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Welcome to the Divorce Allies Podcast, your go-to resource for navigating the intricate landscape of divorce. In this engaging podcast and video series, we delve deep into the complex world of divorce mediation and litigation alongside a diverse team of experts.
Our lineup includes seasoned financial professionals, business valuators, mortgage specialists, as well as seasoned parenting and relationship coaches, as well as a team that can help you kickstart your next chapter in life.
Join us as we embark on a comprehensive exploration of every facet of the divorce journey, from the financial intricacies to the emotional well-being of all involved parties.
Our episodes tackle common yet complex divorce situations, offering valuable insights and practical advice to empower you through every stage of the process.
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Welcome back to the podcast. I’m Anna Graham, and today’s episode is a little different—in the best way. We’re doing a rapid-fire Q&A focused on one of the most important parts of navigating divorce: parenting and co-parenting. Joining me is Cristin Terri, our divorce coach and co-parenting specialist. Cristin works closely with parents who are trying to figure out how to move forward while still keeping their children at the center of every decision. From creating detailed parenting plan...
Welcome back to the podcast. I’m Anna Graham, and today we’re diving into a conversation that many people face during and after divorce—who you are when the titles fall away. For so long, our identities can become wrapped up in labels: wife, partner, career title, or even the roles others assign to us. But when life shifts—especially through divorce—it often forces us to ask a deeper question: Who am I beyond those titles? I’m joined by Cristin Terri, who brings incredible insight as a ...
Welcome back to the podcast. I’m Anna Graham, and today’s conversation is deeply personal and incredibly empowering. We’re talking about something that often gets overlooked in divorce recovery—gratitude toward yourself and the intentional creation of new traditions after divorce. Divorce can feel like the loss of identity, rhythm, and the rituals that once defined your life. But what if this season is also an opportunity? What if it’s a chance to consciously rebuild, to create traditions tha...
Welcome back to the podcast. I’m Melissa Gragg, and today we’re talking about something that sounds simple—but can be incredibly difficult during divorce: staying the course. When emotions are high and financial decisions feel overwhelming, it’s easy to get pulled off center. Fear, urgency, frustration, and even outside opinions can push you into reactive choices that don’t serve your long-term stability. In this episode, we focus on how to remain financially and emotionally grounded—even whe...
Welcome back to the podcast. I’m Anna Graham, and today we’re talking about something that many people don’t expect to face during or after divorce—rewriting relationships. Divorce doesn’t just end a marriage. It reshapes how we relate to our former spouse, our children, extended family, and even ourselves. The dynamics shift. Communication changes. Boundaries become essential. And sometimes, the hardest part isn’t the legal process—it’s learning how to move forward in a completely different ...
Welcome back to The Divorce Allies Podcast.. I’m Anna Graham, and today we’re diving into something that can quietly derail even the most well-intentioned divorce process—attachment to the outcome. In mediation, we often walk in believing we know exactly what we want, what’s fair, and how things should unfold. But when we become rigidly attached to a specific result, it can block resolution, increase conflict, and ultimately cost us more emotionally and financially. I’m joined by the incredib...
Welcome back to The Divorce Allies Podcast. I’m Anna Graham, and in this episode, we’re having a conversation that so many people avoid—but absolutely shouldn’t—money and the house. When you’re going through divorce, decisions about the marital home and your financial future can feel overwhelming, emotional, and deeply personal. It’s not just about property. It’s about stability, identity, security, and sometimes fear of the unknown. I’m joined by Melissa Gragg and Emile Flowers, and together...
I’m Melissa Gragg, and welcome to The Divorce Allies Podcast. In this episode, we’re talking about something that often gets overlooked in divorce conversations—the need to rewrite the script not just legally or financially, but mentally, physically, and emotionally. I’m joined by the Divorce Allies team: Emile Flowers and Cristine Terri. Together, we explore what it really means to heal after divorce by addressing the whole person—mind, body, and soul. Divorce doesn’t just change your relati...
I’m Anna Graham, and welcome to The Divorce Allies Podcast. Today’s conversation is one so many people find themselves needing—but rarely feel prepared for—what it actually looks like to start over after divorce. I’m joined by three incredible experts and voices you know well: Melissa Gragg, financial mediator and divorce strategist; Emile Flowers, divorce mortgage planning specialist; and Cristine Terri, co-parenting specialist and meditation teacher. Together, we’re talking about boundaries...
