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Mama, when was the last time you said, “I’m fine” when you really weren’t? As moms, it can be so easy to keep saying yes, keep pushing through, and keep pouring into everyone else while ignoring the fact that we’re completely exhausted. In today’s episode, I’m chatting with Dorcas Walker, host of the You Matter Mama podcast, for a very real conversation about what happens when moms try to do it all, and why learning to rest, set boundaries, have routines, and be honest about where we are can make such a difference. Dorcas shares her own experience with burnout and the wake-up call that helped her realize she couldn't continue living with an empty cup. We are talking about the role of prayer, rest, community, and creating space to hear from God when life feels overwhelming. We also dive into why saying no doesn't make you selfish, how to make decisions without immediately saying yes, and why modeling healthy boundaries can actually teach our children how to manage their own lives. And we talk about something many moms struggle with: the pressure to say, “I'm okay,” even when we're not. If you've been feeling exhausted, overcommitted, or like you're constantly putting yourself last, I think this conversation will encourage you, as it did me. In this episode, we talk about: What burnout can look like when you're constantly caring for everyone else Why rest isn't something we should feel guilty about How prayer and quiet time can help us reconnect with God A simple process for making decisions instead of automatically saying yes Why saying no to one thing can create space for what matters most Why being honest about our struggles creates deeper relationships How our children learn boundaries by watching us The importance of protecting your family, your energy, and the things God has called you to Here are a few ways we can keep in touch: ORGANIZE YOUR DAY COACHING Need help figuring out how to organize your day, fit everything in, and create routines that actually work for your real life? BOOK YOUR ORGANIZE YOUR DAY COACHING CALL → right here We’ll look at what’s working, what’s not, and create a simple plan to help you feel more in control of your time. http://thesimplifiedmom.com/organize-your-day BE AN INSIDER Want practical routines, time-saving ideas, encouragement, and behind-the-scenes tips delivered straight to your inbox? JOIN THE INSIDER LIST → right here. Come be part of my email community where I share encouragement, practical tips, and things I don’t always share anywhere else.  JOIN THE FACEBOOK GROUP You don't have to figure this out alone! JOIN THE FREE COMMUNITY → right here. Come connect with other moms, get encouragement, share what’s working (and what’s not!), and find practical ideas for creating more time for the people you love. LEAVE A 5 🌟REVIEW on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen to this podcast. Did something I shared help you? Your review genuinely makes me smile. 😊 Knowing that something I taught, shared, or encouraged you with helped make your day a little easier means so much to me. Your words also show me that what I’m doing is making a difference for other moms, too. Thank you for taking a minute to share your experience.  I’M SO GLAD YOU’RE HERE! My goal is simple: To help you create routines and systems that give you more time to be present for the people you love. Grab your coffee, take a deep breath, and let’s make life a little simpler together. ☕💗 Follow me on YouTube Follow me on Pinterest If this episode helped you find a little more peace today, would you share it with another working homeschool mom who needs to hear this? Connect with Dorcas You can find Dorcas Walker on the You Matter Mama podcast, where she shares encouragement and practical support for moms. Here is the link to sign up for Dorcas's newsletter: You Matter Momma Insider Join Dorcas's Facebook group - You Matter Momma Christian SAHM Sisterhood   And remember, mama: you matter too. You don't have to pour from an empty cup. Episode 28 - Is Your Cup Empty? 3 Simple Systems to Reclaim Boundaries as a Working Homeschool Mom Related Episodes 53. The Holidays Aren’t the Problem: 3 Simple Routines to Protect Your Peace as a Working Homeschool Mom 46. Help! My Schedule is Out of Control! Simplify Your Routines to Become a More Present Mom 39. The 6 Routines Every Working Mom Needs to Turn Into Habits (And Why It Matters for Time Management)

Are you trying to homeschool your kids, take care of your home, and grow your business, but your business always seems to come last? You know you need to work on your business, but when? By the time you finish homeschooling, answer everyone's questions, make meals, and take care of the mom-life responsibilities, you realize your work time has disappeared...AGAIN!! Mama, you don't necessarily need more hours in your day. You need routines that allow you to have better time management so you can run your business while being a present mom. In today's episode, we're talking about three simple routines to help you make time for your business without feeling like you're choosing between being a good mom and a business owner. We'll also look at the story of Mary and Martha in Luke 10:38–42 and what it teaches us about busyness, priorities, and choosing what matters most. In this episode, we'll talk about: Why your business keeps getting pushed to the bottom of your to-do list. Simple ways to make room for your business while