The Goodness Habit: Reclaim Peace and Joy in Motherhood
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© Hanna Lapsansky - Christian Podcaster, Working Mom, Mom of Three and Wife
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The Goodness Habit is for tired, overwhelmed moms who want more peace, emotional resilience, and a faith that works in real life. We talk brain science, biblical truth, and the messy reality of motherhood — and how small shifts in what you notice can change everything.
Each episode helps you push back against negativity bias, renew your mind, and embrace joy in ordinary moments. No forced gratitude. No “get it all together” pressure. Just real encouragement for real moms.
Because not every day is good, but there is good in every day. And learning to see that? It changes everything.
Each episode helps you push back against negativity bias, renew your mind, and embrace joy in ordinary moments. No forced gratitude. No “get it all together” pressure. Just real encouragement for real moms.
Because not every day is good, but there is good in every day. And learning to see that? It changes everything.
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Ever feel like your thoughts are tangled up in a never-ending swirl of to-dos, emotions, and responsibilities? You’re not alone! In this episode, we’re diving into the waffle vs. spaghetti mindset—how men tend to compartmentalize (moving from one waffle square to another) while women’s thoughts often flow together like a plate of spaghetti.
But here’s the thing: sometimes, we need to step out of the spaghetti swirl and embrace a waffle moment—a space to breathe, reset, and focus on just one thing at a time. Whether it’s decompressing after a long day, setting mental boundaries, or giving yourself permission to pause, this episode will help you find a little more clarity in the chaos.
So grab your coffee (or maybe a waffle?), take a deep breath, and let’s talk about how to manage the mental overload of motherhood—one square at a time.
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Resources:
Checked out the Growing Closer to God journal yet?
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Have you ever been in the middle of a beautiful moment, only to have your brain hijack it with a "to-do" list or a worry about tomorrow? We’ve all been there.
In this episode of The Goodness Habit, Hanna gets real about a recent beach trip where a pair of wet shoes almost spiraled into a full-blown anxiety moment. It sounds small, but it’s exactly how we miss out on the "now."
We’re diving into the "why" behind that constant mental noise. You’ll learn:
The Brain Stuff: Why our minds are actually wired to hunt for problems (hello, negativity bias!).
The Faith Perspective: Why "Today is a gift" is more than just a cheesy quote—it’s a spiritual practice.
The "How-To": Simple, gentle ways to retrain your brain to actually notice the good while it's happening.
This isn’t about being a "perfect" mom or ignoring your responsibilities. It’s about learning how to stop letting tomorrow’s "what-ifs" rob you of today’s sacred, messy moments.
If you’re tired of feeling like you’re just rushing to the next thing and want to actually enjoy your life as it’s happening, this one is for you. Because even if the day isn't perfect, there is always good to be found.
Ever have one bad moment and suddenly decide you’re a terrible mom?
That’s not because you’re failing. It’s because your brain has a negativity bias — and today we’re breaking it.
In this episode, I’m sharing one simple question that helps stop anxious spirals, quiet mom guilt, and bring your thoughts back to reality: Is that actually true?
We’ll talk brain science and real-life moments — like school drop-off chaos and cold coffee — and how this one question can move you from emotional overload to clarity.
No forced gratitude. No pretending everything’s fine. Just a practical reset for tired moms who want more peace.
Because not every day is good — but there is good in every day.
If one bad moment can derail your entire day, you’re not broken—your brain is doing exactly what it was designed to do.
In this episode of The Goodness Habit, Hanna explains the negativity bias, a brain function that causes moms to focus on what’s wrong instead of what’s going right. You’ll learn how neuroscience and faith intersect, why renewing your mind is backed by science, and how to interrupt emotional spirals in the middle of motherhood.
This episode includes a simple, practical goodness habit you can use immediately to shift your mindset, calm your nervous system, and rediscover joy—without pretending life is perfect.
Perfect for: Overwhelmed moms, Christian women seeking peace, Moms working on mindset, faith, and emotional health
The Goodness Habit is the next evolution of a podcast created for tired, overwhelmed moms who want faith to feel practical and life to be joyful.
In this episode, Hanna explains the journey from Moms Grab Coffee to Good Day Moms and why this new era focuses on helping moms turn hope into a daily habit. Drawing on brain science, faith, and Scripture, she introduces the concept of negativity bias and how renewing your mind can change the way you experience everyday life.
This episode sets the foundation for the show’s new direction: honest conversations, relatable mom moments, and simple practices to help you notice the good in ordinary days — without pretending everything is fine.
