A Really Good Cry

Radhi Devlukia is a plant-based cook, author of the book JoyFull: Cook Effortlessly, Eat Freely, Live Radiantly, host of A Really Good Cry podcast, and Co-founder of Juni Tea. In this installment of Wellness Wednesday, she breaks down the essential practice of eating a plant-based diet according to the principles of Ayurveda, an ancient, holistic system of medicine. She breaks down what it is, how to incorporate it into your daily life, and why it brings her joy. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We all dream of ‘good hair days,’ but what if the secret isn’t just in the products? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, we’re talking all about the frustrating struggle with hair health, from breakage to thinning, and everything in between. I’m diving into my personal journey of dealing with post-COVID hair loss, how it totally knocked my confidence, and what I did to turn it around. Spoiler: it took way more than just a new shampoo! We’ll chat about the holistic and Ayurvedic methods that have made a real difference in my hair’s strength and growth—and yes, I’ll be sharing all the practical tips that worked for me. From scalp massages to gut health, and even the crazy impact of stress on our hair, we’re covering it all. So, if you’re ready to figure out how to get your healthiest, strongest hair yet (without breaking the bank or pulling your hair out—literally), grab your favorite snack, get comfy, and let’s dive in together. Because you deserve to love your hair, and we’re here to make that happen! What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:17 Good hair is a result of good health 05:25 Three types of hair according to Ayurveda 08:16 Embracing your natural hair type 11:04 How external care transforms hair health 12:32 Benefits of using hair oils 14:35 Hair oiling tips 16:24 Do a scalp massage 17:25 Derma roller for hair loss 18:28 More practical tips to protect your hair 21:57 How food & your diet affects your hair 28:53 Stress and hair loss   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What if your childhood experiences shaped your relationships more than you ever realized? In today’s episode, I’m joined by Thais Gibson, an expert in attachment theory, who reveals how our subconscious rules for love shape every connection we form. Thais breaks down how these attachment styles influence not just romantic relationships but also our friendships, family dynamics, and most importantly, our relationship with ourselves. Thais and I dive deep into the roots of attachment theory, exploring how core wounds from our past can keep us stuck in unhealthy patterns—and more importantly, how we can heal and reprogram these wounds. With her insights and actionable strategies, Thais explains how anyone can shift from an insecure attachment style to a secure, thriving connection. We also discuss the transformative power of understanding your own needs, setting healthy boundaries, and learning how to cultivate emotional regulation for deeper, more fulfilling relationships. This episode will leave you inspired to change the way you approach love and connection.   What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:27 What is Attachment Theory? 07:38 Identifying your core wounds 13:16 Reprogramming emotional triggers 17:27 How past emotional scars shape present reactions 20:55 Why do you keep dating the same type? 23:37 Heal yourself first 26:52 Learn what your needs are in a relationship 28:52 Communicate your needs vulnerability and transparently 31:34 Have healthy boundaries 32:23 Why do you find secure people boring? 35:23 The six stages of relationships 37:13 Are you hooked on the drama or the person? 40:40 The difference between sacrifice and compromise 43:45 Being in a relationship with a dismissive avoidant person 46:13 Enmeshment 52:04 Can you be a mix of attachment styles? 54:41 When anxious meets avoidant 57:17 What are your non-negotiables? 59:51 What are your standards or needs? 1:01:19 How do you actually feel when you’re around someone? 1:04:16 Three questions to ask your partner 1:09:24 Thais’ other books 1:10:48 Know more about Thais   Follow Thais: https://university.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHQ4lSaKRap5HyrpitrTOhQ https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Why do we care so much about what other people think? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, we’re having an honest chat about that constant need for approval and why it's so exhausting! I’m diving into my own journey of always worrying about others’ opinions and how I finally learned to let that go (well, mostly… still working on it!). We’ll talk about the moments when I felt like a total stranger in my own life because I was living for everyone else instead of just being myself. We’ll get into the nitty-gritty of why we feel this way, how to start letting go, and what it actually means to show up as the most authentic version of you. And yes, I’ll be sharing some practical tips and little exercises that have helped me stop overthinking and just be ME. So, if you’re ready to have a heart-to-heart about living life on your own terms, grab a cup of tea, get cozy, and let’s figure this out together. You deserve to be loved for who you really are, and this episode is all about helping you see that!   