homeschooling. What Mary and Martha can teach us about busyness and priorities. How to give yourself grace when your day doesn't go as planned. Your challenge this week Choose one small step to make room for your business. Plan your priorities, schedule one protected work block, or create a list of business tasks you can complete in 15 minutes. You don't have to do everything today. Start with one intentional step and build on that routine. I invite you to join The Organize Your Day Coaching. In this coaching program, we spend time untangling your schedule and finding those pockets of time to work. We talk about ways to protect the homeschool and work block, while creating simple routines you can build on to be a present mom. I know how important work-life balance is and what a difference it can make. Related episodes If you're ready to simplify your routines and make better use of your time, listen to these episodes next: Episode 43: Your Long To-Do List Is Killing Your Time Management and the One Routine Every Working Mom Needs to Gain Time Back  Episode 45: You Don't Have a Time Management Problem, You Have a Schedule Problem  Episode 46: Help! My Schedule Is Out of Control! Simplify Your Routines to Become a More Present Mom  Let's stay connected! Here are a few ways we can keep in touch: ORGANIZE YOUR DAY COACHING Need help figuring out how to organize your day, fit everything in, and create routines that actually work for your real life? BOOK YOUR ORGANIZE YOUR DAY COACHING CALL → right here We’ll look at what’s working, what’s not, and create a simple plan to help you feel more in control of your time. http://thesimplifiedmom.com/organize-your-day BE AN INSIDER Want practical routines, time-saving ideas, encouragement, and behind-the-scenes tips delivered straight to your inbox? JOIN THE INSIDER LIST → right here. Come be part of my email community where I share encouragement, practical tips, and things I don’t always share anywhere else.  Plan Your Week I know planning your week can be hard and stressful, that is why I am sharing my Sunday Weekly Reset System. You can grab it right here. JOIN THE FACEBOOK GROUP You don't have to figure this out alone! JOIN THE FREE COMMUNITY → right here. Come connect with other moms, get encouragement, share what’s working (and what’s not!), and find practical ideas for creating more time for the people you love. LEAVE A 5-STAR 🌟REVIEW on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen to this podcast. Did something I shared help you? Your review genuinely makes me smile. 😊 Knowing that something I taught, shared, or encouraged you with helped make your day a little easier means so much to me. Your words also show me that what I’m doing is making a difference for other moms, too. Thank you for taking a minute to share your experience.  I’M SO GLAD YOU’RE HERE! My goal is simple: To help you create routines and systems that give you more time to be present for the people you love. Grab your coffee, take a deep breath, and let’s make life a little simpler together. ☕💗 Follow me on YouTube Follow me on Pinterest If this episode helped you find a little more peace today, would you share it with another working homeschool mom who needs to hear this?

Have you ever had one of those homeschool days where nothing seems to go right? Breakdowns, lying, cheating, no one is focusing. The kids aren't listening. The schoolwork isn't getting finished. Someone is frustrated, you're frustrated, and by the end of the day you're wondering, “What am I doing wrong?”  You know the days that can break you as a homeschool mom. One hard homeschool day can quickly turn into believing you're failing as a homeschool mom. But what if a hard day is just a hard day?  In this episode, I'm talking with veteran homeschool mom Heather Gilmour about what it really looks like to keep going when homeschool feels hard. After homeschooling six children over the years, Heather shares the perspective she wishes more homeschool moms had when the hard days come. We talk about how simple routines, flexibility, time management, and changing the way we think about difficult moments can help us stop carrying guilt into the rest of our day. And become the present mom we want to be. In this episode, we talk about: Why a hard homeschool day doesn't mean you're failing How to separate what actually happened from the thoughts you attach to it Why your child's struggles don't automatically mean you've done something wrong How simple routines and practical responsibilities can help children grow in independence Why flexibility is an important part of homeschooling Knowing when to stop pushing and try another day again How to protect your relationship with your children when schoolwork becomes frustrating Why homeschooling doesn't have to look like an eight-hour school day How hands-on learning and real-life experiences can be just as valuable as traditional schoolwork The importance of asking God for wisdom and remembering that our children are a blessing Why the hard days are only a small part of the bigger picture Heather also shares encouragement from her years of homeschooling and reminds us that we don't have to get every homeschool day right to be faithful moms. Sometimes the best thing we can do is take a breath, adjust our expectations, give ourselves and our kids some grace, and simply do the next best thing. Heather Gilmour is a veteran homeschool mom who has homeschooled six children over the years. Now that most