The John Lovell Show

Want more sex in your marriage—but don’t know how to bring it up without starting a fight?John Lovell sits down with Ryan Frederick of Fierce Marriage for a candid conversation about sex, trust, and pursuing your wife. After 23 years of marriage, Ryan says intimacy can get better with time. But what does it take to get there?They discuss the “every other day” conversation, why husbands and wives can feel disconnected, how pornography damages trust, and what rebuilding a healthy marriage requires. They also tackle the demands of raising kids—and how to keep your marriage from becoming an afterthought.A frank, biblical conversation for married adults who want a stronger relationship and a more connected life together.CONNECT WITH RYANFierce Marriage: https://fiercemarriage.comFierce Men: https://fiercemen.usChapters:00:00 Why intimacy fades in marriage11:03 Rethinking expectations about sex23:44 “Every other day?” Starting the conversation34:37 Pursuing your wife and building trust42:35 Pornography, shame, and rebuilding47:36 Making marriage a priority with kids57:33 Closing questions: protection and loving your wifeWarrior Poet WEBSITE - https://warriorpoetsociety.comTRAIN with us - https://warriorpoetsupplyco.com/train1/Books by John Lovell - https://www.warriorpoetsupplyco.com/pages/readGET the WarPoet app! | Original shows, training, and much more. iPhone, Android, Amazon, Apple TV etc. https://www.watchwpsn.com Watch the Rally Point Show on the Warrior Poet appFOLLOW US: Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/warriorpoetsociety Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/warriorpoetsociety/ X | https://x.com/johnlovell275 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/6O2q4F2tbmoddeSTo9jKNM?si=qzbO0G6xRs-rs51BZuP31Q(DISCLAIMER: This post may contain paid advertisements or affiliate links. What is an affiliate link? It means that if you click on one of the product links, Warrior Poet Society will receive a small commission at no extra cost to you. This helps support the channel and allows awesome future content. Thank you for the support!).

Good employees are harder to find than ever—which means it has never been easier for a driven man to win at work.This week, John Lovell pulls no punches on the soft, lazy culture sandbagging the modern workforce. If you want your career trajectory to be meteoric, you have to learn how to count the cost, accept hard knocks, and show up ready to add undeniable value.In this episode, we break down:Billionaire Frameworks: The top virtues required to survive the corporate boardroom.Thick Skin vs. Self-Pity: Why withdrawing from a tough work environment is a self-inflicted mortal wound.The College Detour: A pragmatic ROI analysis on the student loan scam versus learning a trade in your twenties.The Ultimate Priority: How to run the race to win at work without losing your soul, your marriage, or your kids.🕒 Episode Chapters & Timestamps00:00 – Introduction: The Philosophy of Winning at WorkJohn introduces the core theme of the episode—why men need good work worth doing—and sets up a challenge based on Donald Trump's The Apprentice.05:20 – Boardroom Battles: The 5 Competing Values Billionaires Hire ForBen steps into the hot seat to guess what virtues mega-millionaires value most when building an elite team.05:23 – Round 1: Loud Fighters vs. Calm Under Pressure06:53 – Round 2: Clever Intellect vs. Hard Workers08:21 – Round 3: Cutthroat Strategy vs. Absolute Loyalty10:23 – Round 4: Assertive Taskmasters vs. Kind Team Players12:55 – Round 5: Doing a Good Job on a Losing Team vs. A Bad Job on a Winning Team13:02 – Balancing Competing Priorities: Don't Win at Work and Lose at LifeJohn explains how to measure true success as a man by balancing your income, your marriage, and your kids without letting work become an idol.23:43 – Toughen Up: Thicker Skin vs. Victim CultureA hard look at dealing with difficult work environments, overcoming pride, shaking off insults, and why good employees are easier to stand out as than ever before.30:21 – Finding Career Contentment in Your 20s and 30sWhy loving your job is often "smoke and mirrors," paying your dues at the bottom of the totem pole, and moving from job dislike to radical gratitude.40:26 – The Pragmatic ROI of College vs. The TradesJohn and Ben break down the opportunity cost of higher education, the student loan debt trap, and how to become an "interest receiver" instead of an interest payer.Enjoyed this episode? ⚡ Subscribe & Review: If this perspective challenged you to level up your work ethic and protect your family priorities, hit that Follow button on Spotify and leave us a 5-star review to help more men find work worth doing.🛡️ Gear Up: Protect your eyes on the job or at the range. Head over to the Warrior Poet Society Store right now to grab your pair of ballistic-tested, highly stylish Wiley X Sunglasses featured in today’s shameless plug.https://www.warriorpoetsupplyco.com/collections/eyewearStay sharp. Build wealth. Protect what matters. Train Hard Train Smart.

