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Konnected Minds Podcast

Author: Derrick Abaitey

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Konnected Minds: Success, Wealth & Mindset. This show helps ambitious people crush limiting beliefs and build unstoppable confidence.

Created and Hosted by Derrick Abaitey
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From jobless graduate to distribution powerhouse solving problems in Ghana's essential goods market, and why putting your degree aside to sell toilet rolls and fabric softener door to door is the only way to make money when the system isn't giving opportunities to youth, the three-year job search that ended with the realization that "if I don't get this job, I'm going to create my own" using skills learned from the market and school, the strategic move of offering customers lower prices than their current suppliers even at zero profit just to break even and build long-term relationships because "it's difficult for a customer to change his supplier," the godfather moment when Mr. Frempong's integrity and network with CDage manufacturers opened doors to 100 packs of fabric softener on credit without paying upfront, the first sales girl hire and the Muslim imam Muhammad Tahiro who knew customers in Koforidua and Abram and sold 250 boxes on his first day proving "this guy can really help me," the 800-box minimum policy from suppliers that keeps small retailers locked out but creates opportunity for distributors who buy in volume and break it down, and why the ultimate truth is this: money in Ghana is in trade, not in white-collar jobs, because the market woman who takes goods worth 15,000 cedis and pays cash that same day proves that if you want to make money you need to solve a problem whether it's sanitation or essential goods or communication, and putting your ego aside is the only way to unlock the wealth that's hidden in the dirty jobs nobody wants to do. In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with a young entrepreneur who dismantles the dangerous "I need a white-collar job to be successful" mentality that keeps graduates stuck in three-year job searches, revealing the exact moment when taking 10 packs of fabric softener on credit from a supplier, selling them to customers in Koforidua, and returning the money after a week while earning 40 cedis per pack became the foundation of a distribution business built on integrity, relationships, and the willingness to do the work nobody else wants to do. This isn't motivational business talk from Instagram influencers, it's a systematic breakdown of why solving a problem is the only way to make money whether you're Elon Musk with internet connections or a young Ghanaian selling toilet rolls and washing powder because essential goods are money, why prospecting customers and offering them lower prices than their current suppliers even at zero profit builds long-term relationships that pay off when you're ready to scale, why Mr. Frempong's integrity and recommendation opened doors to 100 packs of Safari Mini Jumbo fabric softener on credit from CDage manufacturers without paying upfront because "the man stood in and because of his integrity they brought it," why the power of recommendation comes when your integrity leads you and people you've been truthful with open doors you couldn't open yourself, why poverty's best friend is information asymmetry like two people in a race where one knows taking glucose and steroids makes you run faster and the other has no idea so the one with information wins, why bringing in Muhammad Tahiro the imam who had worked with Mr. Frempong before and knew customers in Koforidua and Abram led to 250 boxes sold on the first day proving the right hire changes everything, why suppliers do volume with 800-box minimums and policies that say "a car no move unless you pick 800 packs" which locks out small retailers but creates opportunity for distributors who buy bulk and break it down for the market, why customers care about quality but ultimately it's all about pricing because suppliers aiming for abnormal profits get ditched when someone offers the same product at lower prices, Host: Derrick Abaitey
From societal pressure to financial sacrifice to the brutal truth about why marriage timelines and designer lifestyles are destroying young people's futures - and why the pressure to marry at 28 as a woman or settle down as a man without having your life figured out will send you into depression for the rest of your life watching your classmates buy cars and houses while you struggle, the Instagram illusion where people see someone wearing a beautiful dress and think they bought it when the truth is designers made it and gave it to them for free, the 28-year-old man taking out loans to pay for a wedding he'll spend two years paying off because he allowed societal pressure to control his decisions instead of waiting until he was ready, and why the brutal reality is this: if you go into a relationship, settle down, have another human being to take care of when you're not ready - you will be depressed every day watching your friend Derek who was your classmate doing his podcasts, practicing his pharmacy, able to buy his car, able to buy a house, and you are wondering what's happening to me, while the real question becomes: why are you making your life's clock somebody else's clock when you don't know what they're doing with their money or what other responsibilities they have, because the pressure we felt 25 years ago should not be felt today and the children of today should not go through what we went through with the "at this age you must marry, at this age you must have your car" mentality that puts people in boxes and limits their potential. In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with Nana Aba Anamoah - a powerhouse media personality who dismantles the dangerous "follow society's timeline or you're a failure" mentality that pushes people into marriages, debt, and decisions they're not ready for, revealing the exact moment when the girl wearing that dress on Instagram didn't actually buy it because designers made it and gave it to her so don't go looking for money to buy what you see someone else wearing. This isn't motivational life advice from Instagram influencers - it's a systematic breakdown of why the pressure to marry at 28 as a woman or settle down as a man without having your life figured out will send you into depression watching your classmates succeed while you struggle, why people see someone on social media wearing a beautiful dress and think they bought it when designers gave it to them for free so don't go looking for money to buy what you see others wearing, why making your life's clock somebody else's clock is unfair because you don't know what they're doing with their money or what responsibilities they have, why allowing yourself to be put in a box limits your potential and lets people control your narrative, why showing up to a 9 a.m. meeting at 9:15 and waiting until 9:30 is the maximum even if you need a favor because sitting for hours while someone thinks they're big is disrespectful and you will walk out, why being consistently late is disrespectful to other people especially for important meetings, why two people with the best CVs showed up at 10 a.m. for an 8 a.m. interview and didn't get interviewed because if you don't take the interview seriously you won't take the work seriously, why you must have self-respect and standards or you're not heading anywhere, why your character must count for something because people watch and the days when God was just giving out blessings are over - now you have to work for it, why friends were buying new cars every year but the sacrifice was made to pay expensive international school fees and thousands of dollars in US university tuition instead, why wanting to give your child the best education means not buying designer bags that cost 4,000 pounds and not doing certain things for yourself, why making a pact with your son saying \"whatever you need I will provide, focus on the books, I'll buy the sneakers and shirts you want, just ace your grades\" is the commitment that requires sacrifice, and why if you have a child and want to give them the best education but you're not wealthy like other wealthy people - don't be dreaming of buying designer bags while sitting there unable to pay school fees, making sacrifice, self-respect, and refusing to let society's timeline control your decisions the foundation of building a life where your children get the best opportunities and you don't spend the rest of your days depressed watching others succeed while you struggle under the weight of choices you made to impress people who don't matter. Guest: Nana Aba Anamoah Host: Derrick Abaitey
