#NeurodiversityEducation #ADHDLearning #StudentEngagement 1. Introduction & Podcast PurposeParenting Teens Advice Redefined – raw, real‑talk formatGoal: help parents raise “amazing human beings,” not just “kids”Guest introduction: Richard Comeau, founder of Above the Maze2. The Problem with the “Mindset / Grit” NarrativeOver‑emphasis on willpower, grit, and routine fixesHow this approach damages motivation and emotional energyKids internalise “I’m lazy / I can’t learn” instead of seeing systemic issues3. Understanding Diagnoses & AssessmentsLabels vs. lived experience (psychology jargon, psycho‑educational reports)What assessments actually reveal: visual discrimination, information overload, executive‑function gapsImportance of starting with observable behaviours (shutting down, cluttered pages)4. Core Learning Barriers in Traditional EducationVisual clutter & information density – “too much on the page”Lack of guided eye‑movement and clear focal points“Pace dump” lecture slides that leave no meaning‑making traceabilityThe inference burden placed on students to decode professor’s mental model5. Why Common Accommodations Often Miss the Mark17,000‑plus accommodations list – surface fixes, not state changesAccommodations don’t create a feeling of “I can do this”They force students to re‑organise incoherent info without providing context6. Sequential Disengagement & the “Threat vs. Play” SpaceDefinition of Sequential Disengagement – repeated barriers leading to avoidanceThe Threat Space: confusion → shame → “I can’t learn”The Play Space (Magic Circle): safe to fail, immediate feedback, intrinsic motivation7. The Need for Meaningful Context & Sense‑MakingBrain needs active sense‑making in a short time windowProviding real‑world context creates “shelves” for new info in memoryPartial understanding + rapid feedback = stronger retention8. Redesigning a Sample Lecture (Accounting Example)Original slide: dry objectives (“Explain how to account for current liabilities”)Problems: no relevance, heavy jargon, no connective narrativeRevised approach:Break down to the two pillars – debt vs. equityUse a single guiding question for every transaction– Turn abstract concepts into a story/real‑world scenario (hardware store purchase)Outcome: clarity, immediate relevance, actionable mental model9. Teaching Strategies & the “Three Core Questions”What do I need to know / be able to do?How do I know that I know it? (self‑check, evidence of mastery)What is the best way for this information to enter my brain? (mode of delivery)Aligns learning tasks with assessment of understanding, not rote recall10. Leveraging AI as an “Externalizer”AI externalises context that learners can’t generate themselvesGenerates simulations, podcasts, primers tailored to the student’s struggleTurns inaccessible material into play‑space affordances (feedback loops, instant results)11. Game‑Based / Serious‑Game LearningVideo‑game principles: immediate, intrinsic feedback; safe to failSimulated environments (e.g., “accounting office at Riverton Metalworks”)Engages the ADHD/ neurodivergent brain by activating interest & motivation12. The “Engagement Triangle” – Sustaining MotivationWay‑in: a meaningful entry point (clear “why”)Reason‑to‑stay: ongoing relevance, feedback, sense of progressWay‑back‑on‑track: tools/strategies to recover when engagement slips13. Richard's Coaching ProcessFour phases (2–3 sessions each) – rapid, dependency‑freePhase 1: intake, diagnosis of barriers, selection of a single coursePhase 2: building a learning workflow/engine for that coursePhase 3: testing, tweaking, handing over control to the studentPhase 4: scaling the system across other subjects14. Resources & Call‑to‑ActionWebsite: abovethemaze.ca – book an appointment, learn moreShow notes will contain links, contact info, and supplemental material15. Closing Remarks (Host – Cheryl)Introduction to Insight to Impact Coaching & ConsultingEmphasis on parent transformation as the foundation for teen successInvitation to a no‑pressure discovery call (90‑day life‑change promise)Richard Comeau is an educational systems designer and learning strategist who works with teens and university students who are capable but chronically overwhelmed, disengaged, or shut down by school. His work focuses on rebuilding a student’s trust in their own thinking by removing cognitive overload, clarifying what they are actually supposed to be doing, and creating learning environments where understanding becomes possible again. Rather than tutoring content, Richard designs personalized learning systems that help students move from confusion and avoidance to confidence, agency, and sustained engagement.Website: https://abovethemaze.ca Email: richard@abovethemaze.ca https://www.linkedin.com/in/richard-comeau-above-the-maze-809898388/Connect with Cheryl!The Good Divorce Show Episode https://open.spotify.com/episode/2hIILoayZV2oQu5zEzJdcP?si=wl8O0S9YSCCwkUSJQAYcrQLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : support@cherylpankhurst.com Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. 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#ParentSupport #AutismAwarenessDo you ever label your teen’s outburst as “attention‑seeking,” “manipulative,” or “just drama”? In this hard‑hitting, no‑fluff episode, Cheryl Pankhurst shatters those myths once and for all. Drawing on decades of front‑line special‑ed experience and a powerful, real‑life story from a teen she coached from grade 9 through senior year, Cheryl proves that behaviour is communication—not a choice.🔹 Why teens—especially neuro‑divergent teens—can’t “just calm down.”🔹 The life‑changing distinction between “can’t regulate” vs. “won’t regulate.”🔹 A 1‑5 safety rating system that gives teens a voice before a crisis hits.🔹 Practical steps to replace judgment with empathy at home, school, and in public.If you’re a parent, grandparent, teacher, or any adult who watches a teen fight to be understood, this episode will flip your perspective and arm you with concrete tools to respond with compassion instead of condemnation.“It feels like a wall of flames right in front of my face.” – The moment that re‑defined Cheryl’s entire approach to teen behaviour.

