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In this episode, we go over the fucked up-ness of insecure attachment styles and how I worked towards healing mine. Pro tip- Pls heal your attachment style before it destroys someone else’s mental health 🫡🙏Patrick’s video- https://youtu.be/Fvi9pDnIxb4?si=vLo4lYm5LiS1unYM Attached- Levine, A., & Heller, R. S. F. (2010). Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love. TarcherPerigee.

I know you think ki ‘hum toh healthy comparison kar rahe hain with 2016’ and if you’re confident shit won’t hit the fan then that’s perfect, I’m happy for you 😎🫡 However, I also know ki meri audience demographic mein mentally ill log bhare pade hain toh this is a PSA specifically for you- comparison ke slippery slope ke doosre side mat girna pls, therapy is v expensive in this economy 😋

“Yeh saare ‘gym ki New Year’s resolution’ leke aane waale kitne annoying hain yaar”So we want the average person to take their fitness more seriously but when they finally decide to start, we judge them? 👀🤨👀

Apni cis privilege apni ass mein ghusaalo 🙏🫡HRT thode maheene mein chaalu hone waali hai aur meri hawa tight ho rakhi hai 😍😋

Voluntarily interacting with apolitical people should be categorised as a form of S/H 😋💀🔪

10/10 dost hain aur job hai par fir bhi loneliness feel hota hai. Mein toh gharpe rehta hoon cute family ke saath aur meri hi itni band bajj rahi hai- I can’t imagine what it’d be like for someone jo naye sheher mein rehta hai.

The recent UGC ruling banning psychology in ODL/online modes has made me very sad and now you, as my loyal listeners, get to hear me whine about it 😋

My 23rd birthday is on 10th July (less than a week away) and I’m absolutely bricking it. Haven’t been this anxious in a while 😋

This episode is more of a somewhat articulated breakdown than a rant. However, I thought some of you might be struggling with similar thoughts aur tumhe relatable lagta toh issi liye maine yeh record kardiya. The three thoughts I discuss are-Death (2:18)Physical Gender Transitioning (7:35)Neurotypical Privilege (14:07)

In this episode, I explore an original concept that I've termed "Aa bel mujhe maar" syndrome. I also discuss how red-pill misogyny fuels the loneliness epidemic and how being nice is the bare minimum. Bonus points if you watch 'X' by Daniel Sloss

I completely nerd out in this episode- I discuss Freud's views on religion, society, and the superego. References- Freud, S. (1930) Civilization and its discontents. New Delhi, India: Penguin Books.Todd McGowan. (2021a, February 13). Interpreting civilization and its discontents [Video]. YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p3p90n3yA-cTodd McGowan. (2021b, June). Superego and Its Implications [Video]. YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SjdNywz6fqE

2024 is over, and time feels like it’s speeding past me. In this episode, I discuss the nagging feeling I have of “Am I doing enough?”.

Aaj bina script ke rant kara, just like the old days!

I discuss how to start your self-growth journey! I debunk sigma male reelers' and podcasters' advice and give you some *actually* good tips that I use myself. Healing your inner child- https://youtu.be/wEDQmgZEEhM?si=5qtO-d9Eh_Ty0PZb https://youtu.be/Bi3aVSTy9Ao?si=wDIGPEU77u2NewBF https://youtu.be/KnhETbR80lo?si=I5I0JOBhJOYe5NOh

Everyone knows mainstream media is terrible at accurately depicting mental illnesses; In this episode, I try to find the reasons why this representation is so inaccurate by trying to think from the filmmaker’s point of view rather than just gaali-galoch-ing them (which i still do, of course). To do this, i watched a bunch of videos, listened to a bunch of podcast episodes and compiled my findings. References- Brandon. (2019, July 27). Let’s talk about mental illness in the movies (episode 15). In Spotify. https://open.spotify.com/episode/06QQN5wv6khpeLXiXQiFrr?si=-0YKgaMsRASzj_gb2ykNqw&t=269Cynical Reviews. (2021, March 19). Sia’s Autism Movie is Terrible & Insulting [Video]. YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yLBl3he3NqgHello Future Me. (2019, October 12). The Complex Problems with Mental Illness in Fiction | a video essay [Video]. YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6c8o68ghGBMMaria, & Brandon. (2021, January 23). Split: The worst portrayal of mental illness in film?https://open.spotify.com/episode/6YG5dlCSEB1siQ1wF9cVo9?si=Z-TIiN_dQVmR7-PQC7QQsw&t=27Memorable Psychiatry and Neurology. (2022, November 5). Why most movies about mental illness are terrible [Video]. YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F-a65NcGABgMoe, J. (2021, September 20). Movies and TV Shows That Get Mental Illness Right and Some That Get It Wrong. https://open.spotify.com/episode/7KvvVFlBDZuZdXC5eCxWXI?si=RalSK9VeRNq8Cu8VXC4J2Q&t=1771

I discuss how the stigma around mental health causes us mentally ill folks to unintentionally scare off potential friends and love interests. I discuss how ghosting is probably worst way to end a friendship and emphasise clear communication.

A love letter to people with an anxious attachment style or anyone who is struggling with their emotions.

I discuss my anxiety and my struggles with processing negative emotions in a healthy manner.

In this episode I mansplain the strategies I use to deal with loneliness. I hope they work for you too!

Moye moye, Ayein bengan, jai Maharashtra jai maata di