This Might Be Love

Are you still with your partner because you're IN LOVE… or because leaving and starting over sounds terrifying? 👀On Episode 42 of This Might Be Love, Jay & Nae have one of their more personal conversations about what happens when a long-term relationship becomes so familiar and comfortable that you don't know whether you're still fighting for the relationship—or simply afraid to let it go.After 17 years together, we've had moments where the love was still there…but the relationship definitely didn't FEEL the same.So how do you know the difference?When does being comfortable become being STUCK?Can you love somebody and still know the relationship isn't working?And how do you know whether you're going through a rough season that needs communication—or holding onto something that's already over?We get REAL about periods in our own relationship where resentment, poor communication, trust issues and fear of losing each other changed the way we treated each other.Sometimes you don't actually want another person.You just want YOUR person to become the person you need again.But how long should you wait for that to happen?And at what point does fighting for your relationship become being afraid to start over?━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━😂 ALSO ON EPISODE 42:🥩 Jay & Nae celebrate 17 years together and review their expensive anniversary dinner at Tony's Steakhouse.⚖️ COUPLES COURT: Jay takes Nae to court after their casino trip and accuses her of jeopardizing his attempt to WALK AWAY while he was winning. 😂🚗 Jay has officially decided Elon Musk is an ALIEN after seeing the Tesla Roadster technology. 😭🎮 We talk Street Fighter, 50 Cent and whether the new movie was actually worth watching.💜 QUESTION OF THE WEEK: How did you know it was finally time to leave your relationship?🤔 WOULD YOU RATHER: Always laugh at the wrong time OR always say exactly what you're thinking?💌 SEND US SOME LOVE:Should your spouse know exactly how much money you make?Your boyfriend forgot YOUR birthday but remembered his friend's—should you let it go?Your wife bought something expensive with her OWN money without telling you—is that a problem?And if one partner pays most of the bills, should household chores still be 50/50?📺 WHAT WE'RE WATCHING: A Different World, Tyler Perry's Doing Time and more.And of course…😂 NAE'S END-OF-THE-DAY JOKE!━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━💜 QUESTION OF THE WEEKHave you ever stayed in a relationship because it was familiar and comfortable even though the love didn't feel the same anymore?And how did you know the difference between:Fighting for your relationship…andBeing afraid to let go?👇🏾 We want to hear YOUR story in the comments.━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━⏱️ CHAPTERS00:00 Cold Open 😂01:33 Welcome to This Might Be Love02:05 Love or Just Comfortable?02:58 Weekly Catch-Up04:09 17-Year Anniversary ❤️04:31 Tony's Steakhouse Anniversary Review 🥩12:12 Couples Court — The Casino Incident ⚖️22:38 Is Elon Musk an Alien?! 😂23:05 Tesla Roadster & “Flying Cars”31:33 Street Fighter & 50 Cent35:00 Question of the Week35:41 When Did You Know It Was Time to Leave?41:22 “I Felt More Like His Mother Than His Partner”43:10 Main Topic — Love or Familiarity?45:35 Nae Gets Honest About Staying Because It Was Comfortable48:13 Is the Grass Really Greener?48:55 When Our Own Relationship Felt Different50:10 The Resentment We Never Talked About53:33 Fighting for Love vs. Being Afraid to Let Go54:44 How Do You KNOW the Love Has Changed?59:42 This Week's Question of the Week1:01:01 Would You Rather? 😂1:02:38 Send Us Some Love 💌1:02:55 Should Your Spouse Know Your Salary?1:04:33 He Forgot My Birthday but Remembered His Friend's 😳1:06:45 She Spent Her Own Money Without Telling Me1:07:20 I Pay the Bills—Do I Still Have to Clean?1:09:06 What We're Watching 📺1:12:09 Nae's End-of-the-Day Joke 😂1:13:02 Outro ❤️━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━💌 SEND US SOME LOVEGot a relationship problem, argument, confession or situation you want Jay & Nae to talk about?Send it anonymously:https://www.thismightbelove.com/ask🌐 THIS MIGHT BE LOVEhttps://www.thismightbelove.com🎧 LISTEN TO THE PODCASThttps://thismightbelove.transistor.fm/subscribe▶️ YOUTUBEhttps://youtube.com/@thismightbelove📱 TIKTOK@thismightbelove📸 INSTAGRAM@thismightbelovepodcast━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━HASHTAGS#ThisMightBeLove #RelationshipPodcast #MarriagePodcastWe want to hear from the people who've actually BEEN THERE. 👇🏾And this week's Question of the Week might get featured on the next episode!💌 Got something you want us to discuss anonymously?thismightbelove.com/ask━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━▶️ WATCH NOW

