Comeau is an educational systems designer and learning strategist who works with teens and university students who are capable but chronically overwhelmed, disengaged, or shut down by school. His work focuses on rebuilding a student’s trust in their own thinking by removing cognitive overload, clarifying what they are actually supposed to be doing, and creating learning environments where understanding becomes possible again. Rather than tutoring content, Richard designs personalized learning systems that help students move from confusion and avoidance to confidence, agency, and sustained engagement.Website: https://abovethemaze.ca Email: richard@abovethemaze.ca https://www.linkedin.com/in/richard-comeau-above-the-maze-809898388/Connect with Cheryl!The Good Divorce Show Episode https://open.spotify.com/episode/2hIILoayZV2oQu5zEzJdcP?si=wl8O0S9YSCCwkUSJQAYcrQLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : support@cherylpankhurst.com Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. 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#ParentSupport #AutismAwarenessDo you ever label your teen’s outburst as “attention‑seeking,” “manipulative,” or “just drama”? In this hard‑hitting, no‑fluff episode, Cheryl Pankhurst shatters those myths once and for all. Drawing on decades of front‑line special‑ed experience and a powerful, real‑life story from a teen she coached from grade 9 through senior year, Cheryl proves that behaviour is communication—not a choice.🔹 Why teens—especially neuro‑divergent teens—can’t “just calm down.”🔹 The life‑changing distinction between “can’t regulate” vs. “won’t regulate.”🔹 A 1‑5 safety rating system that gives teens a voice before a crisis hits.🔹 Practical steps to replace judgment with empathy at home, school, and in public.If you’re a parent, grandparent, teacher, or any adult who watches a teen fight to be understood, this episode will flip your perspective and arm you with concrete tools to respond with compassion instead of condemnation.“It feels like a wall of flames right in front of my face.” – The moment that re‑defined Cheryl’s entire approach to teen behaviour.

 #ParentingTeens #CoParenting #DivorceSupport #TeenParenting #FamilyDynamics #ParentingAdvice #Teenagers #ParentingTips #CherylPankurst #InsightToImpact In this solo episode of "Parenting Teens Advice Redefined," host Cheryl Pankurst delves into a deeply personal and crucial topic: navigating divorce and co-parenting in today's complex world. Drawing from her own experiences and her work with families, Cheryl shares invaluable insights and practical tips to help parents manage the emotional and logistical challenges of divorce while prioritizing their children's well-being. From understanding the stages of grief to maintaining consistent rules across households, Cheryl offers guidance to create a supportive and harmonious environment for your teens. Whether you're in the midst of a divorce or looking to strengthen your co-parenting relationship, this episode is packed with actionable advice to help you and your family thrive.

#CoParenting #HolidayStress #DivorcedFamilies #BlendedFamilyChristmas The holidays should be a time of joy, but for families navigating a split or divorce, Christmas (and New Year’s) can feel like a juggling act of logistics, emotions, and “double‑gift” pressure. In this solo‑run “Friday Riff,” Cheryl dives deep into the teenage mindset during co‑parented holidays, shares real‑world conversation starters, and gives you a roadmap for creating smoother, stress‑free celebrations—all without making your kids feel like they have to be your therapist. “Put on their lens.” Cheryl reminds us that a teenager’s view of “two Christmases” isn’t automatically a blessing—it can be confusing, lonely, or even painful. She shows how to turn empathy into actionable, kid‑centered planning that honors both parents while keeping the teen’s emotional safety front‑and‑center. 🔑 Who should listen? Parents of teens (10‑25 y/o) who are navigating co‑parenting during the holidays—or any special family occasion—and want practical, compassionate strategies that actually resonate with their children.