Uncensored with MxTomie

EP 48: In this episode of Uncensored, Mx Tomie sits down with Kim of the Internet—who exited Omsom for reportedly millions, a Forbes 30 Under 30 honoree, Adweek Young Influential, and one of the internet’s sharpest voices on kink, power, and visibility. Kim opens up about her unconventional upbringing, building a venture-backed CPG brand while coming into kink as a Mommy Dom, and navigating visibility, stigma, and success as a public founder. She reflects on exiting Omsom, solo travel, and why she became an online BDSM educator to counter widespread misinformation. The conversation dives into dominance, emotional labor, boundaries, attachment styles, entitlement, and how BDSM becomes a framework for communication, leadership, and self-knowledge—far beyond the bedroom. 👉 Watch the full uncensored version on Patreon. Follow Our Guest: IG - https://www.instagram.com/kimoftheinternet/?hl=en Support the Show 💻 Join today, visit iwantclips.com use code MXTOMIE for 15% off your shopping cart, and Artists claim 90% rev share for your first three months! 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie

EP 47: In this episode of Uncensored, we interview Louisa Ferre, a professional dominatrix based in San Francisco and Los Angeles, to talk about BDSM, femdom, dominant girlfriend experience, and the real business of professional domination. Louisa shares how her background in classical music and corporate work informs her sessions, her experience with dungeon mentorships, and how she navigated the transition into online sex work during the pandemic. We discuss common myths about dominance, red flags in dom mentorship programs, emotional labor in BDSM, and how power dynamics extend beyond the dungeon into travel, lifestyle, and long-term dynamics. Chapters: 00:00 – 00:01:00 Setting the Scene 00:01:01 – 00:02:05 Welcome & Guest Introduction 00:02:05 – 00:03:12 Multiple Lives, One Throughline 00:03:12 – 00:05:08 Origin Story: From Music & Corporate to OnlyFans 00:05:08 – 00:06:00 Moving to the Bay & Dungeon Mentorship 00:06:01 – 00:08:28 Tumblr Era: BL, Femdom & “Love of the Game” 00:08:29 – 00:10:24 Early Kink Influences & Queer Theater Community 00:10:25 – 00:12:01 Classical Training: Discipline, Breath & Timing

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EP 44: In this candid, no-holds-barred conversation, Mx Tomie sits down with Danielle Blunt—a dominatrix, researcher, and organizer working at the intersection of sexuality, technology, censorship, and power. Danielle is the co-founder of Hacking//Hustling and a leading voice on how digital platforms, financial systems, and so-called “safety” policies disproportionately harm sex workers and marginalized communities. Together, they explore how domination isn’t just about pleasure, but about risk, ethics, and what happens at the edge of consent—both in intimate dynamics and in our relationship to technology and capitalism. From Danielle’s early training in old-guard BDSM spaces to the real consequences of platform censorship and financial discrimination, this conversation connects the dungeon to the digital world in ways you probably haven’t considered. If you’ve ever wondered who decides what’s “acceptable,” who gets punished for desire, and why intimacy always involves risk—this episode is for you. Chapters 0:00 — 1:05 Danielle Blunt Introduction 1:00 — 2:02 Mx Tomie Formally Introduces Danielle Blunt 2:15 – 3:25 Danielle is Anti‑Pleasure, Pro‑Torture? 3:25 – 5:30 Origin Story: Sex, Taboo & Power 5:30 – 8:26 The Old Guard BDSM Chateau 8:26 – 12:28 Lifestyle Domination, Manipulation & Negotiation 12:28 – 18:20 Edge Play: A Deep‑Dive Story 18:20 – 22:31 Repair Work, Consent & The Unknown 22:31 – 26:05 Long‑Term Subs, DS Dynamics & Training 26:00 – 30:13 Femdom GFE, Sex & The “Untouchable Dom” Myth 30:13 – 32:34 Censorship, “Safety” Rhetoric & Who’s Protected 32:34 – 35:55 Financial Discrimination & Banking Deplatforming 35:55 – 37:43 Digital Security & Threat Modeling 37:43 – 40:30 Censorship, Codes & Fetish Evolution 40:30 – 42:55 Content Creation Fatigue & Forced Innovation 42:55 – 44:10 Quick‑Fire Segment (Presented by IWantClips) 44:10 – 45:05 Outro & Closing Follow Our Guest: IG - https://www.instagram.com/missblunt.nyc/ Support the Show 💻 Join today, visit iwantclips.com use code MXTOMIE for 15% off your shopping cart, and Artists claim 90% rev share for your first three months! 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie

EP 43: Mx Tomie sits down with award-winning sexologist and TV sex expert Dr. Tara to explore how pleasure, kink, and communication intersect with power, shame, and liberation. They unpack why conversations about sex—and money—are often the hardest in long-term relationships, how shame is used as a tool of control (especially against women and marginalized communities), and how reclaiming pleasure can radically shift how we show up in our lives. From morning “pleasure routines” that replace coffee, to kink-aware ways of talking about desire with a vanilla partner, to the deeper psychology behind BDSM and humiliation, this episode weaves together practical tools, personal stories, and unapologetically real talk. Dr. Tara also shares insights from her domme training with a professional dominatrix, her perspective on television as a form of sex education, and what happens when high-powered people finally have permission to let go—and be held. Chapters 0:00 — 1:00 Dr. Tara Introduction 1:00 — 2:00 Mx Tomie Introduces Dr. Tara 2:00 — 04:50 Sexual Wellness as “Morning Coffee” and Pleasure Routine 04:50 – 7:36 Sex Toys, Pleasure Pathways & “Desensitization” Myths 07:36 – 10:01 Growing Up Repressed in Bangkok & Finding Sexology 10:01 – 12:44 Sex, Money, Power & Walking on Eggshells 12:44 – 16:38 Kinks, Shame & What Clients Confess 16:38 – 21:21 Three Practical Tips for Sharing Kinks with a Partner 21:21 – 26:50 Coaching Couples, Normalizing Kink & Finding the Right Therapist 26:50 – 28:50 Dom Training: From Theory to Practice 28:50 – 30:33 | Favorite Dom Activities & Dominant Archetypes 28:58 – 30:38 TV, Sex Ed & Where the Biggest Gaps Are 30:38 – 34:04 Shame as Social Control & Performing Sex 34:04 – 35:09 Cultural Shame Around Divorce & Staying “For the Kids” Follow Our Guest: IG - https://www.instagram.com/luvbites.co/ Support the Show 💻 Join today, visit iwantclips.com use code MXTOMIE for 15% off your shopping cart, and Artists claim 90% rev share for your first three months! 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie

EP 42: A Vietnam War veteran turned anti-war activist. The Queen of Hell’s Kitchen. A trans activist and longtime sex worker who survived eras most people only read about. In this unforgettable episode, Renee Imperato sits down with Mx Tomie to share New York stories you won’t find in history books—from growing up in 1940s Hell’s Kitchen against the backdrop of the theater district, to Vietnam’s war zones and Agent Orange, from Mafia-run queer clubs to a 30-year career driving NYC taxis, where backseats became mobile dungeons. Renee reflects on being raised by drag queens, carrying an axe for protection, surviving loss and violence, and how war radicalized her into a lifelong anti-imperialist. What emerges is not just a conversation, but a living archive of queer, trans, sex worker, and anti-war history—told with tenderness, sharp humor, and an absolute refusal to apologize. Follow Our Guest IG - https://www.instagram.com/reneimperato/ Support the Show 💻  Join today, visit iwantclips.com use code MXTOMIE for 15% off your shopping cart, and Artists claim 90% rev share for your first three months!  📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the    Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie

Mx Tomie sits down with legendary dominatrix, writer, filmmaker, and sex worker organizer Yin Q for a raw conversation about pain, power, kink, trauma, and politics. Drawing on over three decades in BDSM, Yin reflects on their evolution from hard sadism and edge play into disability-informed kink, art-making, and community organizing—speaking candidly about burnout, the emotional toll of professional domination, and the sessions that pushed them past their limits. Together, they unpack the difference between negotiated violence and abuse, why boredom and dissociation are important data, and how kink can function as art and ritual without being sold as a cure. They also explore dom aftercare, the myth of the flawless 24/7 dom, class divides in sex work, and the responsibility that comes with being visible. The episode closes with reflections on activism and Yin’s forthcoming documentary, The Whores’ Feast. Follow Our Guest IG -  https://www.instagram.com/yesmissshayla/ Support the Show 💻  Join today, visit iwantclips.com use code MXTOMIE for 15% off your shopping cart, and Artists claim 90% rev share for your first three months!  📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the    Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie

In this episode of Uncensored, Mx Tomie sits down with legendary New York dominatrix, educator, and dungeon owner Lucy Sweetkill for a raw conversation about kink, identity, business, and—yes—food. Lucy shares her path from the fashion world to moonlighting in an all-Asian dungeon she found on Backpage, eventually becoming a full-time pro dom and co-founder of La Maison de Rouge. She opens up about the emotional and spiritual labor of domination, navigating Asian fetishization, Buddhist approaches to pain, and the realities of running a kink space in NYC. They also dive into Lucy’s obsession with food culture—chef subs, sploshing, human trash bags, frozen Peeps as insertables, and humiliation scenes followed by Eleven Madison Park dinners. Smart, gritty, funny, and philosophical, this episode moves from cake-sitting chaos to gender journeys and building a sustainable, values-driven life as a creative and sex worker. Follow Our Guest IG - https://www.instagram.com/lucy.sweetkill/?hl=en Support the Show 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the    Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie

Join Mx Tomie and the illustrious Mistress Shayla as they delve into the intricacies of New York's kink scene. This episode explores the personal journeys, unique stories, and creative practices of professional dominatrices. Mistress Shayla shares her evolution from conservative upbringings to a celebrated dominatrix, revealing the humor and humanity that lies within the leather-clad boundaries. From mentoring burgeoning doms to orchestrating outrageous roleplays, Mistress Shayla leaves nothing unsaid. Follow Mx Tomie For More Here 🖤🌶️ IG - @mx.tomie.digital & @uncensoredwithmxtomie TikTok - @mx.tomie & @uncensored FB - @uncensoredpodcast YouTube - @UncensoredWithMxTomie

In this gripping episode of the Uncensored Podcast, we dive into a shocking news story involving an OnlyFans model facing murder charges after a tragic BDSM session gone wrong. We explore the dangers of high-risk kink activities, the importance of experience and safety protocols, and the lessons to be learned from this devastating incident. MX Tomie shares their own expertise in BDSM, offering insights on how to engage in extreme play responsibly. Join us for a candid discussion on safety, consent, and the safety responsibilities of both doms and subs in the BDSM community.

Uncensored Episode 44! We sit down with Luca Vale - a bisexual Switch, s*x worker, and k*nk explorer who doesn’t hold anything back. From his first disastrous client session to his deepest subspace experiences, Luca opens up about what really happens behind the scenes in BDSM and the power dynamics that drive his work.Expect chaos, laughter, and a few jaw-dropping stories including:How he got his name and started exploring k*nk...His first wild group scene (and what went wrong 😳)The difference between sissification and feminization 👠Why he loves older women and the secret to “cougar energy” 😍And yes… his top 3 kinks revealed 👀Whether you’re a Dom, a Sub, or just curious, this episode dives deep into desire, identity, and what it means to play with power.Follow Mx Tomie For More Here -IG - @mx.tomie.digital & @uncensoredwithmxtomieTikTok - @mx.tomie & @uncensoredFB - @uncensoredpodcastYouTube - @UncensoredWithMxTomie

In this raw and revealing episode of Uncensored, I sit down with my longtime sub, Gina, who uprooted his life and moved to New York City just to be closer to our intense D/s dynamic. We dive deep into his submissive awakening, from discovering femdom to his first in-person session, overcoming past relationship trauma, and pushing boundaries with chastity, cuckolding, and body modifications like circumcision for long-term play. Gina shares honest advice for new subs on embracing their desires without shame, spotting red flags in doms, and the realities of BDSM beyond fantasy.If you're exploring submission, femdom, or BDSM lifestyles, this episode is a must-watch. Like, subscribe, and hit the bell for more uncensored convos. Follow me on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, and more for daily kinky insights!Follow Mx Tomie For More Here -IG - @mx.tomie.digital & @uncensoredwithmxtomieTikTok - @mx.tomie & @uncensoredFB - @uncensoredpodcastYouTube - @UncensoredWithMxTomie

