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A Life Lived Trans is a podcast hosted by Mardi P. and Lenny Z., two trans elders who have been transitioning collectively for close to 100 years (yes, that is one whole-ass century)! Each week, they are bringing you their stories of what it was like transitioning in the 70s, 80s, 90s, and 00s. For full episodes and to support our hosts, please visit our Patreon page.
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What a journey it has been to navigate healthcare for Lenny and Mardi thru these last, almost 100 collective years!
Lenny talks about meeting progressive doctors in the 1970s, while Mardi's shares surviving the more common and dangerous DIY journey of the streets for transition needs.
They also discuss ageing and trans healthcare and how they are still teaching the medical establishment because not many of us survived this long.
They have a discussion on the importance of gender-affirming care, and the challenges faced by trans youth today. ie., legislative issues in Alberta and the U.S.
Thanks for listening to the podcast and please send us you thoughts and questions to alifelivedtrans@gmail.com and we will be sure to read some of them on air.
Happy 2026 everyone. Be kind to your mind, stay close to the ones that lift you and hang on, we think it's going to be quite the Year!
In this shorter holiday episode Lenny and Mardi discuss the importance of sharing personal stories to combat misinformation and the documented tactics used by anti-trans groups.
Through humor and candid reflections, they highlight the ongoing struggle for acceptance and understanding in society.
If you are not a Patreon member watching the video episode, Mardi is giving exhausted Greek tycoon widow, with low grade migraine, from the flooded end zone of it all.
Please help her lol, our testimony and our podcast by rating and reviewing our show wherever you listen to our podcast.
HAPPY 2026 xoxo
Join us this holiday week for some heartfelt stories, insights and knee slapping ha ha that would make any Grinch’s frown turn upside down.
We also talk about how to navigate unsupportive family at this time of year and make a call-out for greater understanding and inclusion of trans voices in the media.
Remember you can email us at lifelivedtrans@gmail.com and send us questions, admirations, upcoming tranniversaries or any stories that we have missed that you think we should be taking about.
Thank you for supporting us and making this podcast a safe space for us to come together and share each others experience, strength and hope.
Have a fabulous New Year!
💜M & L
Just days out of surgery Lenny still shows up to tape an episode with Mardi for you all. Naturally the conversation veers into the daunting, almost 100 years of navigating, healthcare between us.
The last 15 minutes Mardi, who is very disheartened, goes off, like really off, about young Trans creators who are not walking their talk in supporting trans elders and how being shadow banned from social media apps feels one in the same. (I think Mardi could use some cyber hugs folks)
They also give a couple hot takes on some current hot topics.
Remains of Canadian Indigenous Women Found in Landfill
https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cqlyz04q23qo
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
04:27 Lenny's Surgery Experience
09:00 Medical Journeys in the Trans Community
10:48 Healthcare News and Updates
18:20 The Importance of Self-Care
21:39 Cultural Reflections and Reconciliation
27:35 Navigating Political Landscapes
31:11 Canada's Evolving Relationship with Europe
35:58 Understanding Trans Youth and Medical Care
41:40 The Importance of Supporting Trans Voices
46:18 Reflections on Community and Activism
Mardi & Lenny reveal some of the things that has been bothering them, (Beefs). Mardi’s was sparked by a back and forth since deleted post by Indya Moore who Mardi had no idea it was. They did end up finding common ground.
Written online discourse is so dicey and lacks nuance for topics that need to be discussed in real time to paraphrase boots the house so you know each other are talking about the same thing!!!
They also discuss some things that have inspired them lately (bouquets) and get into some of the Hot Topics.
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On this episode of A Life Lived Trans Alexandra Billings drops by in all her hilarious glory and we discuss the need for connection and understanding between trans generations and the significance of sharing experiences of acceptance and resilience.
Vito Russo - "Why We Fight" (1988) - YouTube
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STORIES: The AIDS Monument
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1In this episode of "A Life Lived Trans," hosts MahD and Lenny Z delve into the complexities of transphobia while highlighting the silver linings that can be found amidst the challenges. They discuss personal experiences and societal changes, emphasizing the importance of resilience and hope. The conversation touches on the progress made in trans visibility and rights, the role of allies, and the power of community support. The episode concludes with a guided meditation led by MahD, offering listeners a moment of peace and reflection. Join MahD and Lenny as they navigate the intersection of personal growth and societal change, reminding us all to look for the silver linings in every situation.
*For paid Patreon members, there is a Bonus Clip about how Mardi learned this mediation practice from a Tibetan Buddhist nun.
On this week’s episode Mardi and Lenny are thrilled to be joined by the rising supermodel and youthful trans-advocate Vivian Jenna Wilson. They all share their stories of lives lived trans, and Vivian details her egg being cracked (beginning of her trans journey), what it was like to transition as a freshman in high school, peer support, as well as her takes on toxic masculinity, Zhoran Mamdani, the right’s fixation and targeted campaign against trans people especially youth, her hair care routine, changes in support for trans folk within the queer community over the years and a poignant message to trans youth just beginning to experience a gender expansive journey and what to do when it’s right for them.
