AccountabiliTea

Hey,We’re Gwen and Katie of Accountabilitea.Do you fear your eyes will stay permanently rolled if you see one more “I just had my first billion dollar month thanks to my trademarked luxury moon charged yoni egg practice”?Us too. And trust us, we’ve seen it from the back end. (No, not literally. Ew.)What we mean is — We’ve worked behind the scenes of multiple 7-figure businesses for coaches in the Spiritual Business Space since 2017 in pretty much all the roles (admin, sales, finance, marketing, you name it); and it’s given us a survival guide we’ve been wanting to share pretttttyyy much since then.The truth is we’re not offended by the idea of a yoni egg practice. You want to pay to learn how to do it from someone who probably read a Goop article and decided they were an expert? That’s cool.What we’re offended by is the number of people who keep setting themselves up for failure, believing the imagery blasted across the front of a brand and reading the successes without using critical thinking skills to realize it’s for them.THAT is why people want oversight boards. THAT is why people are saying there are shady practices. THAT is why people are completely leaving the industry.But it’s not *really* an industry problem.. it’s a personal problem.People will always reinvent the same ish that’s been around forever, believe it’s new or their own or unique, put their stamp on it, and try to profit.The way to get in front of it is to take accountability (ope.. there’s that word!).. for the who/what/why of what keeps attracting you to the shite so that you stop making poor decisions for yourself and start making the right ones.We get enough people to do this, we change the (yes- problematic) trends of the industry.And then not only do we avoid the annoying crystal dildo posts, we largely avoid the regurgitated “omg, what’s happening to this industry, #amiright” posts. Because those are annoying, too.For this first mini-season, you can expect us to touch on Spiritual Sisterhood, C-E-Heauxs and Pussy Worship Culture, Polarity in Relationships, Hustle/Flow, The Occult/Christian Pendulum, and much more!In fact, you can catch extra mini-sodes and tea times inside Accountabilitea Communitea on Facebook - our home base for the real discussions from YOU GUYS meant to be the safe space you dish the capital T-truth like you would your besties. Head on over to Iwantthetea.com now and give us a “sup!”We’ll also be goofing around on Tiktok with bite-sized sass at accountabiliteapodcast.Thanks for being here. Our emotions have been brewing, y’all. It’s time to spill the tea.

The pendulum swings from one extreme to the other, but the healthiest balance is somewhere in the middle. We were both raised to be good Christian girls, but the deep magical intuition we felt growing up couldn’t be ignored. In this first episode, we’ll talk about our religious upbringing, the searching and questioning phase of our teen years, and how that got us into the online spiritual business world. The way we met was divine and magical, but the coach we were working for turned toxic and we began to see what the coaching space was turning into.We’re here to spill the tea, or the Kool-Aid as the case may be, to shed some light on the spiritual coaching industry and bring some integriTea and accountabiliTea back to the coaches and influencers in these internet streets.You can catch extra mini-sodes and tea times inside AccountabiliTea CommuniTea on Facebook - our home base for the real discussions from YOU GUYS meant to be the safe space you dish the capital T-truth like you would your besties. Head on over to Iwantthetea.com now and give us a “sup!”We’ll also be goofing around on Tiktok with bite-sized sass at accountabiliteapodcast.Thanks for being here. Our emotions have been brewing, y’all. It’s time to spill the tea.Music credit: She Bad by Luciano Music Co.A Podcast Launch Bestie production

Spiritual Sisterhood. First words that come to mind? MLM. Pay to play. Mean girls. Fake. Buying into package after package to get into the “inner circle,” but will any of them still be there if you’re unable to pay for the next package?The promise of sisterhood is very tempting to women starting out in online business, particularly lonely young moms who want to be able to work from home. At some point, the pendulum will swing the other way and the fake sisterhoods will disintegrate. Leaders will step back, calling their energy back into themselves, “releasing” their clients to do the same. We’ve seen it already.When there is an authentic community connection being built, it can really be healthy. Most of the time, it’s pretty toxic.You can catch extra mini-sodes and tea times inside AccountabiliTea CommuniTea on Facebook - our home base for the real discussions from YOU GUYS meant to be the safe space you dish the capital T-truth like you would your besties. Head on over to Iwantthetea.com now and give us a “sup!”We’ll also be goofing around on Tiktok with bite-sized sass at accountabiliteapodcast.Thanks for being here. Our emotions have been brewing, y’all. It’s time to spill the tea.Music credit: She Bad by Luciano Music Co.A Podcast Launch Bestie production