From career freedom to parental control to the brutal truth about why being a parent means being a friend, a guide, and a mentor all at once - and why children who can't get support at home will seek guidance from complete strangers you have no control over, the young boy at work doing AI research who sent a long WhatsApp message explaining that anytime he comes around it's not because he has nothing to do but because he's found a new interest and wants to work part-time while still in school, when the parents don't get it and it's troubling the child so now he's talking to someone his parents don't even know instead of opening up at home, the son who wanted to be a formalist then a rapper then a graphic designer then business economics then IT and now artificial intelligence, when financing the music video and letting him put it on YouTube knowing he would come back and say "I don't want to do that again" was about respecting his choices and letting him feel free to make his decisions, when he went to university in the US and second year said "I don't think I like business economics" and the response was "whatever you want to do feel free to do it as long as I'm alive and I can take care of you no problem," when choosing a state where he didn't know anybody instead of New York where he had too many friends so he could focus on his studies, when raising a latchkey child who knows where the food is, where the fridge is, when to sleep, who can be on his own and be comfortable in his space even when his mother travels for two weeks, and why the ultimate truth is this: your responsibility as a parent is not just financial, it is emotional, it is mental, you have to be present at all times because you have decided to be responsible for another human being. In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with Nana Aba Anamoah - a powerhouse media personality who dismantles the dangerous "I pay the school fees so I control your future" mentality that creates distance between parents and children, revealing the exact moment parents have put a wall between them and their children, when society should not tell a woman that because she has two or three children now and her husband is making so much money she should stop working and stay at home and take care of the home, when even the men are comfortable with their wives working but it's those on the peripherals who are calling the shots because they think this is how a woman's life should be, when a woman's decision is hers to make just as much as you would make the decision for a man - you cannot say that because you have a male child and he is a male he has to do a certain job because he's a man. This isn't motivational parenting talk from Instagram influencers - it's a systematic breakdown of why you must be a parent, a friend, and a guide all at once so your child is comfortable talking to you about anything without judgment, why being present means noticing when the young boy at work stays late because he's found a new interest and needs guidance but can't get it at home so he's reaching out to someone his parents don't even know, why parents must stop imposing and superimposing what they wanted to be that they couldn't achieve on their children - wanting them to be lawyers and pharmacists and doctors because it was a dream for them they didn't achieve is not fair, why being adventurous and allowing them to go through different phases is part of growing up in a different generation that has evolved so much, why independence means letting your child make their choices and when they make a disastrous mistake they know mommy is there, uncle is there, auntie is there, why you shouldn't just be seen as a parent but as a guide and a friend from get go so your child is comfortable talking to you about every and anything without being judged, why parents who are so stuck in their ways declaring "this is what my child is going to be as far as I am paying school fees" create children who go wayward because if they're not getting support at home they'll get it somewhere else, why the most dangerous thing you can do is let your child get guidance from a complete stranger you have no control over, and why your responsibility as a parent is not just financial but emotional and mental - you have to be present at all times because you have decided to be responsible for another human being, making presence, friendship, and mentorship the three roles every child needs you to play if you want them to grow into confident, supported, and emotionally healthy adults who come to you first instead of turning to strangers who don't have their best interests at heart. Guest: Nana Aba Anamoah Host: Derrick Abaitey
From parental control to emotional presence to the brutal truth about why being a parent means being a friend, a guide, and a mentor all at once - and why children who can't get support at home will seek guidance from complete strangers you have no control over, the young boy at work doing AI research who sent a long WhatsApp message explaining that anytime he comes around it's not because he has nothing to do but because he's found a new interest and wants to work part-time while still in school, when the parents don't get it and it's troubling the child so now he's talking to someone his parents don't even know instead of opening up at home, the son who sits for a surprise test and comes home scratching his hair saying "we had a surprise test today and it didn't go well" and instead of harsh judgment the response is laughter and the lesson that you must always be prepared because that's why it's a surprise test, and why some parents are so stuck in their ways declaring "this is what my child is going to be as far as I am paying school fees" without understanding that's not fair and that's why some children go wayward - because if they're not getting support at home they'll get it somewhere else, while the real question becomes: are you present in your child's life, do you notice when your child stays longer than usual, do you invite their friends over so you can hear their conversations and understand their personalities, because sometimes people are not looking for handouts - all they need is to be noticed and recognized, and the ultimate truth is this: your responsibility as a parent is not just financial, it is emotional, it is mental, you have to be present at all times because you have decided to be responsible for another human being. In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with Nana Aba Anamoah - a powerhouse media personality who dismantles the dangerous "I pay the school fees so I control your future" mentality that creates distance between parents and children, revealing the exact moment when a young boy at work doing AI research sent a long WhatsApp message that couldn't be replied to for two days because he's seen a new interest and wants to work part-time while still in school but the parents don't get it, when that young boy is now talking to someone his parents don't even know because ideally if he's unhappy with something he should be able to open up to his parents but parents have put a wall between them and their children, when the son comes home from a surprise test scratching his hair saying "it didn't go well" and instead of harsh rebuke there's laughter and the lesson that you should always be prepared because that's why it's a surprise test, when reviewing the child means acknowledging "you should have done better because the previous term you did better" but also praising what went well instead of focusing only on the negative, when inviting the son's friends over means sitting with them hearing their conversations understanding their personalities and being called Nanaaba or Ro instead of auntie because they're comfortable, when some friends would call without the son's permission saying "can I come and spend the weekend at your house" and the answer is always "why not, come, be comfortable," when some would even ask "can you call my father or my mother and tell them that you want me to come" because their own parents have created fear or are just not present or not caring enough to notice. This isn't motivational parenting talk from Instagram influencers - it's a systematic breakdown of why you must be a parent, a friend, and a guide all at once so your child is comfortable talking to you about anything without judgment, why being present means noticing when the young boy at work stays until 7 p.m. instead of leaving at 3 p.m. and saying "yo, you're still here" because that recognition makes him feel noticed when at home no one is present, instead of parents just taking the piss and always looking for faults, why being a parent is not a futile job but a fun job because you have decided to be responsible for another human being, and why the most dangerous thing you can do is let your child get guidance from a complete stranger because if they're not getting support at home they'll get it somewhere else - making presence, friendship, and mentorship the three roles every child needs you to play if you want them to grow into confident, supported, and emotionally healthy adults who come to you first instead of turning to strangers who don't have their best interests at heart. Guest: Nana Aba Anamoah Host: Derrick Abaitey
From childhood reading to feminist awakening to the brutal truth about why being yourself means refusing to let anyone's opinion control your narrative - and why the books from Madeleine Albright to Roosevelt's memoirs reveal that greats are just human beings with the same 24 hours and same organs as you proving "why not me?" is the right question, the psychological reality of self-awareness where you insult yourself so harshly that when strangers on social media try to bring you down they become mere mortals because whatever they say you've already said worse to yourself, the Rwandan minister reaching out about Women of Valor triggering imposter syndrome asking "what does this woman want?" before realizing it's the fourth year of promoting this event so it's not a big deal, and why Ghanaians are not timid - they are overly nice, overly polite, overly respectful to the point where they won't tell you your shirt is hideous to your face but will smile and say "oh yeah feel" while thinking something completely different, while the real question becomes: are you confident enough to disagree with people, to be authentic, to say no when you're exhausted, to tell a crying girl "if you're crying because I don't have time right now then cry more because I don't have the time, but if you're crying because of why you want to talk to me call me tomorrow when my brain works better," because being yourself means knowing when to set boundaries, when to say no, when to protect your energy, and when to give your number to someone who needs help and actually mean it when you say call me tomorrow at 7 a.m. and she does and you invite her over and she takes three hours in traffic from Ashiaman to sit in your living room and gulp down water because today is going to be a long day and this girl is going to unload her story just like Junior did at the first Women of Valor event when she shared how her father's friends defiled her as a child with their "mehri mehri you want to say" red flag behavior and her mother heard that story for the first time and cried and the whole room broke down and one girl in the crowd couldn't speak up because she was going through it right then and came to you after the event needing to talk. In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with Nana Aba Anamoah - a powerhouse media personality and feminist who dismantles the dangerous "be humble and let people walk over you" mentality that keeps young women from setting boundaries, speaking up, and protecting their energy, revealing the exact moment when reading books from Madeleine Albright and Roosevelt made