 #ParentingTeens #CoParenting #DivorceSupport #TeenParenting #FamilyDynamics #ParentingAdvice #Teenagers #ParentingTips #CherylPankurst #InsightToImpact In this solo episode of "Parenting Teens Advice Redefined," host Cheryl Pankurst delves into a deeply personal and crucial topic: navigating divorce and co-parenting in today's complex world. Drawing from her own experiences and her work with families, Cheryl shares invaluable insights and practical tips to help parents manage the emotional and logistical challenges of divorce while prioritizing their children's well-being. From understanding the stages of grief to maintaining consistent rules across households, Cheryl offers guidance to create a supportive and harmonious environment for your teens. Whether you're in the midst of a divorce or looking to strengthen your co-parenting relationship, this episode is packed with actionable advice to help you and your family thrive.

#CoParenting #HolidayStress #DivorcedFamilies #BlendedFamilyChristmas The holidays should be a time of joy, but for families navigating a split or divorce, Christmas (and New Year’s) can feel like a juggling act of logistics, emotions, and “double‑gift” pressure. In this solo‑run “Friday Riff,” Cheryl dives deep into the teenage mindset during co‑parented holidays, shares real‑world conversation starters, and gives you a roadmap for creating smoother, stress‑free celebrations—all without making your kids feel like they have to be your therapist. “Put on their lens.” Cheryl reminds us that a teenager’s view of “two Christmases” isn’t automatically a blessing—it can be confusing, lonely, or even painful. She shows how to turn empathy into actionable, kid‑centered planning that honors both parents while keeping the teen’s emotional safety front‑and‑center. 🔑 Who should listen? Parents of teens (10‑25 y/o) who are navigating co‑parenting during the holidays—or any special family occasion—and want practical, compassionate strategies that actually resonate with their children.

