All About Being Single

Links referenced in this episode:allaboutbeingsingle.comallaboutbeingsingle@gmail.comToday, we're diving into the not-so-glamorous reality of what I like to call the "singles tax." Yep, that's right! Being single often comes with a financial penalty, and we're here to unpack just how much that tax really affects our wallets. From housing costs and insurance rates to those pesky grocery bills that seem designed for a family of five, living solo can feel like you're carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders—or at least all your bills! I’ve been flying solo for a while now, and let me tell you, it’s a wild ride trying to balance saving for the future while still treating myself to the occasional Netflix binge or solo vacation. So grab your favorite snack, get comfy, and let’s chat about the financial quirks of being single and how we can navigate this quirky, coupled-up world!When we dive into the nitty-gritty of being single and managing finances, it’s like peeling an onion—there are layers, and oh boy, do we shed some tears! This episode tackles the concept of the 'singles tax,' which is basically the extra financial burden we single folks face in a world that often feels designed for couples. I mean, let’s be real—when was the last time you splurged on a fancy dinner out, only to realize that you’re footing the whole bill while your coupled friends are sharing the costs like a well-oiled money-saving machine? We break down the harsh realities of living solo, from skyrocketing rent and mortgage payments to the insidious costs of utilities that don’t seem to care if you’re living with a partner or not. And while we’re at it, let’s not forget the grocery bill—ever tried buying a family pack of chicken when it’s just you? Spoiler alert: it rarely ends well! Throughout the episode, I share my personal journey navigating these financial hurdles, from how I manage my student loans all on my lonesome to the unique challenges of planning a vacation solo. We even touch on the emotional toll it takes to be the only one responsible for everything from emergency repairs to social outings. The goal? To shed light on this often-overlooked aspect of single life and to spark some conversation about how we can support each other. So, if you’ve ever felt the weight of financial isolation, grab a cup of coffee and join me for this chat—you’re definitely not alone!In the end, I encourage you to reflect on your own experiences with the singles tax. Whether you’ve felt the pinch of unexpected expenses or just want to share a funny story about your grocery mishaps, we’re eager to hear from you. Let’s lift each other up and find ways to make single life a little less taxing! Takeaways: The singles tax is the financial penalty single folks face in a coupled-up world, impacting everything from rent to groceries. Living alone often means footing the entire bill for housing, utilities, and insurance, unlike those who share costs with a partner. For singles, unexpected expenses hit harder, as there's no second income to help cushion the blow when life throws curveballs. Social outings can be tricky for singles who may not have the same financial flexibility as their coupled friends, leading to creative solutions. The struggle to save for retirement is real for singles, especially when juggling daily expenses and the singles tax. Many singles feel pressured to maintain a social life while managing their finances, often leading to tough choices between fun and savings.

Ever felt that eerie quietness in your home? Well, that’s exactly what we’re diving into today! In this episode, I’m chatting about the loneliness that can creep in when you’re living solo, especially during those quiet evenings when the only sound is the refrigerator humming away. We’ll talk about how having a pet, like my beloved cat Trouble can fill that silence with warmth and companionship. I’ll share how pets not only bring a bit of chaos to our lives but also help us feel seen and loved, even on our toughest days. So grab a comfy spot and let’s explore how our furry friends transform our homes from quiet boxes into lively spaces filled with love!Life as a singleton can often feel like a tightrope walk between independence and the occasional pang of loneliness, especially when the house settles into that eerie silence. Wioleta, our witty host, dives into the complexities of living solo, revealing how the quiet can sometimes echo louder than the chatter of a busy household. Have you ever walked into your home after a long day, only to be met with absolute stillness? It’s in those moments that the longing for companionship can hit the hardest. Wioleta shares her own experiences, including her daily chats with her vocal cat, Trouble, who may not have much to say but certainly fills the space with his presence. From the absence of a partner to the comforting chaos that pets bring, she highlights how pets are not just adorable companions but vital emotional outlets that help us navigate the often lonely evenings. She emphasizes that pets offer a unique warmth and routine, transforming empty spaces into lively corners filled with love and affection.Takeaways: Living alone can sometimes feel overwhelmingly quiet, especially during the evenings when loneliness tends to hit the hardest. Having a pet can significantly enhance the experience of living solo, adding warmth and companionship to an otherwise quiet home. Pets not only fill the silence but also provide emotional support, helping to co-regulate feelings and reducing stress levels during lonely times. It's important to recognize that a family can be defined in many ways, including just you and your pet, creating a unique bond that offers love and connection. Links referenced in this episode:allaboutbeingsingle.comallaboutbeingsingle@gmail.cominstagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle

Feeling a bit overwhelmed by life’s curveballs when you’re single? I totally get it. This week, we’re diving into the nitty-gritty of what it’s like to navigate those tough moments without a partner to lean on. From a broken MacBook screen to a car that decided it was time to retire, I’m sharing my recent adventures of tackling life's little disasters solo. It’s like I’m on a one-woman mission to DIY my way through everything, and let me tell you, sometimes it feels like I’m carrying the weight of the world on my shoulders. But hey, there’s a silver lining—being single teaches me resilience and resourcefulness like nobody’s business! So grab your favorite beverage and let’s chat about the ups and downs of single life, because trust me, I’m right there with you.Life as a single person can sometimes feel like a rollercoaster ride, can't it? One moment, you’re on a high, feeling grateful for the freedom and independence that comes with being single, and the next, you’re down in the dumps, wishing for the support that couples seem to effortlessly enjoy. In this episode of "All About Being Single," I dive into the not-so-glamorous side of being single, sharing my personal stories of bad luck that have piled up like dirty laundry. From a broken MacBook screen that decided to throw a tantrum to my trusty car dying at the most inconvenient moment (thanks a lot, universe!), it’s been a wild few weeks. I chat about how these little disasters feel amplified when you’re flying solo, without a partner to share the burden. But it’s not all doom and gloom! I also reflect on the silver linings that come with single life. Sure, I’m the only one shoveling my driveway after record-breaking snowfall, but hey, that’s a workout and a half! Plus, I get to make all the financial decisions without having to consult anyone else. It’s a mixed bag of challenges and triumphs, and I think it’s important to acknowledge both sides. So, grab a cup of coffee, sit back, and let’s unpack the ups and downs of single life together, because sometimes, you just need to vent it out!Takeaways: Being single often means we face challenges alone, especially when things go wrong. The financial burden of being single can feel heavier when unexpected expenses crop up. As singles, we learn to be self-reliant and develop valuable life skills through DIY projects. Support systems are crucial, but as singles, we often have to seek help from others outside our households. Companies mentioned in this episode: Apple

