Gifted with ADHD

In this episode of Gifted With ADHD, Juliet sits down with award-winning author and social entrepreneur Alex Winstanley to tackle the exhausting reality of ADHD masking. Diagnosed with ADHD in his late twenties, Alex shares how the constant pressure to "fit in" and pretend to be someone else takes a massive toll on neurodivergent individuals, often culminating in severe burnout. Moving away from the idea that neurodivergent people need to be "fixed," Alex and Juliet discuss why the true responsibility lies in proactively changing our environments. They explore how shifting the burden of inclusion to society—rather than waiting for individuals to break under the weight of masking—can create accessible spaces where everyone can thrive as their authentic selves. Alex also shares insights from his upcoming book, Do Disability Differently, and his vital work empowering disabled individuals through lived experience. About the Guest: Alex Winstanley Alex Winstanley is a relentless advocate for disability inclusion and the Managing Director and co-founder of Happy Smiles Training CIC, an award-winning, disabled-led social enterprise based in Wigan. Diagnosed with ADHD as an adult, Alex channels his lived experience into empowering disabled individuals and challenging social stigma. He is the author of a celebrated series of children's books, including My Grandma Has Dementia, and his newest release, Do Disability Differently, launches on December 3rd to coincide with the International Day of Disabled People. Connect with Alex: Website: https://www.happysmilestraining.co.uk/ Book: Do Disability Differently AND MORE... https://www.happysmilestraining.co.uk/books/

Get in touch to see how I can help you! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://giftedwithadhd.co.uk/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ In this solo episode, Juliet explores those overwhelming days when the ADHD mind makes absolutely everything—from emails to forgotten messages—feel like an immediate crisis. This false sense of urgency can trigger intense anxiety, culminating in a very real, physical sensation of panic within the body. To combat this overwhelming state, the episode focuses on utilising the tapping technique to soothe the nervous system. By learning how to physically interrupt the cycle of panic, you can calm your body's stress response and safely step back from the chaos to regain control of your day. ABOUT THE HOST: Juliet was diagnosed with ADHD at the age of 50, after a lifetime of believing she was fundamentally flawed—without realising there was a biological explanation behind her struggles. Years of executive dysfunction, perimenopause, and rising anxiety had left her overwhelmed and questioning her own potential. Her diagnosis marked a turning point. She immersed herself in understanding ADHD and, in doing so, discovered something even more transformative: a spiritual perspective on what it means to be human. Through this lens, Juliet was able to release limiting identities shaped by five decades of misunderstanding herself. She learned how to navigate emotions—like anxiety—with greater ease. She has two-years training in counselling and now has an established coaching practice supporting adults. Blending practical strategies with grounded spirituality, Juliet helps her clients find clarity, inner peace, and the confidence to live their life with purpose to reach their full potential and thrive with ADHD. Get in touch to see how I can help you! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://giftedwithadhd.co.uk/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Get in touch to see how I can help you! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://giftedwithadhd.co.uk/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ In this episode of Gifted With ADHD, Juliet sits down with Clare Downham, the "Queen of Calm," for a conversation about a profound paradigm shift. Juliet shares how discovering Clare's work served as the catalyst for transforming her mental health and finding an unexpected level of peace and freedom. Together, they discuss the danger of "masking"—comparing it to putting a smiley face sticker over a car's dashboard warning light so you don't have to look at it. They explore the intensity of ADHD emotions, reframing them not as obstacles standing in the way, but as essential indicators of our state of mind. By learning to actually feel and allow our emotions, we can stop them from causing havoc and use them as the key to unlock true transformation. ABOUT CLARE Clare Downham known as, the Queen of Calm is a life and business coach who helps driven, caring professionals and business owners move from overthinking and overwhelm to calm, clarity, and ease. Calm isn’t the goal, it’s the mechanism, the thing that makes better decisions, stronger relationships, and sustainable success possible. Socials: https://www.instagram.com/claredownhamcoach/ https://www.facebook.com/clare.downham New ebook - Find Your Way to Calm, Clarity and Ease https://www.claredownham.com/find-the-way-to-calm-clarity-and-ease or email [email protected] YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYwbP0ErVNe4Ne2r2q3hWxA?view_as=subscriber ABOUT THE HOST: Juliet was diagnosed with ADHD at the age of 50, after a lifetime of believing she was fundamentally flawed—without realising there was a biological explanation behind her struggles. Years of executive dysfunction, perimenopause, and rising anxiety had left her overwhelmed and questioning her own potential. Her diagnosis marked a turning point. She immersed herself in understanding ADHD and, in doing so, discovered something even more transformative: a spiritual perspective on what it means to be human. Through this lens, Juliet was able to release limiting identities shaped by five decades of misunderstanding herself. She learned how to navigate emotions—like anxiety—with greater ease. She has two-years training in counselling and now has an established coaching practice supporting adults. Blending practical strategies with grounded spirituality, Juliet helps her clients find clarity, inner peace, and the confidence to live their life with purpose to reach their full potential and thrive with ADHD. Get in touch to see how I can help you! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://giftedwithadhd.co.uk/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Get in touch to see how I can help you! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://giftedwithadhd.co.uk/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ In this week's episode of Gifted With ADHD. Juliet continues her conversation with Helen Amery. This time, they go deep into the Mace energy system itself. From it's origins to it's growing recognition in the ADHD community. They both break down what is REALLY means and how you can use it to shift the negative identities that are affecting your everyday life. Connect With Helen Amery - ⁠⁠https://wildfigsolutions.co.uk/⁠⁠ Learn about the Mace energy method - ⁠⁠https://www.causisminstitute.com/about/mace-energy-method/⁠⁠ ABOUT THE HOST: Juliet was diagnosed with ADHD at the age of 50, after a lifetime of believing she was fundamentally flawed—without realising there was a biological explanation behind her struggles. Years of executive dysfunction, perimenopause, and rising anxiety had left her overwhelmed and questioning her own potential. Her diagnosis marked a turning point. She immersed herself in understanding ADHD and, in doing so, discovered something even more transformative: a spiritual perspective on what it means to be human. Through this lens, Juliet was able to release limiting identities shaped by five decades of misunderstanding herself. She learned how to navigate emotions—like anxiety—with greater ease. She has two-years training in counselling and now has an established coaching practice supporting adults. Blending practical strategies with grounded spirituality, Juliet helps her clients find clarity, inner peace, and the confidence to live their life with purpose to reach their full potential and thrive with ADHD.

