Alcohol Minimalist: Change Your Drinking Habits!

Episode Summary: As part of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast’s Summer Content Series, this episode features a replay from Molly's former podcast, Live HAPPIER Longer. Originally episode 40, this conversation highlights the extraordinary story of Pat Gallant-Charette, a world-renowned open water swimmer who didn’t even start training seriously until age 58.Pat’s journey is a testament to what’s possible when you stop letting age define your limits. From overcoming grief to chasing world records, Pat’s story is filled with resilience, purpose, and bold reinvention. If you’re feeling stuck, unsure, or like your time has passed, let this episode remind you: it hasn’t.Whether you're working on reducing alcohol or simply trying to live with more intention, Pat’s mindset offers a powerful dose of inspiration.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:Why Pat didn’t begin serious athletic training until midlifeHow she faced fears and pursued open water swimming in her late 50sThe mental strength required to swim across oceansHow she reframed setbacks, including a near-complete Ocean’s SevenWhy her journey embodies aging with optimism and purposeKey Quote:“You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream. Pat didn’t just dream it—she dove in headfirst.”Why It Matters for Alcohol Minimalists:Just like Pat challenged her assumptions about age and limits, changing your relationship with alcohol often means questioning the beliefs you’ve held for years. Pat’s story proves that big change is possible at any age and that our greatest chapters can begin later in life. Let it inspire your own path forward—whatever that looks like.Resources & Links:Free Resources from Molly: www.mollywatts.com/resourcesInternational Marathon Swimming Hall of Fame: www.imshof.orgConnect with Molly:Instagram: @alcoholminimalistWebsite: www.mollywatts.comNext Steps:If you’ve been telling yourself “I can’t” or “it’s too late,” let this episode be your nudge to reconsider. Change doesn’t have an expiration date. It starts with belief—and one small step in the right direction.Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this revisited Think Thursday episode of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, Molly Watts returns to a timely and deeply relevant conversation about our brilliant human brains and how we can consciously shift from fear to purpose. Originally aired in January during a time of political unrest and uncertainty, this episode reminds us that fear—though natural—is not a permanent state.Molly explores how neuroscience explains our brain’s hardwired fear responses and how those responses often lead us into coping behaviors like doom scrolling, overeating, or pouring a drink. But instead of retreating into old habits, she invites listeners to pause, activate their prefrontal cortex, and take purposeful action.Drawing on Fred Rogers’ famous advice to “look for the helpers,” Molly encourages us to take it one step further—by becoming the helper. Helping others not only builds community, it also restores our own mindset and emotional health.This powerful episode blends neuroscience, mindfulness, and compassion to offer a clear path through uncertainty by leaning into generosity and contribution.In This Episode:Why fear and uncertainty trigger coping behaviorsThe role of the amygdala and how it keeps us on high alertHow to re-engage the prefrontal cortex for better decision-makingThe self-coaching model Molly calls the Behavior Map-Result CycleWhy acts of service and helping others can shift your mindsetReframing fear as an opportunity to take actionResources Mentioned:Breaking the Bottle Legacy– Molly's book and resources to change your drinking habitsLearn about the Behavior Map-Result Cycle and how to apply it to your relationship with alcoholRevisit more Think Thursday episodes at mollywatts.com/podcastPerfect For:Anyone feeling overwhelmed by current eventsListeners looking to reinforce healthy coping strategiesThose exploring the intersection of emotional health and drinking habitsPeople seeking inspiration to take empowered, meaningful action ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode, Molly continues her Summer Content Series by featuring an impactful conversation from Elizabeth Benton of the Primal Potential Podcast. The episode dives deep into the critical difference between compliance and consistency—a distinction that’s especially relevant for anyone trying to create a peaceful relationship with alcohol.Molly reflects on how often people struggle with making "doable plans" for changing their drinking habits because they equate plans with rigid rules. Elizabeth’s insights provide a compelling framework to help shift your mindset from strict rule-following (compliance) to flexible, value-based behavior (consistency).Whether you’ve ever felt like you’re “starting over” every time you deviate from a plan or if you crumble under imperfect conditions, this episode will help you recognize why that’s happening—and