it clear that greats are human beings with the same 24 hours and same organs as you so "why not me?" is the only question that matters, when being so self-deprecating and insulting yourself harshly means nobody on social media can bring your spirit down because you've already said worse to yourself making their opinions irrelevant, when a Rwandan minister reaching out about Women of Valor triggers imposter syndrome and the panicked thought "what does this woman want, maybe somebody told her something about me" before realizing it's the fourth year of this event so it's not a big deal, when people call saying "they're writing about you on social media" and the response is "I haven't even seen what they're saying because I don't pay attention, I don't lose sleep over opinions of people who shouldn't be discussing my life," when Derek and his friends sit around discussing the worst things about Nana Aba thinking it will bring her spirit down but it actually eggs her on because she thrives on it, when the only person who can bring your spirit down is you and nobody else has that power. When Ghanaians are called timid but the truth is they are overly nice, overly polite, overly respectful - they won't tell you your shirt is hideous to your face, they'll smile and say "oh yeah feel" while thinking something else, when that's not hypocrisy it's just being very nice people who don't want you to look bad or feel bad, when children are taught to start sentences with "please" and end with "thank you" and use magic words and be respectful, when that doesn't mean Ghanaians are timid because if you disrespect a Ghanaian you will see the real Ghanaian. Guest: Nana Aba Anamoah Host: Derrick Abaitey
From childhood curiosity to feminist awakening to the brutal truth about why being rewarded with books instead of toys creates a mindset that sees disappointment as a story you've already read - and why the father who refused to let his daughters waste time in the kitchen when they could be reading Larry King interviews was actually building feminists before the word became trendy, the seven-year-old reading Gorbachev and Pilgrim's Progress instead of Lady Bird stories because "I wanted to be serious like my father," the psychological reality of imposter syndrome where good things happen and self-doubt kicks in but curiosity overrides it, the deliberate opportunist who makes friends "because I know there is something you have that I would like" without apology or shame, and why the father who said "if you can read a recipe you can cook the watching - you don't have to stay in the kitchen so many hours" was teaching his daughters that understanding beats conditioning every single time, while the real question becomes: why do parents push their children to be lawyers and pharmacists and doctors because it was their dream they didn't achieve instead of letting the child experience life for themselves, because that's not fair and the days when God was just giving out blessings are over - now you have to work for the manama, and if your character doesn't count for anything don't expect growth, and the ultimate truth is this: being kind is not an option you consider, it's something that comes naturally when you're raised by a man who helped strangers without knowing them and a woman who had to unlearn societal conditioning to understand that her daughters could be liberated, educated, and free to make their own choices instead of being trapped by what society said women should be. In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with Nana Aba Anamoah - a powerhouse media personality who dismantles the dangerous "stay in the kitchen and learn to cook" mentality that conditions girls to serve instead of lead. when meeting people for the first time and they say "oh Nana I like you so much" triggers curiosity about what they do and how they ended up there, and when finding out they have challenges her mind immediately races asking "how do I help, how do I help" because that's what she learned from watching her father. This isn't motivational empowerment talk from Instagram influencers - it's a systematic breakdown of why being rewarded with books instead of toys creates a mindset that sees curiosity as survival and disappointment as just another story you've already read, why a father who refused to let his daughters stay in the kitchen washing dishes when they could be reading adult books and watching Larry King Live was building feminists before the word became trendy, why reading Gorbachev and Pilgrim's Progress at age seven instead of colorful children's stories teaches you to be serious and understand the world like adults do, why the father who said "if you can read a recipe you can cook the watching without spending hours in the kitchen" was teaching his daughters that understanding beats conditioning every single time, why having a psychological condition called imposter syndrome means always doubting yourself when good things happen but pushing through with curiosity anyway, why being "a big opportunist" who makes friends because "I know there is something you have that I would like" is strategic not shameful when you're deliberate about what you want, why parents who push their children to be lawyers and pharmacists and doctors because it was their unfulfilled dream are being unfair - let the child experience life for themselves, why the days when God was just giving out blessings are over and now you have to work , and why being kind is not something you sit down and consider - it comes naturally when you're raised by a proper human being who helped strangers without hesitation and made kindness the foundation of everything you do. Guest: Nana Aba Anamoah Host: Derrick Abaitey
From childhood neglect to 800K+ in sales - and the brutal truth about why starting messy, pricing for sustainability, and giving value instead of just posting products is the only way to build a business that lasts. In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with Charity Boateng - a social selling powerhouse who built a six-figure feminine hygiene business from scratch using Snapchat and TikTok, revealing the exact moment when she got 100+ orders in the first 24 hours by posting one product on Snapchat and paying one influencer. Guest: Charity Boating Company: FemLux - https://shopfemlux.com/ Host: Derrick Abaitey IG: https://www.instagram.com/derrick.abaitey YT: https://www.youtube.com/@DerrickAbaitey Join Konnected Academy: https://www.triibe.io/konnected-academy   Listen to the podcast on: Apple Podcast - http://tinyurl.com/4ttwbdxe Spotify - http://tinyurl.com/3he8hjfp Join this channel: /@konnectedminds FOLLOW ► https://linktr.ee/konnectedminds #Podcast #businesspodcast #AfricanPodcast
From ingratiation to opportunity to the brutal truth about self-imposed pressure - and why being an opportunist in friendships means knowing exactly what you want and serving with blood and energy to get it, the deliberate plan to get skin-to-skin close to Emma Morrison the best TV news anchor in Ghana by constantly asking "what are you having for lunch, have you eaten, let me get your water" until she realized this girl wants to be close to me and brought her along, the strategic move of studying Emma's weaknesses without telling her and perfecting them as personal strengths so that when the prime time opportunity came the answer was "yes put her on" because that's exactly what was wanted all along, and why people are so addicted to the successes of others thinking "partner mia mia nisi kanibi" instead of charting their own authentic path, while the real question becomes: why are 28-year-old women pressured into marriage when they're not ready and 35-year-old men taking loans for weddings they'll spend two years paying off when the pressure is mostly self-imposed from watching what others post on social media, because the girl wearing that dress on Instagram didn't buy it - designers made it and gave it to her - so don't go looking for money to buy what you see someone else wearing, and the ultimate truth is this: you cannot allow people to control your narrative, you cannot sit in a meeting for hours waiting because someone thinks they're big, and if you need a favor but the 9am meeting starts at 9:15 and by 9:30 they're still not there - you walk out, because refusing to be put in a box is the only way to protect your potential and your power. In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with Nanaaba, a powerhouse media personality who dismantles the dangerous "wait your turn and be humble" mentality that keeps ambitious women locked out of opportunities they could seize with strategic action, revealing the exact moment when entering the TV newsroom and meeting Emma Morrison - the best TV news anchor in Ghana - triggered the deliberate plan to get skin-to-skin close to her because she had what was needed: expertise, and even though "I am not a very serviceable person, I don't know how to serve," the decision was made to serve Emma with blood and energy by constantly being in her face asking "what are you having for lunch, have you eaten, let me get your water" until Emma realized this girl wants to be close to me and instead of pushing away she brought her along, when Emma would say "this bulletin I wouldn't be available but not the prime time" but the hidden objective was always to share the prime time spot with her - if Emma does Monday to Friday then the goal was to get Thursday and Friday, when studying Emma's weaknesses and not telling her "oh Ms. Mollue I think if you do this it would be good" but instead making those weaknesses personal strengths and perfecting them so that on the day of going on TV Emma said "oh the thing you should put her on the road that's well for the prime time" and the response was "yes I did it, got what you wanted, that's what I wanted," when people would say "oh Nanaaba was washing Emma's feet, she was being an opportunist" and the response is simple: "yes that's what I call negotiation, it was deliberate because I knew what I wanted at the end of the day and I don't care what you say," when a father always said "you're an opportunist" and it's true because "if I'm not getting anything from the friendship trust me it's useless to me, I make friends because I know there is something you have that I would like," when Emma understood the assignment and when she became in charge of the newsroom her recruitments showed it - she was recruiting more women and giving more women opportunities for bigger assignments not just to people she liked but to people she hadn't even engaged with, just giving the opportunity to see what you can do. This isn't motivational empowerment talk from Instagram influencers - it's a systematic breakdown of why being an opportunist and ingratiating yourself into someone's life to learn from them is strategic not shameful when you know what you want and you're willing to serve to get it, why studying someone's weaknesses and perfecting them as your strengths without telling them is how you position yourself to take the prime time spot when the opportunity comes, why some societal pressure on young girls and women is self-imposed because people are so addicted to the successes of others instead of charting their own authentic path, " and why the ultimate power move is knowing exactly what you want, being deliberate about getting it, and refusing to let anyone - society, friends, or bosses - control your narrative or your time. Guest: Nana Aba Anamoah Host: Derrick Abaitey
