Overthinking It with Ioanna

“Trust your gut” sounds like good advice — until your gut is driven by anxiety.In this episode, we unpack one of the most misunderstood ideas in self-help: the difference between anxiety and intuition. Because if you live with anxiety, OCD tendencies, or a history of trauma, what feels like a “gut feeling” is often a fear response in disguise.We talk about why anxiety feels so convincing, how it keeps you stuck in loops of overthinking and reassurance-seeking, and why it’s so easy to mistake urgency for truth. You’ll learn the key differences between anxiety and intuition — how they sound, how they feel in the body, and why one demands action while the other doesn’t.We also explore a powerful shift away from “figuring it out” toward making values-based decisions — even in the presence of uncertainty.- Ioanna xx

Your personality isn’t random.And it isn’t a life sentence either.In this episode, we break down what personality actually is — from Type A and Myers-Briggs to the Dark Triad and the Big Five. We’ll talk about where personality comes from, how genetics and attachment shape it, and why certain traits increase vulnerability to stress, anxiety, or burnout.Most importantly, we explore how self-awareness lets you work with your traits instead of fighting them — so you can build routines, relationships, and coping strategies that actually suit you.- Ioanna xx

Most of us don’t have a time problem with our phones. We have a relationship problem.In this episode of Overthinking It, we explore what it really means to build a healthier relationship with your phone — not through shame, detoxes, or unrealistic rules, but through awareness. We talk about emotional attachment to social media, why scrolling often becomes our default coping mechanism, and how constantly filling every quiet moment can disconnect us from ourselves.This isn’t about deleting apps or becoming “offline.” It’s about noticing when your phone becomes a way to avoid discomfort, boredom, or difficult emotions — and learning how to tolerate those moments instead of escaping them.If you’ve ever picked up your phone without knowing why, this episode is for you.Because life is too short to live on autopilot.- Ioanna xx

In this episode of Overthinking It, we explore why transitions can feel so emotionally overwhelming, even when we know we made the right choice. We unpack the psychology behind change, including how our beliefs intensify discomfort, why uncertainty often masquerades as failure, and how both Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy and Stoic philosophy help us make sense of the emotional chaos that comes with becoming someone new.- Ioanna x

Discipline has a branding problem.Somewhere along the way, it became moralised — like some people are just born disciplined, organised, and motivated, while everyone else is lazy or lacking willpower. And in this episode, I’m calling that out for what it is: bullshit.Discipline isn’t a personality trait. It’s not something you either have or you don’t. It’s something you build — and more importantly, something you design.In this episode of Overthinking It, we unpack why discipline feels so hard, why relying on motivation keeps failing us, and how disciplined people actually operate behind the scenes. We talk systems over willpower, reducing decision fatigue, making habits easier instead of harder, and why real discipline is quiet, boring, and incredibly effective.This episode is for anyone who wants better routines, better habits, and a better relationship with themselves — without shame, guilt, or unrealistic expectations.Because you don’t need to try harder.You need a strategy that actually supports you.- Ioanna x

Self-doubt doesn’t mean you’re lost, behind, or failing at life — even though it can feel that way. In this episode, we talk about why self-doubt often shows up when you’re growing, making changes, or exposed to too many outside opinions (hello, social media).This is a gentle reminder that questioning yourself doesn’t cancel out your self-knowledge — it usually means you care. We unpack comparison, the pressure to “have it all figured out,” and how scrolling through everyone else’s highlight reel can slowly disconnect you from your own path.If you’ve been second-guessing yourself lately, this episode is here to help you reconnect with your own voice and trust that you’re not as lost as you think.- Ioanna xx

Healthy love doesn’t always feel like fireworks, chaos, or obsession — and that can be confusing when we’ve been conditioned to equate intensity with connection. In this episode, we talk about why we’re often drawn to emotionally unavailable people, mixed signals, and situationships… and why calm, consistent love can feel boring, uncomfortable, or even wrong at first.This is a gentle conversation about unlearning old patterns, redefining what love actually feels like, and trusting comfort instead of chasing confusion — especially around Valentine’s Day, when relationships are everywhere.If you’ve ever wondered why you crave what hurts and question what’s healthy, this episode is for you.- Ioanna xx

In the first episode of Overthinking It, we’re breaking down what overthinking actually is, why it makes so much sense, and why “just stop thinking” is the most useless advice you’ve ever heard. We dive into the brain science behind overthinking, why your nervous system gets stuck in survival mode, and how that spiral convinces you it’s being helpful when it’s really just keeping you stuck.Overthinking makes sense, but it doesn’t get to run your life anymore.Hope you enjoy!- Ioanna xx