of her children are grown, she has a unique perspective on the years that can feel so overwhelming while you're living them. Her heart is to encourage younger homeschool moms and remind them that the hard days don't define their homeschool—or their motherhood. Want help creating routines that actually work for your homeschool and business? If you're a working homeschool mom trying to figure out your schedule so you can have work-life balance in your homeschool, your business, and being present with your kids, I'd love to help. There is a better way to do this. Book an Organize Your Day Coaching Call with me. We'll look at what's currently taking your time, what's competing for your attention, and where simple routines and realistic boundaries could make your days feel more manageable. You don't need another complicated system. You need a rhythm that works for your real life. http://thesimplifiedmom.com/organize-your-day A reminder for you today A hard homeschool day does not make you a bad homeschool mom. Give yourself some grace. Ask God for wisdom. Take the next best step. You don't have to do everything perfectly to be a faithful, present mom. Here are a few ways we can keep in touch: ORGANIZE YOUR DAY COACHING Need help figuring out how to organize your day, fit everything in, and create routines that actually work for your real life? BOOK YOUR ORGANIZE YOUR DAY COACHING CALL → right here We’ll look at what’s working, what’s not, and create a simple plan to help you feel more in control of your time. http://thesimplifiedmom.com/organize-your-day BE AN INSIDER Want practical routines, time-saving ideas, encouragement, and behind-the-scenes tips delivered straight to your inbox? JOIN THE INSIDER LIST → right here. Come be part of my email community where I share encouragement, practical tips, and things I don’t always share anywhere else.  JOIN THE FACEBOOK GROUP You don't have to figure this out alone! JOIN THE FREE COMMUNITY → right here. Come connect with other moms, get encouragement, share what’s working (and what’s not!), and find practical ideas for creating more time for the people you love. LEAVE A 5 🌟REVIEW on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen to this podcast. Did something I shared help you? Your review genuinely makes me smile. 😊 Knowing that something I taught, shared, or encouraged you with helped make your day a little easier means so much to me. And your words help me know that what I’m doing is making a difference for other moms, too. Thank you for taking a minute to share your experience.  I’M SO GLAD YOU’RE HERE! My goal is simple: To help you create routines and systems that give you more time to be present for the people you love. Grab your coffee, take a deep breath, and let’s make life a little simpler together. ☕💗 Follow me on YouTube Follow me on Pinterest If this episode helped you find a little more peace today, would you share it with another working homeschool mom who needs to hear this?

Before you say yes to one more thing, ask yourself: Where is this going to fit? As a working mom and homeschool mom, your days are already full. You’re homeschooling, running your business, managing your home, feeding everyone, getting kids where they need to go, while trying to be a present mom. So why does it feel like you’re constantly running out of time and always behind? The problem isn’t that you need more hours in the day. You need simple time management routines that help you decide where your time should go before your schedule decides for you. In this episode, we’re talking about three simple routines I want every working homeschool mom to have in place before saying yes to anything else. These time management routines can help you stop reacting to your schedule and start creating a more intentional rhythm for your homeschool, business, home, and family. Because work-life balance isn’t about making every area of your life perfectly equal. It’s about knowing what matters most in this season and creating routines and boundaries that help you make room for it. And when you have a plan for your time, you can spend less of your day thinking about everything you should be doing, and more of your day actually being a present mom. In this episode, we’ll talk about: Why constantly saying yes can leave a working mom feeling like she has no time How weekly planning routines can help a homeschool mom build her week before it begins Why your priorities need a place on your calendar How these simple routines can support better work-life balance The question every working homeschool mom should ask before saying yes to something new How better time management can create more margin to be a present mom   Before you say yes to anything new, ask: “Where does this fit?” If you don't know where it fits, pause before adding it to your schedule. Remember, the goal isn't to create a perfect schedule. The goal is to create simple routines that support your work-life balance, your homeschool, your business, and your ability to be a present mom. Ready to Create a Business Rhythm That Works With Your Homeschool? If you're a working homeschool mom who keeps thinking, “I know I need to work on my business, but when?”, let's figure it out together. Book an Organize Your Day Coaching, and we'll look at where your time is going, what's competing for your attention, and how you can create a realistic rhythm for your homeschool and business. http://thesimplifiedmom.com/organize-your-day You don't need another complicated planner. You need time management routines that actually work for your real life.   