From teenage pregnancy to imposter syndrome to unstoppable self-awareness - and the brutal truth about why parents must have uncomfortable conversations with their children before the world teaches them the hard way, the 18-year-old girl who called crying because she thought she was pregnant and had never been taught about protection or boys because her parents never had that conversation with her, the psychological reality of imposter syndrome where good things happen and the first reaction is "why me?" followed by arrogance of "if not me then who?" and finally settling into humanity, and why reading books from Magdalene Albright to Roosevelt's memoirs reveals that greats are just human beings with the same 24 hours and the same organs as you - so why not you, while the real question becomes: are you self-deprecating enough to insult yourself so harshly that when strangers on social media try to bring you down they become mere mortals because whatever they say you've already said worse to yourself, because the only person who can bring your spirit down is you, and if Derek and his friends sit around discussing the worst things about you thinking it will break you - you actually thrive because you don't lose sleep over the opinions of people who shouldn't be discussing your life anyway. In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with a powerhouse guest who dismantles the dangerous silence parents keep with their children about relationships, sex, and consequences - revealing the exact moment when an 18-year-old girl called her crying and scared because she thought she was pregnant, when the girl begged "please don't tell my mom I'm coming to see you" but the call was made anyway to check if everything was okay, when the mother said "yeah she's at home watching TV" having no idea her daughter had left to seek help, when the conversation revealed this young woman had never been taught about boys or protection because her parents never had that conversation with her, when getting pregnant at a very young age herself meant knowing the only person who would have a problem was her mother because her father was deeply religious and spiritual, when her father's response was calm and empowering: "the fact that you're pregnant now doesn't mean your life comes to an end - when you deliver you go back to whatever you want to do," when that support made it possible to sacrifice hanging out and having fun in the 19s and 20s to be a mother instead, when the lesson became clear: every action has a consequence and young people must know this early. This isn't motivational self-help talk from Instagram influencers - it's a systematic breakdown of why children in their 18s, 19s, 20s should be comfortable telling their parents "there's this guy I'm talking to" or "there's this girl I'm talking to" because if they can't have that conversation they'll make life-altering mistakes without guidance, why an 18-year-old girl called crying thinking she was pregnant because her parents never taught her about protection or boys, why getting pregnant at a young age was not planned and should never be the inspiration for anybody because it meant sacrificing youth and exploration to be a mother, why imposter syndrome is real and happens in three stages: self-doubt asking "why me?", arrogance saying "if not me then who?", and finally humanity, why reading books from greats like Magdalene Albright and Roosevelt reveals they are human beings with the same 24 hours and same organs as you proving "why not me?" is the right question, why being self-deprecating and insulting yourself harshly means nobody on social media can bring you down because you've already said worse to yourself, why strangers discussing your life are mere mortals whose opinions don't deserve sleep or attention, why a Rwandan minister reaching out about Women of Valor triggers imposter syndrome first before realizing it's the fourth year of promoting this event so it's not a big deal, and why the only person who can bring your spirit down is you - making self-awareness, brutal honesty, and refusing to care about nonsense the foundation of unstoppable confidence that thrives on criticism instead of crumbling under it. Host: Derrick Abaitey
From student loan anxiety to financial liberation through mindset transformation - and the brutal truth about why your salary doesn't determine your wealth but the quality and quantity of your work does, the Andrew Carnegie revelation that workers set their own income by going beyond bare minimum to broker deals and provide value 24/7, the student loan crisis phone call that revealed how one sister's crippling fear was solved in a single conversation by explaining income-based repayment plans where healthcare workers pay 10% of income for 10 years then get forgiveness, leading to her getting married and buying her first home within a year, and why that moment became the birth of Investing Tutor when a Google search revealed no one in America or the world held the title of "investment tutor" making it possible to become the first, while the real question becomes: why are people not educating themselves about money when Henry Ford said if people truly understood how money works there'd be a riot the next day, because people are so busy earning money they haven't taken time to understand how it's created and how it works, and the marriage analogy proves everything - people enter marriage based on what they saw at home without reading a marriage 101 guide, people enter friendships without studying relationships, and people chase money without understanding the financial system, leaving them trapped in the distraction of working for paychecks instead of building wealth through quality work, quantity of value, and strategic positioning in assets that appreciate over time. In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with Dr. Hans - the investing tutor - who dismantles the dangerous "get a degree, get a job, get paid" mentality keeping people locked in financial mediocrity, revealing the exact moment when a close friend's sister was paralyzed by student loan anxiety and couldn't imagine getting married or buying a house, when one phone call explaining that student loans are actually the best debt in America because you can get on income-based repayment plans where healthcare workers pay just 10% of income for 10 years then receive forgiveness changed her entire life, when Derek a year after that conversation she got married in a beautiful wedding and purchased her first home, when that experience became the catalyst for Investing Tutor because it exposed how many people don't know basic information about the financial system, when during that same week a close friend from Ghana called saying "Hans I just started a new job and I keep hearing stocks, stocks, stocks but I know nothing about stocks," when the shock of realizing people don't understand stocks led to a Google search for "investment tutor" and the search results came back with zero people in America or anywhere in the world holding that title, when that gap made it possible to earn the title of the first investment tutor in America. This isn't motivational wealth-building talk from Instagram financial gurus - it's a systematic breakdown of why Andrew Carnegie's revelation that workers set their own salary by quality and quantity of work dismantles the victim mentality that bosses control your income, why student loan anxiety can be solved in one phone call by understanding income-based repayment plans that forgive debt after 10 years for healthcare workers, why that phone call led to a marriage and a first home purchase within a year proving financial education changes lives immediately, why Googling "investment tutor" and finding zero results in America or the world created the opportunity to become the first and earn that title, why Henry Ford said if people truly understood how money works there'd be a riot the next day because the system is designed to keep people distracted earning paychecks instead of building wealth, why stopping at business class on your first flight from Ghana to the US and saying "this is where we should be sitting" is the mindset that separates those who build generational wealth from those who accept economy seating for life. Guest: Dr. Hans (The Investing Tutor) Host: Derrick Abaitey
