Adoption, Fostering & Tea: The New Family Social Podcast

Adoption and fostering chat with people who’ve done it, from the UK’s LGBTQ+ adoption and fostering charity, New Family Social.

11 - Recovering from post adoption depression

Harry talks candidly about recovering from post adoption depression in this honest and uplifting episode. Text KIDS to 70490 to give a one-off donation of £10 to help children in care find their forever families with LGBT+ families. Listeners outside the UK can make a donation through our website https://newfamilysocial.org.uk/Donation-Landing Thank you so much.

12-02
34:00

10 - ”Everyone on the checkouts was looking at me!”

Anthony talks about adopting his two sons and how his family and friends reacted. Text KIDS to 70490 to give a one-off donation of £10 to help children in care find their forever families with LGBT+ families. Listeners outside the UK can make a donation through our website https://newfamilysocial.org.uk/Donation-Landing Thank you so much.  

11-25
31:45

9 - ”Daddy, you’re everything I could ask for”

Raj and Paul adopted two boys when the social worker called to say the birth mum was pregnant again.  Text KIDS to 70490 to give a one-off donation of £10 to help children in care find their forever families with LGBT+ families. Listeners outside the UK can make a donation through our website https://newfamilysocial.org.uk/Donation-Landing Thank you so much.

11-18
26:12

8 - Do we adopt a sibling group?

We talk about the decisions and thoughts behind adopting a sibling group. Text KIDS to 70490 to give a one-off donation of £10 to help children in care find their forever families with LGBT+ families. Listeners outside the UK can make a donation through our website https://newfamilysocial.org.uk/Donation-Landing Thank you so much.

06-26
28:14

7 - Contact with birth siblings

We chat with DJ about contact with birth siblings Text KIDS to 70490 to give a one-off donation of £10 to help children in care find their forever families with LGBT+ families. Listeners outside the UK can make a donation through our website https://newfamilysocial.org.uk/Donation-Landing Thank you so much.

06-17
31:47

6 - Meeting the birth mother

We chat with Mark about meeting his adopted child's birth mother.   Text KIDS to 70490 to give a one-off donation of £10 to help children in care find their forever families with LGBT+ families. Listeners outside the UK can make a donation through our website https://newfamilysocial.org.uk/Donation-Landing Thank you so much.

06-09
24:43

5 - Should I adopt my child’s sibling?

We talk with Andrew and Brian about the chance to adopt their child's younger brother. Text KIDS to 70490 to give a one-off donation of £10 to help children in care find their forever families with LGBT+ families. Listeners outside the UK can make a donation through our website https://newfamilysocial.org.uk/Donation-Landing Thank you so much.  

06-03
33:24

4 - Panels: Behind the scenes

Ruby sits on adoption and fostering panels and shares her advice on what to expect and how you can join a panel.   Text KIDS to 70490 to give a one-off donation of £10 to help children in care find their forever families with LGBT+ families. Listeners outside the UK can make a donation through our website https://newfamilysocial.org.uk/Donation-Landing Thank you so much.

05-27
23:25

3 - Military family adopting after infertility

We talk to Susan and Jane about adopting whilst serving in the military and their fertility treatment journey. Text KIDS to 70490 to give a one-off donation of £10 to help children in care find their forever families with LGBT+ families. Listeners outside the UK can make a donation through our website https://newfamilysocial.org.uk/Donation-Landing Thank you so much.

05-21
30:02

2 - Coping with delays with Ralph and Charlie

Adoption delayed due to Covid-19 and legal wranglings.  Ralph and Charlie chat about their experiences. Text KIDS to 70490 to give a one-off donation of £10 to help children in care find their forever families with LGBT+ families. Listeners outside the UK can make a donation through our website https://newfamilysocial.org.uk/Donation-Landing Thank you so much.

05-14
36:24

1 - Early stages of the adoption process with Jay and Thom

Applying to adopt and being matched with a child.  Jay and Thom chat about their experiences. Text KIDS to 70490 to give a one-off donation of £10 to help children in care find their forever families with LGBT+ families. Listeners outside the UK can make a donation through our website https://newfamilysocial.org.uk/Donation-Landing Thank you so much.

05-04
28:15

111 - Adopting an older child after encountering homophobia

Alex and Peter adopted a six-year-old after being turned down for another child.  They talk about their assessment and matching process, the attachment therapy that changed everything, and why they hope others will consider older children.

12-03
41:57

110 - "I fostered the child you adopted"

Vivienne has been a foster carer for eight years.  An eight month old baby called Bill was placed with her, initially for just a week, but he ended up staying for nearly two years.  In the meantime, in another part of the country, Carlos and his partner were talking about adopting.  They had a bad experience with their first agency but changed to another and were approved.  Browsing Linkmaker, they saw Bill's profile and hoped he might be the child for them.  On this podcast, Vivienne and Carlos talk about how their paths met when Carlos adopted Bill.

11-19
46:33

109 - Going to approval panel for early permanence

Emily and Jude  have completed their assessment process and have just seven days until panel.  They're hoping to be approved as early permanence carers for a baby under a year old.  Emily talks about how they decided on adoption and what they learnt as volunteers at New Family Social's Summer Camp (including mud pie recipes!). Emily talked about how she listened to other episodes of this podcast to help her decide whether she could cope with the uncertainty of early permanence.    

11-05
36:15

108 - "Adopting my son made me a better person".

Fay talks about adopting her two-year-old son after three rounds of IVF, including one miscarriage.  She had heard about how much longer black children wait for adoptive families and felt that adoption would be the right way to parenthood for her.  Family life has brought Fay and her wife so much happiness and she talks about the importance of play and the need for patience!

10-22
35:39

107 - "We're having the time of our lives!"

Monty and his husband were approved for Early Permanence and had a tiny baby placed with them.  Just a couple of months later, they were asked if they'd adopt the baby's older sibling.  Monty talks about delays in their assessment process, becoming a parent twice in less than six months, and how much joy their children have brought them.   Monty recommends this book: Undertaking an adoption assessment in England

10-08
28:10

106 - Bi-erasure in the adoption process

Oliver returns to the podcast to talk about how he navigated the adoption process (including some ill-informed questions) as a bisexual man.  He discusses his journey to positively identify as bisexual, and also brings us up-to-date on life with his four-year-old son.   Their previous podcast can be found here Episode 97

09-23
33:17

105 - Adoption, Fostering and Tea - Live at Summer Camp

This episode of Adoption, Fostering and Tea was recorded live at our annual summer camp for LGBTQ adoption and fostering families, taking questions from our audience.

09-10
35:13

104 - Adopting an older child as older adopters

Robin and James were in their late 40s when they decided it was time to adopt.  They talk about how they overcame the negative messages they'd received, as children, about gay people.  They discuss their decision to adopt an older child, why they'd recommend this to others, and how they helped their son when he faced homophobic bullying.

08-27
43:26

103 - Newly diagnosed autistic adopter

Archie was diagnosed as autistic during the adoption assessment process.  Tor and Archie talk about what it's like to learn you're autistic and the strengths it brings the as parents.

08-13
35:50

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