What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:40 Let’s start with an affirmation 01:23 Are you living in your own life? 03:47 Embracing how we’re always changing 05:22 Focus on being in the present 06:21 The danger of losing yourself to fit in 09:28 Approval addiction 09:40 Signs that you care too much about what others think 13:58 Ask yourself this when you start worrying about what others think 17:13 The real reason we’re obsessed with being liked 20:00 Get to know yourself 22:03 Identify your purpose and value in life 23:30 Setting boundaries 24:49 Practice perspective 25:45 Sit in that discomfort of not being liked 26:36 Finding freedom in being yourself   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What if the only thing standing between you and real confidence is your fear of failure? In today’s episode, I’m joined by someone who knows exactly how to turn challenges into confidence. Lisa Bilyeu, co-founder of Quest Nutrition and the host of Women of Impact, shares her powerful insights on pushing past fear and self-doubt to unlock your full potential. Lisa and I dive into the uncomfortable truth about confidence: it’s earned by facing failure and embracing growth. She shares her personal journey of overcoming limiting beliefs, offering practical tips on how to break through the barriers holding you back. We also talk about the critical role of building habits that reinforce confidence, and why stepping outside your comfort zone is the only way to truly grow. Lisa’s advice on embracing failure as part of the process will leave you inspired to tackle your own challenges with courage and resilience. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 04:49 What is Radical Confidence? 07:37 Name your fear 12:25 Your body stores trauma 15:56 Dressing down is killing your confidence 18:42 How to make confidence a habit 22:52 Show up differently and watch others notice 25:59 Getting out of your comfort zone 29:14 Confidence vs. Arrogance vs. Ego 33:31 Insecurity or ego? 35:38 How to accept change 39:46 Stop trying to please everyone 43:37 Contempt and resentment in relationships 45:16 The first step to building confidence 53:35 Don’t be scared to fail 56:47 Break through your limits 1:06:18 Rapid fire questions with Lisa   Follow Lisa: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ https://www.youtube.com/@LisaBilyeu/   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Periods can be a pain—literally—but what if we could turn that pain into power? On this episode of A Really Good Cry, we’re getting cozy and chatting about something we don’t talk about enough—our periods! It’s time to embrace this beautiful, natural process and learn how to love and honor our bodies every step of the way. I’ll be sharing my personal journey from seeing my period as a hassle to viewing it as a time for deep connection and self-care. We’ll explore how aligning with our cycles can help us live more harmoniously with our bodies, how we can manage discomfort naturally, and why understanding what a healthy period looks like is so important. I’ll also be dropping some Ayurvedic gems on balancing hormones and soothing cramps, plus a few of my favorite self-care rituals (like the magical ovary massage) that’ll leave you feeling supported and nourished. Whether you experience irregular cycles, or painful periods, or just want to deepen your connection with your body, this episode is filled with loving guidance, practical tips, and a whole lot of compassion for your amazing female body. I promise you’ll walk away seeing your period in a whole new light!   What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:34 How my relationship with my period changed 05:32 Why I stopped complaining about my period 07:04 Breaking the taboo around periods 08:05 How do you know if your period is healthy? 10:22 Sync your workouts with your menstrual cycle 12:52 Why your period heightens emotions and what it means 15:44 Foods to eat during your period 20:10 Ovary massage 22:09 How holistic health can help you 24:17 Period acne 26:10 Finding the right period products for you   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Grief can test our faith, but it can also strengthen it in unexpected ways. Today, I have a truly special guest whose journey through loss has inspired so many. Lauren London, an acclaimed actress, entrepreneur, and mental health advocate, opens up about her personal experiences with grief and resilience. In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Lauren and I chat about the transformative power of faith and vulnerability in navigating grief. She shares her touching story of love and loss, offering heartfelt insights into finding strength and purpose through spiritual connection. We also dive into practical strategies for managing grief, like the healing power of prayer and journaling. Lauren's advice on creating supportive environments for healing and maintaining connections with loved ones who have passed is truly inspiring.   