From $7-an-hour immigrant poverty to street gambling losses to the brutal truth about Bitcoin as the greatest wealth transfer in human history - and why day trading is a scam that tries to create a baby in one month by getting nine women pregnant, the MTN stock that went from 1.70 to explosive growth proving 18-19% portfolio gains are real when you commit to long-term investing, the Apple stock lesson that shows trading back and forth for 50% wins and 50% losses is foolish compared to buying and holding from 2008 iPhone launch to today for 1000%+ returns, and why land is locally powerful within Ghana's borders but Bitcoin is globally powerful with the same price in Accra, Turkey, Europe, US, and Australia - making it the first property an individual can hold and access anywhere on earth with just Wi-Fi or a data plan, while the real revelation is that the super rich have most of their wealth trapped in properties and stocks so God devised a way to slowly funnel a portion of that money into something else to distribute the wealth and that vehicle is Bitcoin, and the question for every Ghanaian becomes: do you need to see electricity to benefit from it every day, do you need to see Facebook and Instagram to use the multi-trillion dollar platforms, or can you educate yourself about digital assets and get exposure to the wealth transfer happening right now before it's too late. In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with Dr. Hans - the investing tutor - who dismantles the dangerous "I can't see it so I won't invest in it" mentality keeping Africans locked out of the greatest wealth transfer in human history, revealing the exact moment when his family immigrated to America and went from upper middle class in Ghana to bottom 10% in New York, when he was working at a children's clothing store in the Bronx earning $7 an hour carrying racks of clothes from upstairs to the sales floor, when one Friday he was paid $250 for the week's work and walked outside to see a group of boys playing the three-cup shell game shuffling cups over a ball, when he stood there for 10-15 minutes watching and every single cup he thought had the ball was correct when someone else played, when he pulled out $100 and pointed to the right cup but when they picked it up the ball wasn't there, when he said "that was a mistake, maybe I wasn't paying close enough attention" and took out the other $100 from his week's pay, when this time they shuffled slow and he saw the ball with his own eyes going to the left cup. When Bitcoin became the answer because the price of Bitcoin in Ghana is the same as the price in Turkey, Europe, US, and Australia making it the first property an individual can hold and access anywhere on earth so far as there's an internet connection, when the greatest wealth transfer explanation made it clear that the super rich have most of their money trapped in properties and stocks so God devised a way to slowly funnel a portion of that wealth into something else to distribute it and that vehicle is Bitcoin, and when the final message became simple: people don't see electricity but benefit from it every day, people don't see Facebook and Instagram but use the multi-trillion dollar platforms daily, so you don't need to see something to benefit from it - you just need to educate yourself and get exposure to digital assets before the wealth transfer passes you by. This isn't motivational wealth-building talk from Instagram financial gurus - it's a systematic breakdown of why the $7-an-hour immigrant who lost $200 in a street gambling scam learned that day trading is trying to create a baby in one month by getting nine women pregnant, why Bitcoin is globally powerful because the price is identical in Accra, Turkey, Europe, US, and Australia making it the first property you can hold and access anywhere on earth with just Wi-Fi, why the super rich have most of their wealth trapped in properties and stocks so Bitcoin is God's way of slowly funneling a portion of that money into something else to distribute the wealth, why people don't see electricity but benefit from it every day and don't see Facebook or Instagram but use the multi-trillion dollar platforms daily proving you don't need to see something to benefit from it, why educating yourself before getting exposure to digital assets is critical because this is the greatest wealth transfer in human history, why discipline beats motivation when building wealth, and why success is not what you attract but who you become - making the journey of financial education and exposure to stocks, real estate, cash cows, and Bitcoin the only path to generational wealth for Ghanaians and Africans ready to stop watching from the sidelines and start participating in the systems the rich use to build fortunes. Guest: Dr. Hans (The Investing Tutor) Host: Derrick Abaitey
From village poverty to German scholarship to the brutal truth about wealth mindset - and why most Ghanaians don't believe they deserve to be wealthy, the parable of the talents that exposes fear-based decision making where the servant hid his one talent instead of investing it because "I was afraid," the $100 plot of land in Accra that's now worth $250,000 USD proving early adopters of scarce assets win generational wealth, and why your money sitting in a bank account loses purchasing power every single year as gallon of gas goes from $2 to $2.20 and movie tickets get more expensive and food costs more - meaning that 2,000 cedis you saved last year can't buy what it used to buy this year, while the real question becomes: do you have the mindset of "I deserve to be wealthy" and if you do then what are you going to do to make sure you are able to build wealth, because without financial resources how many people can you actually help, and the only way to help Ghana is to educate Ghanaians all over the world so they are able to build wealth by tapping into the financial systems that the rich and wealthy are tapping into which we are not exposed to. In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with Dr. Hans - the investing tutor - who dismantles the dangerous "I don't deserve wealth" mentality keeping Ghanaians locked out of the financial systems the rich use to build generational fortunes, revealing the exact moment when his father sat him down and said "boy, if I had known that land would be so valuable right now, boy I would have bought so many plots of land" because at that time land was about $100 for one plot in many places in Accra and today the average plot is about $250,000 USD, when that statement became the driving force behind the mission: I never ever want to say to my son or daughter if I had bought this asset or that asset I would have been very very wealthy, when his dad grew up in a village and was one of the top two students so he got a scholarship to study in Germany, when the host family that took him in had a gentleman named Hans so he named his son after that gentleman, when his mom revealed that even though his dad was entrepreneurial he was afraid to take that leap - afraid of the "what if" that stops so many people from investing, when the parable of the talents made it clear that the Master gave five talents to one servant, three to another, and one to the last - and the one who had five immediately went off and invested it and earned five more, when the servant who had one went and hid the talent because "I was afraid" and didn't want to lose it, when the Master said "if you didn't know why didn't you take my money to someone more qualified, why didn't you take it to the bankers to invest the money so that at least I could have earned something on top of it," when the realization hit that most individuals don't even have the mindset of "I deserve to be wealthy" and if you don't believe that are you doing good for this world by having that mentality, when the question became: how many people can you help without financial resources, when the mission crystallized as "this is how I'm going to help Ghana . This isn't motivational wealth-building talk from Instagram financial gurus - it's a systematic breakdown of why most Ghanaians don't believe they deserve to be wealthy and that mentality stops them from helping anyone because you can't help Ghana without financial resources, why the parable of the talents exposes that fear causes people to hide their money instead of investing it and the Master's response was clear: if you didn't know why didn't you seek guidance from someone qualified, why land in Accra went from $100 per plot to $250,000 USD proving early adopters of scarce assets win generational wealth, why land appreciates because countries print more money creating more cash chasing fixed supply like East Legon where you can't increase the size, why your money in a bank account loses purchasing power every single year as prices increase for gas, food, movies, and everything else, why the wealth plan is simple: grandfathers say gold, parents say land, American titans say stocks - all scarce assets that grow over time, why owning stock means getting a percentage stake in a company so your money grows as that company serves more customers without you doing anything, and why the mission is to educate Ghanaians all over the world to tap into the financial systems the rich use - because believing you deserve wealth and taking action to build it is the only way to help your community, your family, and your country. Guest: Dr. Hans (The Investing Tutor) Host: Derrick Abaitey
From the 2008 financial collapse to Bitcoin's birth as digital property - and the brutal truth about why Bitcoin isn't speculation but pure scarcity economics, the 21 million unit cap that makes it behave exactly like land where supply is fixed and demand drives value, the 2017 moment when Bitcoin went from $3,000 to $90,000 today turning 3,000 cedis into nearly 1 million cedis for early believers, and why Warren Buffett's rejection of Bitcoin proves the old guard will always resist new technology just like they resisted antibiotics until the generation that refused it died off and the younger generation made it standard, while the real question for your auntie with money in the bank becomes: do you think the world is becoming more physical or more digital, and if you say digital with AI and new technologies taking over every industry, then the follow-up is simple - do you own any digital wealth, because if the world becomes solely more digital it's the holders of digital assets who will be the Rockefellers and Carnegies of the next 10, 20, 30 years, not the people clutching physical cash that loses value every single year. In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with Dr. Hans - the investing tutor - who dismantles the dangerous "I can't see it so I won't invest in it" mentality keeping Africans locked out of the fastest-growing wealth-building asset in human history, revealing the exact moment when looking back at the community and asking what opportunity exists for individuals who feel priced out of buying land or multiple real estate properties led to the 2016 discovery of Bitcoin as the answer, when studying gold, land, stocks, and Bitcoin side by