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AITApod (Am I The A**hole Podcast)

Author: Danny Vega

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Danny Vega and friends read listener submissions, & pilfers from the AITA subreddit to discuss modern questions of morality, relationships, and juice (gossip). Why? To answer one simple question: am I the a**hole? Submit at reddit.com/r/aitapod, amitheahole@gmail.com, or 307-212-8818 (voice accepted). 
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SEE TIMESTAMPS BELOW to skip opening convoI'm joined by wonderful, warm (I say warm an insane number of times to start this episode) comedians, Kari and Aisha to talk about WEDDING CHAOS and some wedding AITAs. It's a juicer through and through, do not refute me. Much love and thanks for listening.Kari Assad Ghost Detective: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/kari-assad-ghost-detective-with-julia-stone-and/id1625793644Aisha Alfa's insta: https://www.instagram.com/aishaalfa/?hl=enTIMESTAMPS:(0:00) Banter - Previously-Attended Weddings Strengths and WeaknessesWEDDING CHAOS SECTION(21:28) - She ate it... not the cake, exactly (24:41) - Dad had one job(28:19) - epic white trash wed(34:38) - If you bring a horse to a wedding...(38:48) - When the bridge is dying to eat the cookies(44:22) - Snow nukes attendance w a happy ending(48:15) - The Cringe Optics of the Soup Kitchen wed wed(51:30) - Nightmare MIL wears white + photog's MOH myopia (52:20) - Aisha wears white to a wedding she planned!!!!----AITA section----(56:28) - AITA if I don't go to my sister's court house wedding?(1:07:37) - AITA for backing out of my friend's wedding after she gossiped about my breakup? (1:16:55) - AITA for not paying for a wedding I promised I would pay for?(1:23:56) - AITA for telling fiance I don't like her wedding dress?(1:34:30) - AITA for throwing my cousin out of my wedding for not wearing white?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 200+ Bonus eps- NO ADS and accurate timestamps- Discord with awesome communityTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapodInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
I'm joined by Evyenia!! Follow her company on insta:https://www.instagram.com/speeddatela/(0:00) - Banter(13:25) - AITA for assuming we'd split the check?(19:25) - AITA for saying he's misogynistic for complaining about a pre-nup?(32:01) - AITA for not filling up my gas tank on a long drive? (46:15) - AITA for moving up in a crowd in a concert? BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 200+ Bonus eps- NO ADS and accurate timestamps- Discord with awesome communityTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapodInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
Save 10% with betterhelp.com/aitapod(0:00) - Banter (6:41) - AITA for firing someone for cheating on their spouse?(20:32) - AITA for saying the 'memorialization period' has ended?(32:53) - AITA for stereotyping lesbians?(43:14) - AITA for telling my friend she and her partner are wrong for each other?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 200+ Bonus eps- NO ADS and accurate timestamps- Discord with awesome communityTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapodInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
Our sponsor today is BETTER HELP. Betterhelp.com/aitapodHappy mon mon hun huns. Hope you enjoy my wonderful guests! Give them a follow!!Karla - https://www.instagram.com/fun_kee/Radu Bondar - https://www.instagram.com/radubondar/(0:00) - Banter (21:51) - GUESS THE VERDICT(36:50) - r-traumatizeThemBack - Oh you're a twin, huh?(43:28) - AITA for cancelling my wedding after he killed my plants?(57:40) - WIBTA if I asked my sister to change her hair color for my wedding?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 200+ Bonus eps- NO ADS and accurate timestamps- Discord with awesome communityTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapodInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
My guest today is Karla Espino!Follow Karla: https://www.instagram.com/fun_kee/(0:00) - Banter(3:09) - Guess the Verdict(19:02) - AITA for raising rent on my roomie who refuses to do chores? (25:40) - AITA for not including my wife on a trip w my girl friend?(39:27) - AITA for refusing to call my friend "Queen"?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 200+ Bonus eps- NO ADS and accurate timestamps- Discord with awesome communityTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapodInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
