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Butch Queen After Dark
Butch Queen After Dark
Author: David Brandyn
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Butch Queen After Dark is a sex-positive podcast hosted by David Brandyn, featuring bold, unfiltered conversations with queer people of color about sex, dating, pleasure, identity, and real life.
From hookup culture and kink to sex education and intimacy, this is after-hours talk with humor, heart, and no judgment.
From hookup culture and kink to sex education and intimacy, this is after-hours talk with humor, heart, and no judgment.
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In this episode, host David Brandyn welcomes guests Shadow and Prince FlackOo, a dynamic couple known for their adventurous and fluid approach to sexuality. The conversation flows from light-hearted introductions to deeper discussions about their experiences, including a life-saving moment involving Keita, their freaky adventures in nature, and their evolving sexual identities. They share stories of their first meeting on Grindr, their fantasies, and their recent experiences with threesomes, all while emphasizing the importance of love and exploration in their relationship. In this engaging conversation, the hosts explore various themes surrounding sexuality, fantasies, and the importance of inclusivity in sexual spaces. They discuss their personal experiences with role-playing, the dynamics of open relationships, and the emotional connections formed during intimate acts like fisting. Follow David Brandyn https://www.instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark https://www.instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Shadow https://www.instagram.com/shad00w1123/Follow Prince FlackOohttps://www.instagram.com/princeflackoonyc/
This week on Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with viral sensation and Bad Boys star Relly B for a wild, hilarious, and surprisingly deep conversation about sex, power, and navigating fame. From sexual awakenings to cruising adventures, from topping vs. bottoming to verbal kinks and “good boy” energy — Relly B keeps it real, raw, and unfiltered. They also get into how fame has impacted dating, why having a 9–5 still matters, and what it actually means to have control—in and out of the bedroom.Oh… and yes, we talk about fucking fans too. 😌Follow Relly Bhttps://www.instagram.com/durellyrellz/Follow David Brandynhttps://www.instagram.com/davidbrandyn/Follow Butch Queen After Darkhttps://www.instagram.com/butchqueen/
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, host David Brandon welcomes Calypso Jete, the winner of Legendary Season 1 and a prominent figure in the ballroom and fetish communities. They discuss the essence of fem queens and butch queens, the complexities of sex and emotions, and the importance of consent and communication in BDSM. Calypso shares her journey through the world of kink, her experiences in the ballroom scene, and offers advice to listeners navigating their own relationships and kinks. The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion, understanding, and authenticity in both personal and community interactions.Follow Calypso Jetehttps://www.instagram.com/calypsojeteFollow David Brandyn https://www.instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark https://www.instagram.com/butchqueen
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David Brandyn sits down with the unforgettable Jesus Really — go-go dancer, adult performer, and sex-positive content creator known for his infectious energy, confidence, and unapologetic self-expression. Jesus opens up about growing up Puerto Rican in Philadelphia, discovering his sexuality, navigating social media censorship as a sex worker, and the mindset that allows him to live freely in a world that often tries to shame queer sexuality. This episode also dives into bottoming myths, kink discovery, the “second hole” conversation, sex positivity, and why embracing yourself can inspire others to do the same. If you’ve ever struggled with shame, curiosity, sexual confidence, or self-expression — this episode is for you.Follow Jesushttps://www.instagram.com/jesusreally_Follow David Brandynhttps://www.instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark https://www.instagram.com/butchqueen
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, Adrian Hart shares his journey from a small town in Georgia to becoming a prominent figure in the adult film industry. He discusses his sexual awakening, experiences with identity, and the challenges he faced as an openly gay man. Adrian reflects on the realities of working in adult film, including the impact of platforms like OnlyFans, the importance of communication in sexual encounters, and the racial dynamics that influence perceptions of his work. He also addresses the pay disparities in the industry and emphasizes the need for performers to value themselves. Throughout the conversation, Adrian's candidness and humor shine through, making for an insightful and entertaining discussion.Follow Adrian Hart https://www.instagram.com/adrianhartlaFollow David Brandyn https://www.instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark https://www.instagram.com/butchqueen
Happy Women's History Month!In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David Brandyn and Zorine explore the rich history and cultural significance of Hoochie culture, tracing its roots back to the blues era of the 1930s. They discuss the characteristics that define a Hoochie, the impact of cancel culture on Hoochie history, and the evolution of Hoochie Daddies. Zorine shares insights about the Hoochie Khan festival, which celebrates this vibrant culture, and they conclude with a discussion on the Mount Rushmore of Hoochies, highlighting influential figures across decades.Follow Zorine Truly https://www.instagram.com/thee_hoochie_historian_/Follow David Brandyn https://www.instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark https://www.instagram.com/butchqueenad
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, host David Brandyn interviews Jon Darra, a Las Vegas legend known for his multifaceted career as a sex worker, singer, and advocate. They explore Jon's cum dump fantasy, experiences in sex work, and the dynamics of group sex. Jon shares insights into his journey in pageantry, the role of music in his life, and the realities of being a content creator in the adult industry. The discussion also touches on the culture of bathhouses, the differences between various venues, and the importance of open communication in sexual encounters. Throughout the conversation, Jon emphasizes the need for connection, exploration, and the liberation that comes with embracing one's desires.Follow David Brandyn https://www.instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark https://www.instagram.com/butchqueenadFollow Jon Darrahttps://www.instagram.com/darratheexplora_
Download Jack'd and checkout the new "MOMENTS" feature!https://jackd.app.link/DavidBrandynIn this engaging conversation, David Brandyn and Nola Bwoy explore themes of identity, sexuality, and the adult entertainment industry. They discuss Nola's journey of self-discovery, his experiences at Blatino Oasis, and the complexities of relationships in the context of sexual fluidity. Follow Nola Bwoy https://www.instagram.com/nola_bwoyFollow David Brandyn https://www.instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark https://www.instagram.com/butchqueenad
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, host David Brandyn welcomes Jiyah Bolden, a rising star in the social media landscape, known for her bold personality and creative content. The conversation explores her experiences in the world of sexuality and her unique perspectives on kinks and preferences. Follow Jiyah Bolden https://www.instagram.com/jiyahboldenFollow David Brandyn https://www.instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark https://www.instagram.com/butchqueenad
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, host David Brandyn welcomes Ian and Buddy, a queer couple who recently got engaged at a circuit party. The conversation explores their unique engagement story, the planning that went into it, and the reactions from friends and family. They also delve into their experiences with intimacy, kink, and the evolution of adult entertainment, highlighting the importance of representation and the changing landscape of sexuality in the LGBTQ+ community.