There’s a lot of layers to this trend of self-proclaimed C-E-Heauxs in the online business space, and we’re going to pick it all apart. There’s a feeling of reclaiming the power, reclaiming the sexuality, but as attraction marketing in business it doesn’t resonate with us.Pleasure-based business - Bottom line, in an attempt to reclaim their power, women are just falling back into the 2 oldest marketing techniques: controversy and sex sell.Brags - We’re 100% on board with celebrating wins and milestones, but the brags are often things that are the opposite of brag-worthy.The Take Up Space movement - It’s one thing to mindfully heal from disordered eating and love your body, but taking up more physical space just for the sake of taking up more space is unhealthy and manipulative.The thing is, these women look so empowered that they attract followers that want to feel like that. The validation becomes addictive and toxic. The problem comes when you tie your identity to a particular business model that when you decide you want to change, you have to basically rebuild your entire life.You can catch extra mini-sodes and tea times inside AccountabiliTea CommuniTea on Facebook - our home base for the real discussions from YOU GUYS meant to be the safe space you dish the capital T-truth like you would your besties. Head on over to Iwantthetea.com now and give us a “sup!”We’ll also be goofing around on Tiktok with bite-sized sass at accountabiliteapodcast.Thanks for being here. Our emotions have been brewing, y’all. It’s time to spill the tea.Music credit: She Bad by Luciano Music Co.A Podcast Launch Bestie production

Following up on last week’s conversation, we’re diving into masculine versus feminine energy and how the pendulum has swung over the last century in the US from masculine-led to feminine-led and back and forth. Now, we’re sort of stuck in this limbo of both men and women being either overly feminine or overly masculine, or attempting to present as one of those and overcompensating. This isn’t a discussion of which one is “better,” but rather how some polarity teachings are toxic on both sides. How can we each strike a balance between our own feminine and masculine?You can catch extra mini-sodes and tea times inside AccountabiliTea CommuniTea on Facebook - our home base for the real discussions from YOU GUYS meant to be the safe space you dish the capital T-truth like you would your besties. Head on over to Iwantthetea.com now and give us a “sup!”We’ll also be goofing around on Tiktok with bite-sized sass at accountabiliteapodcast.Thanks for being here. Our emotions have been brewing, y’all. It’s time to spill the tea.Music credit: She Bad by Luciano Music Co.A Podcast Launch Bestie production

What is flow and what is actually back-end hustle? How many gurus have you heard claim that they only work 4 or 10 hours a week? How many times have you heard that business is easy if you just allow it to be? Most of those claims don’t take into account how much time is spent thinking of a plan for the next quarter, or engaging with your community online, or having a conversation with your VA, or how much easier marketing feels with their accumulated experience.More often than not, the 6-7 figure earners are talking their gross value of sales, not necessarily the cash sales or taking payment plans into account, and they may be talking about other investments when they’re bragging about their numbers. You never know unless you’re on the back end of their business, which means you’re the one doing the hustling so that they can brag about how easy it is.There are ways to streamline and automate pieces of your business, but at the end of the day, you need to put in the work in some way or another in order to have a sustainable business.You can catch extra mini-sodes and tea times inside AccountabiliTea CommuniTea on Facebook - our home base for the real discussions from YOU GUYS meant to be the safe space you dish the capital T-truth like you would your besties. Head on over to Iwantthetea.com now and give us a “sup!”We’ll also be goofing around on Tiktok with bite-sized sass at accountabiliteapodcast.Thanks for being here. Our emotions have been brewing, y’all. It’s time to spill the tea.Music credit: She Bad by Luciano Music Co.A Podcast Launch Bestie production