Here are a few ways we can keep in touch: ORGANIZE YOUR DAY COACHING Need help figuring out how to organize your day, fit everything in, and create routines that actually work for your real life? BOOK YOUR ORGANIZE YOUR DAY COACHING CALL → right here We’ll look at what’s working, what’s not, and create a simple plan to help you feel more in control of your time. http://thesimplifiedmom.com/organize-your-day BE AN INSIDER Want practical routines, time-saving ideas, encouragement, and behind-the-scenes tips delivered straight to your inbox? JOIN THE INSIDER LIST → right here. Come be part of my email community where I share encouragement, practical tips, and things I don’t always share anywhere else.  JOIN THE FACEBOOK GROUP You don't have to figure this out alone! JOIN THE FREE COMMUNITY → right here. Come connect with other moms, get encouragement, share what’s working (and what’s not!), and find practical ideas for creating more time for the people you love. LEAVE A 5 🌟REVIEW on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen to this podcast. Did something I shared help you? Your review genuinely makes me smile. 😊 Knowing that something I taught, shared, or encouraged you with helped make your day a little easier means so much to me. Your words also show me that what I’m doing is making a difference for other moms, too. Thank you for taking a minute to share your experience.  I’M SO GLAD YOU’RE HERE! My goal is simple: To help you create routines and systems that give you more time to be present for the people you love. Grab your coffee, take a deep breath, and let’s make life a little simpler together. ☕💗 Follow me on YouTube Follow me on Pinterest If this episode helped you find a little more peace today, would you share it with another working homeschool mom who needs to hear this? Related Episodes 52. Do This 1 Thing for Work-Life Balance During the Holiday Season 39. The 6 Routines Every Working Mom Needs to Turn Into Habits (And Why It Matters for Time Management)

The holiday season is rolling toward us fast. If you are trying to manage your business goals, your kids’ homeschool lessons, and a packed family calendar week-by-week, you already know what’s going to happen. You’re going to end up completely exhausted, playing frantic catch-up, and feeling like you are failing, instead of being a present mom.   But you don't need a more complicated tracking system, and you don't need to push yourself into an overwhelming hour-by-hour schedule. In this episode, I am breaking down the one single routine you must do right now to protect your peace, kill decision fatigue, and maintain a true work-life balance through November and December. This is what I have been doing to really help me be a present mom and improve my time management, so I can achieve work-life balance. By creating routines that work for your current season, you can go into this holiday season feeling confident. The Holiday Calendar Map Hard-Blocking Your Boundaries Homeschool Blocks Defeating Decision Fatigue Don't walk into November winging the season. Let’s sit down one-on-one and completely untangle your exact schedule for the next two months. Grab your slot for a 60-Minute Organize Your Day Coaching today. Together, we will build your custom, flexible time-blocking calendar for the entire holiday season.  http://thesimplifiedmom.com/organize-your-day LET’S STAY CONNECTED 💗 I’m so glad you’re here! Whether we’ve worked together, you’ve listened to the podcast, or you’re simply looking for practical ways to create more time in your day, I’d love to stay connected. Here are a few ways we can keep in touch: ORGANIZE YOUR DAY COACHING Need help figuring out how to organize your day, fit everything in, and create routines that actually work for your real life? BOOK YOUR ORGANIZE YOUR DAY COACHING CALL → right here We’ll look at what’s working, what’s not, and create a simple plan to help you feel more in control of your time. http://thesimplifiedmom.com/organize-your-day BE AN INSIDER Want practical routines, time-saving ideas, encouragement, and behind-the-scenes tips delivered straight to your inbox? JOIN THE INSIDER LIST → right here. Come be part of my email community where I share encouragement, practical tips, and things I don’t always share anywhere else.  JOIN THE FACEBOOK GROUP You don't have to figure this out alone! JOIN THE FREE COMMUNITY → right here. Come connect with other moms, get encouragement, share what’s working (and what’s not!), and find practical ideas for creating more time for the people you love. LEAVE A 5 🌟REVIEW on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen to this podcast. Did something I shared help you? Your review genuinely makes me smile. 😊 Knowing that something I taught, shared, or encouraged you with helped make your day a little easier means so much to me. And your words help me know that what I’m doing is making a difference for other moms, too. Thank you for taking a minute to share your experience.  I’M SO GLAD YOU’RE HERE! My goal is simple: To help you create routines and systems that give you more time to be present for the people you love. Grab your coffee, take a deep breath, and let’s make life a little simpler together. ☕💗 Follow me on YouTube Follow me on Pinterest If this episode helped you find a little more peace today, would you share it with another working homeschool mom who needs to hear this?