side made it clear that Bitcoin grew the most by far over any reasonable time period, when 2017 Bitcoin sat at $3,000 US dollars and today it's roughly $90,000 meaning someone who invested 3,000 cedis in 2017 would have close to 1 million cedis today, when the realization hit that Bitcoin is the first digital scarce asset - something you can't see or touch but exists as digital property in a world becoming more digital every single day, when a close friend said "Hans I don't do Bitcoin, I can't even see it, I can't touch it, I like to feel my money, I want to walk to a property and know it's there" and the response was simple: do you think the world is becoming more physical or digital, and if digital then do you own any digital wealth, when discovering Bitcoin in 2016 and watching it skyrocket then fall 60-70% triggered the reaction "this thing is a scam" and led to ignoring it for a year, when an article in 2017 revealed that Peter Thiel and the PayPal investors were creating a consortium to invest in Bitcoin and digital assets, when that moment forced the question: either I'm wrong or the billionaires are wrong, and judging by networks it was clearly me so I had to be humble enough to go educate myself, when going down the Bitcoin rabbit hole meant studying this asset class three to five hours every single day at 2X speed since 2016 and continuing that discipline up until today. This isn't motivational wealth-building talk from Instagram crypto gurus - it's a systematic breakdown of why Bitcoin is the first digital scarce asset that exists as property you can't see or touch in a world becoming more digital every single day, why someone who invested 3,000 cedis in Bitcoin in 2017 would have close to 1 million cedis today because Bitcoin went from $3,000 to roughly $90,000, why studying this asset three to five hours a day at 2X speed since 2016 is what separates real investors from people calling it a scam, why Peter Thiel and PayPal billionaires investing in Bitcoin forced the humble realization that either I'm wrong or they're wrong and judging by networks it was clearly me, why Warren Buffett's rejection of Bitcoin mirrors the old generation's rejection of antibiotics until they died off and the younger generation made it standard, why Warren Buffett's biggest wealth creator was Apple stock proving even tech skeptics win when they embrace digital innovation, why an Asian investor paid $4.5 million for lunch with Warren Buffett and walked away more convinced to invest in Bitcoin after Buffett said don't do it, why the 2008 financial collapse happened when banks sold risky mortgages to unqualified buyers and when interest rates increased the housing market crashed but taxpayers bailed out the wealthy bankers anyway, and why the simple question for anyone with money sitting in the bank is this: do you think the world is becoming more physical or more digital, and if digital then do you own any digital wealth - because if the world becomes solely more digital it's the holders of digital assets who will be the Rockefellers of the next 10, 20, 30 years. Guest: Dr. Hans (The Investing Tutor) Host: Derrick Abaitey
In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with Mama Cathy - a relationship expert and founding president of Family Renaissance International who has been married for 33+ years and has spent 25 years helping families navigate marriage, finances, and everything in between, dismantling the dangerous "money is the only thing that matters in marriage". Guest: Rev. Mrs. Catherine Onwioduokit Host: Derrick Abaitey IG: https://www.instagram.com/derrick.abaitey YT: https://www.youtube.com/@DerrickAbaitey Join Konnected Academy: https://www.triibe.io/konnected-academy Listen to the podcast on: Apple Podcast - http://tinyurl.com/4ttwbdxe Spotify - http://tinyurl.com/3he8hjfp Join this channel: /@konnectedminds FOLLOW ► https://linktr.ee/konnectedminds #Podcast #businesspodcast #AfricanPodcast
From fear and skepticism to Ghana leading Africa in crypto regulation - and the brutal truth about why Bitcoin isn't a get-rich-quick scheme, the 21 million unit cap that makes it behave like digital property and land where scarcity drives value as more people want in, the Ghana virtual assets bill that puts the country ahead of the United States in crypto legislation, and why disposable income isn't about having money you don't need - it's about either earning too little or spending too much, while the real question becomes: are you utilizing your talents or are you timid and afraid, because if you can set aside just 10% of your income and commit 80-90% of that into the stock market and 10-20% into Bitcoin, or simply split it 50-50 if there's no stock market access, you position yourself for long-term wealth that compounds over time instead of chasing quick cash that disappears as fast as it came, and the mobile money lesson proves everything - when it launched in Ghana in 2009 the banks called it an amusing experiment that wouldn't amount to much, only 300,000 people used it for the first three years, but once Bank of Ghana allowed vendor access in 2014 with friendly regulation it exploded to over 60% citizen adoption, and the same trajectory is coming for digital assets as telcos and banks realize over the next one to three years that if they don't offer crypto products they will be disrupted and left behind. In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with Dr. Hans who dismantles the dangerous "crypto is gambling" narrative keeping Ghanaians locked out of the digital wealth revolution, revealing the exact moment when understanding that Bitcoin was created solely to be digital property like gold and land - not to do fancy things but simply exist as 21 million units where supply and demand determine value with no central control, when Ghana passed the virtual assets service providers bill and became one of the first countries in the world to have crypto legislation even before the United States finalized theirs, when the realization hit that this bill means more demand for the asset because regulatory clarity brings institutional and retail confidence, when the question "if I invest in BTC today how long should I give myself" exposed that most people think investment means quick cash but the real answer is for people thinking long-term because nothing good in life is rushed, when the three types of people in the game became clear: those looking for quick turnaround, those in for the long term, and those who don't understand that everything worthwhile takes time to grow just like planting a seed or going through school from class one to university, when Jay Morrison's quote hit different: "I pity the person who gets a million dollars before they're a millionaire" because if you woke up tomorrow with a million dollars in your bank account what would you do with it, when the apartment conversation in Villagio six years ago revealed that if you opened your bedroom and saw loads of cash two things would happen - you either go mad or you finish that money in two weeks - because there's a preparation stage that prepares you to handle wealth and that's why slow growth is important because you build resilience, when the foundation of a house analogy made it clear that foundations are never built in a day or even a week because it takes time to allow the building to sit beautifully, when the disposable income question forced people to ask themselves: do I have money I don't need, and if not does that mean I'm not earning enough or I'm spending too much. Over the next one to three years telcos will allow individuals to purchase crypto and digital assets just like mobile money, and banks globally - whether Chase, Bank of America, or Barclays - will realize that if they don't offer digital products they will be disrupted and left behind. This isn't motivational wealth-building talk from Instagram crypto gurus - it's a systematic breakdown of why Bitcoin is pure supply and demand with 21 million units and no central control, why Ghana passing a crypto bill before the US is phenomenal and signals more demand for the asset, why long-term investing beats quick cash schemes because slow steady growth builds the resilience and money management skills needed to handle wealth, why disposable income is about either earning more or spending less and every person needs to audit whether they're utilizing their talents or being timid and afraid. 300,000 users to 60% national adoption proves that friendly regulation unlocks mass participation, and why the next one to three years will see telcos and banks integrate digital assets or get disrupted - making now the time to get educated, get exposed, and get positioned before the masses flood in. Guest: Dr. Hans (The Investing Tutor) Host: Derrick Abaitey
From student loan anxiety to financial liberation through Bitcoin, Why digital assets are the answer for Africans priced out of traditional wealth - and the brutal truth about the one million dollar Bitcoin prediction in the next 10 years, the 2016 discovery that became the generational wealth solution for people who thought they were too late, the 70% Bitcoin, 20% Ethereum, 10% diversification portfolio that protects savings from losing value every single year in cash, and why a pharmacist who was earning six figures walked away from clinical pharmacy when his director turned against him overnight to focus 12 hours a day on a side business that was only making $20,000 annually - making his wife cry not because she was against entrepreneurship but because there's no guaranteed deposit in your bank account when you leap into the unknown, while the real journey started when a close friend called about his sister's crippling anxiety over student loans and that conversation revealed how many people are trapped in financial captivity without realizing the systems designed to keep them there, leading to the mission of setting people free through financial education and exposure to digital asset classes that appreciate over time instead of losing value like cash sitting in savings accounts. In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with Dr. Hans - the investing tutor - who dismantles the dangerous "keep your money in cash" mentality keeping Africans locked out of the fastest-growing wealth-building opportunities in human history, revealing the exact moment when his mother wanted him to be a doctor because he cared about people as a little boy who would stop playing to attend to someone who got hurt, when he chose pharmacy instead because pharmacists are accessible healthcare professionals you don't need appointments to see and can walk into any pharmacy for instant access to knowledge, when he landed a six-figure clinical pharmacist role while running investing tutor part-time earning only $20,000 annually and believed that was the best of both worlds, when his director who hired him suddenly turned against him overnight and was eager to get him removed from that position, when the hospital offered him a transfer to escape the toxic relationship but he came home and told his wife he was going to work on the business full-time instead, when a tear dropped down her face not because she was against the decision but because entrepreneurship offers no guaranteed future and no guaranteed deposits - you have to provide value to the world and no one knows how long it takes to see results, when a close friend called about his sister's deep fear and anxiety over student loans and that phone call became the catalyst for financial liberation work, when he told her student loans are actually the best debt to have in America and people didn't believe him in 2016-2019 until COVID hit and student loan payments were paused for three years while mortgages, credit cards, and car bills still had to be paid, when he got on the phone with the sister who was so scared she didn't think she could get married or buy a house and walked her through calling the loan servicer to get on a payment plan where she only pays 10% of her income and after 10 years it's forgiven, when he realized people are in financial captivity and don't even know it, when he started asking himself what opportunity exists for individuals who feel priced out of traditional wealth-building and waited all his life diligently searching for the answer until 2016 when he stumbled upon it: our people need exposure to digital assets because if they keep their money saved in cash it loses value every single year, and the question "are we too late to invest in Bitcoin" gets answered with the simple truth - we are not late, we are right on time. This isn't motivational wealth-building talk from Instagram financial gurus - it's a systematic breakdown of why Moses led people out of captivity and financial education does the same thing for people trapped in systems designed to keep them broke, why student loans are the best debt in America because they offer income-based repayment plans and forgiveness after 10 years while every other debt had to be paid even during COVID, Africans especially need exposure to digital asset classes because traditional banking and savings systems are designed to extract value not build wealth, and why the simple answer to "am I too late to invest in Bitcoin" is no - because the journey to one million dollars per Bitcoin is just beginning and every person who gets exposure now positions themselves for the generational wealth transfer that's coming over the next decade. Guest: Dr. Hans (The Investing Tutor) Host: Derrick Abaitey
Why Bitcoin is the alternative financial system created by an angel - and the brutal truth about taxpayer bailouts that saved manipulated banks while no one was held accountable, the anonymous genius who showed up on a group chat with a solution that doesn't go through standard financial institutions, the 21 million unit cap that makes Bitcoin behave like prime real estate where scarcity drives value as more people want in, and why your aunt in the village should think of it as Momo that appreciates over time while your aunt in the US should think of it as a high yield savings account on steroids - except instead of 4-5% interest you're looking at potential 30-50% year-by-year growth that could hit $1 million per Bitcoin in 10 years and $10 million in 20-25 years, meaning every cedi or dollar you invest now could 10X in a decade and 100X in two decades, while the real miracle is that unlike prime property in Airport Hills or Trasako that rejects your 200 cedis because you're not rich enough. Bitcoin lets anyone with $1, $10, $100, or $100,000 buy their portion and watch it grow at exactly the same rate - making it the only truly democratic wealth-building asset where the person who puts in 200 cedis can turn it into 2,000 cedis and the person who puts in $100,000 can turn it into $1 million, all growing proportionally without gatekeepers, minimum balances, or discrimination based on how much capital you started with. In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with a Bitcoin expert who dismantles the dangerous "crypto is a scam" narrative keeping Africans locked out of the fastest-growing asset class in human history, revealing the exact moment when the 2008 financial crisis exposed how banks and financial institutions manipulated the system and crashed the global economy, when taxpayers had to bail out those same institutions while no one was held accountable for the destruction, when an anonymous person - who the guest calls an angel - appeared on a group chat and said "I've been working on an alternative financial system that cannot be manipulated and does not go through the standard financial system," when that system turned out to be peer-to-peer. Bitcoin where you and Derrick can transact directly without banks or intermediaries, when the 21 million unit cap was revealed meaning no one can ever create more Bitcoin no matter what happens, when understanding that scarcity principle made it click: just like land, as more people want Bitcoin the value increases because supply is fixed, when the realization hit that Bitcoin is Momo for Ghanaians except the money appreciates over time, when comparing it to high yield savings accounts in the US and Europe that pay 4-5% interest made it clear that Bitcoin's 30-50% year-by-year growth. Bitcoin even though early adopters reaped higher gains, why Bitcoin could hit $1 million in the next 10 years and $10 million in 20-25 years, meaning every amount you invest now could 10X in a decade and 100X in two decades, why those who get exposure earlier benefit from higher gains but eventual growth will stabilize at around 20-21% in perpetuity after about 20 years, why the person who puts in 200 cedis or $20 cannot show up on prime property in Airport Hills or Trasako and buy exposure but CAN buy Bitcoin and watch it grow exactly the same as someone who invested $100,000, and why Bitcoin was created by an angel because no matter how much money you have. Host: Derrick Abaitey
From hunger and desperation to internet scams and unrealistic expectations: Why Ghana's youth are choosing fraud over legitimate paths - and the brutal truth about the social media pressure cooker that makes every 18-year-old think they'll become billionaires, the "big six" classmates who were beaten down in primary school and now four are scammers because nobody helped them find what they're good at, the machine conversation that removes guilt when you're talking to an avatar instead of seeing the 80-year-old human whose life savings you're stealing, and why the education system kills the spirit of kids who aren't good in class by tagging them as "you know nothing, you can't be anybody" from primary school onward, while hunger creates desperation that makes people say "if I didn't do this I would have died" even though it doesn't justify the action, and the only real question becomes: what other options do young people actually have when the system never taught them to discover their unique advantages, whether that's a good voice, public speaking courage, artistic eye, or hands-on skills - leaving them to choose between starvation, scams, or the rare path of finding that one thing they're interested in and building it into something real. In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with young Ghanaians who dismantle the dangerous pipeline pushing their generation from classroom failure to internet fraud, revealing the exact moment when the realization hit that society programs people to think you can't make money through legitimate means so scamming feels like the only option, when watching age mates at 18 and 19 buying Benzes and living lavish lifestyles copied from musicians made the temptation real enough to almost pull him in because "if I make this money I can give it back and clean it up by investing in other businesses," when the guilt question emerged - "how can I become somebody everybody knows and talk about good stuff when I know where I'm coming from" - and that moral standard saved him even though for most people getting into scams those moral standards don't exist, when understanding that talking to a machine on the internet removes the human consequences because you don't see the 80-year-old person whose wealth you're stealing so you don't internalize that there's a real human on the other side, when the hunger excuse becomes undeniable because "if you are food, let's say if you are rich in a poor community you are safe" but when hunger and desperation hit people will do anything to survive even if it doesn't justify the action, and when watching the "big six" - the last six students in primary school who were constantly told "you know nothing, you can't be anybody" - revealed that four of them became scammers and two claim they're selling stuff but nobody knows how they have money, because the education system killed their spirit instead of helping them discover what they're uniquely good at. This isn't motivational youth empowerment talk from Instagram activists - it's a systematic breakdown of why social media has raised expectations across the board where almost every kid now says they'll become a billionaire but in reality that's not what happens, why unrealistic expectations meet young boys who don't know how to reach those goals but desperately want them, why they learn the scam skills from people already into it - the "Godfather" system where you get close to someone living the lavish life so they can connect you to people who will teach you, why majority of people who watch Konnected Minds videos still haven't subscribed and that doesn't help the channel grow beyond expectations, why even rich people in poor communities are safe because the people doing the scamming are driven by hunger and desperation to solve survival problems, whether that's a natural good voice, courage to speak in public, ability to do things with their hands, a good artistic eye for photography, or anything else they can hone into a skill and build into something that creates legitimate income instead of choosing the scam path that leads to foreign prison cells. Host: Derrick Abaitey