what to do about it.Key Topics CoveredThe fragility of compliance: How rigid, all-or-nothing plans break down when life isn’t ideal.Consistency as resilience: How flexible, values-based choices help create long-term success.How to identify which one you’re really practicing.Why using "rules" to moderate your drinking may be sabotaging your progress.Examples from programs like 75 Hard and how their structure promotes compliance, not consistency.How to approach your goals with more self-compassion and adaptability.Why This Matters for Alcohol MinimalistsMolly emphasizes that understanding this distinction is essential when it comes to reducing alcohol without guilt, shame, or deprivation. By letting go of the need for perfection and focusing instead on intentional progress, you can build sustainable habits that actually work—no matter your circumstances.Connect with Elizabeth Benton: https://primalpotential.com/Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this replay of a favorite Think Thursday episode, Molly revisits a deceptively simple yet critically important topic: hydration and brain health. With high temperatures hitting the Northern Hemisphere and many of us enjoying summer activities, this episode is your science-forward reminder to drink more water—for your brain’s sake.From the cognitive impact of just a 1% drop in hydration to how alcohol interferes with your body’s water balance, Molly explores how vital water is to focus, mood, memory, and even long-term mental wellness. If you’re building a peaceful relationship with alcohol, staying hydrated is not only a tool—it’s an essential part of supporting your brain’s ability to think clearly, manage urges, and feel better overall.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:How your brain is 73% water and what that means for daily functioningWhat happens to your cognition and memory when you’re even slightly dehydratedThe link between hydration and neurotransmitter balanceWhy drinking water improves your mood and clarityThe real impact of alcohol on your hydration levelsSimple, science-backed tips to stay hydrated throughout the dayKey Quote:“If you don’t think cognition is important, you’re simply wrong. Thinking better is how we feel better—and hydration is one of the fastest ways to support your brain’s optimal function.”Practical Hydration Tips Covered:Start your day with water—even before coffeeKeep water accessible with a refillable bottleAdd reminders or tracking tools to make hydration a habitUse water as a pacing strategy when including alcoholBe especially mindful in hot weather or when activeWhy It Matters for Alcohol Minimalists: Alcohol is a diuretic—so it actively dehydrates you. Staying hydrated can not only help reduce the physical impacts of drinking but also keep your brain in peak condition to manage thoughts, emotions, and urges more effectively. Hydration is an underestimated but powerful support tool on your journey to a peaceful relationship with alcohol.Resources & Links:Free Resources from MollyJoin the Alcohol Minimalists CommunityConnect with Molly: Instagram: @alcoholminimalist Website: www.mollywatts.comNext Steps: If you're working to change your drinking habits, start with water. It’s one of the easiest, most powerful tools you have to support your body, your brain, and your goals. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, Molly shares another installment in her Summer Content Series, featuring guest content from one of the most influential voices in the alcohol-reduction space—Rachel Hart, host of the “Take a Break” podcast.Molly opens up about Rachel’s pivotal role in her own journey to change her drinking habits, describing her as the first person who helped her believe it was possible to rethink her relationship with alcohol. Through books, podcasts, and coaching, Rachel’s voice provides clarity, validation, and a methodical approach to mindful drinking that aligned closely with the Alcohol Minimalist philosophy.This featured episode challenges one of the most common self-sabotaging thought patterns: the tendency to make absolute declarations about your identity based on drinking behavior. Statements like “I have no willpower,” “I’m just someone who can’t moderate,” or “I must have an addictive personality” are not facts—they are beliefs that shape your experience and become self-fulfilling prophecies.Rachel teaches listeners how to stop making their drinking patterns a reflection of their identity and instead approach every off-plan moment with curiosity, not criticism. Using Rachel's  “Think-Feel-Act” cycle, this episode is a science-based, compassion-forward guide to interrupting old stories and rewiring your drinking habits.Key Topics Covered:Why absolute statements about identity are so damaging to behavior changeHow belief systems reinforce drinking patternsThe Think-Feel-Act cycle and how it relates to drinking habitsA practical approach to examining moments when we go off-planHow to use curiosity instead of criticism when reflecting on cravings and decisionsThe power of zooming into