Let’s take a moment to appreciate the perks of being single, shall we? This episode is all about finding gratitude in our single lives, and trust me, it’s not just about putting on a happy face while ignoring the challenges. We dive into the real deal of recognizing that being single can actually come with some sweet freedoms—like not having to deal with a partner's annoying relatives during the holidays. I share my personal gratitude list, which includes everything from the joy of a clean house to not having to negotiate over anything! So, whether it's relishing your solo coffee runs or having the freedom to binge-watch your favorite shows without compromise, we’re here to explore how to make the most of our single time. Buckle up for some witty banter and a reminder that being single can indeed be a beautiful ride!Gratitude can be a tricky thing, especially when you’re navigating the single life. Wioleta, our fabulous host, dives right into the heart of why being single can actually be a cause for celebration, particularly as we approach Thanksgiving. She starts off with a relatable question: when was the last time you genuinely felt grateful for being single? Not in that annoying, overly positive way, but in a real, heartfelt sense? This episode is all about acknowledging the upsides of being single, even while recognizing the struggles that can come with it. We talk about how, yes, being single has its challenges—especially financially—but it can also grant us a unique freedom that those in relationships might envy. Wioleta shares her own personal gratitude list, which resonates with so many of us. From avoiding awkward family gatherings to enjoying the freedom of decorating your space exactly how you want, she paints a picture of the joys of singlehood. For instance, she notes that she doesn’t have to deal with a partner’s messy habits or coordinate her life around someone else's schedule. There’s also a light-hearted moment when she mentions how she can take three baths in a day if she so pleases—now that’s living the dream! These anecdotes aren’t just funny; they highlight how being single allows us to focus on ourselves and our happiness without distractions.By the end, Violeta encourages listeners to start their own gratitude lists, focusing on the little things that make their single lives fulfilling. Whether it's enjoying a quiet evening or having the freedom to travel wherever and whenever, being single doesn’t have to mean being lonely. It’s all about shifting our perspective to see the abundance in our lives, even if the dating scene can feel daunting. This episode is a warm hug for anyone navigating the single journey, reminding us to find joy in our own company and celebrate the independence that comes with it!Takeaways: It's totally okay to feel grateful for being single, even amidst life's challenges. Focusing on the positives can help us embrace our singlehood and foster self-love. Being single gives us the freedom to make our own choices without compromise or negotiation. Creating a gratitude list for our single life can shift our perspective and highlight the benefits. Links referenced in this episode:allaboutbeingsingle.com

Ever feel like life’s just a little too complicated? Well, I’m here to tell you that keeping it simple might just be the secret sauce we're all searching for. In this episode, we dive into the idea that simplifying our routines can actually lead to a much better quality of life. I’ll share my own struggles with meal prep as a single person and how I turned it from a Sunday marathon into a quick grocery run followed by some smart shortcuts. From grabbing frozen veggies to picking up a rotisserie chicken, it's all about making life easier so we can save time and energy for the things we actually enjoy. So, if you’re ready to lighten your load and find some joy in simplicity, stick around and let’s get into it!Keeping it simple can lead to a more fulfilling single life, and that's what we dove into during our latest chat. I kicked things off by sharing how my perfectionist tendencies often lead me into the rabbit hole of overthinking, especially when it comes to meal prepping. You know the drill: spend hours on Sunday cooking, shopping, and trying to make everything just right—only to end up exhausted and not really enjoying any of it. So, I had this lightbulb moment: what if I just simplified things? Enter my new motto: 'Keep it simple, single.' Instead of dedicating my entire weekend to grocery shopping and meal prep, I started doing quick grocery runs right after my walking club. This approach not only saves me time but also cuts down on stress. I get my meals ready in under an hour, and trust me, my sanity is grateful for it!Takeaways: Keeping things simple can significantly reduce stress and make life easier for singles. Meal prepping doesn't have to consume your entire Sunday; quick grocery trips work wonders. Finding efficient ways to manage daily tasks can free up valuable time and energy. Simplifying your to-do list can increase productivity and lower morning anxiety for singles. Using pre-cooked meals and frozen veggies can save both time and money while eating healthy. It's all about finding what works best for you and simplifying routines to enhance overall well-being.

So, is it embarrassing to have a boyfriend now? That’s the burning question we’re diving into today, and spoiler alert: it’s more about the social media game than actual feelings. We’re chatting about how relationships are perceived online, especially when it comes to the ever-awkward boyfriend reveal. I mean, let’s be real—why plaster your “just a boyfriend” all over social media when he’s not your fiancé or husband? It’s like showing off a snack instead of a full meal; it just doesn’t have the same vibe! We’ll unpack why many people, especially women, are hesitating to showcase their partners and explore the idea that maybe, just maybe, it’s not about embarrassment—it’s about commitment (or the lack of). So grab your favorite drink, settle in, and let’s get into the nitty-gritty of dating in the digital age!Takeaways: I firmly believe that if you're feeling embarrassed about your partner, it might be time to reconsider that relationship altogether. There's a significant difference between having a boyfriend and being in a committed relationship, like engagement or marriage, so think twice before posting! Not posting your partner online doesn't mean you're embarrassed; it might just mean you're respecting their boundaries or navigating a situationship. Women often attempt to define their worth through relationships, but it's crucial to maintain individuality and personal interests. Ultimately, being with someone who doesn't treat you right is far more sad than it is embarrassing and it is worse than simply being single.