How do you know when it's time to walk away from a relationship? 💔 And what happens when the person you love is the person you feel you need to leave?In this episode of **This Might Be Love**, Jay and Nae get REAL about the moment you finally say, "I CAN'T KEEP DOING THIS!"Timestamp Chapter00:00 Jay & Nae's Hilarious Opening01:57 Welcome to This Might Be Love02:25 When You Can't Keep Doing This37:48 Question of the Week: Childhood & Relationships47:15 How Do You Know It's Time to Leave?48:30 Nae's Experience Walking Away52:00 Jay Reveals Why He Walked Away57:10 The Lessons That Changed Everything63:30 This Week's Question66:40 Couples Court75:40 Send Us Some Love97:00 Closing ThoughtsBut here's the question… did you actually leave, or did you stay longer than you should have? 👀Jay opens up about a time he walked away from Nae, what pushed him to that point, and the lessons he learned about love, accountability, boundaries, and knowing your worth.We're talking about:❤️ Knowing when it's time to leave a relationship💔 Why we stay even when we're unhappy💍 Walking away from someone you still love🧠 How childhood experiences affect adult relationships🔥 Relationship regrets, personal growth, and second chances😂 Plus our usual married-couple chaos, Couples Court, and Send Us Some Love!Sometimes walking away doesn't mean the love wasn't real. Sometimes it means something has to change.**NOW WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU! 👇🏿**Tell us about the moment you realized, "I can't keep doing this."Did you walk away immediately, or did you stay longer? Looking back, do you regret it, or did it teach you something you needed to learn?Drop your story in the comments! We might discuss it on a future episode.💜 **ABOUT THIS MIGHT BE LOVE**We're Jay & Nae, married high-school sweethearts having real conversations about love, marriage, relationships, and everything in between.Real Couples. Real Talk. Real Growth.🎙️ **CONNECT WITH US**🌐 Website: https://www.thismightbelove.com💌 Send Us Some Love: https://www.thismightbelove.com/ask🎧 Listen to the Podcast: https://thismightbelove.transistor.fm/subscribe📺 Subscribe on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@thismightbelove📱 TikTok: @thismightbelove📸 Instagram: @thismightbelovepodcast👍🏿 LIKE if you've ever had to make a hard decision in love.💬 COMMENT your experience or advice.🔔 SUBSCRIBE for more real conversations, relationship debates, and unfiltered married-couple perspectives!#RelationshipAdvice #MarriagePodcast #ThisMightBeLoveClick here to watch a video of this episode.

🧒🏾❤️ **YOU DIDN’T JUST MARRY YOUR PARTNER… YOU MARRIED SOME OF THEIR CHILDHOOD TOO. 👀**Think about it…How you argue.How you apologize.How you handle money.How you show affection.How you deal with conflict.Even what you think a husband or wife is SUPPOSED to do…A lot of that started LONG before your relationship did.On Episode 40 of **This Might Be Love**, Jay & Nae get personal about how their childhoods shaped the husband and wife they became—and which things they've had to LEARN and UNLEARN along the way. 💜Because your childhood can explain WHY you are the way you are…**But at what point does it become YOUR responsibility to change? 👀**PLUS:⚖️ Ro’Nae takes Juan to Couples Court for STEALING her chips and Aquafina 😂💌 Your mother-in-law keeps throwing slick comments—is avoiding his family wrong?💰 Your partner has $10K saved but refuses to help with your debt🏠 If you work from home, should you be responsible for dinner?🥱 Is it normal for a healthy marriage to get BORING?😳 And would you rather have a partner EVERYBODY wants… or one NOBODY wants?!👇🏾 **What’s ONE thing your childhood taught you about love that you had to UNLEARN?**🎙️ **This Might Be Love Podcast — Episode 40****Real Couples. Real Talk. Real Growth. 💜**#ThisMightBeLove #TMBL #Relationships #Marriage #Childhood #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageTalk #CouplesPodcast #Podcast #RelationshipPodcast