specific moments instead of generalizing your behaviorWhy You Should Listen: If you’re stuck in a cycle of overdrinking and self-recrimination, this episode will help you shift from judgment to awareness. Learn why your thoughts—not alcohol—are the real drivers of your behavior, and how small mindset changes can lead to major personal transformation.Mentioned in the Episode:Rachel Hart’s Podcast – Take a BreakSunnyside Drinking App – Molly’s recommended habit tracking and behavior change toolConnect with Molly:Website: www.mollywatts.comFree Resources: Alcohol Truths 2023 eBookFacebook Group: Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Alcohol HabitsLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Episode Summary: Most people know the three classic stress responses—fight, flight, and freeze—but there’s a fourth that’s often missed because it hides in plain sight: the fawn response. This is when your nervous system decides the safest way to handle a threat is to please or appease it. It’s not weakness—it’s a deeply ingrained survival strategy that can run for years without you realizing it.In this episode, Molly explains what the fawn response is, where it comes from, why you may never have heard of it, and how it might be shaping your relationships, boundaries, and even your drinking choices. You’ll learn how to spot the signs of fawning and take the first steps toward responding from authenticity rather than fear.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:A quick refresher on fight, flight, and freeze—and how they compare to fawn.Pete Walker’s definition of the fawn response and how it forms.Everyday examples of fawning and why it’s often praised instead of questioned.Common childhood environments that lead to fawning.Why the fawn response is both common and invisible.How the fawn pattern can influence your drinking decisions.A simple, four-step process to pause and respond intentionally instead of automatically.Key Quote:“The child relinquishes the fight response, deletes ‘no’ from her vocabulary… flight exacerbates the danger… freeze doesn’t protect… so the child learns to fawn her way into the relative safety of becoming helpful.” – Pete WalkerLinks and Resources:Pete Walker’s work on the Four F’s of Trauma: pete-walker.comJoin the free Alcohol Minimalist Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/alcoholminimalistsLearn more about “Making Peace with Alcohol” coaching: www.mollywatts.com/workwithmeListener Challenge: Notice one moment this week where you have the urge to please or accommodate someone else at your own expense. Name it: That’s the fawn response. Pause before responding, and ask yourself if this is what you truly want—or if it’s an old survival pattern. ★ Support this podcast ★

This week on the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, we’re kicking off our Summer Content Series, a special tradition where I take a short break from creating long form episodes and share valuable conversations and ideas from other voices I trust and admire.Today’s guest, and you’ll probably recognize her voice, is Monica Reinagel, host of the Nutrition Diva and Change Academy podcasts. Monica and I share a common approach: evidence based, practical strategies for creating lasting behavior change. We’ve collaborated on coaching programs, podcast appearances, and even behind the scenes peer coaching.In this episode, Monica shares insights from her recent Change Academy miniseries where she applies concepts from the business world to personal habit change. You’ll hear her framework for “recession proofing” your habits, not just about money, but about building resilience so your routines and commitments hold steady when life throws you curveballs.You’ll learn:Why identifying your “non negotiables” makes it easier to stay consistent during stressful times.How to adapt routines without abandoning progress.The “three bucket” method for deciding what to protect, what to scale back, and what to pause when resources are tight.How to make your self care and health goals more disruption proof.Whether you’re navigating a busy season, facing unexpected challenges, or simply want to strengthen your commitment to change, this episode offers clear, actionable strategies you can start using right away.Resources & Links:Listen to Monica’s full "Business Principles" miniseries here.Learn more about Monica’s work at nutritionovereasy.com.Explore Alcohol Minimalist programs and resources: mollywatts.com.Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