Ever found yourself in a tight spot and realized you’re flying solo? This week, we dive into the importance of having a solid emergency contact list, especially when you’re living that single life. I share a wild story about a close encounter with a deer while driving home from a hike in the dark—talk about an adrenaline rush! It got me thinking about how being single can sometimes leave you feeling a bit invisible and how crucial it is to keep connections alive. So, let’s chat about building our communities, checking in on each other, and why it’s nice to let someone know where you are—even if it's just to say, “Hey, I’m still alive!” Join me as we tackle these thoughts and wrap up with this week's Glow Up Challenge to foster those connections in our lives.The adventure begins with a hike that turns into a near-miss with a deer—cue the adrenaline! I was driving back home after a lovely day at Starved Rock, enjoying the serene Illinois countryside when BAM! Suddenly I’m slamming on the brakes, and it got me thinking about a little something we often overlook: our emergency contacts. Being single has its perks, but it can also mean that if something happens, there might not be anyone checking in on us. I realized that while I love doing life solo, it’s crucial to build our community and keep those connections alive. It’s not just about avoiding deer collisions; it’s also about making sure someone knows where we are and what we’re doing. So let’s chat about strategies for staying connected, whether it’s a quick text or a spontaneous plan to hang out with a friend. Because at the end of the day, it’s all about finding the right balance between independence and connection, and I’ll give you some tips on how to do just that!Takeaways: It's crucial to let someone know your whereabouts when you're out and about, especially if you're single. Driving home late at night can be dangerous, especially in rural areas with little light. Independence is great, but connection with friends and family is equally important for safety. A close call with a deer made me realize the importance of having an emergency contact list. Building a community is vital; it helps ensure someone knows if you're missing or in trouble. Checking in on friends can strengthen relationships and prevent feelings of isolation or invisibility.

Let’s dive into the heart of this episode: the incredible benefits of starting or joining a club to expand your social circle, especially when you're single. I recently took the plunge and started my own walking club, and let me tell you, it’s been a total game-changer! We often find ourselves feeling lonely as we get older, with friends paired off and busy, but creating a space for connection can really turn things around. I share my journey, from hesitations to triumphs, and how stepping out of my comfort zone led to meeting amazing new folks who share my interests. So whether you’re thinking about joining a club or launching your own, I’m here to encourage you to take that leap—because the world is way more fun when you do it together!The art of making friends as adults can sometimes feel like a lost cause. Let’s face it, being single in a world full of couples can feel pretty isolating, especially when your social circles shrink as time goes by. I get it—finding new connections can feel daunting. That’s why I took matters into my own hands and created a walking club. It wasn't just about getting some steps in; it was about creating a space for singles to come together, share stories, and, yes, even bond over the sheer awkwardness of being in a group of strangers. But here's the kicker: it turned out to be a fantastic way to meet new people and forge genuine connections. I talk about the initial hurdles I faced, from the fear of leading a group to the little victories of seeing members connect and form friendships. This episode is all about empowerment and stepping out of your comfort zone—because sometimes the best things happen when you take that leap of faith and just go for it. So, if you’ve been thinking about starting something new or joining a group, let this be your nudge to just do it!Takeaways: Starting a walking club can be a fantastic way to meet new people and build community. Feeling lonely as a single person is common, especially as friends pair off and lives change. Creating your own group or club can be empowering and help you connect with like-minded individuals. Don't let fear hold you back from trying new things; stepping out of your comfort zone can lead to amazing experiences.