What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:26 How Lauren got into acting 04:02 Growing from past versions of yourself  10:56 “True faith requires curiosity…” 15:37 How to talk with God 19:55 Getting into journaling 22:09 Lauren & Nipsey’s meet-cute 25:29 Things Lauren learned from Nipsey 29:01 Coping with grief 31:10 What is shadow work? 33:53 Judging less and loving more 36:02 Laughing and living after grief 38:28 Teaching kids about grief 40:54 Stepping out of your comfort zone 43:51 Embracing self-love after loss 47:38 Prioritizing self in a demanding industry 50:48 Having no idea what to do next is okay 55:09 The last time Lauren cried  56:57 Rapid fire questions with Lauren Follow Lauren: https://www.instagram.com/laurenlondon/ Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We all know how it feels to toss and turn, staring at the ceiling, wondering why sleep feels like an impossible dream. On this episode of A Really Good Cry, we're diving deep into the world of sleep—what makes it so essential and why it can be so hard to get. I’ll be sharing some personal stories (because yes, I’ve been there with sleepless nights and groggy mornings) and what I've learned along the way about making sleep work for us, not against us. We’re talking all things sleep—from the basics of setting up a good nighttime routine to some lesser-known tricks like Ayurveda’s take on the best sleep habits. I’ll walk you through easy, everyday changes you can start tonight—like the power of a calming bedtime snack and how even small tweaks to your sleep environment can help you relax more easily. And let's not forget those simple, practical tips for when your mind just won’t switch off. Whether you're a light sleeper, a night owl, or just someone who wants to feel more rested and energized, this episode is packed with practical advice and real talk. Trust me, with these tips, you’ll be on your way to sleeping better and feeling better in no time!   What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:33 Relationship between sleep and health 04:10 What happens when you sleep? 05:38 Have a sleep routine 07:52 Ayurvedic guide to sleep 13:25 The best sleeping position 14:28 Separate your sleep space 15:35 Why an evening self-care routine is important 17:48 Set up the environment and ambiance 19:53 Avoid artificial lights 22:24 Journaling before bed 23:57 Stop watching horror movies at night 24:54 Pray 26:12 Take a deep breath 27:47 The best time to eat dinner   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

They say home is where the heart is.  But it’s not just about the places we live—it’s about the people and connections that fill those spaces with warmth and meaning. This week, I had the opportunity to chat with Camila Alves McConaughey, an entrepreneur, mother, and the founder of "Women of Today," a platform dedicated to empowering women by fostering a vibrant community that offers support, advice, and shared experiences. Camila discusses the community interactions on her journey, the pivotal role of community in personal well-being, and how she’s used her platform to connect and empower women globally. They also explore the transformative power of community, the importance of cultural identity in shaping our interactions, and how initiatives like "Women of Today" are pivotal in creating spaces for women to learn, connect, and grow together.   What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:43 Camila on leaving Brazil 06:26 Women of Today 09:08 Universal community struggles 10:20 Having friends in different age groups 14:27 The power of sharing wisdom and advice 17:52 How to build community wherever you are 31:08 Handling life’s transitions 33:48 Embracing change and growth 39:00 Being comfortable with the uncomfortable 44:19 Writing a children’s book 48:56 What’s next for Camila? 53:07 Greenlights Grant Initiative 55:27 Camila’s fast fire   Follow Camila: https://www.instagram.com/camilamcconaughey/ https://www.instagram.com/womenoftoday/   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Friendships are supposed to last forever, right? But what happens when the people who once felt like home start feeling like strangers?    In this episode of A Really Good Cry, we dive deep into the bittersweet reality of outgrowing friendships. As we grow and change, so do our needs and desires, and sometimes that means the friendships we’ve held onto for years no longer fit the person we’re becoming.   I’ll share my personal journey of recognizing when certain friendships were no longer serving me, and how I navigated the emotional turmoil that comes with letting go. We’ll explore the signs that indicate you might be outgrowing a friend—like when conversations start to feel repetitive or when spending time together leaves you drained rather than energized. But this isn’t just about saying goodbye; it’s about understanding that outgrowing a friendship doesn’t mean failure. Instead, it’s an opportunity for growth, both for you and the other person.   If you’ve ever felt guilty about outgrowing a friendship or wondered if you’re the only one going through this, this episode is for you. Tune in as we tackle the challenges of evolving relationships, offer tips on how to handle these transitions with grace, and ultimately remind you that it’s okay to move forward. After all, personal growth sometimes requires leaving old connections behind to make room for new ones.   What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:16 Outgrowing friends  05:44 You’re now in different phases of your life 07:21 Are they your friend or not? 09:40 Why is it difficult to cut ties with people 11:38 Letting go to grow 12:59 Evolving friendships without cutting all ties 15:33 Redefining your friendship 17:28 Understanding the purpose of every connection 19:30 Friendships should be taken seriously 19:58 Knowing who belongs where in your life   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How can you spot a narcissist?  