The sponsor today is BetterHelp. 10% off at BetterHelp.com/aitapodI'm joined by married couple and amazing comedians, Emily Winter and Chris Calogero.YouTube vid I referenced about my "drone dad"Follow Emily and Chris!Emily:https://www.instagram.com/emilymcwinter/Chris:https://www.instagram.com/realchriscal/(0:00) - Banter(10:56) - Comment Responses: AITA for making my GF late on her bday?(23:28) - Guess The Verdict (35:13) - AITA for saying 'yes' to my boyfriend's public proposal and turning him down privately?(44:17) - AITA for going on a trip without my GF who forgot her passport?(56:21) - AITA for trying to remove my ex-wife from my Costco membership?(1:04:00) - AITA for saying that men know within 6 months if they're going to marry their GF?Best way to submit is using the subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 200+ Bonus eps- NO ADS and accurate timestamps- Discord with awesome communityTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapodInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
Happy mon mon hun huns. I'm joined by storyteller Kona Morris for a great little ep-arino. Enjoy. Kona's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kona.morris/(0:00) - Banter (16:56) - AITA for laughing at my sister's relationship troubles?(31:58) - AITA for telling a friend about another friend's STD?(45:05) - AITA for sending flowers to my sister anonymously upsetting her husband?Best way to submit is using the subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 200+ Bonus eps- NO ADS and accurate timestamps- Discord with awesome communityTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapodInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
Our sponsor today: betterhelp.com/aitapodI'm joined by Emily Winter and Chris Calogero, married (to each other) comedians who also happen to be lovely folks! It's a doozy! Let's have ourselves an amazing 2025. Love y'all and thanks for listening.Follow Emily: https://www.instagram.com/emilymcwinter/Follow Chris: https://www.instagram.com/realchriscal/(0:00) - banter(9:26) - Guess The Verdict (17:22) - AITA for not letting bro's GF stay in my guest room after she made a scene at dinner?(30:57) - I'm starting to find my husband's looks disgusting(48:22) - Ahole advocate: person who takes the last one(56:31) - Am I a creep for being in my SIL's daughter's bed?(1:02:49) - AITA for banning my friend from my home after she refused to take videos of my bird down?Submit or give your take via voice note/message/text - 307-212-8818Email - amitheahole@gmail.comJoin Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 200+ Bonus eps- NO ADS and accurate timestamps- Discord with awesome communityTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapodInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
Happy mon mon, hun huns. And what a week it is. Yes people, happy christmas eve eve. Hope you enjoy a happy hollz with your relatives, whether they're peachy, problematic, or meme-perfect. No cap! I'm a simp for santa. Slay fam.  True story: one xmas eve many moons ago, I asked my recently divorced friend if it would be chill if I hung out with his ex-wife who was low key coming onto me. He said no so I didn't. But just THAT I ASKED. Yes... that was drinking Danny circa 2013ish. ENJOY THE EP I AM OVER SHARING (0:00) - Banter(14:40) - AITA for letting my always-late wife miss her bday?(28:13) - AITA for embarrassing FIL after asking him to explain his joke to me?(45:40) - AITA for telling my BF to stop smoking inside after previously saying it was fine?Follow Brendan:https://www.instagram.com/the_brendanfitzgibbons/Follow Evyenia's company:https://www.instagram.com/speeddatela/Submit or give your take via voice note/message/text - 307-212-8818Email - amitheahole@gmail.comJoin Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 200+ Bonus eps- NO ADS and accurate timestamps- Discord with awesome communityTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapodInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
Our sponsor today is BetterHelp. Save 10% at betterhelp.com/aitapodHappy mon mon hun huns. I'm joined by friend and comedian, Karla Espino! Enjoy the ep-a-rooFollow Karla: https://www.instagram.com/p/CiBCUAFhy4t/(0:00) - Banter(24:11) - AITA for not telling BF I'd break up with him if he went on a trip with his female friends?(33:54) - AITA for refusing to take down my ex's painting?(49:14) - AITA for beating my GF's brother at a game when I normally let him win?Submit or give your take via voice note/message/text - 307-212-8818Email - amitheahole@gmail.comJoin Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 200+ Bonus eps- NO ADS and accurate timestamps- Discord with awesome communityTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapodInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