Ever felt like being single is just a never-ending self-improvement project? Well, it's time to flip that script! In this episode, we’re diving into the idea of treating yourself like a hobby instead of a fixer-upper. I mean, when was the last time you truly enjoyed your own company, right? We often get so caught up in the pressure to “work on ourselves” that we forget to have fun while doing it. So let’s explore how we can embrace our singlehood, discover what truly makes us tick, and remember that personal growth can be a joyful journey, not just a chore. Join me as we learn to make ourselves the main event, because who doesn’t want to be their own favorite hobby?The conversation about being single often centers around the idea of ‘fixing’ ourselves before entering a relationship, but what if we flipped that narrative? Instead of seeing our single status as a problem, we can view it as a golden opportunity for personal growth and enjoyment. This episode is all about making yourself a priority, treating your self-improvement like a hobby rather than a daunting project. I chat about how many of us forget to have fun while working on ourselves and how we can reclaim our joy. From spontaneous dance parties to indulging in new interests, I encourage listeners to find joy in the little things and embrace the freedom that being single provides. We have the power to make our own choices and create a life that feels fulfilling and exciting. So, let’s redefine what it means to be single and make our self-care journey a delightful adventure!Takeaways: Being single isn’t about fixing ourselves; it's about enjoying our own company like we do with our hobbies. Personal growth should feel like a fun hobby instead of a stressful project that needs fixing. We have the power to make choices that bring joy into our lives, especially during our single days. Treat yourself like a hobby, and you’ll discover that self-improvement can actually be enjoyable and fulfilling.

Ever felt like you’re just not anyone’s top priority? Yeah, we’ve all been there—maybe a friend bailed on plans or didn’t share their good news with you, leaving you feeling a bit left out. But here’s the kicker: being single doesn’t have to mean feeling sidelined; it can actually be your secret superpower! I’m Wioleta, and in this episode, we dive into how to take the reins of your own happiness and become your own number one fan. From starting your day by prioritizing yourself to planning solo adventures, I’m sharing tips and personal stories that can help you embrace the single life with open arms. So, let’s kick disappointment to the curb and focus on making ourselves our top priority!Disappointment can sting, especially when you’re left feeling like you’re not anyone’s top priority. Whether it’s a friend canceling plans or not receiving the good news you hoped for, it’s easy to feel sidelined. But that’s where this episode of All About Being Single comes in to turn the tables. I, Violeta, your friendly host, dive deep into the feelings of disappointment that arise from being single. We’re not just talking about romantic relationships here, but friendships too. As many of us navigate a world where coupled-up friends become a norm, it can feel isolating. But here’s the twist: being single doesn’t have to be a downer; it can be your superpower! I share personal anecdotes and practical tips that encourage you to prioritize yourself. From starting your day with self-reflection to scheduling regular ‘date nights’ with yourself, this episode is packed with actionable advice. We discuss reframing those canceled plans as opportunities for self-care and embracing the joy of solo adventures. Tune in for a blend of relatable experiences and humorous insights that remind you that being single is about self-discovery and empowerment. Feeling overlooked can be a tough pill to swallow, but it’s time to flip the script. In this episode, we explore how to reclaim your time and energy by putting yourself first. I share my own journey of disappointment and how I transformed those moments into opportunities for self-growth. The conversation touches on the importance of setting boundaries, learning to celebrate your own victories, and even finding joy in unexpected solo outings. I also discuss simple yet effective practices, like journaling and daily affirmations, to help you cultivate a mindset that prioritizes your happiness. You’ll hear about my ‘phone coffin’ – yes, that’s a real thing – and how it revolutionized my mornings by encouraging me to focus on myself before diving into the noise of the outside world. Whether you’re dealing with the challenges of being single or simply looking for ways to enhance your self-care routine, this episode is your go-to guide for turning disappointment into empowerment. Navigating single life can come with its unique set of challenges, especially when you feel like you’re on the back burner in your friendships. But fear not! This episode is all about showing up for yourself and embracing the beauty of being your own top priority. I, Violeta, share personal stories and practical steps that can help you reclaim your narrative. We chat about the importance of self-affirmation and how celebrating your wins, big or small, can enhance your self-esteem. I encourage listeners to take those moments of solitude and turn them into something beautiful, whether that’s through solo dinners or personal projects. We also discuss reframing canceled plans not as disappointments, but as golden opportunities for self-care. The episode is sprinkled with light-hearted humor and relatable insights that will have you laughing while learning how to prioritize your own happiness. It’s time to embrace your single status as a chance for self-exploration and personal growth. So grab your favorite beverage, get comfy, and let’s dive into the joy of being single together!Takeaways:...