This week on Think Thursday, we’re diving into the latest research around brain-healthy eating—and how artificial intelligence is changing the nutrition game. In July 2025, a major new study introduced the MODERN diet—a machine-learning-optimized eating pattern that may reduce your risk of dementia by more than 50%.In this episode, I compare the MODERN diet with the more established MIND diet (a blend of the Mediterranean and DASH diets), break down how both support cognitive function, and explain why the science behind these claims is powerful but not perfect.I also circle back to my October 2024 Think Thursday episode, where we explored how a Mediterranean-style diet—rich in omega-3s, B vitamins, and antioxidants—can support memory, mood, and long-term brain health. If that episode got you thinking about your plate, today’s episode will give you even more clarity on how and why what you eat matters.Whether you’re navigating midlife, aging intentionally, or just looking for simple, science-backed steps to boost your brainpower, this one’s for you.What You’ll LearnWhat the MODERN diet is—and how it was created with AIHow it compares to the MIND diet (and the Mediterranean diet we covered last October)Why leafy greens, berries, citrus, and olive oil remain nutritional powerhousesThe truth about observational research vs. randomized trialsHow to use this information to take one simple action this weekReferenced ResourcesHow Diet Impacts Brain Health📄 Download the MODERN vs. MIND Comparison One-PagerYour Next Small StepTry adding one MODERN-approved food to your meals this week—like citrus, leafy greens, or berries. And if you’re up for it, take one small step to reduce your intake of sweetened beverages or highly processed foods.Connect with MeIf this episode sparked questions or ideas, I’d love to hear from you! Email me at molly@mollywatts.com and tell me what small shift you're making to support your brain health. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, I’m joined by Mike Hardenbrook—author of No Willpower Required and host of the Journey to the Sunny Side podcast—for a conversation that’s been a long time coming.Mike’s story will resonate with anyone who’s ever struggled with drinking more than they want to but never felt “out of control” enough to warrant a label. His approach to habit change is science-forward, rooted in neuroscience and behavioral psychology, and deeply aligned with our core belief at Alcohol Minimalist: you are not powerless.Together, we discuss:How Mike’s drinking slowly crept into a habitual nightly loop—despite a successful life and healthy routines.Why the traditional “powerless” model of alcohol change never resonated with him—and why he decided to write a book for people like him.What it means to truly “rewire” your drinking habit and how Mike used curiosity, experimentation, and mindset shifts to get there.Our shared belief in empowering people through understanding their brains—and how that changes everything.The role of alcohol as a “light switch” for the brain, and why the reward loop gets so entrenched for daily drinkers.This is a real, down-to-earth conversation between two people who have both experienced the challenges of breaking a long-term drinking habit and emerged with a science-backed, compassionate way forward.If you’ve been trying to drink less but feel stuck, this episode is for you. And if the idea of change without willpower sounds too good to be true, give this a listen—you may find a new path forward.About Mike Hardenbrook: Mike is the author of No Willpower Required: A Neuroscience Approach to Change Your Habits with Alcohol and the host of the Journey to the Sunny Side podcast. He also works with the alcohol habit-change app Sunnyside, where he helps others build sustainable, science-based strategies to drink less.Resources & Links:Learn more about Mike and his book: www.hardenbrook.comCheck out the Sunnyside app: www.sunnyside.co/mollyGrab your copy of Breaking the Bottle Legacy: https://www.mollywatts.com/resourcesJoin the Alcohol Minimalist Facebook group!If you enjoyed this episode: Please take a moment to subscribe, rate, and review. It really helps others find the show—and helps me keep bringing you content that empowers your journey with alcohol.Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode of Think Thursday, Molly explores the power of possibility thinking—a grounded, science-supported mindset that helps you move forward even when you're feeling unsure or stuck.This is not about positive thinking or forced optimism. It’s about learning how to stay mentally open to change, using thoughts your brain can actually work with.Molly also shares the remarkable story of Reverend Robert Schuller, who built a global movement—starting from the roof of a drive-in theater—by believing in what could be possible.What You’ll LearnWhat possibility thinking is and how it differs from traditional positive thinkingWhy your brain prefers believable, flexible thoughts over rigid affirmationsHow possibility thinking activates the prefrontal cortex and the default mode networkThe neuroscience of change, including concepts from neuroplasticity and executive functionA 5-step framework for using possibility thinking to build sustainable changeKey TakeawaysPossibility thinking doesn’t require confidence—just openness.The brain changes when you give it input that’s curious, not conclusive.Believable thoughts are more effective than “positive” ones your brain can’t accept.Asking “What might be possible?” is often more productive than declaring “I’ve got this.”Practice This WeekTry this simple 5-step approach:Notice the limiting thoughtName the story you’re telling yourselfAsk a possibility-based questionChoose a believable, forward-focused thoughtRepeat it consistentlyMentioned in the EpisodeMove Ahead with Possibility Thinking by Robert H. SchullerResearch by Dr. Jeffrey Schwartz on thought redirection and brain rewiringReflection PromptWhere in your life have you decided something is too hard or too late to change? What might become available if you opened the door to a new possibility? ★ Support this podcast ★

Episode Summary: In this honest and reflective episode, Molly shares her personal journey with More Dry July and what it really means when your outcome doesn’t match your original goal. She walks through her mindset shift from chasing perfection to reinforcing identity, and how 21 alcohol-free days—rather than the planned 24—still powerfully reflect the systems she’s built as an Alcohol Minimalist.Drawing from James Clear’s Atomic Habits and Elizabeth Benton’s Chasing Cupcakes, Molly explores how honest tracking, identity-based change, and keystone habits can keep you aligned even when things don’t go perfectly. She also shares a powerful metaphor that reframes each alcohol-free day as a building block in the foundation of a peaceful relationship with alcohol.Whether your July was a success by the numbers or felt a little off-track, this episode will remind you that your next decision matters far more than your last one—and that progress is always possible when you stay connected to who you are becoming.In this episode, you’ll learn:Why prioritizing alcohol-free days matters more than perfectionHow “alcohol-free-ish” thinking can undermine honest accountabilityThe difference between tracking outcomes vs. living your identityWhat it means to own your behavior without excuses or shameWhy each AF day is like stacking a brick in your foundationResources and Links:Atomic Habits by James Clear: https://jamesclear.com/atomic-habitsChasing Cupcakes by Elizabeth Benton: https://amzn.to/3KXh2xQStart your Sunnyside trial: https://www.sunnyside.co/mollyWork with Molly or learn more: https://www.mollywatts.comQuote of the Week: "You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems." – James ClearLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Episode Summary: In recognition of World Brain Day (July 22), this Think Thursday episode is a deep dive into the powerful, daily practices that shape your brain’s future. While most of us worry about cognitive decline, far fewer realize how much influence we actually have. Molly introduces SHARP—a simple, science-backed framework for protecting and enhancing your brain’s longevity, clarity, and resilience. From reducing dementia risk to boosting neuroplasticity, this episode gives you the tools to keep your mind vibrant for years to come.What You'll Learn – The SHARP Framework:S – Sleep & Stress Regulation: Sleep is when your brain clears out toxins linked to Alzheimer’s. Chronic stress, meanwhile, shrinks memory-related regions and floods your system with cortisol. Molly shares realistic strategies to optimize both sleep and stress management.H – Health Management: Hypertension, diabetes, and high cholesterol aren’t just heart issues—they directly impair blood flow to your brain. Molly encourages listeners to know their health metrics and embrace preventive care, not just reactive treatment.A – Activity (Physical & Cognitive): Regular movement and mental challenge increase BDNF and hippocampal volume—both key for memory and learning. Learn how to find the right mix of cardio, strength, and cognitive novelty to protect your brain.R – Relationships & Recovery: Human connection is vital for long-term brain health. So is purposeful mental rest. Molly outlines ways to build deeper relationships while incorporating daily mental “micro-rests” to reset your attention and creativity.P – Plant-Forward Nutrition & Preventive Living: Diets like MIND and Mediterranean are clinically linked to younger brain age. Molly explains how building meals around plants, healthy fats, and fiber—while minimizing alcohol and ultra-processed foods—can provide neuroprotective benefits.Mini Challenge: Pick just one area of the SHARP framework to focus on this week. Your brain will thank you—and it will reward you with energy, clarity, and peace of mind.Resources & Mentions:Mel Robbins Podcast featuring Dr. Vonda WrightOfficial MIND Diet WebsiteStay Connected:Website: www.mollywatts.comJoin the Facebook Community: Alcohol Minimalists – Change Your Alcohol HabitsInstagram: @alcoholminimalist ★ Support this podcast ★