Get in touch to see how I can help you! https://giftedwithadhd.co.uk/ In this solo episode, Juliet challenges one of the most persistent and damaging beliefs for those with ADHD: the idea that your worth is tied to your productivity. After years of living in a state of chronic overwhelm—constantly trying to catch up on endless to-do lists and feeling like she was failing despite working harder than anyone else—Juliet shares the pivotal mindset shift that changed her life. She breaks down the crucial difference between efficiency (doing things right) and effectiveness (doing the right things). Using the powerful metaphor of a highly skilled sailor on a boat pointing in the wrong direction, Juliet explains why trying to organise, plan, and execute tasks faster will never solve the problem if you haven't first defined your true direction. If you frequently find yourself drowning in the "weeds" of minor details or putting out fires all day, this episode will help you step out of the ADHD vortex and start making decisions that truly align with your values and purpose. ABOUT THE HOST Juliet was diagnosed with ADHD at the age of 50, after a lifetime of believing she was fundamentally flawed—without realising there was a biological explanation behind her struggles. Years of executive dysfunction, perimenopause, and rising anxiety had left her overwhelmed and questioning her own potential. Her diagnosis marked a turning point. She immersed herself in understanding ADHD and, in doing so, discovered something even more transformative: a spiritual perspective on what it means to be human. Through this lens, Juliet was able to release limiting identities shaped by five decades of misunderstanding herself. She learned how to navigate emotions—like anxiety—with greater ease. She has two-years training in counselling and now has an established coaching practice supporting adults. Blending practical strategies with grounded spirituality, Juliet helps her clients find clarity, inner peace, and the confidence to live their life with purpose to reach their full potential and thrive with ADHD. Get in touch to see how I can help you! https://giftedwithadhd.co.uk/