Are you tired of being a sidekick in everybody else's life? Well, so am I! In this episode of All About Being Single, I dive into the reality of feeling like you’re not anyone’s top priority. We all know that as we get older, it can feel like friendships take a backseat to romantic relationships, and let’s be real, it’s frustrating! I'll share my own experiences of feeling invisible and overlooked, and how it's all too common for single folks to be left behind when friends couple up. But fear not! I’ll also chat about how we can turn this feeling into an opportunity for self-discovery and growth. So grab your favorite drink, settle in, and let’s explore how to prioritize ourselves in a world that sometimes forgets about us!Navigating the wild world of being single can feel like you're perpetually in the background, right? It's like you're everyone's sidekick in their romantic adventures, while your own love story seems to be on an endless pause. Wioleta dives deep into the various struggles single folks face, especially as they age and watch their friends couple up. She shares her personal experiences and the emotional toll of not being anyone's priority—like waking up each morning without a sweet good morning text or that buddy to share exciting news with. It’s a real struggle when you feel overlooked and invisible, and Wioleta doesn't shy away from addressing this uncomfortable reality. She highlights how society often prioritizes romantic relationships over friendships, leaving singles feeling isolated and undervalued. Wioleta emphasizes the importance of building a community of fellow singles who truly understand these feelings and can provide the support that many of us crave. Her candid insights resonate with anyone who's ever felt like a background character in someone else's love story, encouraging listeners to seek out meaningful connections and prioritize themselves above all else.Takeaways: Being single often leads to feeling like a side character in life, overshadowed by couples. As we age, the pain of not being prioritized by friends and family becomes more pronounced. Creating a community of single friends can alleviate the feeling of invisibility and isolation. It’s crucial to recognize and prioritize friendships just as much as romantic relationships for emotional support. Links referenced in this episode:allaboutbeingsingle.comallaboutbeingsingle@gmail.comAllAboutBeingSingle on InstagramThisIsWioleta on Instagram

Let’s chat about the perks of being single and how we can embrace our freedom! In this episode, I dive into all the fun and spontaneous things we can do because we’re not tied down. I share some personal stories, like my recent whirlwind trip to Canada where I got to see Morgan Wallen and explore Banff. Trust me, being single means I can eat cheesecake for dinner in bed without any judgment—who needs a partner when you can have a love affair with dessert? So, let’s celebrate those little joys and remember that our singlehood gives us the freedom to do what we want, when we want. What’s something you’ve enjoyed recently that you might not have done if you were coupled up?Let's get real about singlehood! Being single isn’t just about the absence of a partner; it’s about embracing the freedom that comes with it. In this chat, I shared some juicy insights from my own life, highlighting moments that truly reflect the perks of being solo. One big theme was spontaneity. I talked about my decision to hit the trails for a hike after a busy week, showcasing how being single allows us to make these on-the-fly choices without needing to check in with anyone else. Imagine just grabbing your gear and heading out, no strings attached! I also shared thoughts on how being single can sometimes feel like being unsung heroes in our own lives. We don’t always have someone to celebrate our small wins with, yet those wins matter. From enjoying a blissful solo meal of cheesecake (which, let’s be honest, is a major win in itself) to taking time for self-reflection, these moments are crucial. I delved into how much we often overlook the small joys and how they can make our lives richer. This episode is all about recognizing and embracing those little moments of joy that we can create for ourselves.So, I invite you to reflect on your own experiences and think about the little things you've done recently that brought you joy while being single. Let's not just survive this phase but thrive in it!Takeaways: Being single gives us the freedom to make spontaneous decisions without checking in with anyone else, like going on a hike at the last minute. Small joys often go unnoticed, but they can significantly improve our lives and self-care routines when we take the time to acknowledge them. We can indulge in guilty pleasures, like eating cheesecake for dinner, without feeling the pressure to cook or share meals with someone else. Every little action we take while single, big or small, can be a way to celebrate our independence and treat ourselves well. Links referenced in this episode:allaboutbeingsingle.comallaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com