#DigitalParenting, #AquaOnePhone, #ParentalControl, #SextortionPrevention, #TransparencyTech, #RealTimeMonitoring, #TeenSafety, #CyberDive, #OnlinePrivacyMyth, #InclusiveTech In this power‑packed episode, host Cheryl sits down with Jeff and Derek, the co‑founders of Cyber Dive, to reveal a groundbreaking solution that flips the script on teen‑phone parenting. Instead of the old “ban‑or‑monitor” approach, their AquaOne smartphone gives families real‑time transparency while preserving trust—no surveillance, shame, or secret‑keeping. We unpack: The historic “fear cycle” that has followed every new teen obsession—from penny dreadfuls to TikTok. How AquaOne’s “Instant Replay” and sextortion‑blocking AI stop the most dangerous threats before they happen. Real‑world stories of parents catching risky chats on Roblox, having productive conversations, and even discovering hidden passions (ballet, football, Egypt‑obsession). Why privacy is an illusion and how embracing transparency actually strengthens family bonds. Practical tips for when and how to give your teen a phone—from age‑3 experiments to the teen years—plus guidance for neuro‑divergent families. If you’re a parent of a teenager who’s tired of “secret‑keeping,” “over‑monitoring,” and the endless “what‑if” nightmare, this episode gives you a clear, actionable path forward—plus a 30‑day risk‑free trial of the AquaOne phone. Listen now and discover how you can replace fear with confidence, secrecy with open dialogue, and “what‑ifs” with real solutions. Core Features & How They Solve Specific Problems Feature What It Does Problem(s) Addressed 24/7 Screen Visibility Parents see every app, message, video, even encrypted content in real‑time Eliminates secrecy; gives parents “always‑on” insight Instant Replay Full history of every screen interaction stored for later review Allows evidence‑backed conversations; prevents “he‑says‑she‑says” Real‑Time Sextortion Prevention AI monitors front/back camera attempts to capture nudity; blocks photo, locks phone, alerts parent Stops sextortion before it happens; protects children from ransomware‑style blackmail AI‑Based Content Detection Detects explicit/graphic content, risky chats, etc., even in disappearing messages Reduces exposure to pornography, violent or exploitative material Parent Dashboard Unified view of all child devices, alerts, trends, usage stats Gives parents actionable data without needing to guess No‑Surveillance‑Shame Model Data shared with parents, not used for punitive monitoring Avoids shame, encourages open dialogue Universal Compatibility Works with any app (TikTok, Snapchat, WhatsApp, etc.) – even encrypted or “disappearing” messages Prevents kids from bypassing controls through alternative apps

#ParentingTeens, #FinancialCoaching, #MoneyScripts,  #CustodialAccounts, #StockMarketInvesting, #FinancialLiteracy In this power‑packed episode, Cheryl sits down with financial‑coach‑author Scott Yamamura to demystify money for parents of teens. From the Rule of 72 to the “Day of Reckoning” that hits many families in mid‑life, Scott breaks down three bite‑size “financial epiphanies” that turn overwhelm into confidence. Whether you’re living paycheck‑to‑paycheck, just starting to think about college funds, or worried about caring for aging parents, you’ll walk away with clear, actionable rules of thumb you can start teaching your teen today—no PhD required.

#ParentingTeens #IEPAdvocate #TeenSuccess #ExecutiveFunction #NeurodivergentSupport #SchoolCommunication #FridayFix #Podcast You just opened that dreaded end‑of‑semester email: 15 missing assignments, three failed tests, a 30 % grade, and every accommodation your teen needs left untouched because “I’m fine.” In this power‑packed episode Cheryl breaks down why this chaos happens, how to stop the panic, and what concrete steps you can take right now to partner with your teen, re‑activate accommodations, and rebuild communication with the school. Whether you’re juggling a career, caring for younger siblings, or managing a neuro‑divergent teen who masks at school, Cheryl’s 20‑year experience on both sides of the fence gives you a clear roadmap to turn overwhelm into empowerment. 🔹 Who should listen: Parents of teenagers (especially neuro‑divergent, highly‑sensitive, or “masking” kids) who feel stuck after a shocking school report. 🔹 What you’ll get: A step‑by‑step plan, real‑world language for talking with teachers, and a free 30‑minute clarity call to diagnose your family’s breakdown and map the next move.

#ParentingTeens #NeurodivergentTeen #CollegeTransition #ExecutiveFunction #UniversalDesign #SelfAdvocacy Discover how to empower neuro‑divergent teens and set them up for success as they transition from high school to college. In this candid conversation, host Cheryl talks with Dr. Tara Williams—tenured chemistry professor, founder of Innovative Collegiate Consultants, and neurodivergent‑teen advocate. Tara shares her personal journey, reveals why adaptability, choice, and self‑advocacy are the hidden super‑powers every teen needs, and offers practical tools for parents: giving daily decisions, shifting “wants” to “needs,” using campus accessibility offices, and applying universal design at home. Learn the one habit parents should stop (doing their teen’s communication) and how tiny routines—like an alarm clock and body‑doubling study sessions—can create massive stability. Ready to support your teen’s independence? 

