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Does your marriage feel like a war of unmet wants?
We know how this feels.
Follow our conversation in The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast. We’ll help you both get what you want in marriage so you never have to feel at war again.
Hosted by relationship coaches, and husband and wife, Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini.
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In this episode Mark and Matilde discuss their intense marriage breakdown or breakthrough conversation that led to this podcast coming to life. TakeawaysVulnerability is the key to crossing the bridge of intimacy.Intense conversations and deep inner work are transformative. Devotional dependency and surrender are essential for a fulfilling marriage.Reclaiming libido for life and radical hope are key to a successful and joyful married life.Chapters00:00 The Bridge of Intimacy10:26 Metaphor of the Bridge17:24 Intense Conversations and Vulnerability24:14 Deep Inner Work and Self-Mastery29:44 Letting Go of Resentment37:12 Deserving Happiness and Glass Ceiling45:12 Spirituality and Devotional Dependence54:44 Vision and Surrender01:03:46 Reclaiming Libido for Life in Marriage
SummaryIn this episode, Mark Usher discusses how to silence your inner critic and create a transformative year in your marriage for 2026. He emphasizes the importance of identifying cognitive distortions that hinder personal growth and relationship fulfilment. Mark introduces the concept of a 'North Star' vision, encouraging listeners to manifest their deepest desires and set meaningful goals for their marriage. He highlights the need for commitment, courage, and ongoing conversations with your partner to achieve a fulfilling and joyful married life.The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll eliminate your inner critics capacity to self-sabotage your freedom and fulfilment in 20262. You’ll have a simple tool to help you discover what exactly you want to manifest beyond your deepest fears.3. You create something infinitely more powerful long-term than setting a random new years resolution that’s statistically doomed for failure.Don't Miss Out on €15000 of Savings on your path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship: 4 days left and only 2 spaces available!!!Coaching - Heroic Husbands
The 3 benefits you'll gain from listening to the end of this episode are:1. You'll have a truly surprising gift she actually loves2. It's a free gift BUT STILL holds more value than even the most expensive gift you purchase her.3. It shows you inarguably love and passionately want ALL of her.FREE Presence, Progress + Protection Marriage Self-Assessment questionnaire and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan?Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship (and SAVE €15000)?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message Now
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1. You’ll know the two highest leverage 30secs periods in each day to practice being a great husband for maximum effect.
2. You’ll know how to tap into peak human memory research to make a great impression that lasts in your wife’s mind for hours.
3. You will be able to set two daily 30-second habits that will transform your marriage.
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The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1. You’ll understand the root cause behind all your marriage troubles.
2. You’ll have a simple everyday practice to help build your capacity for welcoming happiness and joy into your marriage and life experience.
3. You’ll be able to set a rock solid foundation in your core to support you rebuild the married life of your dreams.
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The 3 benefits you'll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1.You'll eliminate self-doubt and fears of rejection that haunt most husbands in initiating sex.
2.You'll be able to access a space where you feel more fearless in leading your wife sexually.
3.You'll stop being a Mr Nice Guy feeling you need to land your sexual invitation like a waiter asks if you'd like to see the wine menu.
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The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1. You’ll start remembering how natural it is to simply express “What it is that you want.”
2. You’ll understand the easiest path to getting what you want is clearly expressing what you do NOT want.
3. You’ll hear about the biggest transformation in the podcast since I began.
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The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1. You’ll understand how to master your emotions in seconds, no matter what pressure you’re experiencing.
2. You’ll have a practice used by Olympians, military commanders, CEOs and other peak performing men, ready at hand for the most challenging leadership position on the planet. Being a husband.
3. You’ll be able to direct every conversation to the runway of connection and trust by using this.
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The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1. This mental strategy will build your warrior powers of masculine unstoppability.
2. You’ll know how to turn a low vibrational hopelessness into high vibrational hope that steers your marriage in the right direction.
3. You’ll set an optimistic foundation of connection for landing whatever truth you want to communicate to your Queen.
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The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1. You’ll have a list of simple list of low to high energy mood boosters to help you feel way better in married life situations.
2. You’ll master the message your body is transmitting thus radically uplevel the quality of the response you evoke from your wife and kids.
3. You’ll stop investing your life energy into becoming a grumpy old git before your time and actually start enjoying life.
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The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1. You and your wife will get to the end of the holidays feeling fulfilled and connected.
2. You will be the masculine leader who set up a powerful action plan that makes everyone happy.
3. You’ll drastically reduce unnecessary holiday conflict due to habitual unowned overwhelm.
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The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1. You’ll discover a Navy SEAL mindset to obliterate regular husband small-minded holiday season complaining
2. Your Queen will be able to surrender into your all in leadership.
3. You’ll grow in pride over the holiday season with how powerful you show up
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The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
- You’ll be able to eliminate chances of the marriage cancer of contempt ever forming in your marriage
- You’ll have one question that will help you find clarity in any conflict
- You’ll be able to show your wife just how mature you’ve become as a man
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In this special episode, you'll enjoy a deep and revealing conversation on the rapid and radical marriage transformation of Ida and Jake Braford. Some of the many elements of their transformational journey discussed are:
Ida sharing her experiences of struggling with Jake's defensive behaviour
Jake explaining his decision to seek coaching after recognizing his harmful patterns.
Jake's learning path to better receive feedback and improve his emotional attunement
Leading intentional conversations together helping address the impact of patriarchal systems in their relationship.
Exploring the transformative power of emotional awareness and expression, particularly for men
A deep dive in the importance of seeking external support and moving beyond reactive behaviour to foster deeper connections and personal growth.
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The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1. You’ll know the most powerful moment of your day to become present for full impact
2. You’ll be able to eliminate tons of unnecessary conflict creating moments by this one practice.
3. You’ll simply enjoy the time you spend with your family more!
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The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1. Become awareness of the one most destructive pattern husbands show up in marriage with.
2. Know how to recognise the danger signs that lead up to an inevitable rupture.
3. Discover the one way your wife can help you in breaking this pattern.
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The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1. You’ll experience an intense re-energisation of your motivation in marriage.
2. You’ll find this wisdom will help you break the Good Boy: Bad Boy pattern that kills marriage trust and connection.
3. You’ll reframe your wife’s emotional intensity in a way that allows you get turned on by it.
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The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1. You’ll have a winning formula to create a super high impact romantic email your wife will love.
2. You’ll eliminate the risk of rejection and guesswork knowing you are using a tried and tested formula.
3. You’ll have a simple 3-part formula you can use 100s of times in future to create magical spontaneous connection with not a ton of effort at all!!!
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To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1. You’ll know why specific recognition is infinitely more important for husband vs general recognition.
2. You’ll know a simple weekly practice to receive all the recognition you could ever want from your wife.
3. You’ll have a counter-balancing grounding force to help you embrace your Queen’s fieriest feedback.
Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?
Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
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Do the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:
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I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
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To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
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