Tired of swiping endlessly on dating apps that feel more like a bad online shopping experience? Well, you're not alone! In this episode, we dive deep into why dating apps just aren't cutting it for most people these days. I share my own hilarious and cringe-worthy dating app stories that will make you laugh, cringe, and maybe even nod your head in agreement. From unreliable matches to awkward first dates and the infamous "ghosting," it’s all about navigating this wild world of modern love—or lack thereof. Join me as we explore whether the old-school way of dating is making a comeback and how to find real connections in a world dominated by algorithms. Grab your headphones and let’s get into it!Navigating the dating scene these days feels a bit like trying to find a needle in a haystack, doesn't it? In this episode, we dive into the complexities and frustrations of modern dating, especially focusing on dating apps. I’ve got to be honest with you: for most of us, these apps just aren’t cutting it. Think of it this way: using a dating app is like browsing through Amazon for that perfect item, only to realize you're stuck with whatever's sitting in the warehouse. We’re talking about profiles that don’t fit your vibe and options that are often emotionally unavailable. It's like ordering a pizza and getting an empty box instead! I share my personal experiences, including a revealing moment when I decided to give the apps one last shot only to find myself disheartened by the same old pitfalls. From mismatched expectations to the awkwardness of first dates, I highlight the need for a shift back to more genuine, face-to-face interactions. The takeaway? Sometimes the old ways of dating—meeting in real life, through friends, or at social events—can lead to more fulfilling connections than swiping left and right ever could. So, let’s explore how to embrace those authentic experiences again!Takeaways: Dating apps are like shopping at Amazon but with invisible options, leaving you frustrated. Many people find dating apps limit their choices to profiles that don't match their preferences. It's easier to ghost someone online than in person, leading to a lack of accountability. The experience of dating in person is often richer and more fulfilling than through an app. Links referenced in this episode:allaboutbeingsingle.comallaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com@allaboutbeingsingle on Instagram