This week on Butch Queen After Dark, David Brandyn sits down with the one and only Hershii J Liquor, RuPaul’s Drag Race alum, Southern California standout, voyeur extraordinaire, and certified tease.Host, David Brandyn, and Hershii get into some deep, hilarious, and unexpectedly tender conversation about pleasure, power, and desire. Hershii opens up about their sexual awakening, learning how to actually enjoy sex, the art of teasing, edging, and control, and why watching can sometimes be sexier than touching. From dark room curiosity and consent, to submission, dominance, “good boy” energy, and discovering new erogenous zones (yes… including toes 👀), nothing is off the table.The two also tackle listener letters about parenting and guilt, exploring submission safely, boundaries, trust, and why pleasure doesn’t stop just because life gets real.This episode is funny, freaky, vulnerable, and thoughtful—full of laughs, gems, and moments that’ll have you saying “wait… same.”Tap in, get a little curious, and leave just a little moist.🎧 New episodes weekly📺 Like, subscribe, and follow Butch Queen After Dark on YouTube & Instagram🔥 Another banger next week—don’t miss it
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David Brandyn welcomes Joshua Michael Cruz, a community builder, coach, and nudist. They explore themes of sexual liberation, the importance of consent, and the experiences of being a butch queen. Joshua shares his journey of self-discovery, including his first experience at a sex club, his thoughts on topping and bottoming, and the significance of open conversations about sexual health. The discussion also delves into nudism, body positivity, and the cultural aspects of public sex, emphasizing the need for acceptance and understanding in the queer community.
In this episode of *Butch Queen After Dark*, host David Brandyn welcomes the renowned adult film star Santana XXL, who shares his journey through the adult entertainment industry. Santana discusses his early experiences, including a memorable sexual awakening that involved a partner with an exceptionally large endowment. He candidly reflects on the misconceptions surrounding size and performance, emphasizing that skill and connection often outweigh physical attributes in sexual encounters. Santana also opens up about the challenges he faced as a plus-size performer in a predominantly muscle-driven industry, detailing the backlash and negativity he encountered while striving for visibility and acceptance.
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, host David Brandyn welcomes Quei Tann, an actress, comedian, entertainer, and rising pop artist. They explore Quei’s sexual awakening, how power and safety shape desire, and the ways sex work influenced her relationship to pleasure and control. Quei opens up about dating, situationships, and navigating intimacy as a trans woman in Los Angeles, as well as why she’s considering leaving the U.S. in search of stability, love, and alignment with her future goals. The conversation also includes a listener letter on burnout and reconnecting with pleasure, and a discussion of Quei’s music, including her single “I’m a Top.” Follow Quei Tann on Instagram @queitann and host David Brandyn @davidbrandyn for more sex-positive conversations.
On this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, host David Brandon welcomes Naughty Nate, a world traveler and sex-positive sensation. They dive into topics such as sexual awakenings, the dynamics of sex parties, and the importance of self-expression in sexuality. Nate shares his experiences from various travels, discusses the nuances of gender expression, and offers advice on navigating relationships across distances. The conversation also includes listener letters addressing love and relationships, emphasizing the importance of being true to oneself and the potential for connections in unexpected places.
In this first episode of Butch Queen After Dark, host David Brandyn and his husband, Dr. Matthew Brinkley, explore the complexities of queer sexuality, relationships, and the importance of sex education within the LGBTQ community. They discuss their personal experiences, kinks, and the dynamics of sex parties, emphasizing the significance of consent and communication. The conversation is both humorous and insightful, providing listeners with a deeper understanding of queer intimacy and the challenges faced in navigating sexual encounters.