Happy mon mon, hun huns. I'm joined by my friend and comedian, Hailey Hackett. Enjoy the ep!SUBMIT - reddit.com/r/aitapod(0:00) - Banter(1:26) - AITA for not giving my boyfriend a wishlist for Christmas? (13:40) - AITA for taking an armrest on a plane from an elderly lady?(24:31) - AITA for cutting off a friend I share mutual friend groups with?(36:42) - AITA for liking Danny? Hailey's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hackithailey/Submit or give your take via voice note/message/text - 307-212-8818Email - amitheahole@gmail.comJoin Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 200+ Bonus eps- NO ADS and accurate timestamps- Discord with awesome communityTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapodInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
I'm joined by comedian and author Leah Bonnema! She's promoting her funny book and  now audiobook, check it out: https://amzn.to/3CYycIx(0:00) - Banter(4:59) - AITA for hiding that I self-publish romance novels?(21:44) - AITA for reading romance novels despite making my BF uncomfortable?Submit to the Subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Submit or give your take via voice note/message/text - 307-212-8818Email - amitheahole@gmail.comJoin Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 200+ Bonus eps- NO ADS and accurate timestamps- Discord with awesome communityTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapodInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
I'm joined by Sara to discuss some situations about FAMILY MATTERS and not really Thanksgiving per se. (0:00) - Banter(5:17) - AITA for refusing to eat dinner at 9pm bc of my mother-in-law?(18:59) - AITA for revealing a family secret to my husband about his father?(48:50) - AITA for telling my cousin I'm taller than him?Submit to the Subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Submit or give your take via voice note/message/text - 307-212-8818Email - amitheahole@gmail.comJoin Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 200+ Bonus eps- NO ADS and accurate timestamps- Discord with awesome communityTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapodInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
Shannon has a big announcement! Tune in to find out…Dee is for Drama Podcast - https://linktr.ee/deeisfordrama(0:00) Banter(11:13) AITA for letting my phobia of rats come between my boyfriend and me? (Kenzie’s story)(17:58) AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend because he shit in my dad’s office? (Listener Request)(33:41) AITA for deciding to end my marriage because I saw it falling apart and telling my kids their mom was leaving? (Listener Submission)(50:14) The moment my husband suggested an FMF the marriage was over in my heart. Am I overreacting?Submit to the Subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Submit or give your take via voice note/message/text - 307-212-8818Email - amitheahole@gmail.comJoin Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 200+ Bonus eps- NO ADS and accurate timestamps- Discord with awesome communityTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapodInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
I'm joined by Emily Winter,  a very funny and brave comedian and human being! Follow Emily and/or buy her boat from winning The Price is Righthttps://www.instagram.com/emilymcwinter/Submit for Thanksgiving Episode (records 11/25, releases Thursday)Voice note/memo/text - 307-212-8818amitheahole@gmail.comreddit.com/r/aitapod(0:00) - AITA for making a documentary that insults a comedian? (22:43) - Emily was on the Price is Right and won!!(27:48) - AITA for telling my mom she was an unwanted guest?(35:51) - AITA for telling my boyfriend he crossed a line with my work/life balance?(46:51) - AITA if I change my wedding RSVP when my plus one was rescinded?Submit to the Subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Submit or give your take via voice note/message/text - 307-212-8818Email - amitheahole@gmail.comJoin Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 200+ Bonus eps- NO ADS and accurate timestamps- Discord with awesome communityTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapodInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
An ep with the lovely, lovable cohost with the co-most, Sara Levine, recorded just Monday. Hope you guys are having a great week :) (0:00) - Banter(14:59) - AITA for leaving friend's daughter's play early?(24:54) - AITA for declining to bring wine to my friend's dinner?(32:19) - AITA for dumping BF after he dooked in my dad's office?Submit to the Subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 200+ Bonus eps- NO ADS and accurate timestamps- Discord with awesome communityTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapodInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
