Find Love With Emily

If you’re a single, self-aware woman over 30 and you’ve worked on your anxious attachment, you’ve swiped on dating apps, tweaked your profile, played” hard to get”…And you still don’t understand why you’re still single.Listen to this episode and in 25 minutes you’ll finally have a clear answer.You don’t need to date more.Be more in your feminine energy.Or play “the game” better.What’s keeping you single is happening below the surface.It’s what determines the men you attract (or don’t) and the dating experiences you keep having (but don’t want).It’s been keeping you stuck in this cycle where love always feels out of reach.Inside this episode I walk you through a practical exercise that makes this obvious.It explains:-         Why you attract the men you do (or why nothing is happening at all)-         Why doing more hasn’t changed anything-         The real reason you’ve felt stuck in the same cycle-         And the exact steps to take to break it (that have nothing to do with dating).You are not single because you haven’t tried hard enough.Because there’s something wrong with you.Or because it’s “just not meant to be.”You’re single because no one showed you this before. 👉 Click here to download the worksheet.Then hit play.By the end of this episode, you’ll know exactly what’s been standing between you and love all this time and how to close the gap.Let’s get to work!👉 Be sure to subscribe to the podcast so you don’t miss Part 2.💖 To learn more about the one rule love follows, click below to listen to:Episode 1: Why Love Feels So Hard To Find (Even When You've Done Everything "Right")Episode 2: Love Is Simpler Than You Think - Here’s What You’ve Been MissingHIGHLY RECOMMENDED:Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast  CONNECT WITH ME:Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemilyIf you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too.And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

Wanting love in when you’re a single woman over 30 can bring a mix of emotions, especially when you’ve been dating for years and it still hasn’t happened for you.It’s common for a feeling of shame or embarrassment to slowly rise up. It can feel silly or way to vulnerable to want love when it seems unlikely that it’ll ever happen for you.And so, you can start to hide your desire for love.You laugh it off.Tell people you’re happy being single.You’re in “no rush”Joke about how awful dating is when you’re over 30.But underneath it all, that desire is still there.Inside this episode we talk about this shame that so many single women over 30 feel about wanting a loving, committed relationship, especially when you’ve tried, hoped, dated and waited.You’ll hear:Why wanting love can start to feel like something that’s better to hideHow embarrassment shapes your dating choices and stifles the flow of love into your lifeWhat shifts when you stop seeing your desire for love as something to downplayThe practical steps that allow you want love confidentlyAnd how this changes your entire experience of dating.This isn’t a conversation about forcing confidence or pretending it doesn’t feel scary to wear your heart on your sleeve and go after what you want.It’s about understanding what’s actually happening beneath that embarrassment and why releasing it changes way more than you might expect.There’s something important for you to see here:Love can’t move towards you, while you feel ashamed for still wanting it.If you’ve ever found yourself joking about how terrible your love life is, accepting breadcrumbs hoping they’ll turn into what you want or wondering what it must mean about you that love hasn’t happened for you yet…This episode will feel like someone finally putting words to how you’ve been feeling all this time.From that you’ll also find clear steps that make finding love just as predictable as having other desire for your life, like you dream job or dream house.So by the end, the embarrassment you feel in wanting love, becomes pride that you want something so damn glorious for your life.That’s what love follows. That’s how love finds you. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED:Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast  CONNECT WITH ME:Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemilyIf you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too.And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

If finding love feels heavy, like a lot of pressure and responsibility because you’ve been left to figure it out on your own…You're not alone.For so many self-aware, single women over 30, finding love feels like never ending quest you didn’t ask for.As though love, or the right man is something you have to bust your ass to find.You have to search for.It’s something you have to chase down or get right before time runs out.And when conversations, dates, situationships, and almost-relationships keep leading you back to where you started, it’s natural to wonder:WHY IS FINDING LOVE SO HARD?!?!Inside the episode you’ll find a conversation that most dating advice never touches on…How the pressure and responsibility you’re carrying to find love “while you still can” is shaping your entire love life without you realizing it.Because here’s what I’ve seen time and time again:You’re doing allllll the “right” things when it comes to dating.But you’re looking for love in a way that always keeps it just out of reach.If you’ve ever felt exhausted by dating, weight down by trying to find love and like you’re getting further away from finding the right man…This episode is for you.Inside, you’ll find the perspective shift that changed everything for me… and now 100s of my students.It releases pressure you’re feeling, reframes what “finding love” actually means and what you’re doing to “find” it.There’s a whole lotta relief waiting for you inside this episode.Hit play and listen now (and don’t forget to subscribe!) xx HIGHLY RECOMMENDED:Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast  CONNECT WITH ME:Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemilyIf you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too.And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

