Adoption, Fostering & Tea: The New Family Social Podcast

Adoption and fostering chat with people who’ve done it, from the UK’s LGBTQ+ adoption and fostering charity, New Family Social.

11 - Recovering from post adoption depression

Harry talks candidly about recovering from post adoption depression in this honest and uplifting episode. Text KIDS to 70490 to give a one-off donation of £10 to help children in care find their forever families with LGBT+ families. Listeners outside the UK can make a donation through our website https://newfamilysocial.org.uk/Donation-Landing Thank you so much.

12-02
34:00

10 - ”Everyone on the checkouts was looking at me!”

Anthony talks about adopting his two sons and how his family and friends reacted. Text KIDS to 70490 to give a one-off donation of £10 to help children in care find their forever families with LGBT+ families. Listeners outside the UK can make a donation through our website https://newfamilysocial.org.uk/Donation-Landing Thank you so much.  

11-25
31:45

9 - ”Daddy, you’re everything I could ask for”

Raj and Paul adopted two boys when the social worker called to say the birth mum was pregnant again.  Text KIDS to 70490 to give a one-off donation of £10 to help children in care find their forever families with LGBT+ families. Listeners outside the UK can make a donation through our website https://newfamilysocial.org.uk/Donation-Landing Thank you so much.

11-18
26:12

8 - Do we adopt a sibling group?

We talk about the decisions and thoughts behind adopting a sibling group. Text KIDS to 70490 to give a one-off donation of £10 to help children in care find their forever families with LGBT+ families. Listeners outside the UK can make a donation through our website https://newfamilysocial.org.uk/Donation-Landing Thank you so much.

06-26
28:14

7 - Contact with birth siblings

We chat with DJ about contact with birth siblings Text KIDS to 70490 to give a one-off donation of £10 to help children in care find their forever families with LGBT+ families. Listeners outside the UK can make a donation through our website https://newfamilysocial.org.uk/Donation-Landing Thank you so much.

06-17
31:47

6 - Meeting the birth mother

We chat with Mark about meeting his adopted child's birth mother.   Text KIDS to 70490 to give a one-off donation of £10 to help children in care find their forever families with LGBT+ families. Listeners outside the UK can make a donation through our website https://newfamilysocial.org.uk/Donation-Landing Thank you so much.

06-09
24:43

5 - Should I adopt my child’s sibling?

We talk with Andrew and Brian about the chance to adopt their child's younger brother. Text KIDS to 70490 to give a one-off donation of £10 to help children in care find their forever families with LGBT+ families. Listeners outside the UK can make a donation through our website https://newfamilysocial.org.uk/Donation-Landing Thank you so much.  

06-03
33:24

4 - Panels: Behind the scenes

Ruby sits on adoption and fostering panels and shares her advice on what to expect and how you can join a panel.   Text KIDS to 70490 to give a one-off donation of £10 to help children in care find their forever families with LGBT+ families. Listeners outside the UK can make a donation through our website https://newfamilysocial.org.uk/Donation-Landing Thank you so much.

05-27
23:25

3 - Military family adopting after infertility

We talk to Susan and Jane about adopting whilst serving in the military and their fertility treatment journey. Text KIDS to 70490 to give a one-off donation of £10 to help children in care find their forever families with LGBT+ families. Listeners outside the UK can make a donation through our website https://newfamilysocial.org.uk/Donation-Landing Thank you so much.

05-21
30:02

2 - Coping with delays with Ralph and Charlie

Adoption delayed due to Covid-19 and legal wranglings.  Ralph and Charlie chat about their experiences. Text KIDS to 70490 to give a one-off donation of £10 to help children in care find their forever families with LGBT+ families. Listeners outside the UK can make a donation through our website https://newfamilysocial.org.uk/Donation-Landing Thank you so much.

05-14
36:24

1 - Early stages of the adoption process with Jay and Thom

Applying to adopt and being matched with a child.  Jay and Thom chat about their experiences. Text KIDS to 70490 to give a one-off donation of £10 to help children in care find their forever families with LGBT+ families. Listeners outside the UK can make a donation through our website https://newfamilysocial.org.uk/Donation-Landing Thank you so much.

05-04
28:15

104 - Adopting an older child as older adopters

Robin and James were in their late 40s when they decided it was time to adopt.  They talk about how they overcame the negative messages they'd received, as children, about gay people.  They discuss their decision to adopt an older child, why they'd recommend this to others, and how they helped their son when he faced homophobic bullying.

08-27
43:26

103 - Newly diagnosed autistic adopter

Archie was diagnosed as autistic during the adoption assessment process.  Tor and Archie talk about what it's like to learn you're autistic and the strengths it brings the as parents.

08-13
35:50

102 - I researched adoption for ten years before I took the first step.

Carlos has wanted children since he was 17.  He started researching adoption in his mid-twenties and, ten years later, he's stuck in stage one but excited about his future as a single adopter for one or two children.

07-30
31:37

101 - Our foster-to-adopt baby spent weeks in intensive care.

Charlie and Ben had said they felt unable to take a child with complex medical needs but when their daughter was born and taken straight to intensive care, they knew they wanted to make it work.  They talk about early contact sessions and the toll they took.  They also talk about their family's delight in meeting the new baby and how much joy she's brought into their lives.

07-16
30:10

100 - Adopting in the Public Eye

On our 100th episode, Miles and Pip talk openly about the process of adopting their daughters and Miles tells us about being best known for "poisoning" a fellow contestant, in front of seven million people, on the hit BBC TV show Traitors!   Traitors Season Two 

07-02
01:02:03

99 - I've been an adoptive dad for over a decade.

Peter and Tor adopted their children over a decade ago and they talk about what it's like to parent teens.  They also share what they've learnt along the way and what they wish they'd known when they started out.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dLuEY6jN6gY 

06-18
40:17

98 - Adoption with a Trans History

Max and his husband adopted their son just over a year ago.  Max was concerned about the assessment process because he has a trans history and has anxiety.  Luckily, they had an awesome social worker who made things as easy as possible.  Max talks about the joys (and tiredness!) of parenting.

06-04
34:00

97 - Without the New Family Social Summer Camp we wouldn't have our son!

Adam and Oliver were struggling with family finding when they came to the NFS summer camp.  The people they met gave them the strength to continue and their son came home weeks later.  They talk about the highs and lows, including how they've dealt with their son initially bonding more with Oliver than with Adam.  They even tell us all about their "Jar Fairy" who magically sends messages to the people their son misses.

05-21
37:30

96 - We wanted one baby, we brought home two toddlers!

Brian and Kevin knew they wanted to adopt.  They imagined themselves with one new born baby, but as their assessment progressed, they realised they wanted siblings.  With a few months, they had a two-year-old and a one-year-old.  

05-07
37:19

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