Do you have the spirit of a protector, but find yourself focused only on physical defense? In this episode, John takes the narrow concept of security and expands it outwardly to reveal the hidden blind spots where many protectors are unwittingly dropping the ball. Join John for a 30,000-foot flyover and a personal audit across the five critical domains of true protection—physical, financial, spiritual, relational, and mental. Learn how to eliminate your vulnerabilities, beat cultural influences to the punch, and step fully into your daily calling on behalf of those under your care. Because a true Warrior Poet doesn't just watch the perimeter; he guards the heart of the home.Please support the show & subscribe/follow so you never miss a release, and take a moment to rate the show and leave a review to help other protectors find us.

Twenty years together—but their marriage wasn’t always this good.John and Rebekah Lovell open up about the power struggles, selfishness, and communication mistakes that made their early years so difficult. John admits that leading men on a battlefield didn’t prepare him to lead well as a husband. Becka reflects on control, criticism, and what she learned about respect and submission.From an argument over face wash to learning how to apologize, they share how faith, humility, mentorship, and hard work helped their marriage grow.They also discuss biblical marriage roles, feminism, putting your spouse before your children, and why a flourishing marriage takes more than finding the “right person.”What helped your marriage turn a corner? Share your experience in the comments.Warrior Poet WEBSITE - https://warriorpoetsociety.comTRAIN with us - https://warriorpoetsupplyco.com/train1/Books by John Lovell - https://www.warriorpoetsupplyco.com/pages/readGET the WarPoet app! | Original shows, training, and much more. iPhone, Android, Amazon, Apple TV etc. https://www.watchwpsn.com Watch the Rally Point Show on the Warrior Poet appFOLLOW US: Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/warriorpoetsociety Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/warriorpoetsociety/ X | https://x.com/johnlovell275 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/6O2q4F2tbmoddeSTo9jKNM?si=qzbO0G6xRs-rs51BZuP31QChapters:00:00 Our Marriage Wasn’t Always This Good06:19 The Struggles in Our Early Marriage15:53 Understanding Biblical Marriage Roles18:08 Why Marriage Is Losing Its Appeal29:35 Submission, Trust & Shared Decisions38:22 The Face-Wash Fight43:03 Building a Marriage That Lasts49:58 Putting Your Marriage Before Your Children(DISCLAIMER: This post may contain paid advertisements or affiliate links. What is an affiliate link? It means that if you click on one of the product links, Warrior Poet Society will receive a small commission at no extra cost to you. This helps support the channel and allows awesome future content. Thank you for the support!).

Is the damage already done?Decades ago, former KGB defector Yuri Bezmenov exposed a chilling, top-secret Soviet plan designed to conquer America without ever firing a single shot. It wasn't a war fought with tanks or bombs—it was a long-term psychological blueprint designed to fundamentally alter our perception of reality.In this episode, John Lovell breaks down Bezmenov’s infamous 4 Stages of Societal Capture: Demoralization, Destabilization, Crisis, and Normalization.When you look at the fracturing of our communities, the death of objective truth, and the rise of modern "doublethink," a terrifying question emerges: Did the plan succeed? Are we currently living through the final stage of a subversion campaign that has been self-perpetuating for generations?Watch the full video to see how this hidden war plan has been weaponized against the West, and what it truly takes to wake up before it's too late.Warrior Poet WEBSITE - https://warriorpoetsociety.comTRAIN with us - https://warriorpoetsupplyco.com/train1/Books by John Lovell - https://johnlovell.comGET the WarPoet app! | Original shows, training, and much more. iPhone, Android, Amazon, Apple TV etc. https://www.watchwpsn.com Watch the Rally Point Show on the Warrior Poet appFOLLOW US: Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/warriorpoetsociety Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/warriorpoetsociety/ X | https://x.com/johnlovell275 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/6O2q4F2tbmoddeSTo9jKNM?si=qzbO0G6xRs-rs51BZuP31Q