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It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
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Join reality TV queen, entrepreneur and chronic over-sharer, Abbie Chatfield each week as she tackles the deep stuff - from abandonment issues and mental health to important social discourse around feminism and politics.
Plus there’s a reliable dose of sex tips, bad dating stories, and interviews with funny, clever, and wickedly cool people. For guest and topic suggestions or to submit your own Nightmare Fuel email hello@itsalotpodcast.com. Follow Abbie at @abbiechatfield and follow the podcast at @itsalotpod on Instagram https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .
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Chris Parker is in the building, with a doozy of a NMF for us about his first time doing anal with a guy.LINKSChris Parker ‘Take A Good Look At Me’ 2026 Australian Tour - Tickets on sale now from livenation.com.auFollow Chris on IG @chrisparker11Listen to Chris' podcast The Male Gayz on Apple and SpotifyCheck out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Chris Parker @chrisparker11Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Bec is back! She's breaking down what happened from the 'Grass is Greener' challenge, all the way through to reunion and beyond. Tea galore, chooks.LINKSFollow Bec on IG @bec_zacCheck out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Bec Zacharia @bec_zacExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In a very chaotic season of MAFS, Rachel and Steven seemed to be one of the most solid couples in the experiment. But now, Rachel can reveal her side of the story including the double standards she faced with intimacy, her relationship with Bec now, and what really happened between her and Steven.LINKSFollow Rachel on IG @rachlea_xCheck out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Rachel Gilmore @rachlea_xExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
IT'S FINALLY OVER!!! Carmen joins us again to recap final vows and boy oh boy are there some wild moments to finish on. But first, a walk down memory lane to a simpler time when we knew nothing about these people...We can see the light at the end of the MAFS tunnel, and so what better time to get on friend of the show Carmen (aka Zigsmom) to unpack the madness that was the final dinner party!LINKSFollow Carmen in IG @zigs_momFollow Carmen on TikTok @zigs_momCheck out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Carmen Azzopardi @zigs_momExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
We can see the light at the end of the MAFS tunnel, and so what better time to get on friend of the show Carmen (aka Zigsmom) to unpack the madness that was the final dinner party!LINKSFollow Carmen in IG @zigs_momFollow Carmen on TikTok @zigs_momCheck out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Carmen Azzopardi @zigs_momExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Why do perpetrators get independent legal representation and not victims? Sarah Rosenberg found out first-hand the overwhelming bureaucracy, and lack of resources and representation for victim-survivors when reporting crimes such as sexual assault. Abbie sits down with Sarah to explore how the system is actually geared against victims to have a fair fight, and her work to change it and give victims more agency through her organisation With You We Can.If this content raises any issues for you, help is available via Lifeline at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14, and via 1800Respect at https://www.1800respect.org.au/ or by calling 1800 737 732.NOTE: Any advice in this podcast is general, and is not a substitute for professional legal advice.LINKSLearn more about With You We Can https://www.withyouwecan.org/Follow With You We Can on IG @withyouwecan_Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Sarah Rosenberg @withyouwecan_Executive Producer & Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeSocial Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Bec is here to chat about those texts, her biggest regret from MAFS, what really happened between Danny and Gia, and much more!!LINKSFollow Bec on IG @bec_zacCheck out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Bec Zacharia @bec_zacExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
The man who raised the bar for Nightmare Fuels is BACK!! And this time he's sourced a collection of bonkers tales about himself from a twelve-person group chat. STRAP IN!!!LINKSSee Josh on tour https://joshthomas.com.au/#datesListen to Josh's podcast https://tr.ee/t84YN1fqtvWatch Josh's podcast https://tr.ee/jKgOd7fQQeFollow Josh on IG @joshthomas87Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Josh Thomas @joshthomas87Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
This twist in the final test... the MAFS producers are sick for this one...LINKSCheck out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
As we get closer t final vows, the producers decide to pull out the 'Final Test' for the couples and the results are... interesting. Some couples are pushed to the brink, and those who aren't we probably won't talk much about. PLUS! A bit of goss in the form of a VM from one of the Final Test participants! LINKSCheck out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Thank you for waiting chooks, Week 9 recaps are here! HOME STRETCH!! LINKSCheck out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
It's the end of an era for It's A Lot, and the start of an exciting new one! LINKSFollow Oscar on IG at @oscargordonCheck out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sorry chooks, no new ep today but exciting things coming!! Keep an eye out on the feed later this week for updates Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Somehow Jolie has never been on the podcast?? She calls in with a story of how a first date was ruined by her date's story of a first date! Our heads are spinning... LINKS Follow Jolie on IG @f0xy_m0r0n Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Jolie Chatfield @f0xy_m0r0n Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Week 8 is over! It's the last dinner party for Chris and Sam and they're hashing out their sides of the story. Plus, some really weird vibes and comments from Danny that for some reason all the blokes agree with??? Weird one! LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Time for Home Stays! Gia's positive attitude doesn't last long and some cracks appear with David and Alissa. Plus, are we starting to see the 'real' Danny?? LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In September 2025, Adelle Petropoulos announced to her followers that she had broken up with her partner, and called off her wedding. Adelle discusses her journey of healing, decentering men, and why the 'he fumbled' comments aren't actually helpful. LINKS Follow Adelle on TikTok @adellepetros Follow Adelle on IG @adelle.petropoulos Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Adelle Petropoulos @adelle.petropoulos Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
TWO MONTHS DOWN FOREVER TO GO!!! It's another commitment ceremony and what it lacks in walkouts it makes up for in awkward moments. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sam sends a VM to the pod to tell his side of the story around his comments to Chris about 'gaslighting'. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield & Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Arguments, walk outs, accusations of gaslighting - yep, it's another Dinner Party! LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield & Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.














Rachel is so beautiful.
Boring boring. bye
amazing episode 👏❤️
abbie!! this ep spoke to me. therapy, babe. you are loved and appreciated.
I think the so called feminist women who call other women “pick me” etc (a lot of the time just because they may have interests and personality traits that are more similar to those of men) are being misogynistic and not very feminist at all. It’s typical of the illogical hypocrisy of modern feminists.
I think with the makeup being a valid hobby argument you were trying to make, you didn’t seem to get the long-standing societal perception that makeup as a hobby might be shallow, vacuous and have no practical use apart from making yourself look more attractive. This is why things like makeup and fashion have been perceived as inferior pursuits, however these days they’re becoming very marketable pursuits and shouldn’t really carry the stigma of being useless anymore.
Amber Heard also mentioned sexual violence in her op-Ed
Dude, get your fractions right. “Lem” is 3/5 of a lemon xx
There is a lot to celebrate on Australia day. First and foremost the fact that we live in the best goddam country in the world. If you don't love my country then fuck off and start swimming elsewhere. Go Australia!!!
eating arse will give you hepatitis!!
well said Abbie. this was great to listen to, I really appreciate your honesty and insight. 💓
Being honest, this is aaaah lot ofva shit! come on Abbie... Boring af.... nope, I'm out!
Such a great episode! I've shared it with so many of my friends and now I want my vulva photographed!