One of our main themes of this podcast is how the pendulum swings. In honor of Halloween, in this episode we’re going to talk about those who sell and practice New Age/Occult principles and swing all the way back over to Christianity. There’s a rabbit hole there, if you feel like digging.For the purposes of our discussion, we’ll be using the terms new age, occult, mysticism, etc. interchangeably, and Christianity will include all denominations. The point is that there have been many spiritual business owners that have completely abandoned the philosophies they were living and selling. What we were surprised to find out was that many of these people that had built their livelihood on new age practices experienced some sort of major life event that forced them to reflect on their personal stance of things. You can catch extra mini-sodes and tea times inside AccountabiliTea CommuniTea on Facebook - our home base for the real discussions from YOU GUYS meant to be the safe space you dish the capital T-truth like you would your besties. Head on over to Iwantthetea.com now and give us a “sup!”We’ll also be goofing around on Tiktok with bite-sized sass at accountabiliteapodcast.Thanks for being here. Our emotions have been brewing, y’all. It’s time to spill the tea.Music credit: She Bad by Luciano Music Co.A Podcast Launch Bestie production

Over the past year and a half, Gwen and Katie have observed many trends and topics in the spiritual business world come to fruition. They have been ahead of the curve in their discussions and have seen their predictions play out in real life. Some of the themes they have discussed include MLMs, sex work, trauma-informed practices, the intersection of Christianity and yoga, and the lack of knowledge in the general population. They have noticed a shift towards more traditional business models among spiritual entrepreneurs. Overall, they find it validating to see their conversations documented and to witness the impact of their insights. The conversation explores the prediction of a swing towards finding Jesus and proclaiming Christian faith in the spiritual business space. There is also a discussion about the uptick in conversations around denouncing prior teachings and the potential for an increase in that topic. The conversation touches on the topic of homeschooling and the fine line between creating an echo chamber and protecting children from outside influence. The theme of growth and the monitoring of what growth should look like is also discussed, with a focus on the personal development industry.

The conversation explores the complexities and contradictions of the tradwife movement and the shifting dynamics between masculine and feminine roles. It highlights the mass mainstreaming of these ideas across generations and the performative nature of some individuals' adherence to traditional gender roles. The conversation also touches on the impact of history, feminism, and the rise of divorce on societal perceptions of gender roles. It emphasizes the importance of understanding the reasons behind societal changes and the need for individual responsibility in shaping the future. The conversation covers various topics including the dangers of extreme ideologies, the need for critical thinking, the limitations of the two-party system, the importance of open dialogue, and the balance between online and offline perspectives. Gwen and Katie express their desire for a safe space where people can have challenging conversations and promote discernment. They also discuss the future of AccountabiliTea and their plans for a new project.

Gwen and Katie explore the concept of balance and the need for a middle ground in... well all areas of life. Gwen and Katie discuss their own experiences and observations of the polarity in society, particularly in relation to gender roles and work-life balance. They emphasize the importance of discernment, critical thinking, and embracing the gray areas. They also touch on the impact of technology and AI on the future and the need for adaptability and understanding in a rapidly changing world. In this conversation, Katie and Gwen discuss the importance of having uncomfortable conversations and maintaining respect for differing opinions. They emphasize the need for more spaces that normalize disagreement and allow for growth and evolution. They also highlight the pull to pick sides and the importance of critical thinking and discernment in navigating the overwhelming amount of information and marketing tactics. The conversation touches on the fluidity of identity and the value of open discussions on sensitive topics. Katie and Gwen express their desire to create a community that fosters critical thinking and provides a safe space for exploring different perspectives.