This episode focuses on lessons I've learned about myself, dating, relationships and the world from various dating and relationship fails turned best things that ever happened to me!Let’s kick things off with a reality check: just because someone says they want a relationship doesn’t mean they actually want it with you. Always keep in mind that actions speak louder than words! This will help you navigate the dating world. In today’s episode, I dive into the murky waters of dating and relationships, emphasizing the importance of paying attention to actions, not just sweet words. We’ll chat about the deal breakers that can save you from heartache, the necessity of knowing your worth, and how to stay true to yourself while navigating the dating scene. Plus, I’ll share some personal stories that’ll make you laugh, cringe, and maybe even nod in agreement! So grab a comfy seat and let’s get into the nitty-gritty of finding love—or at least some good stories along the way!Takeaways: Just because someone says they want a relationship, doesn't mean they genuinely mean it—watch their actions! Knowing your deal breakers is crucial; don't compromise on what truly matters to you in a relationship. Emotional unavailability is a common issue; many people can't provide what they promise due to their own unresolved trauma. Always maintain your independence with hobbies and finances, so you can choose to be in a relationship, not feel trapped in one. Diving into the world of dating can feel like navigating a minefield, and in this episode, I guide you through the chaos and explore the delicate balance between self-discovery and the quest for love, emphasizing that romantic relationships are often our greatest teachers. I invite you to reflect on your own dating journeys, as I share my hard-earned wisdom about the importance of recognizing and sticking to personal deal breakers. It is easy to get caught up in someone else's charm while ignoring red flags—something we’ve all likely experienced at some point.I try to bring humor to the often frustrating world of dating. I don't hold back when discussing the pitfalls of online dating, painting a vivid picture of the awkwardness that can ensue when meeting someone in person after a series of digital exchanges. The contrast between the digital persona and the real-life individual can be startling, and hopefully my reflections on this phenomenon resonate with anyone who has tried their luck on dating apps. What you see isn’t always what you get... this episode strikes a perfect balance between laughter and learning.As the episode progresses, I delve into the importance of maintaining individuality in relationships. I stress that having personal interests and a source of income is essential—not just for financial independence but for emotional well-being, too. I encourage you to nurture your passions and friendships, reminding us that a healthy relationship should complement our lives rather than consume them. There is value in setting boundaries and knowing when to walk away from unhealthy dynamics. I hope to give you a sense of empowerment, encouraging you to embrace your single status while actively cultivating your self-worth. By the end of the episode, I leave you with actionable advice and a fresh perspective on dating, empowering you to seek connections that align with our true selves.Links referenced in this episode:allaboutbeingsingle.comallaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com

What can you truly learn about yourself when you’re flying solo? In this episode, we dive into ten eye-opening lessons I’ve discovered during my time as a single person, and trust me, they’re worth tuning in for! From realizing that breakups can be the biggest blessings to understanding that you’re capable of way more than you give yourself credit for, we’re unpacking some real gems. You’ll get insights on how to turn those pesky setbacks into stepping stones for personal growth. So, if you’re single and ready to level up your life, this episode is just what you need to embrace your solo journey and make the most of your time while flying solo!Check out:allaboutbeingsingle.comallaboutbeingsingle@gmail.cominstagram.com/allaboutbeingsingleBeing single isn't just about waiting for someone to come along; it's a journey of self-discovery that can lead to some pretty profound revelations. In this episode, I dive into ten things I've learned during my time as a solo adventurer in the world of relationships. From understanding that breakups can be the universe's way of nudging us towards self-improvement to realizing that we often have more strength and capabilities than we give ourselves credit for, these lessons are both eye-opening and empowering. For my fellow solo travelers out there, you'll find that embracing your singlehood can lead to personal growth, confidence, and ultimately, a better choice of partners when the time comes. Whether it's learning to DIY your home or taking that first solo trip, being single provides the perfect backdrop to explore who you truly are and what you want out of life. So, let’s unpack these lessons together and see how embracing our single lives can lead to a richer, more fulfilling existence!Takeaways: Being single teaches you invaluable lessons about self-reliance and personal growth that relationships often overshadow. Embracing solo experiences, like solo trips, can boost your confidence and enhance your life immensely. Breakups, though painful, can be the catalyst for significant self-improvement and life transformation. Understanding that your worth isn't tied to your relationship status is key to living a fulfilled, happy life as a single person.

Can you truly know yourself without being single? In this first episode of All About Being Single, host Wioleta gets honest about the pros and cons of solo life in your 20s and 30s. From the freedom of self-discovery to the frustration of loneliness, dating apps, and milestones you’re facing alone, this episode unpacks the myths about what it means to be perpetually single. If you’re exhausted by swiping, tired of advice from friends who don’t get it, or just craving a real community for single people, this podcast is for you. Raw, funny, and unfiltered! Welcome to the single life podcast that finally says what everyone else is thinking.

This is the official trailer for All About Being Single — the podcast made for single women and men who want a space to vent, heal, laugh, and glow-up.Whether you're thriving solo, healing from heartbreak, or just craving community in your solo season, you're in the right place.Hit follow and let's do this thing.