I’m Emile Flowers, and welcome back to The Divorce Allies Podcast. Today, I’m joined again by financial mediator and divorce strategist Melissa Gragg as we continue Part Two of an essential conversation—what really happens when your divorce position statement turns into a settlement offer. In the last episode, we talked about how to create a position statement and why it’s one of the most important documents in your divorce. Today, we’re going deeper. We’re breaking down how that document bec...
Whether you’re just starting your divorce journey or you’re already deep in it, we’re really glad you’re here. I’m Emile Flowers, your divorce mortgage planning specialist, and I’m joined by Melissa Gragg — financial mediator, divorce strategist, and honestly… the divorce queen. Today we’re talking about position statements — and here’s the big shift: your position statement isn’t “just notes.” It’s the first draft of your settlement offer. So in this episode, we’re breaking down how to take ...
Women in Life Transitions: Reset Your Body, Mind, and Soul After 50 Luxury real estate broker, 7x national ballroom champion, spiritual director, and Miss Senior America—CT titleholder Robin Kencel joins Melissa Gragg to unpack practical ways women can reset mind, body, and spirit—especially through divorce and life transitions. Learn centering prayer in 10 minutes, the “three graces” nightly practice, how to spot disordered attachments, and a gentle path to forgiveness (including forgi...
Whether you're just beginning your divorce journey or already in the thick of it, understanding disclosures is key. We’ll walk you through what they are, why they matter, and how they can become one of the most powerful tools in your strategy—not just a pile of paperwork. This episode will help you rethink your first steps, take back control of the process, and avoid wasting money on the wrong professionals at the wrong time. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, intimidated, or unsure of what your...
Position Statements: Your Divorce Roadmap | Negotiate From Strength & Avoid Oversharing Welcome back to the Divorce Allies Podcast. In today’s workshop-style episode, we’re diving into one of the most powerful—but overlooked—tools in your divorce toolkit: the position statement. https://www.thedivorceallies.com/ If you’ve ever felt like your case is a chaotic mix of emotional stories, endless emails, and missing numbers—this episode is your turning point. Emile Flowers and Melissa Gra...
Welcome to the Divorce Allies Podcast, a podcast and video series where we dive into all things divorce—pre-divorce, during your divorce, and post-divorce. We're a team of financial professionals, divorce mortgage planning specialists, parenting coaches, divorce coaches, and myself—supporting our members through the post-divorce transition. https://www.thedivorceallies.com/ https://www.gracefullyuntangled.com/ Today’s episode continues our conversation about dating after divorce. Last week, w...
Welcome to the Divorce Allies Podcast—a show where we break down the complex world of divorce with clarity, compassion, and expert insight. From business valuations and alimony to mindset, real estate, and financial prep, we guide you through the entire settlement process with the help of lawyers, divorce mortgage specialists, parenting plan experts, and more. I’m Melissa Gragg, a financial mediator and business valuation expert. And today, I’m joined by Lisa Zeiderman—a seasoned family law ...
You Divorced... Now What? Post-Divorce Transitions and Creating Your Next Chapter | DIY Divorce Welcome to the Divorce Allies Podcast—a show and video series designed to help you navigate divorce and thrive in life after it. We bring together financial experts, mortgage advisors, parenting coaches, and business mentors to support every part of your transition—from the legal and financial to the emotional and personal. I'm Anna Graham, small business consultant and post-divorce strategist fo...
In this video, Melissa Gragg—financial mediator and valuation expert—walks you through the most important tool you’ve likely never heard of: your divorce position statement. This one-to-two-page summary isn’t just paperwork—it’s your voice, your strategy, and your anchor in negotiations. Step 1: Journal Your Story Goal: Capture key moments from marriage to now. When did you get married? When did you separate? When did key financial events occur (buying/selling a home, inheritance, business s...
From Conflict to Clarity: Your Step-by-Step Guide to the Divorce MOU | DIY Divorce Community https://www.thedivorceallies.com/ Welcome back to the Divorce Allies Podcast. In today’s episode, we’re diving even deeper into the reality of the DIY divorce process—and busting the myth that “doing it yourself” means going it alone. Melissa Gragg joins Divorce Mortgage Planner Emile Flowers for a real-talk session on what parts of divorce can be handled independently, what areas absolutely need e...
Rethinking Mediation: Co-Mediation for Real-Life Divorce Complexity | DIY Divorce | The Divorce Allies https://www.thedivorceallies.com/ Welcome to the Divorce Allies Podcast, where we explore all facets of divorce—from legal to financial to emotional. I'm Melissa Gragg, a financial mediator and valuation expert, and I'm joined by Emile Flowers, a Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP). In this episode, we’re rethinking traditional mediation and introducing the concept of co-mediati...
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