Gwen and Katie explore the evolution of the online spiritual space and the emergence of cancel culture. It begins with a discussion on personal growth and taking responsibility for one's life. However, it transitions into a toxic mindset of cutting off anyone who doesn't align with one's beliefs. The conversation highlights the harmful effects of cancel culture, where people are quick to judge and condemn others without allowing for growth and change. It also touches on the intersection of cancel culture with movements like Black Lives Matter and Me Too, where performative activism and virtue signaling become prevalent. They emphasizes the importance of allowing people to evolve and not judging them based on past actions or beliefs. The conversation explores the themes of cancel culture, conspiracy theories, and the loss of community in the digital age. Gwen and Katie also discuss how cancel culture can create division and force people to defend themselves, leading to a lack of unity. They also touch on the prevalence of conspiracy theories and the importance of critical thinking. There's also some reminiscing about the sense of community and shared experiences in the 90s, contrasting it with the disconnectedness of the present day.

The conversation revolves around the theme of twisting the narrative in the online spiritual business space. The hosts discuss how people in this space often manipulate the truth to fit their desired narrative, leading to a lack of authenticity and integrity. They also touch on the dangers of twisting the narrative, such as making dangerous decisions and alienating family members. The conversation highlights the influence of bro marketing and the pressure to manifest success, which can lead to a disconnect from one's true self. Overall, the hosts emphasize the importance of staying true to oneself and being aware of the consequences of twisting the narrative. The conversation explores the dangers of adopting labels and identities, particularly in the online space. It discusses the emotional toll of tying one's identity to a label and the pressure to conform to societal expectations. The conversation also touches on the importance of recognizing individual experiences and avoiding generalizations. It concludes with a lighthearted discussion about Disneyland and the idea of finding new interests and experiences.

In this episode, Gwen and Katie dive deep into the eerie rise of AI companions, exploring how artificial intelligence is being marketed as the ultimate partner, friend, and even therapist. They touch on the unsettling idea of AI boyfriends and girlfriends, discussing the blurred lines between real human connection and simulated relationships. The hosts analyze the broader implications of AI stepping into the emotional space, the dangers of perfection in relationships, and the future of human interaction in an increasingly digital world.From the decline of mental health to the growing disconnection in the age of social media, they examine how AI could further distort reality—and possibly leave humans emotionally stunted. They also explore the ethical ramifications, the murky future of AI rights, and the slippery slope of where all this might lead.Plus, they throw in a few laughs, musings on time loops, and a hilarious look at millennials’ shared trauma response of being permanently stuck at 24.Topics Covered:The rise of AI boyfriends/girlfriends and how it could redefine relationships.AI’s role in the customer service industry and its influence on human interaction.The parallels between AI companionship and online catfishing.How AI relationships could lead to a Stepford Wives-like future.The dark side of desensitization: Will AI teach us how to "people" again, or make it worse?AI echo chambers: How always being validated could stunt personal growth.The ethical dilemma of AI rights, civil liberties, and humanoid responsibilities.The mental health decline caused by the disconnect of real human connection in the digital age.The bizarre experience of time distortion millennials are feeling post-2020.Key Quotes:“How are people going to learn to be better with each other when they can outsource all human connection to AI?”“You tell your AI boyfriend one story, and he’ll never forget it. He’ll follow up perfectly—how do we even compete with that?”“We’re headed toward a world where the perfect AI partner never gets tired, never forgets, and never makes a mistake—what does that mean for real relationships?”Keywords:AI companions, artificial intelligence relationships, AI boyfriends, Stepford Wives, human connection, digital disconnection, emotional stunting, mental health, AI rights, perfection in relationships, echo chambers, AI ethics, customer service AI, social media isolation, catfishing.Takeaways:AI is infiltrating more than just business; it's entering emotional and intimate spaces, raising ethical and societal concerns.Humans may become more disconnected from real relationships as AI companionships become more common.The lack of real human flaws in AI relationships could distort expectations in real-life connections.This is a topic that will only grow, and continued conversations about AI's role in human life are critical.