In this insightful episode, Molly sits down once again with Dr. Brooke Scheller, clinical nutritionist and founder of Functional Sobriety, to discuss one of the most buzzed-about topics in the health and wellness space: GLP-1 medications (like Ozempic and Wegovy). Originally developed for treating Type 2 diabetes and now widely prescribed for weight loss, these drugs are increasingly being talked about for their potential to reduce alcohol cravings.Together, Molly and Dr. Scheller unpack the growing curiosity (and concern) surrounding the off-label use of GLP-1s by those trying to moderate or change their drinking habits. They dive deep into both the science and the speculation—discussing small but intriguing studies, anecdotal feedback from clients and community members, and what it really means to find a “magic pill” for reducing desire.But this episode doesn’t stop at surface-level discussion. They explore the bigger picture: sustainable behavior change, the role of nutrition in alcohol use, and whether it's possible to replicate the effects of GLP-1s with food, lifestyle, and mindset shifts alone.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:What GLP-1 medications are and how they workWhy they might reduce alcohol cravings—and what the science says so farWho might benefit most from GLP-1s—and who should be cautiousCommon side effects and risks associated with these drugsNatural strategies to support craving reduction and metabolic healthWhy addressing core beliefs about alcohol is critical to long-term changeLinks & Resources Mentioned:Dr. Brooke Scheller’s program: Functional SobrietyDr. Scheller’s book: How to Eat to Change How You DrinkConnect with Molly: Website: www.mollywatts.com Instagram: @alcoholminimalist Join the Private Facebook Community: “Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Drinking Habits”Want to Change Your Drinking? Download Molly’s free guide “Alcohol Truths 2023” and learn how to identify your personal safe level of drinking at mollywatts.com/resourcesLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Welcome back to Think Thursday, where we explore the intersection of neuroscience, behavior change, and mindset, all in service of your beautifully brilliant human brain. In today’s episode, we’re diving into brand-new research from UCLA that uncovers how chronic stress physically alters the brain—and why that matters deeply for your habits, memory, and sense of self.You’ll learn:Why your brain doesn’t record life as one continuous stream, but as segmented “chapters”The critical role of a tiny brainstem region called the locus coeruleus in organizing your memoriesHow chronic stress dulls your brain’s ability to mark important transitions—leading to foggy recall, disorientation, and burnoutWhy this memory blurring reinforces old, unhelpful habits (and what to do instead)Actionable strategies to reset your brain and support better event segmentation, focus, and resilienceThis isn’t just neuroscience—it’s deeply relevant to anyone trying to make meaningful change, especially around alcohol. If stress is hijacking your ability to grow and evolve, this episode will help you see why—and what’s in your power to shift.Resources Mentioned:Recent UCLA study on stress and the locus coeruleus (via Neuroscience News)Monday’s main podcast episode on chronic stress and emotional burnoutThink Thursday: How Stress Changes the BrainThink Thursday: Where Burnout LivesAction Steps You Can Take Today:Support event segmentation: Create natural breaks in your day—change environments, move your body, shift tasks.Reduce background stress: Focus on consistent, gentle actions that help your nervous system downregulate.Practice attention shifts: Mindfully mark transitions between tasks and environments.Embrace restorative structure: Build routines that signal safety and meaning to your brain.A Final Thought: You’re not broken. Your brain isn’t lazy. Chronic stress can disrupt your memory, your sense of meaning, and your progress—but you have tools to restore clarity and control. Let’s keep building better brain health together. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode, Molly dives deep into a topic that’s both emotionally resonant and neurologically relevant: what’s really going on when we feel like we “just don’t care anymore” about our drinking habits or goals. This isn’t about laziness or lack of willpower—it’s often a sign of emotional burnout, a condition that physically alters our brain and chips away at our motivation and executive function.Molly explores how summer routines, vacations, and social gatherings can disrupt our usual anchors and lead to identity drift, making it harder to stay committed to alcohol-related goals. She breaks down the neuroscience of burnout, clarifies common misconceptions about decision fatigue, and introduces default reward thinking as a key player in why we revert to old habits.Key Topics Discussed:The true meaning behind the phrase “I just don’t care anymore”The neuroscience of emotional burnout and its effect on decision-makingWhat recent studies really say about decision fatigueWhy summer can be a sneaky trigger for identity driftHow to reconnect with your identity as an alcohol minimalistFive Strategies to Reignite Motivation and Realign with Your Goals:Track Your Patterns – Pay attention to emotional and behavioral cues that precede drinking.Tweak Your Environment – Anticipate high-risk moments and set up better decision conditions.Create Identity Anchors – Align your choices with the kind of person you want to become.Practice Mindful Decision-Making – Make key decisions in advance and reinforce them.Take Micro Breaks – Restore your emotional energy to avoid burnout-induced apathy.Molly’s Takeaway:Feeling like you don’t care anymore doesn’t mean you're broken. It means your brain is overloaded and you need to reconnect with your intrinsic identity. Motivation doesn’t come from white-knuckling your way through—it comes from alignment, awareness, and intentional identity shifts.Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Episode Summary: This week on Think Thursday, we're taking a step back in time to revisit the very first episode that kicked off this science-forward, mindset-focused mini-series from the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast.As Molly is out of town this week, she shares one of her favorite episodes—the inaugural Think Thursday segment. It’s a powerful reminder of why this series exists: to explore the beautiful, brilliant human brain and its incredible capacity for change.In this encore presentation, Molly revisits the groundbreaking science of neuroplasticity, the brain’s ability to rewire itself in response to thought, behavior, and experience. You’ll hear how this scientific truth intersects with the core mission of Alcohol Minimalist—to help people build a peaceful relationship with alcohol not through restriction, but through understanding.You’ll learn how your mindset isn’t just a fluffy self-help idea—it literally shapes the structure of your brain. And when it comes to changing a drinking habit that feels automatic, this knowledge is transformational.Key Highlights:How our brains form habits like nightly drinking—and how they can unlearn themThe difference between a fixed vs. growth mindset, and why it matters for habit changeHow new thoughts and beliefs strengthen new neural pathwaysWhat synaptic pruning is, and why it's great news for anyone trying to change a long-held habitWhy your brain isn’t broken—it’s doing exactly what it’s evolved to doWhy Revisit This Episode? Because the foundation of habit change starts with understanding, and this episode encapsulates that beautifully. Whether you're new to the Alcohol Minimalist journey or deep into your transformation, this conversation offers timeless wisdom rooted in science and compassion.Molly’s Message This Week: "Listening to this again reminded me of how excited I was to start Think Thursday—and how much I still love bringing neuroscience and mindset to the conversation around alcohol. If you’ve got ideas for future Thursday topics, I’d love to hear them!"Email Molly: molly@mollywatts.comWant to Dive Deeper? Join the private Facebook community: Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Alcohol Habits ★ Support this podcast ★

In this special episode of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, Molly Watts revisits the very first episode of the show—originally aired in January 2021 under the name Breaking the Bottle Legacy. While the podcast’s sound quality and delivery may have evolved since then, the heart and mission behind Molly’s message remain just as powerful and relevant.Molly shares her story as an adult child of an alcoholic and someone who lived with a 30+ year daily drinking habit. She reflects on what inspired her to begin this journey, the beliefs that shaped her transformation, and the science and mindset tools that helped her change. Whether you’re new to the show or have been listening since the early days, this episode is an honest look at the beginning and a testament to how far both Molly and her community have come.Key Takeaways:The Alcohol Minimalist mission remains the same: to help you create a peaceful relationship with alcohol through science, mindset, and emotional intelligence.Molly’s personal journey began as someone who didn’t believe change was possible. Now, she’s proof that it is.You don’t need to be “perfect” to begin—change starts with action, not perfection.The episode outlines Molly’s foundational beliefs:You are not powerless over alcohol.Sobriety is not the only path to peace with alcohol.Science, wellness, and emotional intelligence empower choice.Understanding emotional numbing is essential for daily habit drinkers.Molly emphasizes the importance of owning your journey and questioning long-held stories and beliefs about alcohol, especially for adult children of alcoholics.If you’re struggling with a daily drinking habit or feel stuck because of your past with alcohol, this episode is a chance to hear how change is truly possible. Listen with fresh ears and see how far you’ve come—or how far you could go.Resources Mentioned:Molly’s book: Breaking the Bottle LegacyLearn more and get support at mollywatts.comLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this special Independence Day edition of Think Thursday, we're diving into a surprising truth about freedom. While freedom is often associated with having more choices, the neuroscience tells us that too many options can actually hinder our ability to make meaningful progress. In this