If you’re single in your 30s or 40s and have ever felt left behind, forgotten or like everyone else’s lives have moved forward without you… this episode is a must listen.We’re talking about that pain that shows up when you’re single and:Conversations with your friends don’t quite include you anymoreWeekends are quieterFeeling like you’ve been pushed down the list of priorities of friends you still hold dearWondering where you fit in now.For single women over 30, this pain becomes more than just a moment.It can become your story.The one about being the last single friend, the one who’s never chosen, no longer a priority, the one life somehow skipped. But what if that feeling isn’t actually about being single?In this episode you’ll find a freeing perspective on this pain that most women never consider. It explains why:Reassurance from friends never really changes how you feelRelationships with men crumble before they’ve really taken offThis pain lingers even when your life looks full from the outside.This conversation will feel surprising, confronting, deeply relieving… likely all three!If this is a feeling you’ve been quietly carrying, hit play on this episode now.…and don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode xxHIGHLY RECOMMENDED:Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast  CONNECT WITH ME:Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemilyIf you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too.And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

If you’ve been dating 5+ years and still haven’t met the right man…It feels like you’re living through a man drought… And dating apps are filled with emotionally unavailable men and hook-ups… This episode will challenge everything you thought about why decent available men feel so hard to find. Because what if the problem isn’t:·        That you’re over 30·        Men·        Where you live ·        Dating apps ·        Or “bad timing”?What if it’s something that’s completely within your control to change?! Inside this episode, we talk about:·        How the belief that there are no decent men left becomes the exact reason you’re not meeting them ·        The hidden way your thoughts about men determines the quality of men you meet ·        Why dating apps don’t deserve their bad rap (and what actually determines who you meet on them)·        How the pressure to “find love” pushes the right men further away ·        The shift that turns dating into less effort, more reward. This isn’t about lowering your standards. And it’s definitely not about trying harder. It’s about understanding how love really happens so you can work with love, instead of fighting against it and coming up empty handed…again. If it feels like there just aren’t any decent, available men left, press play now! Ready to change this and Attract YOUR Man?! This is what I walk you through how to do inside AYM. Not by forcing yourself to date different. Not by lowering your standards. But by taking simple steps to follow the one rule love does. So that dating feels lighter.The right men start showing up. And you stop trying so damn hard. Click here for Attract YOUR Man: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast …and if this episode helped you finally make sense of why the decent, available men feel so hard to find, please share it with a friend you know has been finding this hard too!HIGHLY RECOMMENDED:Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast  CONNECT WITH ME:Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemilyIf you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too.And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

If you’ve ever had the thought “maybe love’s just not meant for me” this is the episode for you.It’s the heart-breaking assumption so many women make when you’ve spent years dating and you’re exhausted by it all; swiping on dating apps, the false hope, emotional whiplash.…and it feels like letting go of love might actually hurt less than continuing to try.Inside this episode you’ll undeniably see that the idea of idea of love not being “meant for you” comes from a false belief about love and that if you want love, it IS meant for you.This isn’t dating advice.And it’s not a “be more positive” pep talk.It’s a deeper conversation about how love really work and why the pain you feel around dating might just be pointing you towards something you’ve never been shown before about love.If you’ve ever felt like giving up on dating, giving up on love...DON'T. Hit play on this episode instead!Want to find love already?If this episode hit something in you, Attract YOUR Man is for the women who are done dating the hard way and want a different path to love… that actually gets you there!Click here for Attract YOUR Man: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast.And if this episode feels like something a friend needs to hear, please share it with her.Sometimes it’s an honest conversation like this that changes everything for someone.HIGHLY RECOMMENDED:Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast  CONNECT WITH ME:Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemilyIf you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too.And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