Perfect for moms who love Jesus, feel exhausted by perfection culture, and want faith that actually works in real life.
Dandelions aren’t just weeds. They’re symbols of resilience, transformation, and healing—just like you. They grow in the toughest conditions, thrive where nothing else will, and keep coming back stronger. Sound familiar?
In this episode, we’ll talk about how motherhood mirrors the humble dandelion and how this simple flower can remind you to appreciate your own strength, growth, and impact—even on the hard days. So next time you see one, take a deep breath and say, “I’m doing it. I am enough.”
Because, Mama, just like the dandelion—you are unstoppable. 💛
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Resources:
Checked out the Growing Closer to God journal yet?
Music: https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code: QCRVRVEKOC2VRQUG
If you’ve been feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or stuck in a constant loop of negative thoughts, this episode is your gentle reset. Today, we’re breaking down how Philippians 4:8 gives tired, stressed‑out moms a practical roadmap for redirecting anxious thoughts and creating healthier mental habits — even on the days when everything feels hard.
Inside this episode, you’ll learn:
Why your brain defaults to worst‑case scenarios (hello, mom anxiety)
How to use Philippians 4:8 as a step‑by‑step thought filter
Simple sensory tricks to interrupt spirals and calm your nervous system
How positive neuroplasticity helps you feel less anxious, less overwhelmed, and more grounded
Why noticing “anything” good — even the tiniest thing — can shift your whole day
This is a faith‑meets‑neuroscience episode designed to help you think better so you can feel better. No perfection. No pressure. Just practical tools, biblical truth, and a cozy reminder that goodness is always available, even in the chaos.
Perfect for moms navigating anxiety, stress, burnout, or just a really long week.
Ever feel like you're running on fumes, forgetting everything, and one tantrum away from tears yourself? You're not alone—and you're not broken. In this episode of Good Day Moms, we dive into four very human frailties every mom faces: limited energy, emotional ups and downs, the deep need for rest, and the classic "mom brain."
You'll hear faith-based encouragement and practical tips for giving yourself grace in the chaos. God didn’t design you to be superhuman—He designed you to need Him. So take a deep breath, grab your coffee (again), and let’s normalize the mess together.
Keywords: Christian moms, mom burnout, emotional overwhelm, mom brain, faith and motherhood, encouragement for tired moms
Ever feel like you poured everything out—your energy, your prayers, your planning—only to end the day with dishes still in the sink, kids still arguing, and your heart wondering, What’s the point?
In this episode, we’re taking a look at Daniel 9:26 where it looked like all of Jesus’s efforts led to nothing. Desolation still came. But Daniel’s story reminds us: don’t call it the end prematurely. What looks like defeat on the surface may just be part of God’s unseen victory.
So if you’re tired, discouraged, or ready to throw in the towel, lean in. What you’re building may not look like much right now, but Heaven sees it all.
#GoodDayMoms #ChristianMomEncouragement #Daniel926 #YouMakeADifference #MomBurnout #KeepPrayingMama #FaithInTheEveryday
What if a “good day” doesn’t look like productivity, smiles, or perfectly packed lunches? What if, instead, it means you made it through the day without falling apart — or even if you did, you still showed up?
In this powerful and permission-giving episode, we unpack what a “good” day can actually mean in modern motherhood, especially during seasons of exhaustion, overwhelm, or emotional burnout. Because sometimes? A good day is simply one where no one cried, you remembered to eat, and you got sort of close to the laundry pile.
We all have those moments—snapping at the kids, missing a school deadline, or staring at a mountain of laundry. And then guilt creeps in, making you question if you're doing enough. But here’s the truth: you are a good mom. One tough moment or messy day doesn’t define you.
In this episode, we’re kicking mom guilt to the curb and embracing grace instead. So take a deep breath, mama. You’re doing better than you think. 💛
#GoodDayMoms #MomGuilt #GraceOverGuilt #EncouragementForMoms #YouAreEnough #FaithAndMotherhood
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Mama, what if the mess around you is actually a sign of something good? That sink full of dishes? Proof that your family is fed. The toys scattered everywhere? A reminder of laughter and play. In this episode, we’re flipping our perspective and learning to see the beauty in the chaos of motherhood.
Motherhood is overwhelming, but how we interpret the mess can change everything. Join me as we talk about shifting our mindset, embracing the imperfect, and finding joy in the little moments that make up our days. Because, at the end of it all, a messy home means a life well lived.
💛 Tune in for encouragement, mindset shifts, and a reminder that you’re doing better than you think!
#MotherhoodPodcast #MomLife #PositiveParenting #EncouragementForMoms #FindingJoyInMotherhood #MomMindset #MessyHouseFullHeart
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https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day
License code: QCRVRVEKOC2VRQUG
In this episode, we’re embracing a fresh chapter! What started as a space to bring moms together through stories of strength and struggle is evolving into something even deeper. Motherhood isn’t transformed in a single moment—it happens in the everyday minutes, in the chaos and the quiet, in the carpool line and the checkout lane.
That’s why I’m renaming this podcast Good Day Moms. My purpose? To help you have a good day. To encourage you when you’re running on empty, to remind you that joy is still within reach, and to let you know you’re never alone in this journey.
You’ll still hear powerful stories from moms, but you’ll also find more short bursts of encouragement—insights from my faith, my motherhood experiences, and the lessons hidden in the ordinary. Because at the end of the day, even on the hard ones, I want you to be able to look back, smile, and say, you know what? Today was good.
Let’s walk this journey together. Welcome to Good Day Moms!
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Resources:
Checked out the Growing Closer to God journal yet?
Music: https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code: QCRVRVEKOC2VRQUG
Is the show helping you? Send me a text It's quite often that moms feel like we are a broken record, constantly pleading our kids to do or not do something. Or we are just trying to survive through periods of endless tantrums! But could our entire perspective and attitude change if we saw those moments, as hard as they are, as displays of God's grace? -------- Related Episodes Feeling Like a Bad Mom? You Might Be Ruminating Too Much - https://www.momsgrabcoffee.com/feeling-like-a-bad-mom-you...
Is the show helping you? Send me a text James 5:17 gives us reassurance that Elijah, one of the greatest heroes of faith, was just as human as we are. God can do incredible things through you, just like He did with Elijah. Plus, the power of an earnest prayer and where to start. ----- Episodes Mentioned: A Different Spin on “Quiet Time”: https://www.momsgrabcoffee.com/78 For the Mom Who Feels Like She Can’t Find Time to Pray: https://www.momsgrabcoffee.com/79 ----- #ElijahsFaith, ...
Is the show helping you? Send me a text Ok, so you’ve had a “bad mom” moment. First of all, you are not alone. We’ve all been there, and it doesn't make you a bad mom or disqualify everything else you are doing. You are a good mom! On today’s episode I share a verse that can shift and redirect our thoughts to what’s actually good and true so you can live your mom days with a little more joy. ----- More Episodes on Battling Your Mind Feeling Like a Bad Mom? You Might Just Be Ruminating ...
Is the show helping you? Send me a text Rumination can take you to dangerous places if you let it. Redirect your mind to truth and live each day with a little more joy. ----- More Episodes on Battling "Bad Mom" Vibes - Embracing Imperfections: https://www.momsgrabcoffee.com/67 - 40 Days to a Joyful Motherhood: https://www.momsgrabcoffee.com/58 - Is Negativity Bias Robbing Your Joy? https://www.momsgrabcoffee.com/45 ----- The Sheldon Scene [Sheldon Helps Mary Believe in God Again]: https://ww...
Is the show helping you? Send me a text For the mom who feels like she can never find time to pray, this episode will encourage you to embrace the power of short prayers. ----- Mentioned: A Spin on "Quiet Time" with God: Episode 78 https://momsgrabcoffee.com/78 - Rate or review on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen -- (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/moms-grab-coffee-christian-motherhood-faith-based-parenting/id1603505929) - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/momsgrabcoffee -...
Is the show helping you? Send me a text I’ve always interpreted “Quiet time” with God as just that - a solitary, silent place for me to connect with and wait on the Lord. Hands clasped, eyes closed, ssshhh…. but I’ll be honest - that has always been very hard for me. My body becomes restless, and my mind starts to wander. One day I just started praying while I was in full sweat mode at a bike cycling class. Gamechanger. ----- Related Episode: Waiting on Wonders with Tara Banks: Episode 36 ht...
Is the show helping you? Send me a text When you trust who He is, you can stop obsessing over trying to understand why something is happening. Author Cody Andras of Jesus By Her Side talks about how a faith led by trust is the key to get through anything. ----- More with Cody: Are you an Ice Pack Queen? Episode 75: https://www.momsgrabcoffee.com/75 More with Cody: Holy Dishes! Episode 76: https://www.momsgrabcoffee.com/76 Connect with Cody: https://www.codyandras.com/ Jesus By Her Side: https...
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