The Ascend Show

In this episode, Rob DuVal and Erin Campbell explore the deep inner work required during identity transitions, emphasizinghow our nervous system responds before our mental clarity catches up. Whether you're rebranding, stepping into a new role, or simply evolving, learn how to recognize and navigate the physical and emotional signals that signal growth.Key Topics Covered:The neurobiological basis of change: understanding why your nervous system reacts before mental clarityOperating system analogy: Rebooting and updating your identity like a computer or phone OSThe role of patience and waves in unconscious reorganization during transformationRecognizing the signs of alignment: feeling unsettled as a positive indicatorDifferentiating intuition from anxiety: sensing in your body versus noise in your mindThe importance of surrender and safety in supporting transformationBuilding community and support systems for sustainable growthPractical tools: creating an intuition log, shedding armor, and trusting the processTimestamps:(00:00) - Welcome and episode overview: mastering identity shifts(02:15) - The nervous system's role in change readiness(04:06) - Why emotions and fatigue often precede clarity(06:00) - Operating system as a metaphor for identity reboot(08:42) - Recognizing anxiety versus intuitive nudges(12:28) - How unresolved external validation influences energy drain(17:33) - Breaking points: trusting the process and intuition(21:04) - The cost of success: emotional sacrifices and recalibration(26:31) - Sensitivity at public events and energy awareness(30:25) - Profound moments: meditation and silence revealing inner knowledge(35:45) - The energy of surrender: allowing clarity to come(39:31) - Leadership through surrender: letting information flow in(44:45) - The power of community in transformation journeys(47:13) - Embracing periods of quiet and slowdown as vital parts of growth(48:16) - Energy costs of rewiring and integrating new identities(49:00) - Closing reflections: you're not alone in this processConnect with the Hosts:Rob DuVal - TikTok | Instagram | emailErin Campbell - LinkedIn | Instagram | emailThe Ascend Show - Instagram | YouTubeOptional:Notable Quotes:"Silence is the root of all knowledge.""Transformation requires energy—be patient with the waves.""Feeling unsettled is often a sign you're aligning with your true self."Summary:This episode offers insights into the physiological and emotional signals during identity shifts, emphasizing patience, surrender, and community support. If you're navigating change, remember you're not alone, and your true growth often begins in the discomfort.

In this episode, Rob and Erin explore the profound shift from traditional power-based leadership to a divine masculine approach rooted in authenticity, balance, and spiritual awareness. Discover how integrating feminine energy and intuition can create impactful, compassionate leadership that combats toxic behaviors and fosters genuine connection.Key Topics:The concept of divine masculine leadership versus toxic masculinityBalancing masculine and feminine energies for sustainable leadershipUsing insight and intuition to guide others without force or toxicityMoving from authority to impact through servant and purpose-driven leadershipThe importance of self-awareness and realignment with personal valuesHow leadership struggles manifest differently for men and womenThe role of identity shifts in corporate and spiritual growthRecognizing fulfillment beyond titles and external validationEmbracing setbacks and retreats as moments for growth and redirectionTimestamps: 00:58 - Rob discusses divine masculine energy versus toxic masculinity 1:10 - Exploring Kristen’s workshop on divine masculine leadership 1:38 - Combining servant leadership with emotional intelligence 2:10 - Moving away from power as a title to impact as a leader 2:54 - The importance of balance between masculine and feminine energies 3:31 - How standards and respectful conversations differ from toxicity 4:19 - Using intuition and breadcrumbs for guiding teams 4:44 - Navigating energy alignment and communicating ahead of energy shifts 5:06 - The tension of leading with guidance versus proving oneself 5:32 - The power of presence in leadership and influence 6:07 - Recognizing identity struggles among leaders 6:48 - Changing relationships through authentic leadership 7:16 - The impact of masculine and feminine roles in workplace dynamics 8:37 - Men’s journey through masculinity and armor in leadership 9:38 - Women’s challenge balancing femininity and masculinity at work 10:43 - Personal stories of embodying masculine energy at home and work 11:08 - The value of balanced feminine authority in leadership 11:52 - Leveraging purpose over power for authentic influence 12:40 - The impact of collective energy and leadership impact 13:19 - Understanding fulfillment beyond external achievements 14:31 - The significance of the journey over the destination 15:26 - Defining personal value and impact through growth 16:14 - Retreats as lessons and redirection, not failures 17:14 - External validation versus internal self-worth 17:47 - Aligning work with true passions and values 18:48 - Revisiting career paths with newfound awareness 20:02 - Moving from external validation to internal impact 21:17 - Recognizing your unique strengths and contributions 22:03 - The importance of intrinsic self-esteem 23:18 - Continuous alignment and authentic self-expression 24:04 - The desire for autonomous impact and less corporate stress 25:16 - Light worker mindset: shedding shadows and helping others 25:50 - Men’s need for connection and community support 26:43 - The power of collective voices in personal and spiritual growth 27:13 - Closing thoughts on shared journeys of transformationResources & Links:Ascending Women (for women integrating identity shifts): Instagram: @ascendingwomencommunity Ascending Founders (for men anchoring conscious leadership) Instagram: @ascendingfounders Connect with Rob: Rob@theascendshow.com Connect with Erin: erin@theascendshow.comWebsite: ascendingwomen.com, theascendshow.com COMING SOONJoin us next time for more insights into authentic leadership and spiritual growth. Whether you're leading in corporate spaces or your personal life, these conversations aim to illuminate your path.

Join Rob and Erin as they dive into transformative conversations about identity change, personal growth, and the power of presence. This season, they explore the challenges and triumphs of navigating life transitions, offering insights and stories that inspire and empower. Tune in for a journey of self-discovery and the pursuit of opportunities.