It's quite a surprise to think that someone close to us might actually have those traits—or maybe, in some ways, we share them ourselves. Narcissism isn't always obvious; it can hide in plain sight, making it tough to tell who's who and leading us to question whether we see it in others or within ourselves. Today I welcome Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a clinical psychologist known for her expertise in narcissism, personality disorders, and mental health. She's authored several books, including "Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist" and “It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People". In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Dr. Ramani dives into narcissism, breaking down what makes someone a narcissist and how it affects relationships and society. She talks about spotting narcissistic traits, whether they're innate or learned, and how tough it is to change these behaviors.  I hope this episode provides you with practical insights and a deeper understanding of narcissism, enabling you to navigate relationships with clarity and confidence. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:47 What is a narcissist? 02:43 The continuum of narcissism 07:08 Insecurity vs. Narcissism 08:00 Definition of empathy 14:50 How to identify a narcissist 17:32 Can you be born with narcissism? 22:45 Healing a narcissist 26:21 Narcissist living in the society 28:29 Changing a narcissistic personality 30:49 Spotting a narcissist in a relationship 33:28 Is a narcissistic person capable of love? 36:42 Two narcissists in a relationship 38:05 How does a narcissists express their emotion? 38:54 Staying with a narcissistic partner 44:31 Growing up with a narcissistic parents 46:57 Practicing self regulation 57:19 Narcissism in history and leadership 1:02:32 Setting boundaries in social situations 1:06:10 Navigating trauma and finding inner peace 1:11:04 Healing through therapy and motherhood   Follow Dr. Ramani: https://doctor-ramani.com/ https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani/ https://www.facebook.com/doctorramani/ https://twitter.com/DoctorRamani https://doctor-ramani.com/dr-ramanis-books/   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Have you ever questioned the true cost of what’s on your plate? We often choose our meals based on convenience, tradition, or taste, without fully considering the broader impact of our choices. But what if those everyday decisions are affecting more than just your body—what if they’re influencing your soul and the world around you? In this week’s episode, we explore the profound connection between what we eat and the lives we touch. From the ethics of our food choices to the spiritual insights of Ayurveda, discover how a shift to a plant-based diet can transform not just your health, but your entire perspective on life. Join us as we delve into my journey of going vegan, the challenges and rewards of conscious eating, and how simple changes in your diet can resonate far beyond your plate. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:58 How I became vegan 03:14 Plants-based vs. vegan 04:53 How eating meat affects people 05:53 The modes of nature 11:52 “Every single being on Earth has a soul…” 14:39 Reflecting on our food choices 22:03 Drinking milk 24:08 Effects of going dairy-free 25:10 Animals in labs and farms 29:09 Vegan culture is not healthy 30:32 How going vegan will impact the planet Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ever felt overwhelmed by the constant push to fit into a masculine mold?  In this week’s episode A Really Good Cry, let’s welcome Alexis Ren to share her wisdom on harnessing the power of feminine energy in a predominantly masculine world. Discover how Alexis navigates her journey with grace and strength, turning challenges into opportunities for growth and empowerment. From mastering financial literacy to embracing vulnerability, Alexis reveals the secrets to showing up fully and authentically in every aspect of life. With practical tips and heartfelt stories, this episode promises to inspire you to embrace your true self and thrive. Join us for an engaging conversation that breaks down barriers, challenges norms, and empowers you to live boldly and confidently. Don't miss this chance to learn how to balance your energies and step into your power with Alexis Ren! What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:10 Women and finance 06:22 The paradox of life 09:00 Balancing your masculine and feminine energy 15:32 Impostor syndrome 18:11 Learning to be a teacher 20:21 “Was I just performing or being authentic?...” 28:28 How you can show up for yourself 35:03 When life gives you opportunities 37:52 Find things you want to give your 100% into 41:25 Manifestation and success 46:02 Fear of losing everything 49:43 Why you should think about death 57:00 Embracing the feeling of sadness 1:01:26 Becoming comfortable with crying 1:05:08 What kind of crier are you? Follow Alexis: https://www.instagram.com/alexisren/ https://www.facebook.com/alexisrenofficial https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisren https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSoKaD27LRI9nBPJ2KB1lnQ Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is your comfort food really comforting you? We often turn to our favorite snacks and meals in times of stress or sadness, seeking solace in the familiar tastes and textures. But have you ever wondered if these foods are truly comforting your mind and body, or if they might be doing more harm than good? In this week’s episode, we’ll dive into the fascinating relationship between what we eat and how we feel, uncovering the hidden impacts of our dietary choices on our emotional well-being.  We’ll also explore mindful eating practices, the wisdom of Ayurveda, and the transformative power of nourishing your body, mind, and soul.  