#Aging #Gratitude #Reframing #SoloCelebration #Minimalism #parentingteensadvice #podcast Cheryl celebrates her 61st birthday by sharing the mindset tools that have turned this milestone into a launchpad for more joy, energy, and purpose. In this candid conversation she explores: Re‑framing frustration – turning every irritation into a lesson you can act on. The “Burn‑It‑Down” mindset – clearing out what no longer serves you while keeping the valuable remnants that fuel growth. Loving solo time – why eating alone, watching a movie by yourself, or sipping an old‑fashioned can be powerful acts of self‑care. Minimalist joy – shedding the “stuff that made me me” that never actually defined you, and discovering the freedom of a simpler, intentional life. Gratitude as a super‑power – using the question “What’s the alternative?” to pivot from fear to possibility. If you’re looking for fresh language, practical mindset shifts, and confidence‑boosting rituals to live your best life at any age, this episode is your roadmap.

#privacy, #onlineSafety, #teenPrivacy, #digitalFootprint, #parentingTeens In this power‑packed interview, host Cheryl sits down with Chris Parker—creator of whatsmyipaddress.com, host of the Easy Prey podcast, and author of Privacy Crisis: How to Maintain Your Privacy Without Becoming a Hermit—to uncover the hidden privacy threats that teens (especially neuro‑divergent teens) face every day. From the “perfect” Instagram photo that fuels impossible comparison, to manipulative micro‑ads that hijack emotions, to the silent danger of identity theft via a child’s credit report, Chris shares real‑world, actionable tactics every parent can start using tonight.

#StartingOver #Wisdom #LifeExperience #PersonalGrowth #HabitChange #parentingteens You are not starting from zero—you’re starting from wisdom, experience, and the love that’s carried you this far. In this raw, unfiltered Friday episode Cheryl shares how parents of teens can reset, re‑frame, and reinvent every part of their lives—from boundaries and communication to self‑care and spirituality—no matter their age. Whether you’re in your 50s, 60s, or beyond, discover the “one‑minute rule,” the power of a true apology, and why it’s never too late to model the change you want your teen to see. “Your teen watches how you talk to yourself. Your teen watches how you talk about your body. They learn not from what you say, but from what you model.”

#ParentingTeens, #EducationReform, #YouthMentalHealth, #ComplianceVsAdvocacy In this power‑packed episode of Parenting Teens, Advice Redefined, host Cheryl Pankhurst sits down with Nevin Harper and Will Dobud, co‑authors of the groundbreaking book Kids These Days. Together they peel back the layers of a schooling system that was built for a world that no longer exists and explore why today’s teens are disengaged, anxious, and why the “one‑size‑fits‑all” approach isn’t working. Key takeaway: Disruption doesn’t have to be loud or political—it can start with one honest conversation, one DIY move, and one teen‑centric principle. If you’re a parent of a teenager who feels stuck in the school‑system, overwhelmed by the “compliance vs. confidence” debate, or just wants a fresh, evidence‑based way to connect with your teen, this episode is your roadmap.

#Parenting #NeurodivergentTeens #BehavioruIsCommunication #ParentingTeens  Do you ever catch yourself labeling your teen’s “meltdown” as “attention‑seeking,” “manipulative,” or “just being dramatic”? In this raw, no‑fluff episode Cheryl flips those myths on their head. Drawing on decades of front‑line experience and a powerful story from a teen she supported from grade 9‑12, she proves that behaviour is communication—not a choice. 🔹 Why teens—especially neuro‑divergent ones—might “lose it.” 🔹 The life‑changing difference between “can’t regulate” vs. “won’t regulate.” 🔹 A practical 1‑5 rating system that gives teens a voice before a crisis hits. 🔹 How to replace judgment with empathy in classrooms, homes, and even the grocery aisle. If you’re a parent, grandparent, teacher, or anyone who watches a teen struggle to be understood, this episode will shift your perspective and give you concrete tools to respond with compassion instead of criticism. “It feels like a wall of flames right in front of my face.” – The moment that re‑defined Sheryl’s entire approach to teen behaviour.