Find Love With Emily isn’t just a podcast where you listen, learn something new and move on.This podcast is here to help you create real change that you want to see in your love life.In this episode, I share how to use this podcast to do exactly that.So that it's not just something you have a nice time listening to, but something that really leads you to love.We talk about:Why waiting for dating to “start working” actually keeps you stuckWhat to do when nothing seems to be happening in your love life at allHow to break out of the the patterns you're sick ofHow unexpected, small, simple steps taken now, will start to change things for you.What I share is a HUGE part of how I met my husband so fast (and a “hack” all my AYM students know!).Recommended reading: 'The Compound Effect' by Darren Hardy.And if you don’t want to just dabble in changing your love life... because you want to find love in the next few months:Your next step is to join Attract YOUR Man, where I guide you through daily steps to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man. Click here to get started: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast HIGHLY RECOMMENDED:Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast  CONNECT WITH ME:Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemilyIf you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too.And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

Here’s why finding love doesn’t have to be complicated:Inside episode #1 of Find Love With Emily, I introduced you to the one rule love follows.Today, we take it a step further.If dating feels exhausting, confusing or like you’re constantly trying to forcing something to happen, this episode will help you understand why and how love becomes so much simpler to find when you start working with the way love really happen.We talk about:-         Why typical dating advice makes it harder to find love-         Why love doesn’t follow effort, strategy, panic or pressure-         How fear, worry and “unloving” beliefs push love away-         What it really means to follow the one rule love does day-to-day-         The 4 predictable stages women move through when they start following love’s rule-         The changes that happen when the dating “handbrake” comes offYou’ll see why finding love doesn’t have to be so hard or complicated (and why trying harder was never the answer).So, if you’re exhausted by dating because nothing seems to work and you don’t want to give up on love, hit play on this episode now!And then??Let me guide you through the steps, tools and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man.Click HERE to Attract YOUR Man. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED:Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast  CONNECT WITH ME:Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemilyIf you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too.And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

You’ve tried the dating apps.You’ve tried to be in your “feminine energy” and heal your anxious attachment.You’ve stay hopeful.And yet… you’re still single.If you’re exhausted, confused and heartbroken by dating, this episode is for you.Inside this first episode of Find Love With Emily, I share the truth about why dating just doesn’t work for so many smart, self-aware women in their 30s and 40s who want love.And why typical dating advice is never the answer!We talk about why all the effort you’ve put into dating is actually making it harder to find love and what the exhaustion you feel is trying to tell you.If you want real, lasting love, it isn’t about swiping harder, playing games, being the woman men want or luck.It’s about understanding how love really happens and what needs to shift to finally attract YOUR man!If it feels like you’ve tried everything to find love, dating hasn’t worked and you don’t know why you’re still single, press play now!If you’re done with Option 1 (dating harder), Option 2 (giving up on love) is a No and you’re ready for Option 3 (to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man)… Click HERE to get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love.HIGHLY RECOMMENDED:Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast  CONNECT WITH ME:Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemilyIf you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too.And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

Stuck in a Dating Rut? Let me show you how to get on a date you actually enjoy in 7 days, inside The Dating Reset. Click here to join now: https://www.emilybucknell.com/dating-reset _______________________________________ I want to remind you of what love is… "Love is the strongest force the world possesses.” – Ghandi Love isn’t bound by age, health, where you live, what dating app you’re on, appearance…ANYTHING. Love is limitless. …until of course, we humans get involved and put limits on it left, right and center. And of course, the craziest part of this is that 99% of the time we don’t even realize that we’re doing this. We don’t realize how the stories we tell ourselves, the beliefs that we hold are that powerful that they ultimately limit the love that we get to experience. Stories like: ‘There aren’t any decent men left to date.’ ‘I’m too old to find love.’ ‘I don’t have time to date (insert the next layer of stories here that you’re lacking in time!).’ ‘I’m not fully healed’ ‘No one will want to love me’ ‘I’m a single mum’ These stories that feel SOOOOOO real, that feel like set in stone reasons that you can’t get out there and date and find love are just that... Stories. Ways that you are limiting love. Inside this episode we’re going to get clear about all the ways you're limiting love, and start pulling apart these stories to get you back to the truth…that love is limitless. This HAS to be the story you start telling yourself if you want to have your dream relationship come into your life. Get listening now! ...and if you find this episode helpful, please let me know by leaving a rating, or review!! ________________________________________________________ Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove Or send me a DM on Instagram Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:For the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast  Questions or comments? Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily

Want to get on a date you actually enjoy in 7 days? Let me show you how, inside The Dating Reset: https://www.emilybucknell.com/dating-reset ________________________________________ Where are my Husband Hunting ladies at? My ladies that are on a MISSSSSSION to find your man?!?! You get to that point, don't you?  Where you've been hoping and praying that love would just happen for you like you've seen it happen for everyone else around you...and it doesn't.  You thought you'd be married, with kids right now.  So you do what all us, smart, successful, capable, strong and awesome women do, you decide to get out there and MAKE IT HAPPEN!! I love you for that. I seriously do...because that is also me! Here's what I learned from my years spent Husband Hunting...IT DOES NOT WORK.  Husband Hunting actually stops you from finding your husband.  Inside this episode I'm going to walk you through the 4 reasons that Husband Hunting isn't the approach you want to have when it comes to manifesting love...and obvs, what to do instead! Happy listening and please don't forget to leave me a review if you find this episode helpful! I always LOOOOOVE hearing from you! ________________________________________________________ Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove Or send me a DM on Instagram Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:For the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast  Questions or comments? Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily

Want to get on a date you actually enjoy in 7 days? Let me show you how, inside The Dating Reset: https://www.emilybucknell.com/dating-reset  This is a **SERIOUSLY** important episode, especially if you’ve been thinking that part of manifesting your dream love is accepting your life and future as a single person. Acceptance and surrender to what is, your life RIGHT NOW, is 100% and essential step in manifesting your dream relationship, but your future?! NOOOOOOO! So, if you’ve been struggling with this idea of acceptance, surrender, trying to feel ok being single, you’ve been picturing yourself as single forever or or you’re new to all of this and have NFI about what I’m talking about right now, then this episode is one you CANNOT miss. It’s short, sweet and will set you straight on what acceptance and surrender are, how to practice both in your life so that you truly do manifest your dream relationship. And if you like what you hear, be sure to let me know by leaving a review! ________________________________________________________ Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove Or send me a DM on Instagram Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:For the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast  Questions or comments? Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily

Want to get on a date you actually enjoy in 7 days? Let me show you how, inside The Dating Reset: https://www.emilybucknell.com/dating-reset ________________________________________________________ You’ve heard that saying, haven’t you? That Mr Right isn’t going to fall into your lap on Friday night while you’re chilling at home. Totally true. If you want to meet Mr Right then there is action that you need to take. I’m 100% behind this piece of advice. Where this advice gets single women into a whole lot of problems is falling into action for the sake of action. Like get out there and online date, get friends to set you up, be on the look out for genuine single men anytime you’re out and about, go to speed dating events, singles events, online date some more… I was one of these women. I thought all I had to do is take action and eventually I’d HAVE to meet him…right?! Wrong. If you’re taking alllllll the dating action and you’re not getting any closer to having the kind of loving relationship that you want, then this, right now, is your call to stop and listen to this week’s episode of The Loved-Up Effect podcast all about the Law of Inspired Action. This seriously beautiful Universal Law will help you determine what action is going to get you closer to love and what action is a big old waste of your time. If you want to learn what action is going to actually have your dream love come into your life, get listening to this episode now. And if you find what you hear helpful, please let me know by leaving a review! ________________________________________________________ Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove Or send me a DM on Instagram Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:For the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast  Questions or comments? Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily

Want to get on a date you actually enjoy in 7 days? Let me show you how, inside The Dating Reset: https://www.emilybucknell.com/dating-reset  Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove Or send me a DM on Instagram________________________________________________________  If you just do not feel confident dating, then first of all I want you to know that you’re not alone.  I remember feeling the same way myself. Simply the fact that finding love was such a struggle for me, like I was always the single friend, the one with all the relationship drama, crying on the phone to my friends, dumped and ghosted yet again, was a MASSIVE knock to my confidence. Love didn’t happen easily for me, so I saw myself as someone that wasn’t wanted by the awesome men I ultimately wanted a relationship with, and so whenever one of these guys came anywhere near me, I was an absolute ball of nerves, unsure of how to connect with them in a way that would lead somewhere. …which is the definition of a lack of confidence. Having confidence is literally having faith, belief, trust and certainty in yourself. I had none of that when it came to finding love. I was constantly looking for ways to fix or change myself in order to be more attractive to men. I didn’t truly believe I was someone that could have her dream relationship or that it was possible for me. And even just the thought of dating and the pressure to perform that I attached to it, meant I avoided dating as much as I possibly could. I didn’t think it was something I was any good at, so why bother putting myself through all the pain?! If you relate to that, and you simply don’t feel confident dating then get listening to this episode now!  Because as long as you don’t have the confidence to get out there and date as the most awesome you that you are, you’re unfortunately going to stay stuck exactly where you are. Inside this episode I’ll be walking you through how to start changing how you both feel about yourself and dating so you can get out there and date with confidence, able to finally make the kind of connections you want with the kind of men you want! Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:For the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast  Questions or comments? Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily

Want a proven process to manifest love and support along the way? Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove Or send me a DM on Instagram________________________________________________________ It can be one of the HARDEST things to do...letting that ex go (or at least it always was in my experience!).  Whether he broke up with you, you ended things and now regret it, it was a mutual break-up, you moved away, or there's some other reason why you're not in the committed relationship you ultimately want, then this is a MUST listen episode...because in holding on you're only stopping your ACTUAL dream love from coming into your life.  There are 5 steps to letting that ex go once and for all:  1. Attacking it from a logical perspective  2. Taking action to let go emotionally or energetically 3. Uncovering and shifting those deeper, root survival beliefs that have you holding on for dear life 4. Taking action to break any remaining ties 5. Step into the identity of you that HAS moved on.  If you found this episode helpful, please let me know by leaving a review! Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:For the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast  Questions or comments? Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily

For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you can manifest love and the relationship of your dreams, head here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove  Or send me a DM on Instagram________________________________________________________ If you want the BIG love life transformation, like to manifest your absolute dream love, then there’s a practice that I’d say is pretty much essential to get you there. It’s been absolutely essential for me to manifest my own dream love and the same has rung true for the many, many women I’ve coached in the last 5 years. The thing about this practice is that it’s not what you’d expect. We so often thing that a BIG transformation, requires BIG, complicated action…when in fact the reverse is true. If you want to get fit, then it takes consistent exercise and training to get there. If you want to save to buy a house, then it takes consistent saving to get there. A giant oak tree starts off as a tiny green shoot and grows consistency year after year until it becomes the giant tree. Get the theme here? Consistency. What do you need to do consistently to manifest your dream relationship?? This is exactly what you’re going to learn inside this episode! Get listening now and don't forget to leave me a review if you find what you hear helpful! xx Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:For the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast  Questions or comments? Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily

Join Stop The Soul Destroying Struggle To Find Love here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/stsds-registration  For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove  Or send me a DM on Instagram________________________________________________________ It’s the million-dollar question, isn’t it?! Why is it that you can want love more than anything, you can be doing ALLLLL the things (swiping till your thumbs bleed, wearing red dresses on first dates, not initiating contact, following all the rules, looking your best any time you’re out and about…) and trying your absolute hardest and still be stuck, no closer to finding love or having your dream relationship... …attracting all the less than awesome non-committal men, on the merry go round of first dates that go nowhere, situationships that you give your all to and that leave you heartbroken, constantly ‘the one before The One’… While your friends simply have to exist and they have the most incredible men fall into their laps and end up in the most loving and epic of relationships. Like WTF?! What’s the deal? Does life just hate you? Do you have some made karma from your past you’re now being punished for? Are you simply unlucky in love? …and not meant to ever have the kind of loving relationship you want? Girl, let me assure you it’s NONE of those things. Inside this episode I’m going into exactly why finding love seems to easy for everyone else while it’s the battle of a lifetime for you, so that you know what it is you need to do in order to have love happen just as easily for you! Because finding love isn't meant to be a struggle! If you find this episode helpful, please leave me a review to let me know!! With so much love,Em xx Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:For the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast  Questions or comments? Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily

For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove  Or send me a DM on Instagram________________________________________________________ If you’ve just been dumped, ghosted, you’re feeling heart broken and disappointed (yet AGAIN!) because things haven't gone as you had hoped, whether it's the end of a long term relationship, or you just haven't heard back from a guy you saw potential with, then this is the episode for you.  You aren't going to find any of the usual; let time heal your wounds, get to work looking your hottest and remind him what he's missing out on, find someone new to get over him (or make him jealous) or what you can do to fix the situation and get him back, because NONE of that is actually helpful.  What you're going to learn inside this episode will take you from where you are right now, which royally sucks, and have it propel you forward into your dream relationship rather than keeping you stuck experiencing the same kind of disappointment and heartbreak time and time and time again. Here are the reframe, or affirmations that you'll find inside this episode: This relationship CLEARLY wasn’t the right one for me (otherwise it wouldn’t have ended) This relationship ending is a gift because now I have the space for the relationship that is right for me What is meant for me, will NEVER pass me by Love is unlimited, it can happen, anywhere, anytime The relationships I have only get better and better and better My dream love is inevitable It’s all happening for me. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a review to let me know! xx LINKS & RESOURCES Reality of Relationship episode: https://www.emilybucknell.com/podcasts/the-loved-up-effect/episodes/2147967004  Self-Love Series (Part 1): https://www.emilybucknell.com/podcasts/the-loved-up-effect/episodes/2148097853  Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:For the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast  Questions or comments? Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily

For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove  Or send me a DM on Instagram________________________________________________________ The million dollar question - “What do I need to do to find love?" And by far the one I get asked the most. And it’s a good question to be asking, because when you know what action to take then all that’s left to do is take it and your dream love is yours. It’s also the question that 99% of mainstream dating advice answers and in VAST volume. Like Google ‘what do I need to do to find love’ and 11 BILLION results come up. There’s a never-ending number of things to try to find love, online dating, making sure you have the best profile photos, speed dating, getting friends to set you up, going to sports bars, upmarket grocery stores or the gym where single guys hang out, making sure you look your best everywhere you go, scouting out naked ring fingers… It's a lot hey?! You probably feel like you’ve tried it all, am I right? And because you’ve taken so much action and it hasn’t got you any closer to love, you’re probably nearing that point where you’re wondering if ANYTHING will EVER work for you. What I want you to know is that if that’s where you’re at right now, then it’s simply because you’ve been taking the WRONG ACTION. WTF? What other action is there to take? What’s the right action? The action that WILL get you into your dream relationship? I’m answering all these questions inside this episode so get listening now! And if you find what you hear helpful, please leave me a review xx LINKS & RESOURCES: If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily Send me a DM on Instagram Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:For the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast  Questions or comments? Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily

If you’re at that point where NOTHING ever seems to change for you in your love life, like you’re stuck a pattern that just keeps on repeating itself… …you just keep attracting men that do NOT want kids (and you do) …you end up in the same kind of relationship where 6 months in, you still don’t know where you stand with them …you can’t seem to stop going to back to the ex you know isn’t right for you …love is happening all around you, but never for you …you can’t shake the doubts, the fear, the worry that you’ll never have your dream relationship Then my beautiful girl, there is programming in your unconscious mind (so it’s not something that you’re actually aware of), that is keeping you stuck where you are and is stopping you from moving forward into your dream relationship. Your reality is always a perfect reflection of what is happening deep in your unconscious mind. Reality never lies.   So, if you don’t like what you’re experiencing and you want to have that dream relationship of yours then you HAVE to stop, become aware of what’s being playing on repeat in your unconscious mind and take steps to change that. Otherwise, you can spend 24/7 online dating, you can be the hottest, most attractive woman on the planet, follow every dating rule to perfection, never set a foot wrong and STILLLLL be single AF. Regardless of what action you take, what’s happening in your unconscious mind is ALWAYS going to be the reality you experience. It wins every single time. Inside this episode I'm walking you through exactly how you become aware of what’s happening in your unconscious mind and how to change this so that finally you break through all the patterns you’re stuck in and that big old brick wall if feels like you’re up against…and finally have your dream relationship. LINKS & RESOURCES: For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove  Come hang with me on Instagram Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:For the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast  Questions or comments? Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily