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short answer? no.real answer? please don’t.Not everyone finds a Pabibo person as charming as you think they are. Oftentimes, its soft confidence, grace, and the ability to perform well that makes people drawn in believing that they CAN. #Pabibo #HealingEra #InnerChildHealing #EmotionalHealing #SoftHealing #MentalHealthTalk #HealingPodcast #SelfReflection #growingup #GentleReminders #atetips #mentalhealth #trauma #corporatelife #20s

You feel it before it happens.The replies get slower. The effort feels uneven. You start preparing your heart for a goodbye no one has said out loud yet. Sometimes the hardest part isn’t the ending itself, but the waiting... The knowing.If you’re in that in-between space right now, you’re not alone.Sit here for a while. 🤍#LettingGo #HealingEra #InnerChildHealing #EmotionalHealing #SoftHealing #MentalHealthTalk #HealingPodcast #SelfReflection #RestIsProductive #GentleReminders #atetips #mentalhealth #trauma #atetips #breakup

The heart is a heavy burden so I understand the need to let others carry it sometimes If you are here right now, I pray that you find people who will listen with the intention of willing you to stay alive. Thank you for being here and I am proud of you for making the world a better place just by choosing to wake up everyday ❤️‍🩹#LettingGo #HealingEra #InnerChildHealing #EmotionalHealing #SoftHealing #MentalHealthTalk #HealingPodcast #SelfReflection #RestIsProductive #GentleReminders #atetips #mentalhealth #trauma #atetips

I grew up learning that gratitude meant carrying things quietly. That loving your family meant saying yes, even when it cost you rest, peace, or yourself. That utang na loob was something you held onto forever. No questions, no boundaries.This isn’t about being ungrateful. It’s about acknowledging that love shouldn’t feel like a lifelong debt. That you can appreciate what was given to you without giving up your whole life in return. And that it’s okay to untangle guilt from love, slowly, gently, in your own time. 🤍#LettingGo #HealingEra #InnerChildHealing #EmotionalHealing #SoftHealing #MentalHealthTalk #HealingPodcast #SelfReflection #RestIsProductive #GentleReminders #atetips #mentalhealth #trauma #utangnaloob #filipino

I wanted to be loved and forgot I have always been loved.I wish they told me I could hand them my burdens, that I didn’t have to carry everything alone, and that I could trust them to fight the fight for me too.If you grew up feeling like you had to be strong even when you were breaking down, this episode is for you. You were never too much, you were just hurting and you needed someone to see this too. 🫂💗#LettingGo #HealingEra #InnerChildHealing #EmotionalHealing #SoftHealing #MentalHealthTalk #HealingPodcast #SelfReflection #RestIsProductive #GentleReminders #atetips #mentalhealth #trauma #parents #generationaltrauma

If peace feels unfamiliar and letting go feels scary, you’re not behind. You’re just outgrowing survival. And it’s okay to let that version of you rest now. 🤍You learned how to survive before you learned how to rest. You became the strong one, the reliable one, the version of yourself that held everything together even when no one noticed how heavy it was getting. That version of you kept going because they had to.But surviving isn’t the same as living.#LettingGo #HealingEra #InnerChildHealing #EmotionalHealing #SoftHealing #MentalHealthTalk #HealingPodcast #SelfReflection #RestIsProductive #GentleReminders #atetips #mentalhealth #trauma

Not every story ends with forgiveness and that’s okay. This episode is about releasing the guilt of not wishing your ex, your friends, or the people who broke you… well. And again, that’s okay.One day, everything will fall into place and if now is not the time, that’s okay too. 

If you’re overwhelmed, exhausted, or quietly breaking down, this is a safe place to pause and breathe. No fixing, no advice, just comfort, grounding, and someone reminding you that you’re not weak for feeling this much. You don’t have to be okay right now. You just have to be present. 🫂#SelfHealing #MentalHealthAwareness #LateNightThoughts#ComfortPodcast #HealingJourney #AteTips #GentleReminder #YouAreNotAlone #MentalHealthPodcast#HealingTalk #SoftHealing #EmotionalRelease

Though I was hurt, I still also want to believe in loveGusto ko rin ma-baby! Not in a dependent way but just in a gentle, safe way. After fighting the world all day, I don’t want to fight at home. I want softness. I want rest. Wanting that doesn’t make you weak. It just makes you honest.#atetips #DoYouLikeYourself #SelfReflection #PeoplePleaserAnthem #HealingPlaylist #LateNightThoughts #OverthinkingHours #MainCharacterEnergy #SoftSpokenSad #InnerWork #ValidationCulture #SpotifyMood #QuietHealing #SelfLoveJourney #healing

I read a book once and one of the characters said she fears happiness because emptiness is the feeling that comes after it. We talk about being “strong,” being “good,” but wonder why happiness is so hard to achieve yet so fast to disappear. If you’ve ever asked yourself whether you’re allowed to want peace, love, and joy, let’s figure it out together. #atetips #DoYouLikeYourself #SelfReflection #PeoplePleaserAnthem #HealingPlaylist #LateNightThoughts #OverthinkingHours #MainCharacterEnergy #SoftSpokenSad #InnerWork #ValidationCulture #SpotifyMood #QuietHealing #SelfLoveJourney #ikigai #happiness 

For the days you don’t want to explain, fix, or carry everything alone. This is a space to rest. I see you and I thank you for you. #atetips #DoYouLikeYourself #SelfReflection #PeoplePleaserAnthem #HealingPlaylist #LateNightThoughts #OverthinkingHours #MainCharacterEnergy #SoftSpokenSad #InnerWork #ValidationCulture #SpotifyMood #QuietHealing #SelfLoveJourney

I’ve asked myself this more times than I can count. In the moments I was praised, wanted, adored… and in the moments I’m not here to preach or pretend I’ve figured it all out. I’m still learning how to sit with myself without performing. How to be alone without feeling unlovable. How to choose myself even when it feels uncomfortable.If you’re the type who loves deeply, overthinks quietly, or gives too much just to feel seen this is for you. You’re not broken. You’re just becoming more honest ❤️‍🩹#atetips #DoYouLikeYourself #SelfReflection #PeoplePleaserAnthem #HealingPlaylist #LateNightThoughts #OverthinkingHours #MainCharacterEnergy #SoftSpokenSad #InnerWork #ValidationCulture #SpotifyMood #QuietHealing #SelfLoveJourney

If it's not healthy, let it go. Make sure na andun sa FAR AWAY!I don't have much to say but I do know that your peace and your heart's health should always be your priority against selfish people#atetips

Accountability is now a love language 👊🏻 It's really normal for a hurt person to guard their hearts frantically but there will always be a limit to how much we see the world cynically. Not everyone is a threat. Not everyone can carry our burdens with us. Most of all, not everyone can understand your pain better than you. Which is why, despite the hurt always choose the kindest option and if you can't, hold your accountable for the hurt you may cause. ❤️‍🩹 That is maturity. That is healing. #atetips

Exploration. Detachment. Gratitude 🌸College is such a fun time to be a child and I hope you never live to regret anything from being in the prime of your youth <3 #atetips #college

My insecurity was a product of bullying and I'm still struggling to see past the selfish lies they made about me. There really is a lot at stake when people choose to be unkind but it would unfair if we keep living in the shadows of the choice they made.I hope this episode gives you the strength to listen to the people who love you and sees you as you. It will take some time to start believing that you're enough but in the meantime, I hope you start reclaiming your narrative of being the person who chose to be kind to oneself despite it all <3#atetips

The biggest mystery that I have still yet to understand is why people hurt people who love. There's so much to unpack when feelings of betrayal are infused with our perception of kindness but I guess this is how we learn how to guard our hearts more. I condemn cheaters. I condemn homewreckers. Nonetheless, I pray that anyone who was put under their spell still find it in their hearts to love again.

The hardest thing I have to learn is how to let go of things I can't control... and that's pretty much a lot of things. My healing hasn't always been linear and there are times when my space is a reflection of how messy my head is but we're okay. I'm grateful for my detours and the experiences that led me to where I am now 💬#atetips

I've done it to one person MULTIPLE TIMES A DAY for 3 years and I, with my whole heart, don't recommend it (HAHAHA) Love is meant to liberate us from our fears and anxieties and having to subject ourselves so low for one person is really not worth it. You owe it to yourself to be loved without having to make yourself small. That person, the one you claim you love, should not make you feel the way you do if you can relate to this. WAHHH#atetips

There are a lot of bitter pills to swallow as you enter your adulthood but seeing your parents slow down as you speed through your life is one that got me the most. I lived my life with my parents guiding my every step so having them let me go LIVE is really something else... There's a lot I'm learning in my early 20s and I'm glad I was raised to see things in retrospect before I forge new paths for myself <3 #atetips