Follow my pal and fellow stand-up comedian, Hailey Hackett. https://www.instagram.com/hackithailey/(0:00) - Banter(7:28) - AITA for not being friendly with my partner's daughters who recently warmed up? (23:33) - AITA for getting birds instead of helping my sister?(37:17) - AITA for staying home from Eras bc my SIL's mom died?Submit to our Subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Join us on Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 200+ Bonus eps- NO ADS and accurate timestamps- Discord with awesome communityTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapodInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
Today, Shanny is joined by friend of the pod, Horace Gold! They recorded on Election Day so they distracted themselves with all of your problems!! They’re doing a whole episode of listener submissions. Please forgive some of the brain fog happening, we’re anxious! Submit your stories here: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Hardly Qualified with Horace Gold https://www.instagram.com/hardlyqualifiedpod/https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hardly-qualified-with-horace-gold/id1770706541https://open.spotify.com/show/6plTPVIdxA7ag4WgtKfrBz?si=5JaYEYmLQpy9pNzUzBCSUw(0:00) Banter(14:14) AITA for partying/drinking on a mission trip with my grandparents? (24:33) AITA for not allowing my roommate to adopt a kitten?(39:02) AITA for spray painting and cutting wood at my house?(1:00:25) AITA for having sex in my grandparent’s home?Submit to our Subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Join us on Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 200+ Bonus eps- NO ADS and accurate timestamps- Discord with awesome communityTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapodInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
I'm joined by my lovely, talented friend, Dana Berger. She has an amazing movie out, Brightwood, which you should check out AFTER you see her do her best Danny lip sync (best in the world IMO). Dana doing Danny's Voice memo (about cousin) - https://www.instagram.com/reel/CuHtfHQMaBX/Brightwood - https://www.amazon.com/Brightwood-Dana-Berger/dp/B0C93Y1F17(0:00) - Banter(14:13) - AITA for not getting special treats for a neigbor kid who has a disability?(27:38) - AITA for telling a co-worker I miss you when she's in a relationship?(41:10) - AITA for making my wife pay for something she broke?Submit to our Subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Join us on Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 200+ Bonus eps- NO ADS and accurate timestamps- Discord with awesome communityTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapodInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
Today, Shannon is joined by her two friends– Della, the producer of live shows like the Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show, Nickelodeon Kids Choice Awards, & The Emmys (which she cast Shannon as the robber in a sketch with Christopher Meloni & Mariska Hargitay!), and her fiancé Ross, the customer service rep for Minecraft (in German!!). They recorded on Halloween so decided to cover some spo0o0o0oky ghost stories. Enjoy!https://www.instagram.com/dellaaa_rose/https://www.instagram.com/sweetraus/ (0:00) Ross & Della’s Meet Cute(17:13) Ross rehashes an infamous AITA situation - https://www.reddit.com/r/AmITheDevil/comments/10n8mx6/what_aita_for_asking_my_wife_to_respect_my_title/(18:43) AITA for believing in ghosts? (Shannon, Ross, & Della discuss their relationship with the supernatural)(28:18) A-HOLE POLL(42:30) AITA for telling a spooky story to my young grandkids?(1:04:12) AITA? Fiance thinks the apartment is haunted. I think she needs therapy.(1:22:26) AITA for refusing to allow a Ouija board in my house?Submit to our Subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Join us on Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 200+ Bonus eps- NO ADS and accurate timestamps- Discord with awesome communityTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapodInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
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luna

As an lgbtq I kinda have another perspective, the person said lesbians , witch for the bisexual they might feel mislabeled witch I know is a big this for us

Feb 8th
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Courtney Oxford

in defense of the birthday party mom, she doesn't know that child, what if they have allergies, food restrictions, she has no idea if it was safe for her to give a random kid any food.

Jul 5th
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Samantha Morris

What is happening here 😅 he sounds like Rick from Rick and morty

Oct 21st
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Brittney Grimes

I can't. 🤣🤣🤣

Apr 1st
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