Discover how small changes in your diet can lead to profound shifts in your mood and overall health. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:10 Food can be medicine 02:39 Association of comfort with food 04:31 Feel what your body is feeling 05:52 Change how you view comfort foods 09:04 Control what you eat, don’t let food control you 11:45 Stop labeling food as good and bad 13:24 The Four Pillars of Health 16:46 The categories of food in Ayurveda 32:19 Adaptogens and spices 35:50 Get your blood tested 38:05 The nutrients you need to boost your mood 41:14 Anti-inflammatory foods 44:06 Invest in your health 53:36 Relationship between our gut and brain 56:16 Glucose spikes in our body   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ever feel like anxiety is taking over your life? Today, I welcome Cleo Wade, an acclaimed poet, author, and speaker known for her profound insights on self-love, mindfulness, and authentic living. Cleo has touched countless lives with her heartfelt words and has authored several best-selling books that inspire readers to embrace their true selves. In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Cleo and I delve into the transformative journey of overcoming anxiety. We explore the healing power of words, discussing how journaling can be a tool for self-discovery and emotional release. Cleo shares her personal experiences and practical strategies for recognizing anxiety and replacing it with grounded choices. We also talk about the importance of creating daily rituals that nourish the soul and provide a sense of peace amidst the chaos. From simple practices like mindful breathing to the profound impact of connecting with nature, Cleo offers actionable advice for anyone looking to find calm in their daily lives. So, find a quiet place, perhaps with a comforting cup of tea, and join me and Cleo for a conversation that promises to inspire and uplift. This episode is a heartfelt journey towards self-acceptance and empowerment that you won't want to miss. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:48 Using words to express yourself 07:26 Fear-based decisions 09:30 Anxiety is fear 11:53 The impact of what we watch and listen to 16:40 Adapting self-care to fit your daily routine 20:21 Finding your unique path to wellness 23:48 How physical activity fuels mental clarity 31:11 Being lost and finding yourself 36:21 “Acceptance is truly our natural state…” 39:56 Understanding pain 44:04 Where is negative self-talk coming from? 48:53 You are what you watch  50:43 Reconnecting with your body and mind 57:15 The power of gratitude 1:02:47 Watching people fall in love 1:06:14 Most difficult emotion to deal with 1:09:05 Why we need to cry more often Follow Cleo: https://cleowade.com/ https://www.instagram.com/cleowade/ https://www.facebook.com/cleowadeofficial/ Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How much help is too much? This question hits close to home for many of us. We all want to be there for our friends and family, but there comes a point where we need to step back.  Offering too much help can end up making them dependent on us, preventing them from learning to stand on their own.  It's all about finding that middle ground – being supportive without taking away their chance to learn and grow independently. Today, let's explore the idea of figuring out when our help might be excessive, and whether it's causing any negative impacts on us or the person we're assisting. We've all been in situations where we give a lot without receiving the same in return. To handle this, we need to understand what genuine support truly means.  Always remember that there are times when you don't have to be the hero for everyone. Sometimes, it's important to take care of yourself first before reaching out to help others. What We Discuss:00:00 Intro 00:29 The Savior Complex06:49 How do you know if you’re helping someone too much?13:54 Are you helping them get better or make themselves feel better?16:07 What you want for someone is not necessarily what they want18:57 Are you invited to help?21:18 Pathological altruism26:38 What if helping is harming you?30:00 True support Follow Radhi:https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQhttps://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukiaSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Strong is the new beautiful, but how can women truly embrace their power? Today, I welcome Louise Hazel, a heptathlete and fitness professional. She gained recognition for her athletic achievements, including competing in the heptathlon, which consists of seven track and field events.  In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Lou and I cover many topics, from why lifting weights is way more than just a workout to busting myths about strength training. But that's not all! We also talked about how our bodies have their own seasons, and why it's a good thing to really listen to them.  Ever wondered what to eat before and after hitting the gym? We talked about that too! We also shared our experience of surrounding ourselves with a supportive community for growth.  Lastly, we shared a candid conversation about dealing with tough times and finding strength in letting go. So, grab a cozy spot, maybe a cup of tea, and join me and Louise for a chat that's as heartwarming as a good friend's hug. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:13 Strength training for women 03:53 The biggest misconception in weight training 06:21 Aesthetics is not athletics 10:58 What it takes to achieve your body goal 19:02 Macronutrients 22:12 Building muscle while losing weight 24:27 What to do if you can’t afford personal trainers? 