According To Nono

Notsile Nelile Nkambule is an Author, Podcaster, Activist and Disruptor of norms. On this platform she tackles the social ills that plague us as a people and affects how we relate to each other. Notsile and weekly guests, break bread, share wine, fries and sometimes strange cocktails and get comfortable. Sex, love,money,abuse, marriage, motherhood, beauty standards are some of the topics discussed. Follow Notsile on Twitter : @brownskinnono . IG: @brownskinono Tackling Social issues, relationships, money,sex and art with Nono.

THE RETURN S05 EP01

I am back from a necessary sabbatical. This episode is just an update on life before the real conversations begin.

06-17
28:24

S04 EP03 : Experiencing people vs Dealing with people

On this episode, I share the results of a personal study I conducted on experiencing people. I share my perspective on patience, grace and knowing when to get the hell out.

08-10
38:16

S04 EP02: A SAD STATE OF AFFAIRS #EswatiniProtests #KungahlwaKwenile

On this episode, I give my analysis of the social cost of the past couple of weeks.

07-06
16:17

S04 EP01: ENTREPRENEURSHIP, HUSTLE CULTURE & YOUTH ECONOMIC GROWTH

On this Season's premiere, I sit down with Tiwonge Gondwe and we discuss Entrepreneurship, hustling and economic growth in Africa.

06-08
01:10:43

S03 EP06 : Work Place PTSD

On this episode, I discuss work 0place PTSD and Identifying when you are in an environment that is toxic.

05-25
25:59

S03 EP05: Selfishly Kind and Compassionate and a Temansele Reading. (BONUS HOUSE JAZZ MIX)

On this episode, I read a chapter from my second novel "Temansele Making The Team" (available on Amazon Kindle). I also dicuss the lessons in the book and what they've taught me about KINDNESS.

04-26
30:18

S03 EP04: Bridging The Gender Gap: Right of Reply part 2

On this second part of the conversation, we discuss consent, money and cheating.

04-19
01:41:53

S03 EP03: Bridging The Gender Gap: Right of Reply

On this episode, I share some shots and wine with Nelson X, Loma Dlamini and Nothando Jele. As we try to understand the male and female perspective.

04-13
49:53

S03 EP02: The Fuck It Moment

I open up a little bit more about my insecurities and how I got to my fuck it Space.

04-06
16:25

S03 EP01: The Politics of desirability and negotiating sexual, emotional and financial power

On the season premier, I sit down with a good girl friend of mine Lomalungelo Dlamini and we have some white wine. We discuss owning who you are, your sexual identity and negotiating your power in relationships.

03-24
01:54:55

S02 EP06 (Season Finale): Story Time (Trigger Warning (sexual assault).

Let me tell you a story about a little girl

03-07
15:55

S02 EP05 : YOU ARE NOT ENOUGH (..AND THAT'S OKAY)

On this episode, I explain my hiatus and share a message about never being enough.

02-20
32:16

S02 EP04 : The Wait: does impatience and frustration make you less of a believer?

Sara Vost joins me on this episode to discuss The Wait of life and what it means for believers and non believers. Does succumbing to depression and frustration mean you are less than a believer?

01-26
47:46

S02 EP03 : Friendship Fatigue and Creating Healthy Boundaries

Lady X and Tiwi join me once again on this episode to talk about friendships. We speak about the fatigue from that one friend who is always complaining, ranting about the same dang ol thing!! Are you that friend? Are you inconsiderate by feeling tired of the rants? Let's have a very uncomfortable conversation.

01-18
52:45

S02 EP02 : Getting married young

On this episode I sit down with Khosi Mvubu Mthethwa as we discuss getting married at a very young age, motherhood,finances, sex and in laws.

01-11
01:07:31

S02 EP01: What happened the other night, acceptance and new year goals the realistic way

On this season launch episode, I recap season 1, discuss what happened on the night of my birthday, acceptance as a new year's resolution.

01-01
26:38

S01 EP06 : Alone for Christmas (season finale)

On this last episode for the season, I invite you to chill with me as you cook drink or even cry your way through this festive season. I'll be playing you some of my favorite songs and chit chatting to make you laugh harder than you cry. We are in this together.

12-23
01:21:45

S01 EP03 : Beauty standards and the modeling industry

I share a cocktail with upcoming Model Sara Vost and we discuss being a dark skinned woman, beauty standards and her journey towards being the most captivating model online right now.

12-21
47:47

S01 EP02 : Dating, Settling and Sex

I break some bread and sip some wine with Tiwi Gondwe and Lady X as we discuss dating, expectations and sex, sex, sex!!!!!

12-20
45:40

S01 EP04 : Sexual and Gender Based Violence, Men's pain and the impact of culture.

On this episode, I share a burger with Activist Banele Nkambule as we dissect the scourge of GBV, the neglect of the male child and the impact of culture on violence.

12-19
50:44

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