In this episode of the Life Lived Trans podcast, hosts Mardi and Lenny welcome Regina, who shares her brave journey of transitioning the day she retired at 65, 10 years ago.
Living in a very conservative rural community Regina recounts her experiences of acceptance in her community, the significance of being true to oneself and the importance of queer community support and networking.
We discuss the differences and similarities between early and late transitions, emphasizing the shared struggles within the transgender community.
Greater awareness and respect for trans persons transitioning later in life is unfortunately.
The significance of storytelling and sharing of our differing trans experiences within the trans community can not be stressed enough.
Reference: transrurallives.org
In this episode, we explore the significance of Halloween as a time for self-expression and authenticity, particularly within the transgender community.
We discuss our first experiences dressing up, the evolution of gender expression, and the societal norms that impact identity.
The conversation highlights the importance of visibility and representation for trans individuals, as well as the ongoing fight against discrimination and authoritarianism.
We end with a teaser for upcoming guests and a call to action for listeners to support the trans community.
The hard truths and surprising joys about our awkward baby tra**y phase — while diving into what it really means to live authentically in a world that loves us to live in a box.
Expect laughter, honesty, a few rants, and plenty of love as we explore the mess, magic, and milestones of being trans. Whether you're deep in your own journey or just trying to understand someone else's, this episode is here to make you feel seen — and maybe even chuckle through the chaos.
We go deep into the DM’s and discuss handling trolls, being spooked and ashamed when clocked with other trans friends and those nasty hormones when they’re not moaning and a whole lot of other things!
"My Inner child"was a cockroach" (Mah D) -On today's episode your buoyant hosts discuss inner child work, childhood memories, and healing those parts of oneself that often remain unaddressed. Let us know in the chat how you nurture and support your inner child.
On this week’s episode, Mardi and Lenny discuss the challenges of finding trans community in real life and is it as rich to have parasocial connections via the space machines
Hello and THANK YOU for joining us over the last 14 episodes! We have paused billing on here and will be taking a little break before we return in September with Season 2!
Listen to our little check in, explaining our thoughts, and letting you know when you can expect us back!
All our love, and see you in the fall! 💕
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This weeks free episode has us joined in the studio by Actress, Singer, Teacher, and Transsexual ICON Alexandra Billings!
We get stuck into the journeys we all took in our life lived trans experiences, explore how the world has changed, get a whole load of wisdom and express gratitude for the luck we were afforded to be sat here recording this podcast for you today.
Expect a bold insight into the life and mind of Alexandra, the usual knowledge and humour of your favourite old tr*nnies, and perhaps a few truly touching and wonderful moments from three trans elders who have truly, seen it all before.
Thank you Alexandra for joining us!
Follow your hosts Mardi & Lenny!
Put the coffee on and grab yourselves a cookie cause our hosts with the most are talking all about their old aged pensioner tea being valid, and diving into everything that comes with aging whilst trans!
This is a free preview, if you want to hear the full episode then you'll want to head over to our Patreon!
From changing your hormone regime, to dilating that neo puzzaayy in retirement, this week we're talking all about the changes that happen to your body as you age, and the fun quirks that come from aging whilst a woman or man of a life lived trans experience (do you see what I did there?!).
Follow your hosts Mardi & Lenny!
Howdy y'all it's tr**ny tuesday so we're here with another beautiful episode of A Life Lived Trans! The ONLY podcast with two aged transsexuals who have certainly seen it all before!
This is a free preview, if you want to hear the full episode then you'll want to head over to our Patreon!
This week we're talking about TRANScending trauma with healing modalities and that extensively ponsy name hopefully goes a way to describe to woowoo we'll be covering today, specifically how we have healed after our lives lived trans with came with their fair share of trauma! To wrap it up, this week, join us in a brief meditation to help you allign your chakras.
Follow your hosts Mardi & Lenny!
A Life Lived Trans is a Diva Down production, produced by Carmen & Carly.
Hello and WELCOME to A Life Lived Trans!
This is a free preview, if you want to hear the full episode then you'll want to head over to our Patreon!
Dating can be hard when you're a doll or an action man, from navigating different issues, working with different parts, or just having to content with the complex emotions that often arise, and difficult conversations!
This week we're talking all about relations lovely and not so. From early formational hookups to long term romance, and even the boinking of a celebrity, join your trans elders in exploring the world of love sex and romance whilst trans!
We hope you enjoy this episode, and be sure to support us on our Patreon to listen to the whole episode! where you can listen to all our paid episodes!
Follow your hosts Mardi & Lenny!
A Life Lived Trans is a Diva Down production, produced by Carmen & Carly.
Happy Tuesday!
This week we're talking about healthcare, from Doctor Longjohn, and freezers full of horse piss through to trying to get healthcare as a trans elder and the perpetual cycle of explaining yourself to doctors in a way that a three year old would understand.
With healthcare coming under attack from reactionaries at the moment, it's good to remember that trans healthcare is not experimental! For decades we have been taking hormones, going through sex changing / gender affirming surgeries, and living to tell the tale!
Anyhoo: enjoy the show!
Follow your hosts Mardi & Lenny!
A Life Lived Trans is a Diva Down production, produced by Carmen & Carly.
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