28:45 Our bodies cycle through seasons 30:28 Listen to your body  32:12 Pre and post-workout meal 40:48 Body positivity 49:31 Embracing transformation 55:48 Quick fitness and workout questions 57:42 Sacrifices to reach goals 1:01:00 Building a community for growth and transformation 1:08:14 Coping with grief through surrendering 1:19:49 Retreating to come back stronger 1:22:57 Go-to emotional release 1:24:32 What type of crier are you? Follow Lou: https://www.instagram.com/louisehazel/ https://www.facebook.com/LouiseHazel/ https://www.instagram.com/slayathletic/ https://open.spotify.com/show/35UovsfJZfat5xU6r6i55b?si=a6d7040d89b94803 https://www.slayathletic.com/ Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How many relationships could be saved by a single honest conversation? Assumptions can be silent relationship killers, creeping into our interactions and creating unnecessary barriers.  In this episode of A Really Good Cry, we dive into how unspoken assumptions can drive people apart and how open communication can bring them back together. We’ll also explore why we make assumptions, how they affect our lives, and offer practical tips to break the habit. Discover how challenging your assumptions can lead to stronger, more genuine connections. Tune in to learn how questioning your assumptions can transform your relationships for the better. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:47 Resolving family drama  02:24 The problem with taking assumption as truth 03:55 Why do we have assumptions? 06:43 How do you stop yourself from making assumptions? 09:09 Everything is not about you 10:24 Let go of your fear of discomfort 13:07 Assumptions can ruin relationships 15:44 How honest conversations can transform your relationship 17:15 Give someone the benefit of your doubt 19:05 “Humans have the need to know…” 21:05 What to do when you find yourself assuming? Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Real compassion breaks down the barriers that divide us. It's not just about doing nice things, it's about creating a safety net of care. True compassion blurs the lines between "me" and "you." It's about understanding that we're all connected and that looking out for each other is what really matters. Today, I welcome Alok Vaid-Menon, a writer, performer, and advocate known for their activism in the LGBTQ+ community. They're recognized for their insightful discussions on gender, identity, and social justice. Alok's work often challenges societal norms and perceptions, aiming to promote acceptance and equality for all genders. Their powerful storytelling and performances resonate with audiences worldwide, sparking important conversations about inclusivity and self-expression. In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Alok and I talked about how they were able to live authentically and how they found confidence through writing. We also explore finding beauty in the little things and how we connect in this digital world. Alok shares insights on dealing with hate using compassion and where all that hate might actually come from. Make sure to sit back and relax as you listen to this insightful and inspiring conversation with Alok!    What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:29 Living authentically 02:15 Finding confidence through writing 06:17 Growing up different in Texas 08:24 Cultural influence on parenting 14:20 Appreciating parent’s sacrfices 16:34 The beauty in the mundane 20:24 Connection and community in a digital age 24:35 Handling hate with compassion 29:44 Where does hate come from? 33:33 What is true compassion? 39:38 Embracing every emotion in our growth 48:27 The intersection of religion, spirituality, and gender 52:19 Balancing masculine and feminine energies 55:52 Living your truth 58:12  Love across religious divides 1:01:14 The last time Alok had a good cry 1:04:12 What kind of crier is Alok? Follow Alok: https://www.alokvmenon.com/ https://www.instagram.com/alokvmenon/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCG_G2mCoGdNUIOPaPrgorHg https://www.tiktok.com/@alokvmenon Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ever heard of the saying, “Listen to your gut?” Your gut health plays a pivotal role in your overall well-being, influencing everything from digestion and nutrient absorption to immune function and even mood regulation. It's like a second brain residing in your abdomen, communicating with your body in ways we're only beginning to understand. Today, let's dive deep into simple yet effective ways to maintain a healthy gut. We'll cover practical tips for improving digestion and highlight common foods that can naturally enhance your gut health. We'll also touch on recognizable signs that might indicate if you're experiencing any gut-related issues. By following these tips and incorporating digestion-friendly foods into your diet, you're taking a positive step towards a healthier gut and a happier version of yourself.   What We Discuss: 00:00 Everything is linked to our gut 01:07 What is gut health? 02:01 Signs of gut issues 05:56 Your body cleanses your insides at night 07:22 Tip #1: Control your sugar intake 13:54 Tip #2: Eat the rainbow - have a variety of natural foods in different colors 21:38 Tip #3: Stop drinking cold water 25:10 Tip #4: Incorporate spice in your food 29:10 Tip #5: Avoid eating raw foods 32:13 We have a responsibility to look after our health Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.