💍 **DID WAITING FOR MARRIAGE REALLY MATTER? 👀**Everybody has heard some version of:**“You should wait until marriage.”**But now that we're grown, married and looking back at the relationships that got us here…we have a different question:**Did waiting—or NOT waiting—actually help you in the long run?**On Episode 39 of **This Might Be Love**, Jay & Nae are having an honest conversation about sex, dating, marriage, experience and whether your past actually prepares you for your future partner.Because y'all had some WILDLY different answers. 😭One person said not waiting taught her how to be TOO independent and made relationships easier to throw away.Another basically said:**“Imagine waiting until marriage just to find out the sex is TRASH?! I'm getting divorced.”** 😭😂And then somebody who DID wait said it became one of their biggest regrets:**“I should've had my hoe phase!”** 😭Yeah…we gotta talk about this.🔥 **ALSO ON EPISODE 39:**🎤 T.I. & Young Dro👀 Rory vs. QueenzFlip — was Rory REALLY pressing him or nah?🎬 *The Drop*🎵 AZ Chike's album😂 A fan gets mad at Ice Cube for saying **“Happy Born Day”** to his wife — is Cube too gangster to just say HAPPY BIRTHDAY?!👀 Michael Jackson's estranged sister Joh'Vonnie Jackson is speaking about her childhood — but does the public actually care?⚖️ The Nolan Wells case🥊 Blueface & Wack 100's latest stream drama❤️ **QUESTION OF THE WEEK:****Do you believe NOT waiting for marriage helped you or hurt you in the long run?**Then things get PERSONAL…⚖️ **COUPLES COURT**The bed delivery guy came to our house and got a little TOO comfortable talking to Nae. 😭This man starts asking about **“you and your man…”**Excuse me, brother…**WHY ARE YOU ASKING ABOUT ME?!** 👀😂Y'all gotta decide whether I'm being a jealous husband or whether my wife was being a little TOO friendly with the bed delivery man.💌 **SEND US SOME LOVE**This week gets DEEP:👨‍👧 A man and his girlfriend both have daughters with a **Daddy-Daughter Dance on the SAME NIGHT.** His girlfriend wants him to take HER daughter because her biological father isn't involved—and wants his own daughter to go with somebody else.His response?**“My daughter isn't going to suffer because another man isn't doing his job.”**Is he wrong? 👀💔 Another wife says her husband's history of cheating and lying has damaged her trust so badly that even a tiny lie about **drying his hands on her pants** sends her into fight-or-flight.Is she overreacting to something small…or are there NO small lies once trust has already been destroyed?And finally:❤️ **If your partner SAVES YOUR LIFE… do you owe them your relationship forever?**Can gratitude become obligation?Can you love someone for what they did for you and STILL realize you shouldn't be together?👀 **WOULD YOU RATHER:**Know the ENTIRE truth about your partner's past…ORStay happy not knowing everything? 😳📺 **WHAT WE'RE WATCHING:***Echoes* on Netflix😂 And of course…**NAE'S END OF THE DAY JOKE!**👇🏾 **NOW WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU:**Did your experiences BEFORE marriage make you a better partner…or did they give you baggage you had to UNLEARN once you found your person?🎙️ **THIS MIGHT BE LOVE PODCAST**Hosted by Jay & Nae💜 **Real Couples. Real Talk. Real Growth.**👍🏾 LIKE the episode💬 JOIN the conversation🔔 SUBSCRIBE and come back every week💌 **Send Us Some Love:** thismightbelove.com/ask#ThisMightBeLove #TMBL #Marriage #WaitingForMarriage #Relationships #RelationshipPodcast #CouplesPodcast #MarriageTalk #RelationshipAdvice #BlackLove

👀 **DOUBLE STANDARDS ARE FINE… HALF THE TIME?!**Everybody says they HATE double standards…But do we really hate them?Or do we only have a problem with the ones that **DON’T BENEFIT US?** 😳On Episode 38 of **This Might Be Love**, Jay & Nae are putting double standards on trial.Men and women ARE different—but does acknowledging those differences automatically make something a double standard?Are some double standards actually reasonable?Or are we just calling hypocrisy “tradition” whenever it works in our favor? 👀🔥 **ALSO ON THIS EPISODE:**🎵 Don Trip & Starlito — *Step Brothers 5* review🥊 Papoose & Remy Ma taking their drama to the music🕊️ The murder of Q50 and why watching social media turn someone's death into entertainment has been disturbing🎬 *The Drop* review💍 *Why Did I Get Married Again?* review🦉 Drake's latest rollout❤️ **QUESTION OF THE WEEK:****“Do you truly have a problem with double standards… or just the ones that affect YOU?”**And y'all definitely had some opinions. 😂Then it's time for **SEND US SOME LOVE** 💌💍 Her husband begged her for YEARS to take his last name. Now that she's finally ready…he says **“Don't bother.”** Is she too late?😭 A woman's mother moved into the room directly underneath her bedroom…and casually revealed that she can HEAR her and her husband upstairs. Now she doesn't know how she's ever supposed to look her mom in the eyes again. 😂😳 And one man says his girlfriend only wants intimacy about once a month. She doesn't want him watching porn, so he came up with another solution: **he ordered a sex doll.** Now he wants to know if HE'S WRONG. 👀Yeah…we need y'all in the comments for that last one. 😂Plus:⚖️ Couples Court📺 What We're Watching😂 Nae's End of the Day Joke❤️ And plenty of conversations that probably should've stayed between us.👇🏾 **QUESTION FOR Y'ALL:**What's ONE double standard between men and women that you actually think is FAIR?And what's one that needs to disappear completely?🎙️ **THIS MIGHT BE LOVE PODCAST**Hosted by Jay & Nae💜 **Real Couples. Real Talk. Real Growth.**👍🏾 LIKE the episode💬