episode, Molly explores why excessive freedom can lead to decision fatigue, anxiety, and overwhelm—and how structure can actually be the key to creating real freedom in your life.What You'll Learn:The role of the prefrontal cortex in decision-making and how it gets depletedWhy more options can lead to less satisfaction and more mental clutterHow structure, routines, and boundaries support long-term goals and reduce overwhelmThe brain-based benefits of “deciding once” instead of making repeated choices under stressWhy intentional limits can feel more freeing than unrestricted autonomyKey Insight: True freedom doesn’t come from unlimited options. It comes from clarity, self-trust, and reducing the mental noise that keeps us stuck in overthinking. When you build thoughtful boundaries, you support your brain and open up space for purposeful action.Try This: Take a moment to reflect:Where in your life are too many choices creating stress or inaction?What’s one area where you could reduce decisions by adding structure?Resources Mentioned:Learn more about the Doable Drink Plan and how it supports structured, sustainable behavior change at mollywatts.com/drink-lessJoin the Alcohol Minimalist Community on FacebookSubscribe and share this episode with someone who might be feeling stuck in indecisionFinal Note: Structure doesn’t limit freedom—it enables it. Choosing fewer, better-aligned options may be the most liberating step you can take. ★ Support this podcast ★

Summer can feel like one long permission slip to indulge—looser routines, longer days, more social events, and vacation vibes that whisper “just this once.” In this episode, Molly unpacks why summer can be a particularly slippery slope for anyone working to change their drinking habits—and what you can do to stay mindful without sacrificing fun.Drawing from her own experience and behavioral science, Molly explores how deeply context-based cues shape our drinking habits and why “vacation mode” doesn’t have to mean mindless drinking. You’ll learn how to navigate barbecues, weddings, family reunions, and lazy summer nights with clarity and confidence.In this episode, you’ll discover:Why summer rhythms can reignite old habit loopsThe difference between vacation mode and conscious modeHow context—not just craving—drives drinking desireWhy a “Doable Drink Plan” works (and how to create one that actually fits your life)The hidden cost of unplanned drinking days—even when you're doing alcohol-free days elsewhereMolly’s message is clear: Summer isn’t a break from your values. It’s your opportunity to practice them in real life. You don’t need to stop drinking entirely—you just need to stop drinking mindlessly.Mentioned in this episode:Join More Dry July inside the Alcohol Minimalist Facebook groupWeekly group coaching with Molly (free all July)Get started with the Sunnyside App (15-day free trial)Learn about Molly’s coaching programs at www.mollywatts.comThis week’s challenge: Create your Doable Drink Plan—one that meets you exactly where you are and feels 80–90% doable. Remember, progress doesn’t come from perfection. It comes from intentional practice.Quote to remember: "Summer is not a pause on your progress. It’s the season where you get to practice alignment."Until next time, stay curious, choose peace, and make a plan that supports the future you're creating.Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Episode Summary: In this Think Thursday episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly explores why change often feels harder than it should—and what’s really going on beneath the surface. It’s not that you’re incapable of change. More likely, you’re stuck in what she calls a belief echo: a practiced, well-worn thought that has become so automatic it feels like your identity.These belief echoes, like “I always give up” or “I’m not someone who finishes things,” aren’t facts. They’re just thoughts your brain has repeated—and protected—over time. This episode unpacks the neuroscience behind that, especially the role of confirmation bias: your brain’s tendency to find evidence for what you already believe and filter out anything that contradicts it.Molly offers a grounded, science-backed roadmap to help you identify, challenge, and rewire belief echoes, so you can create change from a place of possibility—not from your past.In This Episode:What belief echoes are and how they quietly shape your behaviorWhy your brain resists change by clinging to familiar thought loopsHow confirmation bias reinforces your old identityThe paradox of belief: you must stop believing one thing before you have proof of the new thingA practical process for replacing limiting beliefs with intentional onesKey Quote:“Change isn’t hard because you’re broken. It’s hard because you’re believing the stories from your past more than your possibility for the future.”Share This Episode:If this message spoke to you, consider sharing it with someone who feels stuck. You're not stuck. You're just rehearsing an old belief. Let's start rehearsing something new. ★ Support this podcast ★