In this episode, Gwen and Katie dive into the strange, often bizarre world of online business, AI boyfriends, and the copycat culture that's running rampant. From the rise of AI-driven relationships to mentors who steal your creative ideas (yes, that happens), they tackle the tough questions: Is anything real in the online space anymore? Why are sweatshirts a year-round comfort? And most importantly, how do you stay authentic in a world full of grifters?Key Topics Covered:The AI Boyfriend Craze: We discuss the rise of AI companions and the slippery slope of humanoid relationships. Will AI ever truly replace human connection, or is this just a weird phase?Copycat Culture: Gwen shares her personal experience of having her business ideas and sales pages copied by someone she trusted. How do you spot the line between inspiration and outright theft?Online Business Shenanigans: Katie and Gwen explore how the coaching and online business space has become a breeding ground for copying and manipulation. From shady mentors to inflated income claims, they expose the tricks people use to stay relevant.Sweatshirts in the Summer: Why are we all wearing hoodies when it’s 110 degrees outside? Gwen and Katie bond over their mutual love of sweatshirts, even in the middle of a heatwave.Feral Energy and Survival Instincts in Business: We dive deep into how the desperation to succeed in business can bring out the worst in people, leading to shady practices like copying and manipulating audiences.

The Collapse of Exclusivity: Why Writing Yourself Out of Business is a Bad IdeaIn this episode, Gwen and Katie dive into the problematic trend that has been dominating the online business and coaching space for years—writing yourself out of your own business. Starting around 2018, this exclusive, detached model encouraged business owners to remove personal connection from their brand. Now, that trend is beginning to crumble.Key Topics Discussed:The Disconnection Crisis in Personal Brands: Gwen and Katie explore how the obsession with making businesses “exclusive” has led to a loss of personal touch, leaving clients feeling alienated and dissatisfied.The Oversharing and Trauma Dumping Phenomenon: They break down how many personal brands have manipulated trauma and vulnerability for sales, leading to a sense of inauthenticity and even "pity buying."The Illusion of Success in Online Coaching: Katie touches on the problematic sales techniques that make coaches appear successful while masking the real issues behind their businesses, including inflated value, misleading marketing, and reliance on personal brand hype.Exclusivity Backfiring: Gwen shares real-life examples of top coaches experiencing a "mass exodus" from their programs due to lack of access and the over-reliance on team coaches instead of personal interaction.How Some Coaches Are Pivoting Back to Connection: A discussion on how some high-figure coaches are coming back down from their pedestals, realizing that the lack of direct client interaction is hurting their brand.The False Promises of the 'Detached Sales Process': Why the trend of teaching sales as a hands-off process (like closing deals while on vacation) is not only misleading but also damaging to the industry.The Evolution of Mastermind Spaces: Gwen and Katie discuss how mastermind programs, originally designed for collaboration, are often turning into networking schemes where people just sell to one another.Key Takeaways:Personal Connection is Key: Businesses that build themselves on personal brands cannot simply remove the "person" from the equation. When clients pay for access to you, they expect a level of personal connection.Oversharing for Sales is a Dangerous Game: While sharing vulnerable moments might seem like a way to connect with your audience, it can often come off as manipulative and lead to "pity buying."The Truth Behind ‘Exclusive’ Programs: The appeal of being ‘exclusive’ might attract clients initially, but without real value and connection, those programs are destined to collapse.Adapt or Fail: The shift back towards personal involvement is necessary for long-term business sustainability, especially in the coaching industry where trust and personal relationship matter.

In this episode, Gwen and Katie dive deep into the resurrection of manifestation in the online business space. From its 2017 heyday, where “quantum leaps” and “5D energy” dominated the scene, to its recent comeback, the duo unpacks what’s driving the resurgence. They explore how the manifestation movement got twisted, exploited, and diluted—and why the pendulum is swinging back.Katie and Gwen also take a critical look at how tactics like NLP, proximity marketing, and the rebranding of spiritual principles have left many feeling gaslit by an industry that promised freedom but delivered burnout. Plus, they dish out savage insights about why strategy and energetics must coexist if you want sustainable growth—and how you can tell when someone’s selling snake oil versus real solutions.What You’ll Learn in This Episode: