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Selfdom is defined as the essence of one's self. I want to share my own journey to help inspire others to live their best life. Life throws you curve balls, and change is inevitable so I hope to help you see how adversity leads to growth, and that you are not alone..
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We’re back with Aleks from The Pleasure Centre to answer your questions about pleasure, intimacy, and connection. From navigating stress and dating dynamics to communicating your needs guilt-free, this episode is full of practical, shame-free guidance to help you reconnect with your body and your relationships.
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In today’s episode, I’m joined by sexologist Aleks from The Pleasure Centre for an open, shame-free conversation about pleasure, intimacy, and connection. We explore what pleasure really is, common misconceptions around orgasms, the role of the nervous system and attachment styles, and how stress and modern life impact libido.
We also talk about dating dynamics, emotional safety, communicating your needs without guilt, and how to build long-term intimacy without pressure or performance.
This is an honest, grounding conversation designed to help you reconnect with your body and your pleasure.
We’ll be back on Thursday to answer your questions 🤍
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Felicity dives deeper into actionable strategies for supporting your body as you age. We cover lifestyle habits, nutrition, stress management, and how to make wellness simple, sustainable, and truly effective, no gimmicks, no quick fixes.
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Wellness is louder than ever, but what actually matters when it comes to ageing well? In this episode, I’m joined by Felicity Evans, founder of Imbibe, to cut through the noise around gut health, collagen, stress and hormones. We unpack the biggest myths in wellness, what women in their 20s and 30s should focus on to future proof their health, and the foundational steps that matter before reaching for supplements. This is a grounded conversation about beauty from within, longevity, and supporting your body in a way that actually lasts.
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Part 2 of my solo episode! Enjoy
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In this solo episode of Selfdom, I answer your questions on fertility, managing sugar cravings, modelling tips, and more. Tune in for candid insights, personal stories, and practical advice from my life and journey.
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These community questions explore the hard truths of dating, from reading mixed communication energy and knowing when someone is genuinely interested, to attachment patterns, anxiety in early dating, sex and pacing, and the biggest mistakes people make in relationships. We also unpack emotionally unavailable dynamics, what to do when someone isn’t ready for a relationship but doesn’t want to lose you, and how to move toward more secure, grounded love.
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Join me as I sit down with Margarita Nazarenko to talk about stepping into your unbothered era, nervous system regulation in dating, and what it really means to choose yourself while building secure, magnetic relationships.
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We are back for our Thursday episode, quick and juicy - enjoy!
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In this episode of Selfdom, I’m joined by Nick Slater, host of the Becoming podcast, to unpack modern dating, emotional availability, chemistry vs anxiety, ghosting, and the truth behind “if he wanted to, he would.” We explore dating in your 30s, body-clock pressure, texting habits, and what healthy, long-term love actually looks like day to day. If you’re navigating dating or relationships and craving clarity, this episode is for you.
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In this episode, Sascha Olive and I answer the dating questions everyone is secretly thinking but rarely asks, from red flags people ignore and ghosting, to chemistry vs emotional safety, first-date questions, and whether attraction can actually grow.
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Dating can trigger self-doubt, overthinking, and old attachment patterns. In this episode of Selfdom, I am joined by Sascha Olive, co-founder of HOUSE OF SCULPT, to explore self-trust, attachment styles and what secure dating actually looks like. This empowering conversation offers grounded mindset tools to help you date with confidence without losing yourself along the way.
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On this Thursday episode, we’re doing a rapid-fire relationship Q&A, with Em asking the questions and putting us both on the spot. We answer your dating, relationship, and marriage questions quickly and honestly, no overthinking, just real talk. From green flags and deal-breakers to communication, boundaries, and the everyday realities of partnership, this segment is light, playful, and very candid. It’s the perfect way to end the episode with laughs, honesty, and a little chaos (with Crumbles interruption throughout)
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In today’s episode, I’m joined by my husband Tom for a conversation you’ve been asking for - dating, love, and choosing the right partner. After one of our most replayed episodes ever, we’re back answering your questions. We talk about how to know when someone is “the one,” what really matters when choosing a partner, navigating dating anxiety, being single in your 30s, and how to tell the difference between a rough patch and misalignment. We also dive into managing tired and grumpy days, setting healthy boundaries and what it takes to build a relationship that actually adds happiness to your life. This episode is honest, grounded, and full of real-life perspective, whether you’re dating, engaged, married, or somewhere in between.
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In this quick fire segment, Jake Blundell, Elastaboy, answers your questions with real talk and practical tips. From common gym mistakes to mobility, strength, and daily habits that transform your body, Jake shares honest insights and advice for anyone looking to move better, feel stronger, and live healthier.
On this episode, I chat with Jake Blundell (Elastaboy), creator of the Strength Through Length method. Jake shares how he combines strength and flexibility, the role of mobility and stretching in everyday life, and how sobriety has shaped his journey. We also dive into his daily routines, yoga, weighted stretching, and the story behind building a community of over 1.8 million followers. Plus, a quick-fire round of practical tips for anyone looking to improve their body, wellness, and mindset. This episode is full of insights for anyone wanting to move better, feel stronger, and live healthier.
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In this short and sweet episode, Sally O’Neil gets real and answers your questions about protein, supplements, carbs, fat loss, sugar cravings, gut health, and more. Stick around for a quick-fire Q&A, where Sally answers your questions about protein powders, creatine, carbs, bone broth, seed oils, and more. No fluff, just practical advice to help you navigate nutrition and feel your best in a busy, modern lifestyle.
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On this episode of Selfdom, I sit down with Sally O’Neil, clinical nutritionist and founder of 80/20, to explore nutrition that fits the modern woman’s lifestyle. From protein, hormone health, and strength training to cravings, metabolism, and longevity tips, Sally shares practical strategies for feeling your best without sacrificing the things you love.Whether you’re navigating a busy career, family life, or just want to simplify your approach to healthy living, this episode is packed with actionable advice, myths busted, and everyday hacks to help you thrive.Produced by Talkback Mediainfo@talkbackmedia.com.au
In today’s episode, I’m reflecting on the 10 biggest life lessons that shaped me in 2025, a year that truly felt like a decade in one. From navigating deep loss, love, engagement, marriage, and turning 30, to redefining friendships, health, purpose, and presence, this episode is an honest look at what really matters. I share lessons on quality over quantity in friendships, why strength training is a non-negotiable for women, choosing experiences over things, living in tune with your cycle, the power of gratitude, sobriety, digital detoxing, and reminding yourself that you will never get this moment again. If you’re entering 2026 craving clarity, intention, and growth, this episode is for you.Produced by Talkback Mediainfo@talkbackmedia.com.au
Welcome back to Selfdom 🤍 In this first episode of 2026, I reflect on the holiday period, grief, gratitude, and the deep sense of purpose this podcast brings to my life. I then dive into vision boards and manifesting - why they work, the science behind seeing your vision daily, and why action is the missing piece most people overlook.This episode is a gentle but motivating reminder that clarity, consistency, and showing up 1% every day is what creates real change.manifesting visualisation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a9LrpE4mIUcPurchase a Selfdom journal here: https://selfdom.au/collections/shop-allProduced by Talkback Mediainfo@talkbackmedia.com.au
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