#SelfAdvocacy, #Advocacy, #PersonalBoundaries, #TruthTelling In this raw, unfiltered episode of Parenting Teens – Advice Redefined for Today’s World, host Cheryl Pankhurst pulls back the curtain on the part of us that most of us keep hidden: advocating for ourselves. We hear the endless stream of “perfect” lives on social media, but the messy, un‑filtered truth is rarely shown. Cheryl shares her own breakthrough moment—how she moved from endless people‑pleasing to standing up for herself with calm, clear‑cut honesty. Listeners will learn: Why self‑advocacy isn’t aggression, it’s clarity and courage. Simple, low‑volume ways to set boundaries with teens, partners, and coworkers. How to recognize the “calm‑as‑compass” feeling that tells you you’ve done the right thing. A quick “Storm‑Check” exercise you can model for your teen right now. If you’re a parent of a teenager who feels stuck in the “peace‑keeper” role, this episode gives you the language and confidence to model healthy boundaries for your family.

Key Takeaways: Understanding Birth Trauma: Sharon King specializes in helping individuals heal from pre and perinatal birth trauma, offering insights into its impact on both mother and baby. The Power of Energy Psychology: Through techniques like EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) and tapping, Sharon helps individuals regulate emotions and release trauma stored in the body. Rewriting Birth Stories: Sharon explains how she guides individuals, like Caroline, through the process of revisiting and transforming past birth experiences, allowing them to rewrite their stories and heal emotional wounds. Connecting with Younger Selves: By tapping into their younger selves' experiences, individuals can uncover deep-seated traumas and address them, fostering healing and emotional growth. Addressing Ancestral Trauma: Sharon discusses how trauma can extend beyond individual experiences, reaching into ancestral histories, and how techniques like tapping can help clear these inherited patterns. The Impact of Separation: Sharon highlights the emotional impact of separation during birth experiences, drawing from Caroline's personal story of being separated from her mother due to jaundice, and how this separation trauma can affect individuals later in life. Natural Birth Triumphs: Sharon King shares empowering stories of women who experienced natural childbirth, demonstrating the incredible capacity of the human body and mind to navigate the birthing process without excessive medical intervention. Healing Trauma: Through techniques like Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) tapping and revisiting birth experiences, individuals can address and heal deep-seated traumas that may have originated from prenatal or birth experiences, even if those memories are not consciously accessible. Parenting Insights: Parents can gain valuable insights into their children's behaviors and struggles by examining their own birth experiences and addressing any unresolved issues. Understanding the impact of early experiences can help parents create stronger bonds with their children and navigate challenging adolescent years more effectively. Bonding and Relationships: The first moments after birth and during adolescence are crucial bonding periods. Strong emotional connections established during these times can influence relationships and choices later in life. Parents play a vital role in nurturing these bonds and providing a safe haven for their children as they navigate through various life stages. Apex Effect: The transformative power of addressing past traumas is highlighted through the "Apex Effect," where individuals often forget they ever had a particular problem after successfully resolving it through therapy or healing techniques. Resources for Healing: Sharon King provides resources through her website, magicalnewbeginnings.com, where individuals can access information, contact her directly, and explore opportunities for healing and personal growth. Continued Learning: Sharon King's journey includes plans for podcasting, demonstrating her commitment to ongoing learning, sharing knowledge, and supporting individuals on their healing journeys. Podcasts can serve as valuable platforms for reaching a wider audience and fostering community engagement. #TraumaHealing #BirthExperiences #EnergyPsychology #EFT #TappingTechnique #EmotionalWellness #PreandPerinatalTrauma #AncestralHealing #HolisticHealing #ConsciousConception #PregnancyJourney #ParentingInsights #TeenMindset #TeenParenting #SelfHealingJourney     Websites: www.magicalnewbeginnings.com & www.healyourbirthbook.com   Email: sharon@magicalnewbeginnings.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/magicalnewbeginnings YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@sharonking5861 https://www.facebook.com/sharon.king.796          

#schoolpulse # Teenmentalhealth #Iurimelo #suicideprevention Navigating Teen Mental Health: A Conversation with Iuri Melo  In this powerful episode of "Parenting Teens: Advice Redefined for Today's Complex World," host Cheryl Pankhurst welcomes back Iuri Melo, a licensed clinical social worker and co-founder of School Pulse. Together, they delve into the critical topic of teen suicide prevention and self-harm, offering insights and strategies for parents navigating these challenging waters. Iuri shares his expertise on creating safe spaces for teens, recognizing warning signs, and the importance of open communication. This episode is a beacon of hope, emphasizing the power of connection and understanding in supporting our youth.

www.cherylpankhurst.com #autism #autismteens #highschooltransition In this power‑packed conversation, host Cheryl sits down with Susan Tatem, CEO of Bright Path for Autism, best‑selling author, TV host, and autism advocate. Susan shares her hard‑won wisdom on the most daunting transition of all—high school graduation → adulthood for teens on the spectrum. Together they unpack: Why the “abyss” exists – the hidden developmental, social, and systemic hurdles that hit at age 17. Three must‑do actions for parents of 8th‑grade kids – a simple roadmap to start planning now. Real‑world strategies to build social connections, functional life‑skills, and employment pathways. The “Swiss‑cheese” model – customizing support plans that fit each child’s unique holes. How to locate & lock‑in scarce resources (special‑needs housing vouchers, community programs, volunteer hubs). Power of parent networking – why your next conversation could change your child’s future. Whether you’re a single parent, a caregiver, or a support‑worker, this episode gives you actionable steps you can put into motion today.

#ParentingTeens #Ayurveda #Breathwork #MindfulParenting #SelfCare #StressRelief  Feeling stretched thin, stuck in “fight‑or‑flight,” and wondering how to model calm for your teen? In this episode Cheryl sits down with Brett Aldrich to demystify Ayurveda and breathwork—simple, science‑backed tools that help parents regulate, restore, and align their nervous system. Brett shares: How a daughter’s severe allergies sparked his journey into Ayurveda. The five elements (fire, earth, water, air, ether) and how knowing your personal “elemental makeup” guides daily choices. Quick, 2‑minute breathing practices that can be done while the kids are at school, during a car ride, or in the middle of a stressful conversation. Why slowing down isn’t lazy—it’s the foundation for healthy emotional modeling for teens. Real‑world tips for co‑regulation with your children (the “pause‑breathe‑respond” loop). Whether you’re a mom who feels her stress is the new normal or a dad who wants to break generational cycles of overwhelm, this conversation offers a practical, step‑by‑step roadmap to bring calm into the house without adding another to‑do list.

#TeenDepression, #TeenSuicide, #ParentalGuilt, #GriefAndLoss, In this raw, heart‑opening conversation, host Cheryl sits down with Elliot Kallen, co‑founder & President of A Brighter Day, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit created in memory of his son Jake (who ended his life in 2015). Elliot shares: The painful truth behind his son’s suicide note and the crushing guilt many parents feel. How turning that grief into purpose birthed A Brighter Day – a crisis‑texting hotline, fast‑track counseling, and resources that now serve ≈ 3,000 families each month. The early warning signs that separate “typical teen drama” from a teen in crisis. Practical, non‑judgmental conversation starters you can use at the kitchen table, in the car, or on a walk. Real‑world strategies for parents who feel overwhelmed, single‑income, or juggling two jobs. Step‑by‑step guidance on what to do if a teen says they’re thinking about self‑harm (including the three critical questions from suicide‑first‑aid training). How schools, teachers, and community leaders can create stigma‑free environments for mental‑health help.  

#ParentingTeens, #RescueDogs, #MorningRoutine, #CreativeExpression, #VeganLifestyle In this un‑polished, heart‑on‑sleeve episode, Cheryl steps inside her daughter’s city apartment and discovers the quiet, everyday moments that prove our teens are thriving—even when we’re not watching the big milestones. From the soft snuggle of two rescue pups, to a carefully‑cultivated plant shelf, a vinyl stack, and an heirloom shirt tucked in a closet, Cheryl shows us how love shows up in the ordinary—the early‑morning coffee rituals, the responsible care of pets, and the personal treasures our grown‑up kids curate for themselves. If you’re a parent of a teenager (or a young adult) who feels like you’re “always on standby” for the next graduation or birthday, this episode is a reminder that the real work of parenting lives in the small, daily details—and that those details are a massive sign of success, resilience, and unconditional love. Listen now for a tear‑filled, gratitude‑charged story that will shift how you see your own teen’s world and give you a fresh, empowering perspective on the parent‑child relationship in adulthood.