From hunger and desperation to internet scams and unrealistic expectations: Why Ghana's youth are choosing fraud over legitimate paths - and the brutal truth about the social media pressure cooker that makes every 18-year-old think they'll become billionaires, the "big six" classmates who were beaten down in primary school and now four are scammers because nobody helped them find what they're good at, the machine conversation that removes guilt when you're talking to an avatar instead of seeing the 80-year-old human whose life savings you're stealing, and why the education system kills the spirit of kids who aren't good in class by tagging them as "you know nothing, you can't be anybody" from primary school onward, while hunger creates desperation that makes people say "if I didn't do this I would have died" even though it doesn't justify the action, and the only real question becomes: what other options do young people actually have when the system never taught them to discover their unique advantages, whether that's a good voice, public speaking courage, artistic eye, or hands-on skills - leaving them to choose between starvation, scams, or the rare path of finding that one thing they're interested in and building it into something real. In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with young Ghanaians who dismantle the dangerous pipeline pushing their generation from classroom failure to internet fraud, revealing the exact moment when the realization hit that society programs people to think you can't make money through legitimate means so scamming feels like the only option, when watching age mates at 18 and 19 buying Benzes and living lavish lifestyles copied from musicians made the temptation real enough to almost pull him in because "if I make this money I can give it back and clean it up by investing in other businesses," when the guilt question emerged - "how can I become somebody everybody knows and talk about good stuff when I know where I'm coming from" - and that moral standard saved him even though for most people getting into scams those moral standards don't exist, when understanding that talking to a machine on the internet removes the human consequences because you don't see the 80-year-old person whose wealth you're stealing so you don't internalize that there's a real human on the other side, when the hunger excuse becomes undeniable because "if you are food, let's say if you are rich in a poor community you are safe" but when hunger and desperation hit people will do anything to survive even if it doesn't justify the action, and when watching the "big six" - the last six students in primary school who were constantly told "you know nothing, you can't be anybody" - revealed that four of them became scammers and two claim they're selling stuff but nobody knows how they have money, because the education system killed their spirit instead of helping them discover what they're uniquely good at. This isn't motivational youth empowerment talk from Instagram activists - it's a systematic breakdown of why social media has raised expectations across the board where almost every kid now says they'll become a billionaire but in reality that's not what happens, why unrealistic expectations meet young boys who don't know how to reach those goals but desperately want them, why they learn the scam skills from people already into it - the "Godfather" system where you get close to someone living the lavish life so they can connect you to people who will teach you, why majority of people who watch Konnected Minds videos still haven't subscribed and that doesn't help the channel grow beyond expectations, why even rich people in poor communities are safe because the people doing the scamming are driven by hunger and desperation to solve survival problems, why the internet removes moral consequences because you're literally talking to a machine and most scammers couldn't pull off the same theft in person when they'd see the human impact, why the education system plays a destructive role by tagging struggling students as failures from primary school onward and killing any belief that they can do anything, why those beaten-down students become the ones most prone to internet scams because "there's nothing they can do" has been drilled into them since childhood, why the superiority complex kicks in when everyone speaks down on you and suddenly the scam path offers a way to make money so people can finally see you as important, why some people turn that beating into motivation to do something great while others turn to fraud because both paths offer the feeling of importance, why the real question isn't about judging people in desperate contexts because "if I lived the way they lived I would do it too," why every young person has either something they're interested in or some unique advantage. Host: Derrick Abaitey
From gambling losses to fearless entrepreneurship: Why fear is the silent killer of young African potential - and the brutal truth about the girlfriend test that asks "is she adding or taking," the SHS gambling story that lost a week's food money but taught the lesson that failure doesn't kill you, the business partner who saves money but won't invest because "what if it burns," and why the exterminator picks up the snake without fear because they know 91% of snakes aren't poisonous while everyone else panics from ignorance, leaving young people trapped by the fear of what parents will say, what friends will think, whether the business will fail, and whether taking the risk means losing everything - when the real truth is that as long as you're alive you can work again, save again, and invest again, but if you let fear stop you from ever starting then you've already lost before the game even began. In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with young entrepreneurs who dismantle the dangerous "play it safe" mentality keeping Ghana's youth trapped in fear-based decision making, revealing the exact moment when sitting in a bad boy's room in SHS watching card games led to winning twice the week's food money and then losing it all in seven or eight hours of gambling, when staring at his best friend after losing everything triggered the realization "we are going to survive, we are still alive," when that gambling loss became the foundation for fearless business investing years later because the lesson was clear: if I study the business, go deep into it, test what I need to test, and lose - I'm still alive and I can work hard to make the money back, when watching a brother who works hard and saves money but refuses to invest because "what if the money burns" showed the difference between people who let fear control their decisions and people who understand that risk is part of growth, and why the girlfriend question isn't "should I date or not" but "is this person adding to where I want to go or taking from it" - because if your girlfriend, your friends, your video games, your pornography, or anything else in your life isn't adding to your goals then it's taking from you and shouldn't exist in your focus. This isn't motivational youth empowerment talk from Instagram entrepreneurs - it's a systematic breakdown of why majority of people who watch Konnected Minds videos still haven't subscribed and that doesn't help the channel grow, why young people enter relationships for pleasure and fun without talking about life goals or what they really want to do, why gambling and video games use the same addictive psychology where the possibility of winning excites your brain chemicals even when you lose a hundred times, why once you start gambling it's almost impossible to stop because the psychology keeps you coming back, why people need to wake up and realize "bro this is real money I'm spending" even when they win a thousand cedis because the question is how much have you already spent, why the snake analogy explains fear perfectly - you're scared of the snake in your house because you don't know what kind it is, but the exterminator picks it up without fear because they know 91% of snakes aren't poisonous and this one isn't dangerous, why fear stops young people from starting businesses not because the risk is actually that high but because they don't have enough information to know that failure won't kill them, why fear of how other people react - fear of what your mother will say, what friends will think, whether people will call it cringe - stops Derrick himself from taking on some projects he wants to work on, and why every young person in Ghana and Africa needs to look fear in the eyes today and say "I'm scared of you" and go anyway, because the thing with fear is it's just ignorance dressed up as danger, and the only way to defeat it is to study the thing, test the thing, and realize that even if you fail you're still alive and you can work again, save again, and invest again - but if you let fear stop you from ever starting then you've already lost before the game even began. Critical revelations include: The SHS gambling story that taught fearlessness: sat down in a bad boy's room, won twice the week's food money, played for seven or eight hours, lost everything - and the lesson was "we are going to survive, we are still alive" How gambling loss created business courage: that day taught him that as long as he's alive, if he loses money in business he can work hard and make it back - so now he's not scared to invest after studying and testing The final challenge to young Africans: look fear in the eyes today and say "I'm scared of you" and go anyway - because if you let fear stop you from ever starting, you've already lost before the game even began Host: Derrick Abaitey
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Awalu Baba

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Seth T. Darkoh

I know your podcast is going global soon

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