Zero gets up close and personal with MX Tomie in a playful, teasing dive into the world of pro Dom life. From cheeky contracts to tantalizing memories, we explore submission, chastity, and all the fun (and mischief) in between.Ready to blush, laugh, and maybe learn a little about submission? This playful, flirty conversation is a must-watch for anyone curious about the world of pro Dom dynamics!Follow Mx Tomie For More Here -IG - @mx.tomie.digital & @uncensoredwithmxtomieTikTok - @mx.tomie & @uncensoredFB - @uncensoredpodcastYouTube - @UncensoredWithMxTomie

We’re joined by the incredible Alice White! S*x worker, artist, filmmaker, and all-around exhibitionist. From farm life to fetish queen, Alice takes us through her wild journey. 😘Expect latex confessions, cage play, rug burn kisses, and one unforgettable sub story you won’t believe. Alice doesn’t hold back – and neither do we.Don’t be shy… like, comment, and subscribe for all the saucy, uncensored stories you won’t hear anywhere else! 😈Follow Mx Tomie For More Here -IG - @mx.tomie.digital & @uncensoredwithmxtomieTikTok - @mx.tomie & @uncensoredFB - @uncensoredpodcastYouTube - @UncensoredWithMxTomie

Things are about to get spicy. We’re sitting down with the one and only Valentina Fox to spill all the wild, naughty, and downright shocking stories from her life as a dominatrix and online sensation. From early experiments to 100K hauls, designer destruction, and the hottest sub stories…You’re not ready for this level of unfiltered fun😉Big thanks to IWANTCLIPS for sponsoring this week’s episode of Uncensored! 😘 Join today and use my code MXTOMIE to get 15% OFF your entire cart & artists claim 90% revenue share for your first three months... Don’t miss out!! 😉 😈Don’t be shy… like, comment, and subscribe for all the saucy, uncensored stories you won’t hear anywhere else! 😈Follow Mx Tomie For More Here -IG - @mx.tomie.digital & @uncensoredwithmxtomieTikTok - @mx.tomie & @uncensoredFB - @uncensoredpodcastYouTube - @UncensoredWithMxTomie

In this episode, I sit down with Zero... My very first sub when I began my journey as a Pro Domme. He’s been in my life since 2019, making him not only my first but also one of my longest-serving subs of all time! 🖤Together, we dive deep into:✨ How we first met✨ The evolution of our kinky dynamic✨ What it’s like to serve a Domme for 6 years✨ The growth he’s witnessed in me as a Domme✨ Intimacy, trust, and the realities of long-term D/sZero offers a unique perspective on kink, service, and devotion — giving you a behind-the-scenes look at what this lifestyle really feels like over years of play and growth.Whether you’re curious about BDSM, already in the scene, or just love hearing authentic kink stories — this one is full of juicy insights, laughter, and sexy memories.You don't want to miss this one! Follow Mx Tomie For More Here -IG - @mx.tomie.digital & @uncensoredwithmxtomieTikTok - @mx.tomie & @uncensoredFB - @uncensoredpodcastYouTube - @UncensoredWithMxTomie

Uncensored S2 E17 We're back with Mick Blue for Part 2. Mick doesn't hold back in telling us about his experience in the industry over his 25 years. From his love of vacuum bags to life in Austria. You don't want to miss this one! Follow Mx Tomie For More Here -IG - @mx.tomie.digital & @uncensoredwithmxtomieTikTok - @mx.tomie & @uncensoredFB - @uncensoredpodcastYouTube - @UncensoredWithMxTomie

Uncensored Episode S2 E16 I sit down with the Industry KING Mick Blue. We talk all about his 25 years in the industry & the reason he still LOVES what he does today! He has won over 25 awards including the 2015 and 2017 AVN Award for Male Performer of the Year and the XBIZ Award for Male Performer of the Year in 2022. He was inducted into the AVN Hall of Fame in 2017 - And he's going Uncensored for us all! Follow Mx Tomie For More Here -IG - @mx.tomie.digital & @uncensoredwithmxtomieTikTok - @mx.tomie & @uncensoredFB - @uncensoredpodcastYouTube - @UncensoredWithMxTomie

Uncensored S2 E16! We're back with Alexxxia for part 2! In this episode, she tells us all about the process behind her content. We discuss her favourite sub and what you can do to get her attention. If you're into Cosplay and Anime, this is one for you 😍